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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change to ever ready ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get ur tongue on her clit n work it lol

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By *n need of helpCouple
over a year ago

hull

run then .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just lick her clit in a repetitive motion this usually works

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By *ovecpl69Couple
over a year ago

london

dildo wired up to the mains full force 240volts should do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bring her to me il teach u how to make her cum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dildo wired up to the mains full force 240volts should do the trick"
is that wot u do lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "

Does she cum for other people? Some women Just don't cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx

Does she cum for other people? Some women Just don't cum. "
never come across a fem that cant cum. fort evry1 can cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx

Does she cum for other people? Some women Just don't cum. never come across a fem that cant cum. fort evry1 can cum?"

Ive never orgasmed when im with a guy or myself for that matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she able to make herself cum? If so ask her how, it's all about communication, I find it difficult with a lover, I need prolonged cliteral stimulation, however if I don't cum, it doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed it, I don't need to orgasm to have great sex. My advice, talk to her, but don't get hung up on it, make it fun and relax. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

proves how much i know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is she able to make herself cum? If so ask her how, it's all about communication, I find it difficult with a lover, I need prolonged cliteral stimulation, however if I don't cum, it doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed it, I don't need to orgasm to have great sex. My advice, talk to her, but don't get hung up on it, make it fun and relax. Good luck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her from the side.. Rub her clit as you penetrate her and kiss her and all her neck.... Also have her lie on top of you and as you have sex rub all her bum and lower back... This should cover all her " zones" ... Let me know how you get off... P.s.... Just explore each other over time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done to the OP for being brave enough to ask the question

Without being sexiest some womem find it harder frokm certain age so that might be a factor

Some become bored of same routine/positions and techniques - so you to find something that breaks that cycle

Plain and simply straight health questiins

Does she smoke ?

does she drink lots before sex?

Lastly take a look at the things you do to sexually arouse her and adapt

Other advice available from others

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well done to the OP for being brave enough to ask the question

Without being sexiest some womem find it harder frokm certain age so that might be a factor

Some become bored of same routine/positions and techniques - so you to find something that breaks that cycle

Plain and simply straight health questiins

Does she smoke ?

does she drink lots before sex?

Lastly take a look at the things you do to sexually arouse her and adapt

Other advice available from others

Good luck "

What has smoking got to do with it?

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


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What has smoking got to do with it?"

if shes smoking i'd say use more lube

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"

What has smoking got to do with it?

if shes smoking i'd say use more lube "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "

Could just be a misunderstanding that you should be able to make any female climax.

I agree with Evie, Scorpio and Sugar.

The advice from males supposes that each female is a progammed toy that works in a certain way.

It doesn't have to be either one of you. It could be the combination of both of you.

Don't make an orgasm a goal. Sex is a fun filled journey of pleasure where orgasm happens sometimes but not always.

Relaxing would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her what does it for her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask her what does it for her!"

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By *haz and BobCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Get her a wand that will get her to cum for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got a wand for her

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Just lick her clit in a repetitive motion this usually works "

Does he want to make her cum or send her to sleep?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "

Have you ever considered you're just trying too hard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen it written this way in the forums before so it must just be me, but i do cringe when i see "MAKE her cum".

That word seems to imply force, almost against her wishes.

Sorry for hijacking the thread, back on track now.

My suggestion is to talk, find out how she likes things, keep it relaxed and don't set out with the sole intent to bring her to climax or you might just find she tenses up too much to let it happen.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

She could also help out herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "

Don't let it bother you if she complains say its not my fault your frigid .

Seriously some girls can come easily some can't some can only do it themselves , every person is different .

If you make it to be a big deal she will lose respect for you and in future will look down on you as inadecquate

A lot of girls enjoy sex even when they don't come , chances are if she doesn't come with you easily it's been the same with others she has Been with.

At the end of the day she must be happy or she would have buggered off , my advice is enjoy it don't worry be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx

Does she cum for other people? Some women Just don't cum. never come across a fem that cant cum. fort evry1 can cum?"

They may fake it so they don't hurt your male pride ,

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Haha I love some of the advice given in these types of threads. Rub her bum ! Pmsl

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"Haha I love some of the advice given in these types of threads. Rub her bum ! Pmsl "

Makes you wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never had an orgasm til i was 30 lol

now i find rabbit ears on vibe are the best way lol oh and be gentle with her clit, it aint a doorbell as some like to think lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry about it. As long as you blow your beans, who cares?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

typical bloke lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

does she not know.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit her on the washing machine

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

tell her you will buy her jimmy choo's if she comes... she will be quivering and ooing and aaahing within a nano second...

