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"I am sure some folks are not happy unless they are having a bad time and go out of their way to make it happen." If course! My motto's always been "there's misery in the world. You just have to look for it" | |||
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"Q - How are you? A - Fine thanks ^^^Often the biggest lie in the UK. But if you answer truthfully, you're that person who's always got something wrong with them, always something to moan about. Do you know what I moan about, apart from my body slowly decaying? The false and frankly toxic form of relentless positivity that is pushed by a lot of people, by modern society. Maybe we should ask ourselves why the people we know are always moaning? Maybe they've really got something to moan about and maybe something could be done to improve the situation. Maybe. Or maybe they're just mood hoovers 🤷🏻♀️ Pretending there's nothing wrong and that everything is super duper mega wonderful is just ridiculous and makes anyone who really is at the shitty end of the stick feel even more impotent and hopeless." There's a huge gap between relentless positivity (which I don't like either) and relentless negativity which in my opinion is as toxic, it drags everyone around down. | |||
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"Q - How are you? A - Fine thanks ^^^Often the biggest lie in the UK. But if you answer truthfully, you're that person who's always got something wrong with them, always something to moan about. Do you know what I moan about, apart from my body slowly decaying? The false and frankly toxic form of relentless positivity that is pushed by a lot of people, by modern society. Maybe we should ask ourselves why the people we know are always moaning? Maybe they've really got something to moan about and maybe something could be done to improve the situation. Maybe. Or maybe they're just mood hoovers 🤷🏻♀️ Pretending there's nothing wrong and that everything is super duper mega wonderful is just ridiculous and makes anyone who really is at the shitty end of the stick feel even more impotent and hopeless. There's a huge gap between relentless positivity (which I don't like either) and relentless negativity which in my opinion is as toxic, it drags everyone around down." I'll be honest and say the only reason I'm not relentlessly, outwardly negative is because I put it all in Pandora's Box in my head. I know no-one really cares to hear and most people expect "I'm fine" each and every time. So you go through the motions and keep a lid on it as much as possible. Fake it till you make it, or some such nonsense. | |||
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"Q - How are you? A - Fine thanks ^^^Often the biggest lie in the UK. But if you answer truthfully, you're that person who's always got something wrong with them, always something to moan about. Do you know what I moan about, apart from my body slowly decaying? The false and frankly toxic form of relentless positivity that is pushed by a lot of people, by modern society. Maybe we should ask ourselves why the people we know are always moaning? Maybe they've really got something to moan about and maybe something could be done to improve the situation. Maybe. Or maybe they're just mood hoovers 🤷🏻♀️ Pretending there's nothing wrong and that everything is super duper mega wonderful is just ridiculous and makes anyone who really is at the shitty end of the stick feel even more impotent and hopeless. There's a huge gap between relentless positivity (which I don't like either) and relentless negativity which in my opinion is as toxic, it drags everyone around down. I'll be honest and say the only reason I'm not relentlessly, outwardly negative is because I put it all in Pandora's Box in my head. I know no-one really cares to hear and most people expect "I'm fine" each and every time. So you go through the motions and keep a lid on it as much as possible. Fake it till you make it, or some such nonsense." I'm not talking about people who have genuine problems and issues. I'm talking about the ones whose default is negative. Me:what a lovely sunny day Negative colleague: {heavy sigh,rolls eyes} yeah but we're stuck in 'this place' and sunlight gives you skin cancer | |||
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