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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex

There are a lot of threads focussing on age at the moment. I think it doesn't matter how old you are chronologically you kind of settle on an age at some point and stay there on the inside.

I'm probably about 45/50 mentally and will stay there until I'm called to the great coffee shop in the sky.

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 days ago

East London

Physically, 80+.

Mentally, 12.

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By *atte Lover 82Man
2 days ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

How old I feel depends what time of day you ask me haha

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
2 days ago

Wherever

I, for once, feel exactly the age I am.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I, for once, feel exactly the age I am."

I think that is an excellent age to be!

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By *ongandharderMan
2 days ago

Rotherham

Physically and mentally 40+

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically, 80+.

Mentally, 12."

I remember on my 7th birthday thinking I would never be any more grown up

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By *enk15Man
2 days ago

Evesham

I have no idea what it feels like to be any age over 36.

I certainly don't feel the same as any of the other ages I have been through.

So... 36

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"How old I feel depends what time of day you ask me haha"

Mid morning?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
2 days ago

Ends

Ummm physically I feel a bit older. Early 30s. Think I look that too.

Mentally I feel a bit older. Anywhere in my 30s I’d say. Especially compared to peers my age. But also it is to do with the company I keep and interests I have.

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
2 days ago

Cardiff

Physically 90

Mentally 21

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 days ago

East London


"Physically, 80+.

Mentally, 12.

I remember on my 7th birthday thinking I would never be any more grown up "

At the age of 7 I was mentally 40.

I've grown down instead of up.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically and mentally 40+"

Physically 40!

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
2 days ago

Ends

Side note: I hate the ‘you’re mature for your age’ stuff. Age and maturity don’t feel as connected as I think people seem to assume.

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By *atte Lover 82Man
2 days ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED


"How old I feel depends what time of day you ask me haha

Mid morning?"

Mid morning I feel a little younger 30ish unless I've been to the gym then it's 80+

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I have no idea what it feels like to be any age over 36.

I certainly don't feel the same as any of the other ages I have been through.

So... 36 "

You probably haven't reached your optimum age yet

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Ummm physically I feel a bit older. Early 30s. Think I look that too.

Mentally I feel a bit older. Anywhere in my 30s I’d say. Especially compared to peers my age. But also it is to do with the company I keep and interests I have.

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I think the company you keep has a big impact on your mental/emotional age.

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By *ongandharderMan
2 days ago

Rotherham


"Physically and mentally 40+

Physically 40! "

Well I'd have felt older but not allways got the chance

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically 90

Mentally 21 "

Ooo. Stay 21 for ever

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By *moothdickMan
2 days ago

stoke

Physically, some days 50, other days, my age and other days (especially when it’s cold) old as gods dog ..

Mentally 30 to mature

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By *KTim61Man
2 days ago

Tipton

Although I'd be 64 yes I know ??? Lol But I still feel as though in my 50s

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By *ernow1982Man
2 days ago

Plymouth

I feel my age, but I don't think like my age.

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By *B69Woman
2 days ago

Wiltshire

Late thirties I would say mentally, physically my age 55 I’m doing ok

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Side note: I hate the ‘you’re mature for your age’ stuff. Age and maturity don’t feel as connected as I think people seem to assume. "

No you're right to an extent but I find immaturity in people of older years particularly irksome.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"How old I feel depends what time of day you ask me haha

Mid morning?

Mid morning I feel a little younger 30ish unless I've been to the gym then it's 80+"

I'm really thinking of how you feel within yourself rather than physically

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically and mentally 40+

Physically 40!

Well I'd have felt older but not allways got the chance "

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By *eliWoman
2 days ago

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35. I am 35. I feel 35. Physically, mentally, emotionally. I like being 35.

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By *idnightcowboy69Man
2 days ago

ciren

As old as the fb I'm feeling

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By *midnight-Woman
2 days ago

...

I kinda forget I'm 54, so maybe I think of myself as 40 something?

Anyway I'm not doing bad at life and can't grumble with my lot

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By *apio51Man
2 days ago

Edinburgh ish

Physically, in damn good shape tbh. 35 ish.