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Just a general observation - after having chuckled a fair bit ,reading the above comments...

We are not machines, guys. We have certain "buttons" - of course. But theat does not mean we orgasm instantly or even after hours of being licked...

We often respond better to a slow gradual and sensual build up without any pressure whatsoever to orgasm. In fact pressure, perceived or otherwise, is often the reason why we (and the blokes) "fail" to orgasm.

Finally, sex can be good even when the climax is not achieved. Trust me on that one

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By *r and mrs bangerboobsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend


"Haha I love some of the advice given in these types of threads. Rub her bum ! Pmsl "

But if taking that suggestion in the whole posting as an holistic approach to the female body it's sound advice

Mrs BB x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha I love some of the advice given in these types of threads. Rub her bum ! Pmsl "

works if you do a "wax on, wax off" motion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha I love some of the advice given in these types of threads. Rub her bum ! Pmsl

works if you do a "wax on, wax off" motion "

If you rub hard enough will a genie come out of her arsehole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her completely relaxed that's the KEY ..............

Now it’s a known fact that women find it much harder to “get off” and orgasm without any foreplay, so you should always try and introduce foreplay before sex, let those tricky fingers hang loose get toys out after fingers and lube too.

But even before foreplay, you have to get her totally relaxed so she’s comfortable in your company. If she’s not relaxed, it’s game over… she’ll be fakin it maybe.

Take your time , just make her feel at ease so she’s practically begging. After fingers and toys start kissing her body and nipples and work your way down and give her loads of oral maybe toys fingers too ............ should now be ready for sex and take your time .... its a feast not a snack .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha I love some of the advice given in these types of threads. Rub her bum ! Pmsl

works if you do a "wax on, wax off" motion

If you rub hard enough will a genie come out of her arsehole? "

Pmsl classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't concentrate on the orgasm , you will give her the impression that there is something wrong .. Some ladies can't orgasm but enjoy the ride .

I can't reach O at clubs , even with hitachi for 2 hrs so I just enjoy the ride

However I can have many little o with the right stimulation but for big O I usually do it myself with a partner watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes .. Nipples are my most erogenous zone ... Some guys think a little lick is enough

Get candles burning , good music , massage oils and a bucket of lube !!

Also she may be low on testosterone .. I went to my menopause dr because I couldn't orgasm and got some testosterone gel to apply daily .. I am not walking around permanently hot but when it comes to making love it is far more enjoyable now and my body lubes itself

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By *9MarkMan
over a year ago

North Cheam


"Is she able to make herself cum? If so ask her how, it's all about communication, I find it difficult with a lover, I need prolonged cliteral stimulation, however if I don't cum, it doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed it, I don't need to orgasm to have great sex. My advice, talk to her, but don't get hung up on it, make it fun and relax. Good luck"

You ask a question!...Well this is your answer....Well said Sugarkisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out tantric massage and g spot 101

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Get her a wand that will get her to cum for you"

she should be cumming for herself not for him.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

There ya go O.P a list of everyone explaining how THEY come.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


"There ya go O.P a list of everyone explaining how THEY come. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There ya go O.P a list of everyone explaining how THEY come. "
yes gran that's how I cum .. lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just a general observation - after having chuckled a fair bit ,reading the above comments...

We are not machines, guys. We have certain "buttons" - of course. But theat does not mean we orgasm instantly or even after hours of being licked...

We often respond better to a slow gradual and sensual build up without any pressure whatsoever to orgasm. In fact pressure, perceived or otherwise, is often the reason why we (and the blokes) "fail" to orgasm.

Finally, sex can be good even when the climax is not achieved. Trust me on that one

"

Totally agree, these fora are very informative and I think people would have much happier sex lives if they stopped taking notice of how everyone else enjoys sex and concentrated on what they like and are able to achieve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her feel the only girl in the world ................ special when having sex ... making love and that will do it ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Make her feel the only girl in the world ................ special when having sex ... making love and that will do it .. "

That is good advice in general but not fair to say that it will do the trick in my opinion! None of us know how this particular woman will achieve orgasm or even if she can, the only possible way to find out is to ask her. Good sex is about communication first and foremost and that's communication between the people who are doing it not communication with the rest of the world.

