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By *ornym66 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Col /ips

Do you agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

East Sussex

No I don't.

It's just a fact of fab life really.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
3 weeks ago

The Continental

No.

I accept it and move on. What use is being annoyed about something you have zero control over?

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By *ady SuzieXXXWoman
3 weeks ago

Chichester

No. Respect others preferences and move on.

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By *over of ladiesMan
3 weeks ago

cannock

I would say your more frustrated than annoyed

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By *luebell888Woman
3 weeks ago

Glasgowish


"Do you agree "

Yes

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I would say your more frustrated than annoyed"

Doesn’t happen often but can be disappointing sometimes. On the whole I manage to overcome it & eventually meet them

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By *allGuy1000Man
3 weeks ago

Reading

There is a beautiful lady near me. I was one year outside her age range. No problem. Her pictures would appear on my local updates and I would fab the odd one or two. Recently i noticed that she changed her range and increased it to 55. So I obviously sent her a message. She read the message. She ignored the message. C’est la vie. 🤣😂

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff


"There is a beautiful lady near me. I was one year outside her age range. No problem. Her pictures would appear on my local updates and I would fab the odd one or two. Recently i noticed that she changed her range and increased it to 55. So I obviously sent her a message. She read the message. She ignored the message. C’est la vie. 🤣😂"

this is like one of those movies where everything just gets better and better ...then they all die at the end! 🥺

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

OP, I tired to message you to offer my thoughts but you have your filters on.

...guess that's just your preference 😉

I totally get the 'just outside the age range' thing though, but alas, unless they find you, it is what it is.

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By *r TriomanMan
3 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Not annoying but mildly frustrating as there always seems to be something that is a mismatch with those that I'm attracted to, whether it's that I'm older than their upper age limit, or I'm not their required skin colour or body type, or they don't like facial hair or my penis is too short or my penis isn't girthy enough or I don't have tattoos and they want someone that has them or I don't live within 5 miles of their house or...

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By *ornym66 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Col /ips


"I would say your more frustrated than annoyed"

No not annoyed I do have respect for that person I was only saying lol

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By *ornym66 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Col /ips


"OP, I tired to message you to offer my thoughts but you have your filters on.

Yes thanku yea I know it is wat it is

...guess that's just your preference 😉

I totally get the 'just outside the age range' thing though, but alas, unless they find you, it is what it is."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's not really a shame that we can't message people who very obviously don't want to meet people of our age though, is it.

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By *allGuy1000Man
3 weeks ago

Reading


"There is a beautiful lady near me. I was one year outside her age range. No problem. Her pictures would appear on my local updates and I would fab the odd one or two. Recently i noticed that she changed her range and increased it to 55. So I obviously sent her a message. She read the message. She ignored the message. C’est la vie. 🤣😂

this is like one of those movies where everything just gets better and better ...then they all die at the end! 🥺"

Tbf it reminds me of one of those sad stories Simon Bates used to read out on the radio in the 80s/90s 😂😂 (I can almost hear the background music)

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By *umagain58Man
3 weeks ago

London

That’s just way it is. There is a cut off for some and if you one second outside you lose out. I don’t worry about it at all as plenty of others make up for it. Respect and don’t get annoyed as it does not help you I find

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By *ad NannaWoman
3 weeks ago

East London

I sometimes have a little aww moment, then realise they wouldn't be interested in me even if I were a couple of years younger.

Aim high.

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By *ea monkeyMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I can see how that might be but it’s just a fact of fab life. I find that if you meet someone in person then they are more flexible on these things

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By *ornym66 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Col /ips


"I can see how that might be but it’s just a fact of fab life. I find that if you meet someone in person then they are more flexible on these things"

Exactly that if you meet in real & connect but hey ho that fab life

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

Pah! Ignore these miscreants, OP... ^

Do what I do — if I am outside of her criteria I simply 'fab' her photo. Not the most recent photo but the oldest one, four pages in, because no one else is 'fabbing' those. My 'fab' will show up on her Updates. She will wonder why on earth I'm 'fabbing' such an old photograph; I'm simply ruffling my plumage at her...

...and she will wink or message accordingly. It always works for me.

I really shouldn't be giving out my tried and tested secrets on here but my benevolence knows no bounds.🩶

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff


"Tbf it reminds me of one of those sad stories Simon Bates used to read out on the radio in the 80s/90s 😂😂 (I can almost hear the background music)"

hahaa, yessss!!!

It was Mayo not Bates (still does it to this day I think!). The music he used back in the day was Tomaso Giovanni Albinoni's, Adagio for Organ and Strings. Beautiful tune!

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By *otsossieMan
3 weeks ago

Chesterfield


"Do you agree "

No, it’s tough.

Age bands are pretty arbitrary (eg 50), but you have to accept that they are probably around the absolute max and min for that fabber.

