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By *iamb2020 OP   Man
7 weeks ago

stratford upon avon

Not to sound too desperate but I’m really struggling to find anyone who wants to actually meet up, near or far I’m happy to travel. Older is the preference but real, attractive and talkative is what seems to be missing. Maybe it’s me… let me know

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By *ensual DesiresMan
7 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire


"Not to sound too desperate but I’m really struggling to find anyone who wants to actually meet up, near or far I’m happy to travel. Older is the preference but real, attractive and talkative is what seems to be missing. Maybe it’s me… let me know "

Keep in there it will happen

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
7 weeks ago

belfast

It's totally fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Fake,all fake

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By *electableicecreamMan
7 weeks ago

The West

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
7 weeks ago

Bradford

It’s definitely fugazi

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Don’t think many women reply to dick pic profiles

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
7 weeks ago

Reading

Depends which pill you chose.

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By *tr8MrEMan
7 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop

It's a real website but you will require patience...and lots of it, regardless of what you are seeking

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By *ustAnotherMan
7 weeks ago

Mids

Sites real, question your own existence. How did you post?

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By *end1Man
7 weeks ago

southend on sea

As a single guy your going to struggle as we outnumber the couples and single females by at least 3 to 1. Lots of couples want other couples or single females only. Plus along with the major swing clubs there's more private parties now.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
7 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Not to sound too desperate but I’m really struggling to find anyone who wants to actually meet up, near or far I’m happy to travel. Older is the preference but real, attractive and talkative is what seems to be missing. Maybe it’s me… let me know "

Shit average single guy profile with an ugly cock picture front and centre. Join the hoards of single men who have no idea what women want wasting time on here… do not pass go, do not collect £200..

With all the advice available on the forums (advice from the actual women you are trying to meet!!!) for putting together a nice profile that appeals to couples and single women and you still think your profile is going to get you laid?

On vanilla dating sites generally 80% of women are attracted to the same 20% of men. With Fab remove the desirable vanilla traits of wealth, education, career, pets, expensive cars, etc. Then factor in Fab profiles with the aversion to face pics, minimal personality, multiple pictures of their cock and body pics usually associated with mortuary photos. I bet I’m not far off by saying 70% of women on here are only attracted to maybe 10% of the total number of single males on the site.

You need to do better than the 90%

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago


"Not to sound too desperate but I’m really struggling to find anyone who wants to actually meet up, near or far I’m happy to travel. Older is the preference but real, attractive and talkative is what seems to be missing. Maybe it’s me… let me know "

Your going good job just to open this post, people look at your profile , add to other post your opinions .

They come bud .

Don't gave up

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By *ad NannaWoman
7 weeks ago

East London

You say attractive. What, or who, do they have to look like?

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Ilkley

Definitely a real site. Look I'm writing an entry on it right now, couldn't do that if it was an imaginary site! Unless I'm only imagining writing this, and you're only imagining reading it. In which case, it's definitely an imaginary site. Oh shucks, I'm all confused now. Or am I only imagining that I'm confused?

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By *he Silver FuxMan
7 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Not to sound too desperate but I’m really struggling to find anyone who wants to actually meet up, near or far I’m happy to travel. Older is the preference but real, attractive and talkative is what seems to be missing. Maybe it’s me… let me know

Shit average single guy profile with an ugly cock picture front and centre. Join the hoards of single men who have no idea what women want wasting time on here… do not pass go, do not collect £200..

With all the advice available on the forums (advice from the actual women you are trying to meet!!!) for putting together a nice profile that appeals to couples and single women and you still think your profile is going to get you laid?

On vanilla dating sites generally 80% of women are attracted to the same 20% of men. With Fab remove the desirable vanilla traits of wealth, education, career, pets, expensive cars, etc. Then factor in Fab profiles with the aversion to face pics, minimal personality, multiple pictures of their cock and body pics usually associated with mortuary photos. I bet I’m not far off by saying 70% of women on here are only attracted to maybe 10% of the total number of single males on the site.

You need to do better than the 90%

"

Oh, almost forgot, yes the site is real. I had so much sex last night that my cock has been worn down to a nub and I almost collapsed from the lack of fluids having been drained by 4 separate women. Liberty Elite Vegas Vixens night. You can go there too, it’s fucking easy. Stop whining and sort it out

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By *urvybeautyandthebeastCouple
7 weeks ago

narborough


"Not to sound too desperate but I’m really struggling to find anyone who wants to actually meet up, near or far I’m happy to travel. Older is the preference but real, attractive and talkative is what seems to be missing. Maybe it’s me… let me know

Shit average single guy profile with an ugly cock picture front and centre. Join the hoards of single men who have no idea what women want wasting time on here… do not pass go, do not collect £200..