Mentally. Sometimes I feel older, which isn’t a bad thing: older is usually wiser. Sometimes I’m 16 in my head.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically, some days 50, other days, my age and other days (especially when it’s cold) old as gods dog ..

Mentally 30 to mature "

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Although I'd be 64 yes I know ??? Lol But I still feel as though in my 50s

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I think lots of people feel the same on the inside however old they are. I know I do

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I feel my age, but I don't think like my age."

Do you think older or younger?

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Late thirties I would say mentally, physically my age 55 I’m doing ok"

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By *ony MannMan
2 days ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

I feel 30.

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 days ago

Fife

I feel 25 trapped in my early forties surrounded by people who look and act like they are in their late 70s

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By *rispyDuckMan
2 days ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Waking to the shops in this cold, I might aswell be 81 haha

Can feel the chill deep in my bones esp the knees

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"35. I am 35. I feel 35. Physically, mentally, emotionally. I like being 35."

I liked being 35 too. It's a nice age.

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
2 days ago

Second star to the right…

Mentally probably about 18 years old but the aches and pains when i get out of bed says otherwise 😱

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By *arry monk40Man
2 days ago

Telford

First thing 150 but late afternoon after a gin and tonic 30

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"As old as the fb I'm feeling"

Let's hope they're not 99

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I kinda forget I'm 54, so maybe I think of myself as 40 something?

Anyway I'm not doing bad at life and can't grumble with my lot"

Yes that's what I mean, your internal age

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically, in damn good shape tbh. 35 ish.

Mentally. Sometimes I feel older, which isn’t a bad thing: older is usually wiser. Sometimes I’m 16 in my head."

I think we all have those moments

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I feel 30."

Good

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By *ernow1982Man
2 days ago

Plymouth


"I feel my age, but I don't think like my age.

Do you think older or younger?"

Definitely younger. I can't put a number on it, because it varies but overall younger. I still have childish hobbies, go raving, mess around and act silly sometimes. In context, of course. Not just randomly. I'm not that weird. 😆

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I feel 25 trapped in my early forties surrounded by people who look and act like they are in their late 70s"

Tell me about it. I used to feel like I was surrounded by people who were terribly set in their ways

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By *atte Lover 82Man
2 days ago

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By *obilebottomMan
2 days ago

All over

I oscillate but not doing too bad most of the time. Let's say 10 years younger

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Waking to the shops in this cold, I might aswell be 81 haha

Can feel the chill deep in my bones esp the knees "

You need thermals

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Mentally probably about 18 years old but the aches and pains when i get out of bed says otherwise 😱"

Stay in bed to avoid this problem

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"First thing 150 but late afternoon after a gin and tonic 30"

150! You're a medical marvel

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I feel my age, but I don't think like my age.

Do you think older or younger?

Definitely younger. I can't put a number on it, because it varies but overall younger. I still have childish hobbies, go raving, mess around and act silly sometimes. In context, of course. Not just randomly. I'm not that weird. 😆"

I think we all have the ability to be youthful

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By *eliWoman
2 days ago

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"35. I am 35. I feel 35. Physically, mentally, emotionally. I like being 35.

I liked being 35 too. It's a nice age. "

It is. Someone recently said to me about when I get to their age and it made me realise I've got so much more ahead of me. So much living and seeing the world to do. The opportunities career wise, family wise. I used to think 35 was old.

Perhaps when I'm older I'll see my internal age as being different.

I think I'll be happy when I reach certain older ages, the privilege it is to get to that point. To have lived those years and all they'll have involved.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I oscillate but not doing too bad most of the time. Let's say 10 years younger "

Oscillating is very good for a person

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"35. I am 35. I feel 35. Physically, mentally, emotionally. I like being 35.

I liked being 35 too. It's a nice age.

It is. Someone recently said to me about when I get to their age and it made me realise I've got so much more ahead of me. So much living and seeing the world to do. The opportunities career wise, family wise. I used to think 35 was old.

Perhaps when I'm older I'll see my internal age as being different.

I think I'll be happy when I reach certain older ages, the privilege it is to get to that point. To have lived those years and all they'll have involved. "

Yes! To be able to look back and see what's brought you to the point you're at. If you're as lucky as I've been it will be better than you imagined

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 days ago

Castlebar

I still feel around 40 mentally and physically and that's where I'm staying 🙃

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 days ago

East London


"35. I am 35. I feel 35. Physically, mentally, emotionally. I like being 35."

