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Verifications how many is to many

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By *owboybear OP   Man
8 weeks ago

torpoint

So today I was messaged saying that I have to many verifications for the time

My profile has been live and it’s rather off

Putting.. I explained to the lady that if she

Read

Them that most of them

Are

Club meet veris and

Not people I’ve played with necessarily. How ever she

Said it’s still to many and why do I feel

The need to display them all?

To my question to everyone is how man is to many and should you

Display them

All????

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd say anyone with over 100 is a ho. 🤷‍♂️

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By *obilebottomMan
8 weeks ago

All over

64

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By *eliWoman
8 weeks ago

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However many means that you're not compatible with them. It varies a lot. Even then I wouldn't say they are too many, per se, just for the person viewing them.

As long as you're happy? That's the most important thing.

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

Any woman that questions a gentleman's verifications and attestations is not a woman worth engaging with.

No amount of explaining will assuage their curiosities or their unfavourable opinions.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Serious answer time.

You'll never please everyone. So just publish whatever you want and either hide the summary or show it.

Those that attend clubs and socials tend to have waaaaay more than those that just meet. They're easy to spot and the majority will be obviously purely social veris, but that relies on people actually reading them and not just looking at a number.

The site also doesn't show when you joined. An important factor in the equation. I have less after 17 years here than a partner who's been here 2.

But then she has boobs. 🤷‍♂️

Some will be put off by a number being too high whilst equally being averse to those with just one.

Don't sweat it. Trying to find the 'goldilocks' number that's just right will drive you mad.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
8 weeks ago

stanley

You can’t please all of the people all of the time OP. Just be you, I’m sure that’s good enough for a lot of people

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
8 weeks ago

Loughborough

Ignore it. There was a lifestyle way before Fab and on other sites too! It's not a body counter, alot of couples and singles are very active from a social perspective.

Don't get me wrong though, there was one person we saw who travelled round in a van and had like 600+ from dogging - that's a very rare exception!!!

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
8 weeks ago

stanley


"Ignore it. There was a lifestyle way before Fab and on other sites too! It's not a body counter, alot of couples and singles are very active from a social perspective.

Don't get me wrong though, there was one person we saw who travelled round in a van and had like 600+ from dogging - that's a very rare exception!!! "

Poor dog must have had blisters

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
8 weeks ago

Didsbury

The van woman.

I would block anyone who met her if she’s the one who did it all bareback.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
8 weeks ago

Aberdeen

If you're happy with your verifications then that's all that matters, as said above you'll never please everyone. Just do you

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
8 weeks ago

Excommunicdo.

Any more than 1

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
8 weeks ago

kendal

I would never say someone had too many veris I don't think, some people have 100+, but upon read them, they're often from people they've been social with in a club etc, or perhaps liased with at social meets.

I can speak to numerous people in a club, if they all verified me and I showed them, it would make browsing harder for potential playmates.

I simply don't display all my veris because of that fact, I cherry pick,

Choosing what I feel shows the most diverse and best picture of me.

I don't show all the social ones,

Nor all from couples, nor all from lone males.....

I wish to show the variety I prefer so a couple of socials, some club ones, some from couples, some from lone men, some from parties etc.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
8 weeks ago

kendal

Yoy also don't need to justify to anyone, the contents of your profile.

Wether that be your information, preferences, or verifications

If someone is put off by the amount of verifications you have, then, put simply......

You're most likely not compatible.

The only time I would question numbers with regards to veris is,

If someone has been on here for longer than 6/12months, and didn't have a single verification to show for it.

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
8 weeks ago

Loughborough


"The van woman.

I would block anyone who met her if she’s the one who did it all bareback."

Haha yes that's the one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Veris are a red flag, I only meet unverified people with a van in an alley, at night time.. I'm spontaneous like that.

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By *ir tootMan
8 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"Veris are a red flag, I only meet unverified people with a van in an alley, at night time.. I'm spontaneous like that."

Ooh ice cream. 😋

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By *midnight-Woman
8 weeks ago

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It is crazy....I would have 60+ if I'd kept my original profile, but now it looks to people that I only have 5

Honestly I'd just say thanks and bye.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
8 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Veris are a red flag, I only meet unverified people with a van in an alley, at night time.. I'm spontaneous like that.

Ooh ice cream. 😋 "

Will there be puppies? 😮😮

If so......IN!! 😁

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By *heKinkExplorerMan
8 weeks ago

leicester

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By *ripfillMan
8 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

I would suggest 69 veris … I would not record any more after that published number has been achieved lol

Mind you …. the rate I am going to get to 69

I will be 143 years old working on the current number I have - and time taken to an achieve those … but. that’s definitely worth looking forward to !

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By *unthum62Man
8 weeks ago

Benidorm

If anything on a profile raises concern or is not on your wish list of things,scroll on by.

Not enough veris, move on.

Too many veris, move on.

Why anyone chooses to comment on, or criticise something they disagree with on another persons profile amuses me.

If you like it try it, if you don't find one that suits you. There are plenty of them.

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