With all the advice available on the forums (advice from the actual women you are trying to meet!!!) for putting together a nice profile that appeals to couples and single women and you still think your profile is going to get you laid?

On vanilla dating sites generally 80% of women are attracted to the same 20% of men. With Fab remove the desirable vanilla traits of wealth, education, career, pets, expensive cars, etc. Then factor in Fab profiles with the aversion to face pics, minimal personality, multiple pictures of their cock and body pics usually associated with mortuary photos. I bet I’m not far off by saying 70% of women on here are only attracted to maybe 10% of the total number of single males on the site.

You need to do better than the 90%

"

This!!!!

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By *ornycougaWoman
7 weeks ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

Good grief OP. That looks painful

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

It's you

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago


"

On vanilla dating sites generally 80% of women are attracted to the same 20% of men. With Fab remove the desirable vanilla traits of wealth, education, career, pets, expensive cars, etc. Then factor in Fab profiles with the aversion to face pics, minimal personality, multiple pictures of their cock and body pics usually associated with mortuary photos. I bet I’m not far off by saying 70% of women on here are only attracted to maybe 10% of the total number of single males on the site.

You need to do better than the 90%

"

This is myth perpetuated by incels

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

We’re all bots

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
7 weeks ago

Essex


"We’re all bots "
m

Speak for yourself

I’m not a bot… I’m a butt 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago


"We’re all bots m

Speak for yourself

I’m not a bot… I’m a butt 🤣"

You’re all boobs who are you trying to fool?

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By *ife NinjaMan
7 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Good grief OP. That looks painful "

Suggest circumcision

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By *abioMan
7 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I am not going to give you advice since you have not ask for any…

Just the site is real… even grumpy old me has a blast from time to time…

Just a couple of things to potentially think about

Have a look at your profile… have a look as some of the others in this thread…. Hand on heart, would you answer your own profile?

Also.. we are all adult enough to know what a cock looks like, so unless you are trying to get people to build 3d mock ups, do you really need to take pictures of it from every single angle?

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By *he Silver FuxMan
7 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"

On vanilla dating sites generally 80% of women are attracted to the same 20% of men. With Fab remove the desirable vanilla traits of wealth, education, career, pets, expensive cars, etc. Then factor in Fab profiles with the aversion to face pics, minimal personality, multiple pictures of their cock and body pics usually associated with mortuary photos. I bet I’m not far off by saying 70% of women on here are only attracted to maybe 10% of the total number of single males on the site.

You need to do better than the 90%

This is myth perpetuated by incels"

Not a myth. Scientific data from analysis of dating websites - Google scholar will provide plenty of material from intelligent people who have a fucking clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago


"

On vanilla dating sites generally 80% of women are attracted to the same 20% of men. With Fab remove the desirable vanilla traits of wealth, education, career, pets, expensive cars, etc. Then factor in Fab profiles with the aversion to face pics, minimal personality, multiple pictures of their cock and body pics usually associated with mortuary photos. I bet I’m not far off by saying 70% of women on here are only attracted to maybe 10% of the total number of single males on the site.

You need to do better than the 90%

This is myth perpetuated by incels

Not a myth. Scientific data from analysis of dating websites - Google scholar will provide plenty of material from intelligent people who have a fucking clue. "

It was a study done by OK Cupid 😂

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By *ruceyyMan
7 weeks ago

London

Have I hallucinated this for literal years now?! Ffs

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By *enk15Man
7 weeks ago

Evesham

We are all AI

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By *outhernC0mfortMan
7 weeks ago

Cumbria


"We are all AI"

Al Murray maybe

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By *seYou267Man
7 weeks ago

Coventry


"Not to sound too desperate but I’m really struggling to find anyone who wants to actually meet up, near or far I’m happy to travel. Older is the preference but real, attractive and talkative is what seems to be missing. Maybe it’s me… let me know "
it’s 95% fakes but there are some on here who will meet! Treat it like a second job put in 8h of messaging time and updating profile and pics and one day you might get a reply! I’m 24 months in and I think I’m close to my first reply I can feel it

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By *weetiepie99Woman
7 weeks ago

cardiff

I hate to say it, but your penis looks poorly and angry

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
7 weeks ago

Norwichish

To be fair 80:20 rule (Pareto principle) applies pretty much everywhere, 80% of consequence comes from 20% of causes.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
7 weeks ago

Norwichish


"I hate to say it, but your penis looks poorly and angry"

I mean this probably doesn’t help the 80:20 rule either 🤣

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By *he Silver FuxMan
7 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I hate to say it, but your penis looks poorly and angry

I mean this probably doesn’t help the 80:20 rule either 🤣"

Obvious Phimosis skews the Pareto for sure.