Getting information and tips from others is fine but putting pressure on someone to achieve an orgasm by trying stuff that works with other people will never work and this is more about male pride than anything I think.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Make her feel the only girl in the world ................ special when having sex ... making love and that will do it ..

That is good advice in general but not fair to say that it will do the trick in my opinion! None of us know how this particular woman will achieve orgasm or even if she can, the only possible way to find out is to ask her. Good sex is about communication first and foremost and that's communication between the people who are doing it not communication with the rest of the world.

Getting information and tips from others is fine but putting pressure on someone to achieve an orgasm by trying stuff that works with other people will never work and this is more about male pride than anything I think."

Don't get me started on the 'I can make any woman squirt' threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make her feel the only girl in the world ................ special when having sex ... making love and that will do it ..

That is good advice in general but not fair to say that it will do the trick in my opinion! None of us know how this particular woman will achieve orgasm or even if she can, the only possible way to find out is to ask her. Good sex is about communication first and foremost and that's communication between the people who are doing it not communication with the rest of the world.

Getting information and tips from others is fine but putting pressure on someone to achieve an orgasm by trying stuff that works with other people will never work and this is more about male pride than anything I think.

Don't get me started on the 'I can make any woman squirt' threads. "
lololol Gran there more to you then meets the eye .

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By *9MarkMan
over a year ago

North Cheam


"Make her feel the only girl in the world ................ special when having sex ... making love and that will do it ..

That is good advice in general but not fair to say that it will do the trick in my opinion! None of us know how this particular woman will achieve orgasm or even if she can, the only possible way to find out is to ask her. Good sex is about communication first and foremost and that's communication between the people who are doing it not communication with the rest of the world.

Getting information and tips from others is fine but putting pressure on someone to achieve an orgasm by trying stuff that works with other people will never work and this is more about male pride than anything I think."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Make her feel the only girl in the world ................ special when having sex ... making love and that will do it ..

That is good advice in general but not fair to say that it will do the trick in my opinion! None of us know how this particular woman will achieve orgasm or even if she can, the only possible way to find out is to ask her. Good sex is about communication first and foremost and that's communication between the people who are doing it not communication with the rest of the world.

Getting information and tips from others is fine but putting pressure on someone to achieve an orgasm by trying stuff that works with other people will never work and this is more about male pride than anything I think.

Don't get me started on the 'I can make any woman squirt' threads. "

Lol! Ok but they do get on your nerves dont they bless 'em.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area


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Don't get me started on the 'I can make any woman squirt' threads. "

Gawd I cringe when I see those....

Any man that believes he can make any woman cum/squirt/gush...whatever....are delusional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is this about clitoral or vaginal orgasms?????

both very different in my opinion lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "

So, my advice would be talk to your lover, find out what does it for her and if she tells you that she can't cum do not make it your mission in life to get her to do it. Take things slowly and assure her that it is fine with you of she doesn't as long as you know that she is enjoying herself and that you woudl love her to show you ways to ensure that she is enjoying herself.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Don't get me started on the 'I can make any woman squirt' threads.

Gawd I cringe when I see those....

Any man that believes he can make any woman cum/squirt/gush...whatever....are delusional "

I doubt even they believe it, they just think it will increase their chances of meeting all us women who are desperate to exprience this wonderful phenomena....not! It isn't just limited to men to be fair though.

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By *9MarkMan
over a year ago

North Cheam


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "

At the end of the day mate..There is only one person who can answer that question And that is your Woman. Talk to her find out what she wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some women struggle whatever you do, some can come quite easily, regardless of partner or what theyre doing, a woman knows her body best, im sure she has a great time... but when the times right, get her to show you and incorporate her doing it herself...but with the bonus of you aiding with a favourite of hers technique...you might even enjoy watching her do it herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very rare that anyone other than myself can bring me to orgasm.. And that isn't a dig at anyone I've been with at all, I've had some great sessions! Just don't often orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very rare that anyone other than myself can bring me to orgasm.. And that isn't a dig at anyone I've been with at all, I've had some great sessions! Just don't often orgasm."
I think a lot of woman are like this too ............ and can be better cumming at different times of the month too When I am just about to cum on I am as horny as hell and cum easy....... and at different ages of a woman ... Thing have to be right for me to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people seem to take it as an insult when they can't make you orgasm. It's kind of a vicious circle cause if someone gets all stressy about it I get stressy as well and then there's absolutely no chance of it happening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people seem to take it as an insult when they can't make you orgasm. It's kind of a vicious circle cause if someone gets all stressy about it I get stressy as well and then there's absolutely no chance of it happening!"
well at times the more you stress and others its not going to work .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get her a wand that will get her to cum for you"

not all women cum with a wand.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx

At the end of the day mate..There is only one person who can answer that question And that is your Woman. Talk to her find out what she wants. "

we'll said and coming from another man might have more impact.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Threads like this show that one size does not fit all. Just because other people are having orgasms, squirting, gushing, licking for hours, taking monster cocks in every orifice etc doesn't mean we all have to. Enjoying sex on your own terms is what it's all about and stuff what everyone else is doing or saying they're doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx

At the end of the day mate..There is only one person who can answer that question And that is your Woman. Talk to her find out what she wants.

we'll said and coming from another man might have more impact."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time"

Some women have very sensitive clits and this wouldn't work with them,.quite the opposite.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I also think this thread shows the level of misinformation about a Womans sexual needs. There is no foolproof way to make every woman achieve an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time"

Ide just squirt for England not come

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"It's very rare that anyone other than myself can bring me to orgasm.. And that isn't a dig at anyone I've been with at all, I've had some great sessions! Just don't often orgasm."

So true just a shame many guys don't get this concept !

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By *o1mrtlcMan
over a year ago

cannock


" Get her completely relaxed that's the KEY ..............

Now it’s a known fact that women find it much harder to “get off” and orgasm without any foreplay, so you should always try and introduce foreplay before sex, let those tricky fingers hang loose get toys out after fingers and lube too.

But even before foreplay, you have to get her totally relaxed so she’s comfortable in your company. If she’s not relaxed, it’s game over… she’ll be fakin it maybe.

Take your time , just make her feel at ease so she’s practically begging. After fingers and toys start kissing her body and nipples and work your way down and give her loads of oral maybe toys fingers too ............ should now be ready for sex and take your time .... its a feast not a snack . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "

Not trying to be rude. But dont ask us for advice. Ask HER!! She knows her body more than any of us do..let her guide you and tell you what she likes, how she wants you to touch her..and take it from there.

Fingers crossed it goes well..in these situations its best to talk to her than anyone else. All the answers to your questions; she has it.

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes me a long time to come but when I do OMFG its really very powerful! I have kicked a guy full force in the head before now!! And can shake for hours afterwards. Lol x

Perseverance, fingers and licking around the clit gently at first and be guided by her moans and groans as to how you carry on xx

To those of you who dont orgasm OMG thats just tragic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes me a long time to come but when I do OMFG its really very powerful! I have kicked a guy full force in the head before now!! And can shake for hours afterwards. Lol x

Perseverance, fingers and licking around the clit gently at first and be guided by her moans and groans as to how you carry on xx

To those of you who dont orgasm OMG thats just tragic

"

...love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time"

oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tickle her bum with a bunch of celery....

*courtesy of Stamford Bridge Orgasm Society*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time

oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl! "

actually it's something if done right is great. Lol but done right being the operative word. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "

Sometimes this just happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time

oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl!

actually it's something if done right is great. Lol but done right being the operative word. Xxx"

I can't even do that to myself, far too sensitive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tragic here lol. I still enjoy sex, when I get some

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..


"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time

oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl!

actually it's something if done right is great. Lol but done right being the operative word. Xxx

I can't even do that to myself, far too sensitive!"

your not the only one.. iv tried so many times to do that but i just end up sooooo sensitive.. that it almost hurts more than the pleasure..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Just tickle her bum with a bunch of celery....

*courtesy of Stamford Bridge Orgasm Society*

"

Yeah and wiggle some sprigs of parsley round her nipples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i got a wand for her"

Wave the wand , say the magic words and change her into raging nymphomaniac, or a bottle of new world merlit, depending on how you feel at the time

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time

oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl! "

I crossed my legs and winced at 'pull her clit hood apart' ...... mine goes backwards n I believe they still make them that way nowadays....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"i got a wand for her

Wave the wand , say the magic words and change her into raging nymphomaniac, or a bottle of new world merlit, depending on how you feel at the time "

Izzy Wizzy - Let's get bizzy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i got a wand for her

Wave the wand , say the magic words and change her into raging nymphomaniac, or a bottle of new world merlit, depending on how you feel at the time "

MERLOT !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"i got a wand for her

Wave the wand , say the magic words and change her into raging nymphomaniac, or a bottle of new world merlit, depending on how you feel at the time

MERLOT !"

