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"What do you think, OP? "Is my wife a very lucky woman? | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? " You could have left it at do get messages from women at all haha | |||
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"Love a massage. Check my pics. Have a a compliment many times" That's good but what do you think about my question?  | |||
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"What do you think, OP?
Is my wife a very lucky woman?"You're not married but if you were I'd hope it was more than luck that attracted her to you | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? You could have left it at do get messages from women at all haha " | |||
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"Yes, occasi, but I get more from men!" Women tell you your wife is a lucky woman? | |||
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"Do men ever get a message from a woman full stop?!?!!" I suppose that if the answer to that is no then the answer to my question is the same | |||
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"Yes, occasi, but I get more from men! Women tell you your wife is a lucky woman?" Yes, and not just on here... | |||
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"Yes, occasi, but I get more from men! Women tell you your wife is a lucky woman? Yes, and not just on here... "Good | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? " I haven't... But interestingly, do men EVER really get compliments? It's quite often discussed in and around men's mental health that men realise early on that they won't often (if ever) get compliments and is usually why most guys struggle to accept them without laughing them off. If you've got a fella in your life that is a pretty good egg and you want to make his day (if not his whole week), give him a spontaneous compliment and a hug and watch how he reacts. | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? I haven't... But interestingly, do men EVER really get compliments? It's quite often discussed in and around men's mental health that men realise early on that they won't often (if ever) get compliments and is usually why most guys struggle to accept them without laughing them off. If you've got a fella in your life that is a pretty good egg and you want to make his day (if not his whole week), give him a spontaneous compliment and a hug and watch how he reacts." I guess they don't in the way that women do. Women will compliment each other easily. Men and women complimenting each other is a more complicated issue I feel. | |||
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"I may have thought it but I likely wouldn't ever say it " Is there a reason for that? | |||
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"When I had a couples profile I received a message saying I was very lucky "So they told you not him? | |||
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"It has been said to me before, but the opposite was the more frequent expression e.g. You lucky bastard, how did you pull that off? Or words to that effect." Yeah, that's what I thought | |||
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"I may have thought it but I likely wouldn't ever say it Is there a reason for that?" These days I say very little! | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? " All the time and yes she is  | |||
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"When I had a couples profile I received a message saying I was very lucky
So they told you not him?"Yes she told me I was lucky to have him. | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? I haven't... But interestingly, do men EVER really get compliments? It's quite often discussed in and around men's mental health that men realise early on that they won't often (if ever) get compliments and is usually why most guys struggle to accept them without laughing them off. If you've got a fella in your life that is a pretty good egg and you want to make his day (if not his whole week), give him a spontaneous compliment and a hug and watch how he reacts. I guess they don't in the way that women do. Women will compliment each other easily. Men and women complimenting each other is a more complicated issue I feel. " Is it only more complicated because of perceptions, preconceptions and assumptions? I hear women at work regularly compliment other women but when men do it it's perceived to have some sort of sexual agenda (unless he'd gay). Is that because history has taught us that there is or because society has told us that there is? But yes, it's more complex outside of relationships but that shouldn't be the case in relationships. In my experience, there has always been an imbalance there too. | |||
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"I may have thought it but I likely wouldn't ever say it Is there a reason for that? These days I say very little! " Wise move | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? All the time and yes she is "Woo hoo! | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? I haven't... But interestingly, do men EVER really get compliments? It's quite often discussed in and around men's mental health that men realise early on that they won't often (if ever) get compliments and is usually why most guys struggle to accept them without laughing them off. If you've got a fella in your life that is a pretty good egg and you want to make his day (if not his whole week), give him a spontaneous compliment and a hug and watch how he reacts. I guess they don't in the way that women do. Women will compliment each other easily. Men and women complimenting each other is a more complicated issue I feel. Is it only more complicated because of perceptions, preconceptions and assumptions? I hear women at work regularly compliment other women but when men do it it's perceived to have some sort of sexual agenda (unless he'd gay). Is that because history has taught us that there is or because society has told us that there is? But yes, it's more complex outside of relationships but that shouldn't be the case in relationships. In my experience, there has always been an imbalance there too." I think perceptions and preconceptions are unavoidable and will always complicate matters. I will always assume a man I don't know well has an agenda if he compliments me because experience has taught me that is the case 99% of the time. I agree that in relationships we should tell people that we appreciate them, they look nice, etc etc | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? " • Yes, frequently. I ask them "which one?", for when you're a quintessential philanderer like me who has a paramour in every city and every port from Lake Geneva to the Finland whaling station, it's hard to keep up. I may be lucky but rest assured they are luckier. 🧸 | |||
