FabSwingers.com forum: Women, have you ever initiated the actual sex?

By *ruceyy OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

Have you ever just gone right, enough tomfoolery, I want to press these breasts right up against you and get kissing?!

Or is that their job?

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By *amie HantsWoman
3 weeks ago

Atlantis

I do a lot. I don’t want to always be the one to but it’s quite it

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By *LiamMan
3 weeks ago

Midlands

Women near enough always initiate it. Well in my world

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
3 weeks ago

Swansea

Yes absolutely I have.

Mrs

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By *unlovinfuckersCouple
3 weeks ago

stafs

Yes

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By *atinaChica54Woman
3 weeks ago

Marlborough

Often just plunged straight into "the sex"

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
3 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

Are we pressing someone elses breasts up against you Bruceyy? 😉

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Of course 💜

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By *ruceyy OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

"I do a lot. I don’t want to always be the one to but it’s quite it "

Do it with me xox

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By *ruceyy OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

"Women near enough always initiate it. Well in my world"

Ain't easy being dreamy Liam!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

"Often just plunged straight into "the sex" "

You Latinas, what are you like!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

"Are we pressing someone elses breasts up against you Bruceyy? 😉"

You just need to start with being in the same room as me first please you snack!

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
3 weeks ago

Wolvo

Yup i have been the initiator of the sex.

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By *ad NannaWoman
3 weeks ago

East London

Not often. I'm scared of getting an angry reaction, and told to get off.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
3 weeks ago

Northerner

Absolutely have

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By *ugarbearCouple
3 weeks ago

Tredegar

Once i was in aclub and guy kept looking at me all night so i said him if you want to fuck me take out the back and fuck me

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yes but the nurse told me that's not how a mammogram works.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
3 weeks ago

Next Door

Yes and it was very enjoyable.

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By *nya NeesWoman
3 weeks ago

Brum

I prefer to

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By *orbidden eastMan
3 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Well, that would be nice

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Have you ever just gone right, enough tomfoolery, I want to press these breasts right up against you and get kissing?!

Or is that their job?"

Is this a serious question Brucey or are you just setting a thread rolling?

Mrs TMN x

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
3 weeks ago

M20

They definitely do. I like to dance. Twice I’ve been on the dance floor with my eyes closed to have a stranger walk straight up and start snogging me.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Typically it has me that initiates it 80% of the time but not always and I love it when it's the other person that initiates it. Feeling wanted and desired is a fabulous feeling.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
3 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

The actual sex? Not sure. It may have only been the fake sex.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

"They definitely do. I like to dance. Twice I’ve been on the dance floor with my eyes closed to have a stranger walk straight up and start snogging me. "

Why do you close your eyes on the dancefloor?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

"The actual sex? Not sure. It may have only been the fake sex."

Fake it til you make it Nel!

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

once

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By *orphia2003Woman
3 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, many times.

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By *anilla switchWoman
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

Absolutely not

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By *ruceyy OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

"Absolutely not

Well you're sexy ain't ya!

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
3 weeks ago

M20

"They definitely do. I like to dance. Twice I’ve been on the dance floor with my eyes closed to have a stranger walk straight up and start snogging me.

Why do you close your eyes on the dancefloor?"

If I’m enjoying dancing I often close my eyes. Try it, maybe that’s the secret. Good luck! Let us know if it works for you

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Yes lots of times if I'm feeling brave

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

I've leapt on a few guys in my time

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

If they didn't, I'd still be a virgin 😅

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

All the time

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By *adam PadamWoman
3 weeks ago

leeds

Yes. Quite often. I remember one meet, he was so polite, I just asked shall we have some hot sex?

This was after the argument of so What'd you wanna do? Polite, sometimes you gotta jump the hurdle.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Absolutely loads of times

Walk in

Initiate

Take what I want

Leave

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By *B69Woman
3 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Yes when I’ve needed to

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By *unhungguyMan
3 weeks ago

leeds

As a fireman I love my job and telling people what I do as women love it and it a great way to start flirting haha

xxx

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By *ookie46Woman
3 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Plenty of times Brucey

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By *mmaleiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Always

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By *midnight-Woman
3 weeks ago

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What the alternative..let them run 😳😳 gotta get them fast before they change their mind!