35 was my last age of feeling well.

All downhill from then on 😭

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 days ago

North West

Physically, probably 95.

Mentally, I'm not even sure. Probably my actual age of 39.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I still feel around 40 mentally and physically and that's where I'm staying 🙃 "

A wise move.

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 days ago

East London

My mind is telling me to walk to the park with food for the birds, to thrash my boots through the leaves and have a go on the swings.

My body is saying grow up you silly cow, you wouldn't make it past the shops 🤣

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"35. I am 35. I feel 35. Physically, mentally, emotionally. I like being 35.

35 was my last age of feeling well.

All downhill from then on 😭"

Oh 😥

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically, probably 95.

Mentally, I'm not even sure. Probably my actual age of 39."

You haven't reached your internal age yet then. You'll know when you have I think

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"My mind is telling me to walk to the park with food for the birds, to thrash my boots through the leaves and have a go on the swings.

My body is saying grow up you silly cow, you wouldn't make it past the shops 🤣"

Sorry to hear that 😓

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By *ightmovesTV/TS
2 days ago

Ipswich

72

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 days ago

East London


"My mind is telling me to walk to the park with food for the birds, to thrash my boots through the leaves and have a go on the swings.

My body is saying grow up you silly cow, you wouldn't make it past the shops 🤣

Sorry to hear that 😓"

I could probably get a bus there, then freeze and wish I was at home on my sofa with my blanket.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"72"

That would be just right

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 days ago

North West


"Physically, probably 95.

Mentally, I'm not even sure. Probably my actual age of 39.

You haven't reached your internal age yet then. You'll know when you have I think "

The answer will probably be 95

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
2 days ago

Birmingham

I’m actually in the best shape of my life right now.

I’ve done - 2 Tough Mudders, The Great North Run & the London Marathon.

But upstairs? I’ve unfortunately lost my optimism & youthful exuberance

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"My mind is telling me to walk to the park with food for the birds, to thrash my boots through the leaves and have a go on the swings.

My body is saying grow up you silly cow, you wouldn't make it past the shops 🤣

Sorry to hear that 😓

I could probably get a bus there, then freeze and wish I was at home on my sofa with my blanket."

Will you be able to do it when it's warmer?

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I’m actually in the best shape of my life right now.

I’ve done - 2 Tough Mudders, The Great North Run & the London Marathon.

But upstairs? I’ve unfortunately lost my optimism & youthful exuberance "

Oh sorry to hear that

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 days ago

Reading

104 at least

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By *eliWoman
2 days ago

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"35. I am 35. I feel 35. Physically, mentally, emotionally. I like being 35.

35 was my last age of feeling well.

All downhill from then on 😭"

Bloody hell Nana, what have I done to you? Why would you give me The Fear like that? 🥲

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
2 days ago

The Continental

Currently, about 350.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 days ago

North West


"35. I am 35. I feel 35. Physically, mentally, emotionally. I like being 35.

35 was my last age of feeling well.

All downhill from then on 😭

Bloody hell Nana, what have I done to you? Why would you give me The Fear like that? 🥲"

It's alright. It was 31 for me.

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By *arpus67Man
2 days ago

nottingham burgh le Marsh

On this site i feel past it

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By *ugarbearCouple
2 days ago

Tredegar

I'm 60 but feel 70 all shagged out

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By *929Man
2 days ago

bedlington

Mentally I feel quite young, physically can vary when it’s warm I’m fine and probably a lot fitter than most my age, my only issue is wear and tear from my job I can’t comfortably sit up for long or stand if not doing anything if I’m not working or doing something I have to be horizontal, in the winter I walk like a cripple when it’s cold morning but are fine once get warmed up and moving haha

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"104 at least"

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Currently, about 350."