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By *ornycougaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"Pah! Ignore these miscreants, OP... ^

Do what I do — if I am outside of her criteria I simply 'fab' her photo. Not the most recent photo but the oldest one, four pages in, because no one else is 'fabbing' those. My 'fab' will show up on her Updates. She will wonder why on earth I'm 'fabbing' such an old photograph; I'm simply ruffling my plumage at her...

...and she will wink or message accordingly. It always works for me.

I really shouldn't be giving out my tried and tested secrets on here but my benevolence knows no bounds.🩶"

I can confirm this works! It has only happened to me once. I fabbed the fuck out of his pics. He winked at me. Bingo. Next thing I knew he was balls deep in me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Tbf it reminds me of one of those sad stories Simon Bates used to read out on the radio in the 80s/90s 😂😂 (I can almost hear the background music)

hahaa, yessss!!!

It was Mayo not Bates (still does it to this day I think!). The music he used back in the day was Tomaso Giovanni Albinoni's, Adagio for Organ and Strings. Beautiful tune!"

It was Simon Bates 'our tune' wasn't it?

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By *ornym66 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Col /ips


"Pah! Ignore these miscreants, OP... ^

Do what I do — if I am outside of her criteria I simply 'fab' her photo. Not the most recent photo but the oldest one, four pages in, because no one else is 'fabbing' those. My 'fab' will show up on her Updates. She will wonder why on earth I'm 'fabbing' such an old photograph; I'm simply ruffling my plumage at her...

...and she will wink or message accordingly. It always works for me.

I really shouldn't be giving out my tried and tested secrets on here but my benevolence knows no bounds.🩶"

Sound advice thanku

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By *WANDTGCouple
3 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

We normally get the younger ones messaging, we stipulate the age range on the profile though. We answer with " come back in X amount of years " most are ok with that 😁

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Pah! Ignore these miscreants, OP... ^

Do what I do — if I am outside of her criteria I simply 'fab' her photo. Not the most recent photo but the oldest one, four pages in, because no one else is 'fabbing' those. My 'fab' will show up on her Updates. She will wonder why on earth I'm 'fabbing' such an old photograph; I'm simply ruffling my plumage at her...

...and she will wink or message accordingly. It always works for me.

I really shouldn't be giving out my tried and tested secrets on here but my benevolence knows no bounds.🩶

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I can confirm this works! It has only happened to me once. I fabbed the fuck out of his pics. He winked at me. Bingo. Next thing I knew he was balls deep in me"

And 2½ years later I can still feel the wondrous aftermath of your quivering quim. ♀️♂️

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By *elshie_69Man
3 weeks ago

Mean streets of Heathrow


"Tbf it reminds me of one of those sad stories Simon Bates used to read out on the radio in the 80s/90s 😂😂 (I can almost hear the background music)

hahaa, yessss!!!

It was Mayo not Bates (still does it to this day I think!). The music he used back in the day was Tomaso Giovanni Albinoni's, Adagio for Organ and Strings. Beautiful tune!"

Was definitely Simon Bates and the segment was called Our Tune, it was down tools for me in work to listen to the sad stories..lol

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By *ornym66 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Col /ips


"Pah! Ignore these miscreants, OP... ^

Do what I do — if I am outside of her criteria I simply 'fab' her photo. Not the most recent photo but the oldest one, four pages in, because no one else is 'fabbing' those. My 'fab' will show up on her Updates. She will wonder why on earth I'm 'fabbing' such an old photograph; I'm simply ruffling my plumage at her...

...and she will wink or message accordingly. It always works for me.

I really shouldn't be giving out my tried and tested secrets on here but my benevolence knows no bounds.🩶

I can confirm this works! It has only happened to me once. I fabbed the fuck out of his pics. He winked at me. Bingo. Next thing I knew he was balls deep in me"

Wow ok well I shall live in hope was he a good shag lol

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By *otsossieMan
3 weeks ago

Chesterfield


" can confirm this works! It has only happened to me once. I fabbed the fuck out of his pics. He winked at me. Bingo. Next thing I knew he was balls deep in me"

Fab is a different world for those of us who are male and not of your level of hotness.

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By *ornycougaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"Pah! Ignore these miscreants, OP... ^

Do what I do — if I am outside of her criteria I simply 'fab' her photo. Not the most recent photo but the oldest one, four pages in, because no one else is 'fabbing' those. My 'fab' will show up on her Updates. She will wonder why on earth I'm 'fabbing' such an old photograph; I'm simply ruffling my plumage at her...

...and she will wink or message accordingly. It always works for me.

I really shouldn't be giving out my tried and tested secrets on here but my benevolence knows no bounds.🩶

·

I can confirm this works! It has only happened to me once. I fabbed the fuck out of his pics. He winked at me. Bingo. Next thing I knew he was balls deep in me

And 2½ years later I can still feel the wondrous aftermath of your quivering quim. ♀️♂️"

Oh Nero, those sweet memories have set my fanny fluttering again

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Just respect other people's preferences and get over it

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By *ornycougaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"Pah! Ignore these miscreants, OP... ^

Do what I do — if I am outside of her criteria I simply 'fab' her photo. Not the most recent photo but the oldest one, four pages in, because no one else is 'fabbing' those. My 'fab' will show up on her Updates. She will wonder why on earth I'm 'fabbing' such an old photograph; I'm simply ruffling my plumage at her...

