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By (user no longer on site) OP
8 weeks ago

And it went further the same day?

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By *inkyPair2018Couple
8 weeks ago

Wolves and Northants

Never been as lucky to arrange a social yet doh!

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

95% of my socials end up that way 😂

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

"And it went further the same day?"

I've had sex with many first dates if that counts?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
8 weeks ago

Castlebar

Further than a chat? Absolutely 🤣

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By *oeBeansMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

"95% of my socials end up that way 😂"

Hi. JoeBeans. How's it going? Fancy a coffee?

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Yep!

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

"Further than a chat? Absolutely 🤣"

Science experiment?

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

"Yep!"

Just a bad girl!

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By *exyScientistsCouple
8 weeks ago

Castlebar

"Further than a chat? Absolutely 🤣

Science experiment?"

They all are an experiment that's for sure 🤭

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

"95% of my socials end up that way 😂

Hi. JoeBeans. How's it going? Fancy a coffee?

Aww, I don't like coffee

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By *eally_RosieWoman
8 weeks ago

Isle of Axholme

Yep x

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

"Further than a chat? Absolutely 🤣

Science experiment?

They all are an experiment that's for sure 🤭"

Bit of physics and biology combined eh?!

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
8 weeks ago

Bristol

"95% of my socials end up that way 😂

Hi. JoeBeans. How's it going? Fancy a coffee?

Aww, I don't like coffee "

Stirling cup of tea perhaps

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By *midnight-Woman
8 weeks ago

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I don't think I've ever had a social?

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
8 weeks ago

North West

"I don't think I've ever had a social?"

Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣

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By *enk15Man
8 weeks ago

Evesham

Nope. I don’t like surprises.

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By *oeBeansMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

"95% of my socials end up that way 😂

Hi. JoeBeans. How's it going? Fancy a coffee?

Aww, I don't like coffee "

Ahhh so skip straight to it then? 😂

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

"I don't think I've ever had a social?

Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣"

What did you DO 😮

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By *antricSeeker60Man
8 weeks ago

Durham

Yeah, hasn’t everyone.

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By *ansoffateMan
8 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Yes

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

"95% of my socials end up that way 😂

Hi. JoeBeans. How's it going? Fancy a coffee?

Aww, I don't like coffee

Ahhh so skip straight to it then? 😂"

Excuse me, I'm not *that* easy 😉

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By *riar BelisseWoman
8 weeks ago

Bliss

Yep. Arranged a breakfast social in the hotel restaurant, then went upstairs to fuck, day use hotels are fun

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

Yes. Twice. But that was on the back of chatting/messaging for several months. It was most delightful. ♀️♂️

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By *ucka39Man
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

Sure, most of my meets had been like that, because prior had built up a rapport

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By *oeBeansMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

"95% of my socials end up that way 😂

Hi. JoeBeans. How's it going? Fancy a coffee?

Aww, I don't like coffee

Ahhh so skip straight to it then? 😂

Excuse me, I'm not *that* easy 😉 "

Let's find out over a drink 😜

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By *anonfire96Man
8 weeks ago

Mansfield

All my first meetings have been straight to sex, not had a social yet.

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By *cLovin2Man
8 weeks ago

Reading

"I don't think I've ever had a social?"

Straight to the bonking? You hussy.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

"95% of my socials end up that way 😂

Hi. JoeBeans. How's it going? Fancy a coffee?

Aww, I don't like coffee

Ahhh so skip straight to it then? 😂

Excuse me, I'm not *that* easy 😉

Let's find out over a drink 😜"

You're cheeky 😉😂

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By *midnight-Woman
8 weeks ago

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"I don't think I've ever had a social?

Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣"

I don't in think it counts, but it was very enjoyable!! You are fabulous company and I had a lot of fun 🤩🤩😍

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By *he Silver FuxMan
8 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"And it went further the same day?"

Had a social in a nearby bar and didn’t even get to finish our drinks.. 😈

Or a social in my hotel bar and didn’t even bother ordering drinks - 1 minute of Hi lovely to meet you and then it was suggested we get to the room..

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By *outhern77Man
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

Haven't had a 121-Social as yet despite trying.. I'll get back to You lol

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By *amon.dMan
8 weeks ago

antrim

"Further than a chat? Absolutely 🤣

Science experiment?

They all are an experiment that's for sure 🤭"

Luv experiments. Iv my own bunsen burner 🔥

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
8 weeks ago

North West

"I don't think I've ever had a social?

Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣

I don't in think it counts, but it was very enjoyable!! You are fabulous company and I had a lot of fun 🤩🤩😍"

It was fun!

In that case Brucey, I've never had a one-to-one social so the answer is no.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Er yeah all but one

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

I don't meet without a social first. I would never even agree to play with someone without having met them in real life as people can be very different in real life than they are online.

But if you meet for a social, you vibe and there's lots of chemistry and you both want it, why not make it more?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
8 weeks ago

Castlebar

"Further than a chat? Absolutely 🤣

Science experiment?

They all are an experiment that's for sure 🤭

Luv experiments. Iv my own bunsen burner 🔥"

Who doesn't 😝 🥵

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

"I don't think I've ever had a social?

Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣

I don't in think it counts, but it was very enjoyable!! You are fabulous company and I had a lot of fun 🤩🤩😍

It was fun!

In that case Brucey, I've never had a one-to-one social so the answer is no. "

I didn't even ask the question.

Shall we all have a night out sometime though is my question? 😘

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
8 weeks ago

Bristol

We are all consenting adults here, I’m pretty sure we all have!

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By *amon.dMan
8 weeks ago

antrim

Never had a social but given my charm, witty banter, humour and sexual aura I'm sure it's bound to make sexy times inevitable. 😋

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By *ornycougaWoman
8 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I rarely arrange just a social. If we click over a drink then we bang. But once I met a guy for a Sunday afternoon wine in Victoria and couldn't resist dragging him back to my lair to dine on him

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By *orbidden eastMan
8 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Nah not that lucky

But that doesn’t mean my luck cannot change

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By *rincipessaWoman
8 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

Maybe once or twice

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By *amie HantsWoman
8 weeks ago

Atlantis

Yes, once. In ikea.

We ended up together for a while. Great guy, bought me meatballs after 😁

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

"Maybe once or twice

I'm still knock knock knocking on all the doors

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By *oeBeansMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

I've gone into meets that started out as a social, maybe over drinks and a chat that eventually led to more. But from the messages beforehand, there was always an indication that that's where it could potentially go so nothing spontaneous after being set on it only being a social beforehand.

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By *adger BrocMan
8 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Yes.

☕🍰🛏😘

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By *unner6969Man
8 weeks ago

London

"And it went further the same day?"

Yes, of course.

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By *rincipessaWoman
8 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

"Maybe once or twice

I'm still knock knock knocking on all the doors "

Clearly knocking on the wrong doors

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

"Maybe once or twice

I'm still knock knock knocking on all the doors

Clearly knocking on the wrong doors

Both of our loss!

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By *empest2KMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

Erm, technically yes, but that's only because we'd messaged beforehand and built up a rapport before we met face-to-face for a threesome with her husband... and it was a very, very hot session! 😉

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By *rincipessaWoman
8 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

"Maybe once or twice

I'm still knock knock knocking on all the doors

Clearly knocking on the wrong doors

Both of our loss!"

It’s breaking my heart brucey

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By *ickedtiesWoman
8 weeks ago

limerick

Yes of course ☕️☕️❤️😇

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By *ild_oatsMan
8 weeks ago

the land of saints & sinners

Does arranging sex then followed by a coffee count????

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By *viatrixWoman
8 weeks ago

Redhill

A few of them have ended that way, yes.

To be honest if I have already decided to have a social I am pretty mich into that person. So provided they look like their photos and act like they did wien we were chatting, everything will be great.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
8 weeks ago

London

"95% of my socials end up that way 😂

Hi. JoeBeans. How's it going? Fancy a coffee?

Aww, I don't like coffee "

But do you like beans?

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By *exySiren01Woman
8 weeks ago

RCT

Absolutely! Why wait if the chemistry is there

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By *ustAnotherMan
8 weeks ago

Mids

Oh yes. Even better when it's spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

What’s a social? 😜

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By *rHotNottsMan
8 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yes, often.

Most of us have busy lives, if the chemistry is obvious then why not? As long as there are no expectations or pressure what’s the harm.

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By *eardyBikerMan
8 weeks ago

nr stonehaven

Yup...1st ever social meet went that way , last social went nearly all the way too

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I’ve arranged a “social” where I knew before going that we would be having sex if that counts.

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By *edstockings2Couple
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

If going further is not an option then we don't meet up.

We have very limited time so we like to get down to the playing.

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By *vaRose43Woman
8 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Yes, after video chats

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By *tsJustKateWoman
8 weeks ago

London

"And it went further the same day?"

Any time I've had a social they went further.

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By *iguy8919Man
8 weeks ago

Thetford

I've tried but so far no luck.

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By *atinaChica54Woman
8 weeks ago

Marlborough

"95% of my socials end up that way 😂"

This👆🤓

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
8 weeks ago

Telford

Yes most of my socials end up that way. Obviously only if I'm interested ha, the social bit is important though too many factors can turn you off or draw you in and I want to make sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

If they have a car.. maybe

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
8 weeks ago

North West

"I don't think I've ever had a social?

Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣

I don't in think it counts, but it was very enjoyable!! You are fabulous company and I had a lot of fun 🤩🤩😍

It was fun!

In that case Brucey, I've never had a one-to-one social so the answer is no.

I didn't even ask the question.

Shall we all have a night out sometime though is my question? 😘"

Why did I think this was your thread? Doh! I fell asleep husst after this so I'll blame it on being shattered.

If Indian Street food, chat and dancing is your thing then hit us up! 😁

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By *he MinionMan
8 weeks ago

"I don't think I've ever had a social?"

