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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
4 weeks ago

North East

What are people's thoughts on loosing a regular. Well in fact the only person I've met on here. She has started a committed relationship

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
4 weeks ago

Ends

I just don’t get it. So people are on a swingers site but go on and have monogamous relationships?

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By *ustAnotherMan
4 weeks ago

Mids

Wish her well and be happy for her if thats what she wants? Doesn't mean you have to stop talking presumably

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

Losing a regular?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
4 weeks ago

barnstaple

If its what she wants, be pleased for her. Ms

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By *urvyBunnyWoman
4 weeks ago

Suffolk

I think I would be disappointed, but understand that things change and sometimes this isn't for everyone, once in a relationship.

I was on here before but left after 3 years due to getting into a relationship, old fwbs were disappointed, most understood but some didn't. I think I learnt a lesson that a 'normal' relationship wasn't for me, I missed the lifestyle and the people I'd met throughout my time here and that's why I'm back

It may just take time for someone to realise what they truly want, or fab could just be the fun side of things whilst someone is single 🤷🏼‍♀️

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
4 weeks ago

Southampton


"Losing a regular? "

Fb/ fwb?

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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
4 weeks ago

North East


"Wish her well and be happy for her if thats what she wants? Doesn't mean you have to stop talking presumably "

Ive wished her well will still talk

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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
4 weeks ago

North East


"Losing a regular?

Fb/ fwb?"

Was a fwb

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By *offiaCoolWoman
4 weeks ago

Kidsgrove


"I just don’t get it. So people are on a swingers site but go on and have monogamous relationships? "

Peoples perceptions, feelings, expectations, circumstances change.

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Be happy for her it’s what she wanted. They come & go just like in real life - unless you want to offer the full relationship - most want that ultimately & eventually will settle down with someone & stop or reduce swinging.

I think it’s different with swinging couples, they have what emotionally fulfils with them already & just looking for extra sex. Same with eternally single types.

Not everyone is honest about what they truly want

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Losing a regular?

Fb/ fwb?

Was a fwb "

Oh right.

I guess when any kind of relationship changes it takes adjustment.

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By *rStamina88Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I was in a swinging relationship for 3 year, but she ended it because she didn't want to swing anymore.

Just got to wish her well and move on.

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I wished her all the best and hope that she finds another guy that treats her right.

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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
4 weeks ago

North East


"Losing a regular?

Fb/ fwb?

Was a fwb

Oh right.

I guess when any kind of relationship changes it takes adjustment. "

I think i will miss the emotional support she gave me aswell. She is and was the only person ive actually met on here

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London


"I just don’t get it. So people are on a swingers site but go on and have monogamous relationships? "

I'm just here to fuck around until my Mr Right second time comes along.

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London

It's nice when someone you've been seeing for sex meets someone for a relationship and tells you.

It's better than being the bit on the side, or ghosted.

I've been the casual sex until someone suitable for a relationship comes along many times.

Most of the time they just stopped asking to see me, and stopped replying.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Losing a regular?

Fb/ fwb?

Was a fwb

Oh right.

I guess when any kind of relationship changes it takes adjustment.

I think i will miss the emotional support she gave me aswell. She is and was the only person ive actually met on here "

Well she was/is your friend so you will miss that element of your relationship.

I'm frequently struck by how casually people enter into fwb relationships and how others dismiss their feelings of loss when they end. It seems that having a 'friend with benefits' is often assumed to be less than any other type of relationship.

Maybe casually is the wrong word 🤔

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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
4 weeks ago

North East


"Losing a regular?

Fb/ fwb?

Was a fwb

Oh right.

I guess when any kind of relationship changes it takes adjustment.

I think i will miss the emotional support she gave me aswell. She is and was the only person ive actually met on here

Well she was/is your friend so you will miss that element of your relationship.

I'm frequently struck by how casually people enter into fwb relationships and how others dismiss their feelings of loss when they end. It seems that having a 'friend with benefits' is often assumed to be less than any other type of relationship.

Maybe casually is the wrong word 🤔"

I think i drive people away

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By *eesside Anubis OP   Man
4 weeks ago

North East


"It's nice when someone you've been seeing for sex meets someone for a relationship and tells you.

It's better than being the bit on the side, or ghosted.

I've been the casual sex until someone suitable for a relationship comes along many times.

Most of the time they just stopped asking to see me, and stopped replying. "
i sort of guessed because she changed

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
4 weeks ago

Maidstone

It happens. People's situations change. Nothing is static. It's a good thing I think.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Losing a regular?

Fb/ fwb?

Was a fwb

Oh right.

I guess when any kind of relationship changes it takes adjustment.

I think i will miss the emotional support she gave me aswell. She is and was the only person ive actually met on here

Well she was/is your friend so you will miss that element of your relationship.

I'm frequently struck by how casually people enter into fwb relationships and how others dismiss their feelings of loss when they end. It seems that having a 'friend with benefits' is often assumed to be less than any other type of relationship.

Maybe casually is the wrong word 🤔

I think i drive people away "

What makes you say that?

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