FabSwingers.com forum: Can you avoid the friend zone

By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

How?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

I’m being fr

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By *mmaleiaWoman
19 weeks ago

Trowbridge

If there’s not flirting from the off, it’ll go down the friendzone route cause the other will think they aren’t interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"If there’s not flirting from the off, it’ll go down the friendzone route cause the other will think they aren’t interested"

And also there’s the ones that aren’t interested and so they entertain it for a bit then they say oh I’m not actually interested let’s *stay* friends and you’re invested so you say yes. Or you don’t want to be mean so you say yes.

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By *illy IdolMan
19 weeks ago

Midlands

Mad them laugh, then hit them with a flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

If there is no flirty back and forth, for me that's usually a sign it won't go anywhere more than just friends.

I always try to make cheeky comments, flirt, be naughty, whatever suits. If it dies out, then generally I'll move on. It's the sexual side I'm missing and have enough platonic friends, so I don't really want anymore.

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By *nkymikeyMan
19 weeks ago

Andover

Yes you can avoid the friend zone by walk away.

If you want more that friendship then say so.

If this is not on the table then walk away and just say, if you change your mind give me a call.

There billions of women on this planet and life to short to get hung up on just one.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
19 weeks ago

Holibobs

No I don't think so.

There's always a reason why, it's better to stay as just friends

I'd hate to loose a solid friendship over the urge of a fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"No I don't think so.

There's always a reason why, it's better to stay as just friends

I'd hate to loose a solid friendship over the urge of a fuck

Tough 🍆🍆🍆😈

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By *stellaWoman
19 weeks ago

London

Hi, friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Eat lots of garlic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"Hi, friend."

Omg you beautiful beautiful woman. I’ve missed you so much

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By *stellaWoman
19 weeks ago

London

"Hi, friend.

Omg you beautiful beautiful woman. I’ve missed you so much "

Apologies, I (friend) zoned out for a while there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"Hi, friend.

Omg you beautiful beautiful woman. I’ve missed you so much

Apologies, I (friend) zoned out for a while there.

Understandable. I get it. But you’re back so we can flirt again

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By *stellaWoman
19 weeks ago

London

"Hi, friend.

Omg you beautiful beautiful woman. I’ve missed you so much

Apologies, I (friend) zoned out for a while there.

Understandable. I get it. But you’re back so we can flirt again"

Flirt? I wouldn’t know where to start, you gorgeous, intelligent, sexy man, you.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
19 weeks ago

Reading

I think I’m pretty fucking amazing as a friend so being my friend is pretty great already.

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By *aveyougotmymarblesMan
19 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Embrace it and when she tells you she wants sex tell her you don't see her in that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"Hi, friend.

Omg you beautiful beautiful woman. I’ve missed you so much

Apologies, I (friend) zoned out for a while there.

Understandable. I get it. But you’re back so we can flirt again

Flirt? I wouldn’t know where to start, you gorgeous, intelligent, sexy man, you."

Say something sociological

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I think I’m pretty fucking amazing as a friend so being my friend is pretty great already. "

Hmmm what are the benefits of friendship with you?

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By *hunky GentMan
19 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I think I’m pretty fucking amazing as a friend so being my friend is pretty great already. "

I'm willing to give it a go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"Embrace it and when she tells you she wants sex tell her you don't see her in that way "

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
19 weeks ago

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"I think I’m pretty fucking amazing as a friend so being my friend is pretty great already.

Hmmm what are the benefits of friendship with you? "

I give all my friends blow jobs. 😳

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Yes you can

1) break the touch barrier asap

2) make ur intentions clear

3) don’t play no2 back-up man ever!

4) if you feel you been friend zoned, treat them like a friend aswell. (Romantically move on from them)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I think I’m pretty fucking amazing as a friend so being my friend is pretty great already.

Hmmm what are the benefits of friendship with you?

I give all my friends blow jobs. 😳"

Hmmm.

Was kinda hoping for penetration.

Sorry. X

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
19 weeks ago

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"I think I’m pretty fucking amazing as a friend so being my friend is pretty great already.

Hmmm what are the benefits of friendship with you?

I give all my friends blow jobs. 😳

Hmmm.

Was kinda hoping for penetration.

Sorry. X"

I can’t handle this level of rejection.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West

We were friends for a fairly long time before we started doing the horizontal tango. It's definitely a thing cos here we are, nearly 21yrs later.

Sometimes things change, people change.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West

"Hi, friend.

Omg you beautiful beautiful woman. I’ve missed you so much

Apologies, I (friend) zoned out for a while there.

Understandable. I get it. But you’re back so we can flirt again

Flirt? I wouldn’t know where to start, you gorgeous, intelligent, sexy man, you.

Say something sociological

I sense role conflict here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I think I’m pretty fucking amazing as a friend so being my friend is pretty great already.

Hmmm what are the benefits of friendship with you?

I give all my friends blow jobs. 😳

Hmmm.

Was kinda hoping for penetration.

Sorry. X

I can’t handle this level of rejection. "

Nor can I.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"We were friends for a fairly long time before we started doing the horizontal tango. It's definitely a thing cos here we are, nearly 21yrs later.

Sometimes things change, people change."

Yeah I was friends with my fiance first. But things were easier back when you’re a teenager

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

Sometimes in my lugubriousness I just need a friend. To hell with the zøne.

