FabSwingers.com forum: How exhausting is socialising?

By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
4 weeks ago

Ends

Every day I’m exhausted.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
4 weeks ago

St Leonards

Every day I'm shufflin'.

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By *nya NeesWoman
4 weeks ago

Brum

Yuk

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By *a LunaWoman
4 weeks ago

South Wales

Mega. Which is why I don’t do it.

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Exhausting, I need 3-5 working days to recover from a party.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Very! Doesn't help that most people's idea of conversation involves football or celebrities

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London

Do you socialise every day?

What constitutes socialising?

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By *a LunaWoman
4 weeks ago

South Wales

Is going to work socialising? Because I do that, but only because I have to!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Stockport

I seem to spend most of my time anti-socialising...

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By *irtydesires2024Man
4 weeks ago

West Midlands

I think every last one of us gets worn down by the relentless grind of society.

JESUS IM TURNING INTO GEORGE ORWELL.

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By *end1Man
4 weeks ago

southend on sea

I just hate people so no socializing for me 😊

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By *ookie46Woman
4 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I love socialising but I definitely get burn out

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By *ansoffateMan
4 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

If it was less exhausting than avoiding people, I would do it more.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
4 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Soooooo exhausting. I do enjoy it, though. Mega naps for me afterwards 😴

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
4 weeks ago

Ends

"Is going to work socialising? Because I do that, but only because I have to! "

I actively avoid messaging and hanging out with colleagues where possible unless I’ve had caffeine

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By *NormalMan01Man
4 weeks ago

Harrogate

It’s the worst sometimes.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester

It can drain the life out of me I have a limited social battery

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
4 weeks ago

Essex

Oooh

It’s my power up

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

A pint, bit of karaoke, a boogie, a burger and scintillating sex....ideal

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By *viatrixWoman
4 weeks ago

Redhill

Very.

Which is why I don’t do it anymore.

This 6-9 momths will be a good detox!

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By *estYorkshireGentMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I love socialising tbh! Not on Friday nights, I always need a chilled, recharge night after a long week. But once we hit the weekend I love being out and socialising when I can

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

I love socialising and being around people. Especially meeting new people.

Some situations are harder than others and I do sometimes find making small talk with numerous people exhausting. I also sometimes doubt my own social skills and question if people actually want to talk to me or if I’m boring them.

Mostly though, if I’m having a good time and enjoying the company then I’m happy.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
4 weeks ago

Essex

"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate"

Joe!!!

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate"

Bit harsh fella

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester

"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate"

😅😅😅😅

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏

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By *lueLotusWoman
4 weeks ago

the wilderness

Absolutely exhausting especially in winter when we really should be hibernating/conserving our energy

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By *midnight-Woman
4 weeks ago

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Are you an introvert Smickles xx

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏"

🫡

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By *midnight-Woman
4 weeks ago

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"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏"

Such a bad boy! Get over my knee

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
4 weeks ago

Norwichish

Look up Social Battery and ADHD, those of us who are able to have the social interactions can wear out very quickly if we find the socialising boring, tedious or just too much!

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏

Such a bad boy! Get over my knee"

You said we couldn't do that anymore since the break-up 😢

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
4 weeks ago

Ends

"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate"

😂😂😂😂 I actually love you

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By *ML49Man
4 weeks ago

Burnley

"Every day I’m exhausted. "

Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

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By *oubleSwingCouple
4 weeks ago

N. Wales

It's sucked some life out of me today, for sure. 🙄

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

People.

They're very 'peopley'. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
4 weeks ago

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"It's sucked some life out of me today, for sure. 🙄"
I want you to suck the life out of me

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By *midnight-Woman
4 weeks ago

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"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏

Such a bad boy! Get over my knee

You said we couldn't do that anymore since the break-up 😢"

Joe!!

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

"Ooooh look at me. I'm Pickle and I socialise every day because I have loads of friends.

Grow up, mate

Bit harsh fella

That was totally tongue in cheek and not serious in any way whatsoever! Sorry Pickle if it came across that way, I genuinely didn't mean it like that 🙏

Such a bad boy! Get over my knee

You said we couldn't do that anymore since the break-up 😢

Joe!!"

😇😂

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By *oubleSwingCouple
4 weeks ago

N. Wales

"It's sucked some life out of me today, for sure. 🙄 I want you to suck the life out of me"

Not tonight, I'm exhausted.

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By *ucka39Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

In my time id be doing it very often but now cut back considerably, it burns out my attention span. Nothing to do with age 😂

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By *eesside AnubisMan
4 weeks ago

North East

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
4 weeks ago

Norwich

In the rught company, I find socialising recharges my batteries.

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By *eesside AnubisMan
4 weeks ago

North East

Depends on the day and the person

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By *ergus1622Man
4 weeks ago

Dundee

I love the social side nearly as much as the fun , but it can be like pulling teeth with some people

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By *ust want fun 888Man
4 weeks ago

nearby

I’m exhausted, spent every day and night of the month of December socialising, thank God that’s all over

And didn’t get a sniff,

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I love socialising but inside that I’m good at matching people’s energy. Low key glass of wine and a bitch fest I’m In, social butterfly in a crowded club I’m in my element. Lunch and (redacted) number of cocktails with my bestie I’m in in in.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

1 to 1 is fine relaxing even. More than that yes exhausting.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

I can love it, finding it energising but the wrong engagement isn't anything but draining

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By *punk n gushCouple
4 weeks ago

deal

Very exhausting I prefer my own company I can have conversations with my multi personalities without having to leave the sofa lol

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