Thats easily resolved

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By *mizhereMan
8 weeks ago

chinnor area

I've been lucky a few times

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
8 weeks ago

Hampshire

Most of the time

I meet for socials more as a quick safety and vibe check. Very happy to play if all goes well. The last one I did I abandoned my first drink half way through

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By *eliWoman
8 weeks ago

A couple of times. Considering the amount of socials I've had it's very rare. It's just... not for me. I don't mind what people do as long as they don't make me feel pressure in to doing things their way.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
8 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I have. I never plan on sex the first time, but if the chemistry is there in person, why not?

I usually spend a very long time chatting beforehand, so I've got a good feel for someone prior to that initial social. I'd probably not feel attraction on a social without that.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

No a social is always just a social. Snogging is as far as I will go as I've regretted it in the past when it's gone further

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By *ea monkeyMan
8 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yes, a few times. It’s not something that I ever go in expecting or anticipating though. I view socials as a form of getting to know someone and as a vibe check. On occasion the chemistry is explosive though and it has gone further

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
8 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Yes, I have a couple of times. If I feel it's going well and it moves that way I'm happy to go with it. Usually though it just stays a social

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
8 weeks ago

Halifax

Our socials can be classed as

Social which is social only with no potential to take things further, this is where we have only enough time for a social and are meeting in a public place.

Social with potential to play, this is usually when someone is hosting or we have a place near the social venue and we have more time on hands.

Most of the latter socials ends up going further same day.

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By *dwalu2Couple
8 weeks ago

Bristol

Several times. If we are all free and the vibe is there, why not?

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By *luebell888Woman
8 weeks ago

Glasgowish

"And it went further the same day?"

Guilty

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By *ack688Man
8 weeks ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Yes, it’s not uncommon

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
8 weeks ago

Didsbury

Socials are a great way get to the litmus test. A kiss. At that point passion can take over.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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8 weeks ago

East Sussex

Once. The first social we ever had.

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By *cLovin2Man
8 weeks ago

Reading

"If they have a car.. maybe

Does having a bus pass count

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By *ir tootMan
8 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Not yet 😇

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By *ruceyyMan
8 weeks ago

London

"I don't think I've ever had a social?

Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣

I don't in think it counts, but it was very enjoyable!! You are fabulous company and I had a lot of fun 🤩🤩😍

It was fun!

In that case Brucey, I've never had a one-to-one social so the answer is no.

I didn't even ask the question.

Shall we all have a night out sometime though is my question? 😘

Why did I think this was your thread? Doh! I fell asleep husst after this so I'll blame it on being shattered.

If Indian Street food, chat and dancing is your thing then hit us up! 😁"

Of course they are! Hitting!

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By *eeCee76Man
8 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Would need to not get ghosted first. 😂

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By *enk15Man
8 weeks ago

Evesham

I think I've been social-ing wrong 🤔

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By *scaMan
8 weeks ago

St Albans

Yes. When there is chemistry, there is chemistry

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By *ony MannMan
8 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal// Andover

Social can be code for, "I want to bed the online version" Then if the real life matches up, bed.

I was staying in a hotel and a lady answered my ad, we agreed to meet for breakfast in the pub across the road. It was a later check.

So yes, socials have gone further, many times, then again others don't turn up.

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By *NormalMan01Man
8 weeks ago

Harrogate

"95% of my socials end up that way 😂"

Fancy arranging a social? 😂😂

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

"Yes. When there is chemistry, there is chemistry

Exactly!

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By *ister_EMan
8 weeks ago

Hayling Island

Most of them to be honest

Even the most innocent ones always ended up with at least some intense snogging and more often than not, some heavy hands under clothes touching.

Even a "Socialy distant" Outdoor meet with a couple during the Covid era, quickly turned into a Bi MMF 3sum in the bushes

I have nothing against a pure social in principle, it just rarely happens like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"I don't think I've ever had a social?

Does our night out count? If not, neither have I 🤣

What did you DO 😮"

All we know is that their fishing weekend has never been discussed again 🥸

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By *tevenTellyCouple
8 weeks ago

Newmarket

Can neither confirm or deny.

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By *dgy77Man
8 weeks ago

manchester

"I don't meet without a social first. I would never even agree to play with someone without having met them in real life as people can be very different in real life than they are online.

But if you meet for a social, you vibe and there's lots of chemistry and you both want it, why not make it more? "

👀

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
8 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Can neither confirm or deny. "

I can. I’m confirming.

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By *uzzieboyMan
8 weeks ago

taunton

"I don't think I've ever had a social?"

I’d take you on a social

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

"95% of my socials end up that way 😂

Fancy arranging a social? 😂😂"

😂😂😂😝

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By *amon.dMan
8 weeks ago

antrim

"Yes. When there is chemistry, there is chemistry

Exactly!"

There's certainly chemistry with the sexy scientists

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
8 weeks ago

Excommunicdo.

Yes.

I even went there with the express intention of it staying social too. But she was very very persuasive, and the promise of eating donuts off my dick proved the decisive blow that changed the path of the evening.

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
8 weeks ago

Reading

"And it went further the same day?"

Yes.

Jerry

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
8 weeks ago

Ipswich

"And it went further the same day?"

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By *enelope2UWoman
8 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

You mean a guy putting in effort showing up at a "social" and not just expecting to show up dick in hand to get laid... Sounds marvellous

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