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By *rincipessaWoman
3 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

Er if I want it, I’m coming for it. Unless we’re playing that game to see who’s in control, and who’ll crack first. If I’m horny, I’m giving in, I admit it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

Often

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
3 weeks ago

Markfield

Is the actual sex different to the sex?

I find if there is any element of doubt as to what is going to happen next, I ask if they would like to get naked and that seems to work quite well as an indicator that the sex will be allowed to happen.

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By *ickedtiesWoman
3 weeks ago

limerick

Yeah I have on occasion 😇

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By *ady SuzieXXXWoman
3 weeks ago

Chichester

Yes.

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By *hortyscotWoman
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Frequently

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West

"Have you ever just gone right, enough tomfoolery, I want to press these breasts right up against you and get kissing?!

Or is that their job?"

I do so often.

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By *enrythe8thMan
3 weeks ago

worthing

I adore a sexy megahorny wild dirty ass minx just taking sex when she wants

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

Of course

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chester

Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chester

But in answer to your question, yes I've initiated sex more than I haven't, hope that helps

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
3 weeks ago

Wherever

Moi? Never.

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By *ildTimes.Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"But in answer to your question, yes I've initiated sex more than I haven't, hope that helps

They weren't that keen then? 😂

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chester

"But in answer to your question, yes I've initiated sex more than I haven't, hope that helps

They weren't that keen then? 😂"

Apparently, they don't like being put on all fours 🤷‍♀️

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By *loomy GirlWoman
3 weeks ago

leicester

Yes, once lol. I was d*unk

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By *oxy-RedWoman
3 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Yes on more than one occasion

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By *ildTimes.Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"But in answer to your question, yes I've initiated sex more than I haven't, hope that helps

They weren't that keen then? 😂

Apparently, they don't like being put on all fours 🤷‍♀️"

What an odd thing to say 😂

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chester

"But in answer to your question, yes I've initiated sex more than I haven't, hope that helps

They weren't that keen then? 😂

Apparently, they don't like being put on all fours 🤷‍♀️

What an odd thing to say 😂"

Is it though? That's what put them off. I think it left them feeling confused 🤷‍♀️

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
3 weeks ago

Markfield

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂"

Le sexy time?

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chester

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Le sexy time? "

That might possibly be worse

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By *sWyldWoman
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Nope, what if they say no?

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
3 weeks ago

Gloucester

Yes quite often.

Kink (Mrs)

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By *ildTimes.Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"Nope, what if they say no? "

They're Gay! 🥪

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Le sexy time?

That might possibly be worse

Das Sex?

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Yes, quite a lot of times

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By *ildTimes.Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"But in answer to your question, yes I've initiated sex more than I haven't, hope that helps

They weren't that keen then? 😂

Apparently, they don't like being put on all fours 🤷‍♀️

What an odd thing to say 😂

Is it though? That's what put them off. I think it left them feeling confused 🤷‍♀️"

I don't doubt it...why would they on all fou....oh! 😳😳😳

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By *dam1971Man
3 weeks ago

Bedford

This is good data, keep it coming please.

I’m updating some of your dossiers here.

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By *amon.dMan
3 weeks ago

antrim

We like to feel wanted now and again. If you want it come and get it I say.

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Le sexy time?

That might possibly be worse

A bit of the ol' rumpy pumpy?

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By *aitonelMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂"

Nope! It was being called the sex before I was here, and I'll be damned if I stop now.

The fact it annoys a few people makes it all the better.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
3 weeks ago

Durham

Christ yes! I am however, just recently, slightly more reserved than I used to be. Need to up my game.

Ruby

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chester

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Le sexy time?

That might possibly be worse

A bit of the ol' rumpy pumpy?"

Joe! 🤦‍♀️😂

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chester

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Nope! It was being called the sex before I was here, and I'll be damned if I stop now.

