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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else think there are too many people on here that fantasise about swinging and just give people the run around. Maybe they should create a new site for these people (FabFantasies). Then the rest of us that do take it seriously can get on with it knowing we are not talking to a time waster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really there are lots on here who use the site for what its supposed to be used for. Ok some people are selective and don't meet that often but its down to the individual how they use the site as I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they're honest about what they want x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Dont waste your time talking to them then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many people worry about what others are doing to much!!

People are free to use the site in whichever way they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i tell u this please dont be offended..much of our current reality is based on fantasty

flying cars,spaceships,aeroplanes..etc etc etc

its basically the same for people...sometimes we fantasize and it becomes a reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew I'm so relieved that I have seen a thread about time wasters today , I was getting worried thought they had all left the site

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

All down to expectations - not dissimilar to any other social activity. If you have very clealry defined ideas as to what should happen and when and where etc (I mean that symbolically) then you will end up disappointed.

If you approach it with an open mind - you might be pleasantly surprised. Different people get different things out of the site.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Use it for what you want to..

if that works for you..sorted

likewise worry not about how others want to use it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else think there are too many people on here that fantasise about swinging and just give people the run around. Maybe they should create a new site for these people (FabFantasies). Then the rest of us that do take it seriously can get on with it knowing we are not talking to a time waster?"

No I don't, I very rarely come accross anyone that is what people call a time waster or fantasist and on the rare occasions I have, they are very easy to spot. A simple block and move on, the only person that lets someone waste your time is you, if you are having problems, change how you ate using the site, that's the only control you have xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the owner of the sister site 'fabwhingers'

No one actually meets but boy do they have some fun bleating about it and blaming other people for it.

I am also in the final stage of establishing a rival site called 'great expectations' aimed at single men who think joining a swingers site guarantees a regular parting of legs at the mere utterance of the words 'nice tits'

Subscriptions are already being keenly contested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am the owner of the sister site 'fabwhingers'

No one actually meets but boy do they have some fun bleating about it and blaming other people for it.

I am also in the final stage of establishing a rival site called 'great expectations' aimed at single men who think joining a swingers site guarantees a regular parting of legs at the mere utterance of the words 'nice tits'

Subscriptions are already being keenly contested."

wanna remove anything that mentions 'keen' on that!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Too many people worry about what others are doing to much!!

People are free to use the site in whichever way they like "

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Does anyone else think there are too many people on here that fantasise about swinging and just give people the run around. Maybe they should create a new site for these people (FabFantasies). Then the rest of us that do take it seriously can get on with it knowing we are not talking to a time waster?"

well we are not timewasters but dont meet very often as we can't due to work and young family. however when peolle message and are not for us we make it clear that if they wanna chat no worries but it will not lead to a meet. usually at that point they bugger off.

If they message and are okay they get told so but also made clear if and when we may or maynot be able to meet.

So we happily make it clear straight away. so just because we have very busy lives and family which come way ahead of swinging does not mean we are not swingers. we certainly are not hardened swingers but you dont only get classed as swingers if you meet more than a certain number of times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really there are lots on here who use the site for what its supposed to be used for. Ok some people are selective and don't meet that often but its down to the individual how they use the site as I see it. "

That seems a lil contractery.. Use the site for what its meant for - then - they can use it how they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really there are lots on here who use the site for what its supposed to be used for. Ok some people are selective and don't meet that often but its down to the individual how they use the site as I see it. "

I was a bit selective or fussy when I joined, not so much now, but have had some cancellations due to things beyond their control. Cant seem to get anywhere though, but plodding on as they say. I like the forums, makes for interesting reading, so keeps me going.

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham


"Does anyone else think there are too many people on here that fantasise about swinging and just give people the run around. Maybe they should create a new site for these people (FabFantasies). Then the rest of us that do take it seriously can get on with it knowing we are not talking to a time waster?"

Saw this bloke in the pub last night and he wasn't even drinking! Bloody time wasters should be banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use FAB the way I see fit. If peeps don't like it, it is their problem, not mine!

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"I am the owner of the sister site 'fabwhingers'

No one actually meets but boy do they have some fun bleating about it and blaming other people for it.

I am also in the final stage of establishing a rival site called 'great expectations' aimed at single men who think joining a swingers site guarantees a regular parting of legs at the mere utterance of the words 'nice tits'

Subscriptions are already being keenly contested."

LMAO, Maybe you could open another site for those swingers with religious beliefs called "The Moses Effect", guaranteed to part more than the Red Sea....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else think there are too many people on here that fantasise about swinging and just give people the run around. Maybe they should create a new site for these people (FabFantasies). Then the rest of us that do take it seriously can get on with it knowing we are not talking to a time waster?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phew I'm so relieved that I have seen a thread about time wasters today , I was getting worried thought they had all left the site "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me that finds the "user no longer on site" status of the OP mildly ironic - since he/she/they were 'so serious' about swinging!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

just because you haven't met anyone does not immediately reduce everyone on the site to 'time waster' status.. it may well be that they are just meeting people other than yourself

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick


"Is it just me that finds the "user no longer on site" status of the OP mildly ironic - since he/she/they were 'so serious' about swinging! "

Of course it's just you.

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD


"I am the owner of the sister site 'fabwhingers'

No one actually meets but boy do they have some fun bleating about it and blaming other people for it.

I am also in the final stage of establishing a rival site called 'great expectations' aimed at single men who think joining a swingers site guarantees a regular parting of legs at the mere utterance of the words 'nice tits'

Subscriptions are already being keenly contested."

this made me laugh so much my stomach hurts

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