I'd forgo a bonk just to be platonic. 💔

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West

"Sometimes in my lugubriousness I just need a friend. To hell with the zøne.

I'd forgo a bonk just to be platonic. 💔"

Pizza, my friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"Sometimes in my lugubriousness I just need a friend. To hell with the zøne.

I'd forgo a bonk just to be platonic. 💔"

I have enough friends. I don’t need any more.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
19 weeks ago

Reading

"Sometimes in my lugubriousness I just need a friend. To hell with the zøne.

I'd forgo a bonk just to be platonic. 💔"

Be honest, did you just make up that word? 😃

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By *aveyougotmymarblesMan
19 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples."
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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Sometimes in my lugubriousness I just need a friend. To hell with the zøne.

I'd forgo a bonk just to be platonic. 💔

Pizza, my friend?

•

I think it's long overdue, for part². I might just massage your areolas though for ole times' sake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples."

you love people

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people "

Nah.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West

"Sometimes in my lugubriousness I just need a friend. To hell with the zøne.

I'd forgo a bonk just to be platonic. 💔

Pizza, my friend?

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I think it's long overdue, for part². I might just massage your areolas though for ole times' sake."

I think that might antagonise the nice Italian men there

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Sometimes in my lugubriousness I just need a friend. To hell with the zøne.

I'd forgo a bonk just to be platonic. 💔

Be honest, did you just make up that word? 😃"

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Listen, bookworm, the word "bonk" has been around for yonks. 😀

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah. "

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them"

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘"

you love a fuck.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘

you love a fuck.

Fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘

you love a fuck.

I do love a fuck, from what I remember 👀

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘

you love a fuck.

Fuckers

WANKER

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘

you love a fuck.

I do love a fuck, from what I remember 👀"

It’s been 81 years

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Sometimes in my lugubriousness I just need a friend. To hell with the zøne.

I'd forgo a bonk just to be platonic. 💔

Pizza, my friend?

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I think it's long overdue, for part². I might just massage your areolas though for ole times' sake.

I think that might antagonise the nice Italian men there

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KC², it would be worth it. 😈

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘

you love a fuck.

Fuckers

WANKER"

If you ask nicely

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

There's no such thing. Let's pretend there is - be direct and make it clear straight away that you don't want friends, you just want to see if they faf. Easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"There's no such thing. Let's pretend there is - be direct and make it clear straight away that you don't want friends, you just want to see if they faf. Easy. "

I knew you’d come. I knew it.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘

you love a fuck.

I do love a fuck, from what I remember 👀

It’s been 81 years"

81 veeeerry loooooong years

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"There's no such thing. Let's pretend there is - be direct and make it clear straight away that you don't want friends, you just want to see if they faf. Easy. "

Exactly 💯

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘

you love a fuck.

I do love a fuck, from what I remember 👀

It’s been 81 years

81 veeeerry loooooong years"

82 for me

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
19 weeks ago

the moon

Put it on em !

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘

you love a fuck.

I do love a fuck, from what I remember 👀

It’s been 81 years

81 veeeerry loooooong years

82 for me"

In which case that needs to be sorted

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

"There's no such thing. Let's pretend there is - be direct and make it clear straight away that you don't want friends, you just want to see if they faf. Easy.

I knew you’d come. I knew it. "

It's the better of the two threads. 🩷

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘

you love a fuck.

I do love a fuck, from what I remember 👀

It’s been 81 years

81 veeeerry loooooong years

82 for me

In which case that needs to be sorted"

Meet now

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By *oyRoy06Man
19 weeks ago

leighton buzzard

Easiest way to avoid it ... walk away once you realise you're not going to get any where with them

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"I don't like people so don't have friends. Simples.

you love people

Nah.

You do! I’ve seen you speak to them

It's all a front to get a fuck 😘

you love a fuck.

I do love a fuck, from what I remember 👀

It’s been 81 years

81 veeeerry loooooong years

82 for me

In which case that needs to be sorted

Meet now "

On my way, in the Oodie...proper treat time

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Reminds me of the Matt Rife clip where he say guys use friendship with women they fancy in order to wait for an opportunity to get more, sometimes years building trust and access. Also why guys don't trust their partner's guy friends. But that was a tangent.

To avoid the friend zone, I'd state your intent, offer your time and energy in activities together that would build more than 'friendship'

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By *midnight-Woman
19 weeks ago

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I friendzone everyone

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By *tew008Man
19 weeks ago

edinburgh

"I friendzone everyone

hey friend

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By *cottish guy 555Man
19 weeks ago

London

"I think I’m pretty fucking amazing as a friend so being my friend is pretty great already.

Hmmm what are the benefits of friendship with you?

I give all my friends blow jobs. 😳"

Is there a friendship bracelet that comes with that?

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By *orny PTMan
19 weeks ago

Peterborough

"Yes you can

1) break the touch barrier asap

2) make ur intentions clear

3) don’t play no2 back-up man ever!

4) if you feel you been friend zoned, treat them like a friend aswell. (Romantically move on from them)"

My gloves solve number 1 ASAP.

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By *ou only live onceMan
19 weeks ago

London

It's the zone that suits me best.

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By *mf123Man
19 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Zone defence is key

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