The fact it annoys a few people makes it all the better. "

But would you say it out loud?

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By *eesside AnubisMan
3 weeks ago

North East

Only ever had a woman initiate it once and that was when I lost my virginity

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By *exySiren01Woman
3 weeks ago

RCT

Yes absolutely 💯

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By *aitonelMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Nope! It was being called the sex before I was here, and I'll be damned if I stop now.

The fact it annoys a few people makes it all the better.

But would you say it out loud?

Of course. Did you not see me say if it annoys people all the better? Irritating people and loving it is a human right.

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By *alentedfMan
3 weeks ago

Near Newbury

"What the alternative..let them run 😳😳 gotta get them fast before they change their mind!"

Brilliant love this

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By *ags73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Woke up with a BJ once.

Otherwise, got grabbed once after a party and that’s about it

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By *ags73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂"

Is ‘that sex’ better?

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By *he ShivsCouple
3 weeks ago

Fife

Occasionally.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chester

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Is ‘that sex’ better?"

How about just.. and this sounds crazy.. sex 🤷‍♀️

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
3 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Have you ever just gone right, enough tomfoolery, I want to press these breasts right up against you and get kissing?!

Or is that their job?"
i quite often initiate sex but I don't kiss people really ... so just get straight to it

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By *ags73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Is ‘that sex’ better?

How about just.. and this sounds crazy.. sex 🤷‍♀️"

I know. But I suppose there’s sex and sex. I’ll try and not say ‘the sex in future tho. (Apart from then)

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
3 weeks ago

Markfield

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Is ‘that sex’ better?

How about just.. and this sounds crazy.. sex 🤷‍♀️"

Sucky fucky?

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
3 weeks ago

Markfield

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Is ‘that sex’ better?

How about just.. and this sounds crazy.. sex 🤷‍♀️"

Crazy sex. Hmmmm.

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By *ags73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Is ‘that sex’ better?

How about just.. and this sounds crazy.. sex 🤷‍♀️

Sucky fucky?"

If only.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
3 weeks ago

Markfield

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Le sexy time?

That might possibly be worse

. Were you a lil bit sick in your mouth? That much worse?

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By *ags73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Le sexy time? "

My French is really poor.

But also reminds me of classic Rick Mayall.

Who speaks French and likes blow jobs?

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
3 weeks ago

Markfield

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Is ‘that sex’ better?

How about just.. and this sounds crazy.. sex 🤷‍♀️

Sucky fucky?

If only.

🤣 touché 😘

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By *enk15Man
3 weeks ago

Evesham

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Is ‘that sex’ better?

How about just.. and this sounds crazy.. sex 🤷‍♀️

Sucky fucky?"

The Devil’s dance

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By *ags73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Le sexy time?

That might possibly be worse

A bit of the ol' rumpy pumpy?"

That’s worse

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By *aitonelMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Can we please stop calling it "the sex"😬😂

Is ‘that sex’ better?

How about just.. and this sounds crazy.. sex 🤷‍♀️"

Nah. The sex

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Nooo I’m far to innocent and demure for initiating actual sex

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By *ags73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Nooo I’m far to innocent and demure for initiating actual sex

Drat.

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By *tew008Man
3 weeks ago

edinburgh

they do that?

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
3 weeks ago

newcastle

Yes of course. If we meet and hubby isn't sure I'll take control xxx

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By *edstockings2Couple
3 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

As I (Mrs) have a high sex drive so it's normally me that starts things off.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

Of course I have x

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By *atthewandjane.1984Couple
3 weeks ago

northampton

yes loads

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By *ot MediterraneanCouple
3 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

Of course I have !

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By *unlovinfuckersCouple
3 weeks ago

stafs

"Of course I have ! "

That just makes you even sexier

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By *is and hers 2024Couple
3 weeks ago

york

My wife initiates roughly 20-30% of the time, but it's mainly a confidence thing which is daft because she's gorgeous. She has mentioned all these fantasises that she has but struggles to just go for it (bad previous relationships).

Love it when she does just go for things though.

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