I’m sure there’s at least one woman or man out there that has a kink about cocks looking like they are being garrotted

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

The idea that women are chasing after the top 20% of men is a classic incel talking point that manages to find a way to blame women for men not being attractive to them.

Whereas you talk to the women and femmes who date men and they will tell you that the bar is so low it’s in hell. Literally they just want men to be polite and respectful and maybe actually listen to what they want… but so few are able to do so.

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By *he original AliceWoman
7 weeks ago

Your bed


"I hate to say it, but your penis looks poorly and angry"

This. Penis looks very red and off putting to be honest. You've got other nice dick pics xxx

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By *oxy jWoman
7 weeks ago

somerset

the site is very real it works for many of us couples and women but sadly not so much for alot of men..

i see someone put there 3 x men to couples and women sorry but its way way higher than that 50 x to 100x men to one couple and women some areas alot more..

add in the fake women /mens profile run by men the add in those that dont meet guy via fab or guys at all and then you'll start to see just how few there are here looking for men

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Central

It's real but people will only reply if you are in the really tiny minority of people who are mutually compatible.

Read the advice in the forum about how to improve your odds, there's lots of it, to the regular men here who are in the same position. Get to clubs and socials too, to start to getting to know more of us.

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By *cLovin2Man
7 weeks ago

Reading


"We’re all bots m

Speak for yourself

I’m not a bot… I’m a butt 🤣

You’re all boobs who are you trying to fool? "

A lady who is all boobs would be worth her weight in gold.

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By *cLovin2Man
7 weeks ago

Reading

OP there's like a thousand guys on here competing for a handful of women. The chances of a meeting is minute.

However the site forum is a hilarious place to be, with lots of funny people making the best of this site. I have many times laughed out loud only to realise that I'm in public with people giving me looks like I'm a weirdo.

Enjoy the site, if you get a meet, it's a bonus but don't expect a meeting.

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By *ensual DesiresMan
7 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

We are in a simulation

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By *emma200Woman
7 weeks ago

Warwickshire


"I hate to say it, but your penis looks poorly and angry"

This 😂😂 kills it

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By *hirleyMan
7 weeks ago

somewhere

Is anything real?🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Dead Internet Theory

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By *uckyNineMan
7 weeks ago

prescot


"I hate to say it, but your penis looks poorly and angry

This 😂😂 kills it "

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By *ild_oatsMan
7 weeks ago

the land of saints & sinners


"As a single guy your going to struggle as we outnumber the couples and single females by at least 3 to 1. Lots of couples want other couples or single females only. Plus along with the major swing clubs there's more private parties now."

Only 3 to 1 …. I thought that is was more like 100 to 1 or more….

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By *oxy jWoman
7 weeks ago

somerset

also not all women hate dick pic for some of use they are a must as you can tell so much by looking ... but one or two is enough abs even better as a body and cock shot rather than just a cock ...

as others have said yours looks a little red and beaten so maybe a better one

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By *avexxMan
7 weeks ago

cheshire


"also not all women hate dick pic for some of use they are a must as you can tell so much by looking ... but one or two is enough abs even better as a body and cock shot rather than just a cock ...

as others have said yours looks a little red and beaten so maybe a better one"

... i do have nice body and cock shot

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By *ig_belly_grrrlWoman
6 weeks ago

Finchley


"Not to sound too desperate but I’m really struggling to find anyone who wants to actually meet up, near or far I’m happy to travel. Older is the preference but real, attractive and talkative is what seems to be missing. Maybe it’s me… let me know "

9 dick pics is too many dick pics, take at least 7 of them off. Also your profile looks hostile - 'Ask Me ONE question!'

What about? Anyone who just has 'Ask Me' on their profile just gives nothing for anyone to ask you *about*.

Describe yourself, what you can offer to the world. Sell yourself. Around here it's a buyers market, women get flooded with messages so make yours nice, interesting, not filled with expectation, desperation and entitlement.

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By *allWithTatsMan
6 weeks ago

Hyrule

Get to the clubs OP, interact in person if the virtual world isn’t working out?