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"What’s a woman " · A sentient being, often the cause and the doom of men. | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? I haven't... But interestingly, do men EVER really get compliments? It's quite often discussed in and around men's mental health that men realise early on that they won't often (if ever) get compliments and is usually why most guys struggle to accept them without laughing them off. If you've got a fella in your life that is a pretty good egg and you want to make his day (if not his whole week), give him a spontaneous compliment and a hug and watch how he reacts." Maybe if I had i wouldn't have lost him. As they say. You don't know what you had until it is gone. I believe many women are just as guilty as guys for taking their partners for granted. We have a stereotypical view of what out man should be, men in general. Wish I could tell him all the things I should have, when we were together.  | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? " No on that one My wife passed away Think I’m classed as widowed  | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? I haven't... But interestingly, do men EVER really get compliments? It's quite often discussed in and around men's mental health that men realise early on that they won't often (if ever) get compliments and is usually why most guys struggle to accept them without laughing them off. If you've got a fella in your life that is a pretty good egg and you want to make his day (if not his whole week), give him a spontaneous compliment and a hug and watch how he reacts. Maybe if I had i wouldn't have lost him. As they say. You don't know what you had until it is gone. I believe many women are just as guilty as guys for taking their partners for granted. We have a stereotypical view of what out man should be, men in general. Wish I could tell him all the things I should have, when we were together. "Sorry to hear that, and it'll be scanty consolation but I think most people have a similar story. Sometimes we learn the lesson too late. hope you find your happy... | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? I haven't... But interestingly, do men EVER really get compliments? It's quite often discussed in and around men's mental health that men realise early on that they won't often (if ever) get compliments and is usually why most guys struggle to accept them without laughing them off. If you've got a fella in your life that is a pretty good egg and you want to make his day (if not his whole week), give him a spontaneous compliment and a hug and watch how he reacts. I guess they don't in the way that women do. Women will compliment each other easily. Men and women complimenting each other is a more complicated issue I feel. Is it only more complicated because of perceptions, preconceptions and assumptions? I hear women at work regularly compliment other women but when men do it it's perceived to have some sort of sexual agenda (unless he'd gay). Is that because history has taught us that there is or because society has told us that there is? But yes, it's more complex outside of relationships but that shouldn't be the case in relationships. In my experience, there has always been an imbalance there too. I think perceptions and preconceptions are unavoidable and will always complicate matters. I will always assume a man I don't know well has an agenda if he compliments me because experience has taught me that is the case 99% of the time. I agree that in relationships we should tell people that we appreciate them, they look nice, etc etc " I find that 99% affirmation interesting... I bet you can't back it up, and that's fine. We all do it so I'm not calling you out. Just highlights to me the habits we accept shape our world. You mentioned to someone on a previous thread about not being able to help themselves being wrong (I think it was about cheating) and I agree. We choose our behaviours and habits. And because it's happened often, doesn't mean it's nearly always the case due to confirmation bias. You may receive 100 compliments, 10 are with an agenda but you only "think" you've received 11 compliments. And even if it's a majority of cases, is it fair to tar everyone with the same brush? What's the worst that could happen if you assume it's meant with friendly intent until proven wrong? As soon as they show their true colours, you can react accordingly to them. Anyway, I just find it interesting how people think... | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? " I've had comments to that effect in person but never in the inbox | |||
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"I get messages saying my hand is very lucky to be able to touch a cock like mine. Does that count? 😆 🤣 " No Chunky it doesn't! We've talked about this | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? • Yes, frequently. I ask them "which one?", for when you're a quintessential philanderer like me who has a paramour in every city and every port from Lake Geneva to the Finland whaling station, it's hard to keep up. I may be lucky but rest assured they are luckier. 🧸" A man with confidence! | |||
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"What’s a woman " A person, similar in many ways to a man | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? No on that one My wife passed away Think I’m classed as widowed "Sorry to hear that | |||
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"I guess it’s great to get a very positive verification(s) OP does that count if so then Lucky so far … they have been complimentary! " It all counts | |||
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"I can't see that being the case, no. At least it would be extremely rare." It does appear that way | |||
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"No, but thats ok as she knows how lucky she is.. .."But not as lucky as I am ..  | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? I haven't... But interestingly, do men EVER really get compliments? It's quite often discussed in and around men's mental health that men realise early on that they won't often (if ever) get compliments and is usually why most guys struggle to accept them without laughing them off. If you've got a fella in your life that is a pretty good egg and you want to make his day (if not his whole week), give him a spontaneous compliment and a hug and watch how he reacts. I guess they don't in the way that women do. Women will compliment each other easily. Men and women complimenting each other is a more complicated issue I feel. Is it only more complicated because of perceptions, preconceptions and assumptions? I hear women at work regularly compliment other women but when men do it it's perceived to have some sort of sexual agenda (unless he'd gay). Is that because history has taught us that there is or because society has told us that there is? But yes, it's more complex outside of relationships but that shouldn't be the case in relationships. In my experience, there has always been an imbalance there too. I think perceptions and preconceptions are unavoidable and will always complicate matters. I will always assume a man I don't know well has an agenda if he compliments me because experience has taught me that is the case 99% of the time. I agree that in relationships we should tell people that we appreciate them, they look nice, etc etc I find that 99% affirmation interesting... I bet you can't back it up, and that's fine. We