It's okay. You have the Merlit if you want the Merlit.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Pull her clit hood apart and lick or finger wank her exposed clit - works every time

oh my god the thought of someone "finger wanking" my exposed clit just made my toes curl!

I crossed my legs and winced at 'pull her clit hood apart' ...... mine goes backwards n I believe they still make them that way nowadays.... "

me too but maybe things have moved on since I was born.

Seriously though I know I've said it before but the lack of knowledge of female sexuality and anatomy displayed is staggering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i got a wand for her

Wave the wand , say the magic words and change her into raging nymphomaniac, or a bottle of new world merlit, depending on how you feel at the time

MERLOT !

It's okay. You have the Merlit if you want the Merlit. "

Clink, clink

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

dont worry ... ask her what she likes . if she ever says dont stop do not stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "

You have to find the right spot and be gentle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not written in stone that you HAVE TO ORGASM to enjoy sex..........

some can enjoy without orgasm. some cant.

as long as both are enjoying the experience.....why worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend that has never cum in her life

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Its not written in stone that you HAVE TO ORGASM to enjoy sex..........

some can enjoy without orgasm. some cant.

as long as both are enjoying the experience.....why worry "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, i haven't read the whole post, (as i don't want to scroll through countless guys explaining how to make a lass gush/squirt, lol) but, isn't it better to sit down with your partner and ask HER what turns HER on! That way you both learn the others likes and dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Magic Wand - If that dont work , check to see if she has a pulse !!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sorry, i haven't read the whole post, (as i don't want to scroll through countless guys explaining how to make a lass gush/squirt, lol) but, isn't it better to sit down with your partner and ask HER what turns HER on! That way you both learn the others likes and dislikes."

yes!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Magic Wand - If that dont work , check to see if she has a pulse !!!!!"

how rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, i haven't read the whole post, (as i don't want to scroll through countless guys explaining how to make a lass gush/squirt, lol) but, isn't it better to sit down with your partner and ask HER what turns HER on! That way you both learn the others likes and dislikes.

yes!"

Also ask her if she wants to cum. She might not actually want to or be bothered by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alternatively you could google jason julius!!

That man is a god and I praise him every time I cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her what she likes ? That feel good simple. and if she don't know maybe she need to learn about her own body first .

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I simply had to come back to this thread before going off on a bike ride - pardon the pun.

I cannot remember when a thread has made me chuckle this much - not the OP, he has a valid point in asking a question and it is great to see that guys do care about our happiness and satisfaction.

It is just the advice given on here, from licking for hours, pulling apart an exposed clit to God knows what....

it's the script for a new...

Carry on cumming

Brilliant and thank you for ust genuine entertainment

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

any update yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I simply had to come back to this thread before going off on a bike ride - pardon the pun.

I cannot remember when a thread has made me chuckle this much - not the OP, he has a valid point in asking a question and it is great to see that guys do care about our happiness and satisfaction.

It is just the advice given on here, from licking for hours, pulling apart an exposed clit to God knows what....

it's the script for a new...

Carry on cumming

Brilliant and thank you for ust genuine entertainment "

well said Enjoy your bike ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longer life batteries should work

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

Women are all different and each has there own turn on. Was'nt till we started swinging that we found out out what coming was all about. When I was told I had a lot to learn it really Spurred me on to work it out. Since then have had some great experiences and can pass on what we know to others. Bottom line is a women has got to want to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her cum?

Since when did women become robots? You can't make a women do anything and why would you want to?

Talk to her, find out her likes and dislikes. Go back to basics take your time. Sex ain't just about making a women cum its about making her feel special and worth it. Not all women cum from oral or intercourse some do some don't, simple.

So take your time. Talk have a laugh and make her feel like the only women alive and what's more just enjoy being with her....

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Make her cum?

Since when did women become robots? You can't make a women do anything and why would you want to?

Talk to her, find out her likes and dislikes. Go back to basics take your time. Sex ain't just about making a women cum its about making her feel special and worth it. Not all women cum from oral or intercourse some do some don't, simple.

So take your time. Talk have a laugh and make her feel like the only women alive and what's more just enjoy being with her...."

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales


"im looking for advice.....im struggling to make my lover cum,ive tried various techniques,but im getting nowhere fast,my fingers just dont seem to work for her.xxxx "

Always make sure your hands are soft, our bits are delicate......but yes yes to all the posts advising asking the lady, tis simple isn't it?

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