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
6 weeks ago

Down the back of the sofa.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
6 weeks ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"Not to sound too desperate but I’m really struggling to find anyone who wants to actually meet up, near or far I’m happy to travel. Older is the preference but real, attractive and talkative is what seems to be missing. Maybe it’s me… let me know "

No, I’ve been paid by Microsoft founder bill gates to fabricate nonsense on the forums, my real name is Trent Stevens and I’m a budding writer from hull.

Actually the above is satire there are real people, your best bet is an organised social where you can meet a bunch of awesome sex nerds in one go. You may not find anything immediately, but you will build up connections!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
6 weeks ago

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Only because the site isn't working for you, it really doesn't make it fake. You just have to learn how to use it better.

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By *LiamMan
6 weeks ago

Midlands

Why is everyone bashing his dick lol

Life is what you make it OP

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By *ildatheart30Couple
6 weeks ago

Gorebridge

It's pretty shit, clubs are better and at least what you see is what you get however I have to be honest here we have played with single guys but they've never had a dick pick profile I don't know any women who look for that

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By *onkeynutWoman
6 weeks ago

somewhere

If I received a message from you OP I probably wouldn’t even open it because your profile picture is a dick pic. There are thousands of profiles the same.

If I did open it I would delete it after reading the first sentence of your profile.

The site is very real but it takes effort, especially for a single male.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
6 weeks ago

Durham

It's real. Definitely real.

If I were you I would look at your profile then look at profiles of people who are well verified on here and see if you can see any differences.

Ruby

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
6 weeks ago

The last house on the left…

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
6 weeks ago

The last house on the left…

I am very real…I think What is real?

Took me nearly a year of HARD GRAFT before I got a meet.

MY TOP TIP? Only message women when they’re online. That way your message won’t get buried by other messages when they log back on .

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By *ndrew CareyMan
6 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Not to sound too desperate but I’m really struggling to find anyone who wants to actually meet up, near or far I’m happy to travel. Older is the preference but real, attractive and talkative is what seems to be missing. Maybe it’s me… let me know "

Site is real and requires work and patience.

Had a quick peak at your profile and some advice if I may.

You've not bothered to put anything in it about you apart from your sexual preferences and have tons of dick pics.

I'm not sure why some men think sharing unsolicited dick pics with women will get them anywhere.

Porn isn't real.

Women do not turn into drooling sex fiends when they see a penis. Especially an unsolicited one.

So, I would remove all those photos, tell people a bit more about yourself and why you are on here and eventually you may meet someone.

Best of luck

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By *ndrew CareyMan
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

Peek not peak

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By *ffervescentMan
6 weeks ago

winfrith

Women believe it or not have the ability to read and it's the reason why you create a profile so they can see what you are into ,you haven't written anything ok you have your face as your lead pic but the rest are cock ,your profile gets you meets work on that and you may find the meets .Don't treat this as a sex site treat it as a meeting place and would you show a stranger your cock having said that some women love to look at cock ,good luck either way .

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By *errywildWoman
6 weeks ago

It's a Secret


"Not to sound too desperate but I’m really struggling to find anyone who wants to actually meet up, near or far I’m happy to travel. Older is the preference but real, attractive and talkative is what seems to be missing. Maybe it’s me… let me know "

I prefer if a profile has personalized info. You haven't put any effort into adding to the tickbox of interests. That would be a no for me personally. Otherwise you are an attractive young man. Good luck x

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By *vaRose43Woman
6 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I can’t speak for everyone but this is what I look for in a profile before engaging OP

Teasing pics. Certainly not just cock shots. Clothed and unclothed, tasteful or humorous, clever lighting, tidy backgrounds, clean bodies. Taking good pics takes a bit of effort and someone who has taken the time to do so shows to me that they’re really trying to show their best.

I hate: action pics on a single profile (there is no way to verify consent on fab), dirty backgrounds or clothes (I don’t mean a shot taken while gardening but flush the toilet, put away the washing and clean underwear), hastily taken mid wank shots with boxers around ankles, over toilet pics and pics taken in the dark with glaring flash on ungroomed undercarriages .

Bios. Write one. What do you want? What don’t you want? What’s your favourite pokemon and why? I don’t mind what you write as long as it seems authentic and interesting. Blank, “ask me”, “here for fun” is an auto delete.

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By *umagain58Man
6 weeks ago

London

You can find but it’s often hard work. Took me ages to get first verified meet. Then it improved and have been lucky with nice people. Good luck

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By *NormalMan01Man
6 weeks ago

Harrogate

But… is anything ‘real’?

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By *racyCockloverTV/TS
6 weeks ago

WC1N

Definitely a real site.

I've had lots of great meets on here,there are time wasters as well.

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