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BDE, MDE, SDE

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
3 weeks ago

London

Confused? The latter two letters are dick energy if that helps.

One of my FWB is talking to me about the differences to these energy's, but she's crazy. For any other people, aka you lot, is this a thing and what's the differences between them?

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By *amie HantsWoman
3 weeks ago

Atlantis

I’m 98% my old MD had a tiny willy based on his serious SDE.

Any guy that refers to himself as ‘alpha’= SDE

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Do the first letters stand for Big, medium and small?

Not come across these acronyms before!

If so i am curious myself to see what she means

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
3 weeks ago

London


"I’m 98% my old MD had a tiny willy based on his serious SDE.

Any guy that refers to himself as ‘alpha’= SDE

"

She reckons I am medium to high 😂😂

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

BDE = Business Development Executive?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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3 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Isn't MDE what MFI used to make wardrobes out of? 🤔

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By *eoBloomsMan
3 weeks ago

Springfield


"Isn't MDE what MFI used to make wardrobes out of? 🤔"

No, that's MILF.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

Bookmarking this because I'm not familiar with these terms, xDE et al, and what they actually mean.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Honestly OP it’s not a term I particularly like. Doesn’t it relate to confidence? Linking a man’s confidence to the size of their penis feels reductive to me. I’m imagining somebody saying I have big vagina energy. It feels a bit weird.

Mrs TMN x

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
3 weeks ago

Swansea


"Isn't MDE what MFI used to make wardrobes out of? 🤔"

That'd be MFP or MDF - though with MFI it was most likely plain old chip board.

Absolutely no help to the OP except maybe an example of SDE mansplaining?

P

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
3 weeks ago

Swansea


"Honestly OP it’s not a term I particularly like. Doesn’t it relate to confidence? Linking a man’s confidence to the size of their penis feels reductive to me. I’m imagining somebody saying I have big vagina energy. It feels a bit weird.

Mrs TMN x"

Do you though? Just curious

P

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By *bi HaiveMan
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3 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Honestly OP it’s not a term I particularly like. Doesn’t it relate to confidence? Linking a man’s confidence to the size of their penis feels reductive to me. I’m imagining somebody saying I have big vagina energy. It feels a bit weird.

Mrs TMN x"

Better BVE than BSE.

Mooooooooooooo!!! 😂😂😂🐮🐮

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Honestly OP it’s not a term I particularly like. Doesn’t it relate to confidence? Linking a man’s confidence to the size of their penis feels reductive to me. I’m imagining somebody saying I have big vagina energy. It feels a bit weird.

Mrs TMN x

Do you though? Just curious

P"

It’s not a thing, so I guess not

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Honestly OP it’s not a term I particularly like. Doesn’t it relate to confidence? Linking a man’s confidence to the size of their penis feels reductive to me. I’m imagining somebody saying I have big vagina energy. It feels a bit weird.

Mrs TMN x

Better BVE than BSE.

Mooooooooooooo!!! 😂😂😂🐮🐮"

Hope you’re not calling me a crazy cow, Obi?!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Honestly OP it’s not a term I particularly like. Doesn’t it relate to confidence? Linking a man’s confidence to the size of their penis feels reductive to me. I’m imagining somebody saying I have big vagina energy. It feels a bit weird.

Mrs TMN x

Better BVE than BSE.

Mooooooooooooo!!! 😂😂😂🐮🐮

Hope you’re not calling me a crazy cow, Obi?! "

As if I'd ever. 😮😮😮😮

*I'll refrain from making any 'lovely udders' remarks too. 😇😇

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

To me they're all the same. If your main energy is focused around the size of your dick it's just not my kind of energy.

I think of BDE as arrogant and lazy I suppose. SDE tends towards more angst and bitterness and a need to prove something 💜

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Honestly OP it’s not a term I particularly like. Doesn’t it relate to confidence? Linking a man’s confidence to the size of their penis feels reductive to me. I’m imagining somebody saying I have big vagina energy. It feels a bit weird.

Mrs TMN x

Better BVE than BSE.

Mooooooooooooo!!! 😂😂😂🐮🐮

Hope you’re not calling me a crazy cow, Obi?!

As if I'd ever. 😮😮😮😮

*I'll refrain from making any 'lovely udders' remarks too. 😇😇"

Sounds like a load of bull.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
3 weeks ago

kendal


"Bookmarking this because I'm not familiar with these terms, xDE et al, and what they actually mean."

BDE big dick energy

MDE medium dick energy

SDE small dick energy!

Everyday is a school day! 😘

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By *aitonelMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool


"Honestly OP it’s not a term I particularly like. Doesn’t it relate to confidence? Linking a man’s confidence to the size of their penis feels reductive to me. I’m imagining somebody saying I have big vagina energy. It feels a bit weird.

Mrs TMN x"

This. It's just another form of body shaming wrapped up in "banter". Even if it's indirect.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
3 weeks ago

walsall


"Bookmarking this because I'm not familiar with these terms, xDE et al, and what they actually mean.

BDE big dick energy

MDE medium dick energy

SDE small dick energy!

Everyday is a school day! 😘"

I don’t like the idea of people’s energy being measured or equated to genitalia size. It’s just another form of body shaming.

Would it be ok to have mouses ear sized vag energy and cavernous cathedral vag energy?

It’s unpleasant at best.

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