all do it so I'm not calling you out. Just highlights to me the habits we accept shape our world. You mentioned to someone on a previous thread about not being able to help themselves being wrong (I think it was about cheating) and I agree. We choose our behaviours and habits. And because it's happened often, doesn't mean it's nearly always the case due to confirmation bias. You may receive 100 compliments, 10 are with an agenda but you only "think" you've received 11 compliments. And even if it's a majority of cases, is it fair to tar everyone with the same brush? What's the worst that could happen if you assume it's meant with friendly intent until proven wrong? As soon as they show their true colours, you can react accordingly to them. Anyway, I just find it interesting how people think... " My experience has definitely been that 99% of men that I don't know well have an agenda if they compliment me. The pertinent phrase here is 'that I don't know well'. Have you just told me that what I have experienced in my adult life isn't what I think I've experienced ? | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? I've had comments to that effect in person but never in the inbox "But do they ever tell him? | |||
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"No, but thats ok as she knows how lucky she is.. .."Good | |||
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"I do not" There may still be time | |||
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"When I was in a threesum with a couple that I knew for years she said she liked my cock & I was better at licking her pussy, I don't know if he knew ?? " I don't know if you have a wife but in a roundabout way she was saying she was lucky if you did | |||
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"I do not There may still be time" Impossible! I'll never be married! | |||
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"I do not There may still be time Impossible! I'll never be married! " :saves quote for best woman speech: | |||
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"When I was in a threesum with a couple that I knew for years she said she liked my cock & I was better at licking her pussy, I don't know if he knew ?? I don't know if you have a wife but in a roundabout way she was saying she was lucky if you did" Yea I did a girlfriend who new we swung tried it but didn't want to carry on I carried on in 3sum as she had a high sex drive | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? No on that one My wife passed away Think I’m classed as widowed
Sorry to hear that "It happens to lot of us unfortunately Lose our wives and husband’s we cope try move on a lot time it’s hard but we try our best  | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? No on that one My wife passed away Think I’m classed as widowed
Sorry to hear that
It happens to lot of us unfortunately
Lose our wives and husband’s we cope try move on a lot time it’s hard but we try our best "Yes it must be hard. My mum died nearly three years ago, her and my dad had been married 67 years. He's adjusting to living alone in his mid nineties and doing remarkably well. | |||
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"No, but when people see us together I often get that look that says “what the hell is she doing with you?”" Rude though isn't it. | |||
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"I get messages saying my hand is very lucky to be able to touch a cock like mine. Does that count? 😆 🤣 No Chunky it doesn't! We've talked about this "Sorry mistress.  | |||
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"No, but when people see us together I often get that look that says “what the hell is she doing with you?” Rude though isn't it." Yeah… but fair 😅 | |||
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"I get messages saying my hand is very lucky to be able to touch a cock like mine. Does that count? 😆 🤣 No Chunky it doesn't! We've talked about this
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? No on that one My wife passed away Think I’m classed as widowed
Sorry to hear that
It happens to lot of us unfortunately
Lose our wives and husband’s we cope try move on a lot time it’s hard but we try our best
Yes it must be hard. My mum died nearly three years ago, her and my dad had been married 67 years. He's adjusting to living alone in his mid nineties and doing remarkably well. "Good to hear he’s doing well | |||
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"I don't know if I'm reading it right - I have messaged couples accounts and told the males that their wives are very lucky !? The wives all replied to say they knew "You are reading it right | |||
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" No , but single again so please do if you want to try it " Good luck! | |||
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"I get told by my wife i have a nice bum semi regularly. Can't get used to it but it's nice." | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? " I used to get messages from both men and women to tell me I was punching with my ex and how lucky I was It used to fuck me off tbh It's hardly flattering- definite you're a munter, but your other half is hot" vibes | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? I've had comments to that effect in person but never in the inbox
But do they ever tell him?"No! | |||
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"I’m not married, I am indeed the lucky one "Good! | |||
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"ever get messages from women telling them their wife is a very lucky woman? I used to get messages from both men and women to tell me I was punching with my ex and how lucky I was It used to fuck me off tbh It's hardly flattering- definite you're a munter, but your other half is hot" vibes" Yeah. On our daughter's wedding day all her husband's friends were saying he was punching above his weight. I know they were trying to be complimentary but 🤷 | |||
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"I'm my experience, the only compliments i ever receive are from people that only want or need something. At least half of all men have never received a compliment. Especially from the opposite sex." 😟 | |||
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"Only compliments i get are off guys, and i know they're probably sat playing with their tallywacker so they mean fuck all 😂" | |||
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"I have had a guy tell me that before when he came over to join us both for a mmf" He told you your wife was lucky? | |||
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"Messages from women? What is this skullduggery of which you speak? "Apparently it happens 🤷 | |||
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"No, but I also don't have a wife 😓" Get one. They keep your feet warm at night | |||
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"No, but I also don't have a wife 😓 Get one. They keep your feet warm at night "I use a certain anatomical structure on my husband to warm up my hands each night. | |||
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