FabSwingers.com forum: Stood up or not

By *averockrock OP Man
3 weeks ago

swindon

I am sure I’ll find out soon but if you have arranged to meet up at a certain time in the evening and all day there is not interaction, not even an hour before the meet, do you think the meet will happen?

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By *nya NeesWoman
3 weeks ago

Brum

I would assume a no show OP

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Nope

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
3 weeks ago

Next Door

I think it's a no show.

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By *osey WalesMan
3 weeks ago

So no contact anhour before a meet.. ?

I've had it go both ways. Some are busy and couldnt get online but showed up. Others just never showed up and went UNLOS

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
3 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Are you in the right Tesco cafe?

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

If I had had no interaction with them all day I would be sat at home makeup-less in my pjs 😂

If I didn't get a text to say they were definitely coming, excited to see me later, double checking the time etc especially if I had messaged them first then I'm not bothering.

I've had this happen, men pester you to meet. You agree and arrange something. They ghost you the day of the meet, or the day before when you check in they they can still make it. It's like some sort of game. I'm too old and tired for being fucked around 😂 you get one chance and that's it.

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By *ancelot1633Man
3 weeks ago

weybridge

Yep, unless you were meeting a ghost

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

No. Never does. Don't be surprised if they block you tomorrow after without explanation

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By *averockrock OP Man
3 weeks ago

swindon

Cheers all of you!

it’s nearly half an hour to the meet and no responses!

well I am glad I didn’t travel half an hour by car tonight!

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By *nya NeesWoman
3 weeks ago

Brum

"Cheers all of you!

it’s nearly half an hour to the meet and no responses!

well I am glad I didn’t travel half an hour by car tonight!

Their loss

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By *B69Woman
3 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Sadly not

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By *rincipessaWoman
3 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

I wouldn’t beholding out much hope I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

It doesn’t look promising 😔

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By *he Silver FuxMan
3 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Have they blocked you? Gone UNLOS?

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By *averockrock OP Man
3 weeks ago

swindon

Well, she was busy and life got in the way..still not arranged another meet so I think that's an excuse..anyway it is what it is and life goes on!

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I wouldn't even have bothered to go if they'd not made contact all day. 😐

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By *ife NinjaMan
3 weeks ago

Dunfermline

They ain't coming

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

"I wouldn't even have bothered to go if they'd not made contact all day. 😐"

I have them agree to a communication schedule. If it's broken, then it's off. And second chances are off

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By *atinaChica54Woman
3 weeks ago

Marlborough

"If I had had no interaction with them all day I would be sat at home makeup-less in my pjs 😂

If I didn't get a text to say they were definitely coming, excited to see me later, double checking the time etc especially if I had messaged them first then I'm not bothering.

This👆🏼

Honestly I've lost count of the timewasting twats I've come across. I think they love the thrill of the chase....I check in with them the day before & if no response I cancel as I'm not feeling it. Then I'm free to make other plans with my precious time

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

If the communication stops the day before I wouldn’t even bother shaving my legs

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By *cunnylassCouple
3 weeks ago

Exeter

We always ask people to confirm on the day that the meet is supposed to take place.We are quite clear that the meet won't take place if they don't do this.It's not infallible but it seems to work.

M and M

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
3 weeks ago

Telford

I would assume a no show if there has been no communication.

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
3 weeks ago

St Leonards

OP - Next time, signpost a "condition of meeting" earlier in your interactions.

State that you will need to hear from them the day of the meet or you'll assume it's cancelled.

Preferably no more than 3 hours beforehand, but you can have a bit of wiggle room there for extenuating circumstances.

Doing a lot of work before meeting, should mean less work when you actually meet.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
3 weeks ago

London

It's why I now insist that the guy picks me up from home, that way, if he stands me up, I'm still at home and not waiting like an idiot somewhere.

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By *aughty driverMan
3 weeks ago

Romford

The worst part of this is theres excitement and anticipation i wish people could be honest it feels like such wasted energy

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
3 weeks ago

Swansea

"It's why I now insist that the guy picks me up from home, that way, if he stands me up, I'm still at home and not waiting like an idiot somewhere."

I wouldn't give out my home address to people.

Mrs

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By *tsJustKateWoman
3 weeks ago

London

"It's why I now insist that the guy picks me up from home, that way, if he stands me up, I'm still at home and not waiting like an idiot somewhere.

I wouldn't give out my home address to people.

Mrs"

I don't, unless I am accommodating. They wait in the car park.

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Unless they confirm the morning of, always make the assumption it's not happening.

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By *ookie46Woman
3 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’d assume it was not going to happen

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By *NormalMan01Man
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

"I am sure I’ll find out soon but if you have arranged to meet up at a certain time in the evening and all day there is not interaction, not even an hour before the meet, do you think the meet will happen?

What happened?

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By *NormalMan01Man
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

"It's why I now insist that the guy picks me up from home, that way, if he stands me up, I'm still at home and not waiting like an idiot somewhere.

I wouldn't give out my home address to people.

Mrs

I don't, unless I am accommodating. They wait in the car park. "

Can I wait in the car park, please?

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By *ornycougaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I've had guys go quiet on me. I send a message saying that as I haven't heard from them that I assume they got cold feet about meeting me and I'm making other plans. I then given them a reasonable period to reply, but also enough time for me to get ready if something genuine has happened during their day. If I don't hear from them I block and move on.

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By *eesside AnubisMan
3 weeks ago

North East

I think it's will be a no show

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By *a LunaWoman
3 weeks ago

South Wales

I’d expect a “brace yourself sugar tits, I’m on my way” kind of message.

Otherwise I’m not washing my minge.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

Nope if I dont hear from the person on the day I am not turning up. But i do make that clear.

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By *eesside AnubisMan
3 weeks ago

North East

"If I had had no interaction with them all day I would be sat at home makeup-less in my pjs 😂

If I didn't get a text to say they were definitely coming, excited to see me later, double checking the time etc especially if I had messaged them first then I'm not bothering.

No one would stand you uo

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By *oger_AllnightMan
3 weeks ago

Bude

"I’d expect a “brace yourself sugar tits, I’m on my way” kind of message.

Otherwise I’m not washing my minge."

Good god woman, you are the epitome of class. Hats off to your environmentally aware policies. Never stop, never change.

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By *emma200Woman
3 weeks ago

Warwickshire

I would say a big fat No Op ☹️

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By *ustAnotherMan
3 weeks ago

Mids

If it were me meeting id send messages and be worried if they hadn't responded they'd thought twice and changed their minds. I've done that before someone's turned up and wondered where I was

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