...and she will wink or message accordingly. It always works for me.

I really shouldn't be giving out my tried and tested secrets on here but my benevolence knows no bounds.🩶

I can confirm this works! It has only happened to me once. I fabbed the fuck out of his pics. He winked at me. Bingo. Next thing I knew he was balls deep in me

Wow ok well I shall live in hope was he a good shag lol"

Hell yeah 😈

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By *r TriomanMan
3 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Pah! Ignore these miscreants, OP... ^

Do what I do — if I am outside of her criteria I simply 'fab' her photo. Not the most recent photo but the oldest one, four pages in, because no one else is 'fabbing' those. My 'fab' will show up on her Updates. She will wonder why on earth I'm 'fabbing' such an old photograph; I'm simply ruffling my plumage at her...

...and she will wink or message accordingly. It always works for me.

I really shouldn't be giving out my tried and tested secrets on here but my benevolence knows no bounds.🩶

I can confirm this works! It has only happened to me once. I fabbed the fuck out of his pics. He winked at me. Bingo. Next thing I knew he was balls deep in me"

Noted 😉

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

I’m too young for most.

Is it annoying? Used to be but now I honestly don’t care.

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby


"I’m too young for most.

Is it annoying? Used to be but now I honestly don’t care. "

This is literally the only benefit of me turning 30 this year. The filters I can get past is gonna go crazy!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
3 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Simple OP, just set up a fake profile and lie about your age

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
3 weeks ago

Ends


"I’m too young for most.

Is it annoying? Used to be but now I honestly don’t care.

This is literally the only benefit of me turning 30 this year. The filters I can get past is gonna go crazy!"

Honestly you’ve secured the bag. Congrats.

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By *mf123Man
3 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Naa just cos you like her profile dont mean she will jump on your cock like a clown on a pogo stick so pointless to worry about it

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By *allGuy1000Man
3 weeks ago

Reading


"Tbf it reminds me of one of those sad stories Simon Bates used to read out on the radio in the 80s/90s 😂😂 (I can almost hear the background music)

hahaa, yessss!!!

It was Mayo not Bates (still does it to this day I think!). The music he used back in the day was Tomaso Giovanni Albinoni's, Adagio for Organ and Strings. Beautiful tune!

It was Simon Bates 'our tune' wasn't it?

"

Yes 'our tune’ that’s it!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

There will be others who you do match with, so put your attention there. You will not be mutually compatible with most people anyway

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By *mudge354Man
3 weeks ago

Mid Sussex

Yes and no, it is annoying but then its also thier chosen age range.

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By *host63Man
3 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

It's their preference

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Durham


"It's not really a shame that we can't message people who very obviously don't want to meet people of our age though, is it. "

Yes we should respect people wishes. If they'd seen you had looked at their profile, and they were interested, they would message you x

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By *over of ladiesMan
3 weeks ago

cannock

I'm still waiting for the message from the elusive 99 yr old woman lol

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By *lfa RomeoMan
3 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

It can be frustrating, but I tend you fab thier pictures, and on the odd occasion they've messaged me.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
3 weeks ago

Just around the corner

It’s their choice and are plenty of other Fab-ers looking for different age groups.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

I stand corrected! yeah, Simon Bates 'our tune'; I was thinking of Simon Mayo's 'Confessions'

can't think of the music for Our Tune!

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
3 weeks ago

Loughborough

We have an age filter on our page and we specifically state we're not interested in people above a certain age YET we still get messages from those who have read our profile but still persist to try their luck! 🙈

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I'd file this under c'est la vie...

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
3 weeks ago

stanley

That’s life on fab folk are free to choose who they interact with

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By *aughty50sCouple
3 weeks ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot


"...I'm simply ruffling my plumage at her...."

Love this phrase!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
3 weeks ago

BRIDPORT


"I stand corrected! yeah, Simon Bates 'our tune'; I was thinking of Simon Mayo's 'Confessions'

can't think of the music for Our Tune!"

It was the love theme from Romeo and Juliet.

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By *HUSH-Man
3 weeks ago

London


"I’m too young for most.

Is it annoying? Used to be but now I honestly don’t care. "

Dude you’re like LeBron James out here. Your peak is going to be scary

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We have an age filter on our page and we specifically state we're not interested in people above a certain age YET we still get messages from those who have read our profile but still persist to try their luck! 🙈"

You know you can filter out messages by age, right? 🤔

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By *orbidden eastMan
3 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’m not even going to start

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By *oopy FroodMan
3 weeks ago

Orbiting Planet Rupert

I prefer to be outside their age range as it means I don't have to send them a dick pic

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