350😳

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"On this site i feel past it "

That's a shame

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By *orksguy1965Man
2 days ago

Howden

I'm 60 but feel 100, anyone want to offer and get my stress levels down lol

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I'm 60 but feel 70 all shagged out"

Oh dear 😥

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Mentally I feel quite young, physically can vary when it’s warm I’m fine and probably a lot fitter than most my age, my only issue is wear and tear from my job I can’t comfortably sit up for long or stand if not doing anything if I’m not working or doing something I have to be horizontal, in the winter I walk like a cripple when it’s cold morning but are fine once get warmed up and moving haha "

Joint problems ?

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I'm 60 but feel 100, anyone want to offer and get my stress levels down lol

"

Yoga?

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By *arkus1812Man
2 days ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Physically I have reached a point where I am really feeling my age of 84, this puts into doubt that I will reach my target age of 99

Mentally I feel that I am somewhere between 60 and 70, just as I begin to feel really good then I get the phone call telling me that one of my friends as passed away, sadly this happens all to often.

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By *noopy65Man
2 days ago

Harlow

Well I do feel younger than I’m actually am , but lately on here my age especially most are looking for 50/55 and under lol

I’m sure I’ll survive x lol

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically I have reached a point where I am really feeling my age of 84, this puts into doubt that I will reach my target age of 99

Mentally I feel that I am somewhere between 60 and 70, just as I begin to feel really good then I get the phone call telling me that one of my friends as passed away, sadly this happens all to often."

It happens more frequently as we grow older doesn't it.

You always seem to have a youthful attitude to me

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Well I do feel younger than I’m actually am , but lately on here my age especially most are looking for 50/55 and under lol

I’m sure I’ll survive x lol "

I would certainly hope so!

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By *loomy GirlWoman
2 days ago

leicester

93

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By *929Man
2 days ago

bedlington


"Mentally I feel quite young, physically can vary when it’s warm I’m fine and probably a lot fitter than most my age, my only issue is wear and tear from my job I can’t comfortably sit up for long or stand if not doing anything if I’m not working or doing something I have to be horizontal, in the winter I walk like a cripple when it’s cold morning but are fine once get warmed up and moving haha

Joint problems ?"

Mainly lower back and right hip but not sure as they go away in summer so maybe just cold in the joints

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By *ggdrasil66Man
2 days ago

Saltdean

I’m at that age where I wish I had known what I know now, back when I was a younger man. Regrets, I’ve had a few. That sort of thing, but give me half a chance and I will still misbehave.

I’m 58 going on 16. Lol.

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By *over of ladiesMan
2 days ago

cannock

Physically 60 mentally 18

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By *arkus1812Man
2 days ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"Physically I have reached a point where I am really feeling my age of 84, this puts into doubt that I will reach my target age of 99

Mentally I feel that I am somewhere between 60 and 70, just as I begin to feel really good then I get the phone call telling me that one of my friends as passed away, sadly this happens all to often.

It happens more frequently as we grow older doesn't it.

You always seem to have a youthful attitude to me "

I was youthful at the weekend, I borrowed my Sisters Porsche, I was 18 again

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By *luebell888Woman
2 days ago

Glasgowish

After my nightshifts I feel 80 but on the whole I feel younger than my age.

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 days ago

Belfast

Some days I feel as if I'm in my 40s but that's usually after I've climbed a high peak somewhere.

Those days are few and far between though so most days I just feel my actual age.

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By *adger BrocMan
2 days ago

Co. Cork

From comments on a post on the Ireland forum I am so old I am likely to soil mysef and am incapable of living independently.

Ageism, like myself, is alive and well in 2025.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"93 "

😥

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Mentally I feel quite young, physically can vary when it’s warm I’m fine and probably a lot fitter than most my age, my only issue is wear and tear from my job I can’t comfortably sit up for long or stand if not doing anything if I’m not working or doing something I have to be horizontal, in the winter I walk like a cripple when it’s cold morning but are fine once get warmed up and moving haha

Joint problems ?

Mainly lower back and right hip but not sure as they go away in summer so maybe just cold in the joints "

Hmm. Sciatic nerve?

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I’m at that age where I wish I had known what I know now, back when I was a younger man. Regrets, I’ve had a few. That sort of thing, but give me half a chance and I will still misbehave.

I’m 58 going on 16. Lol."

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically 60 mentally 18"

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically I have reached a point where I am really feeling my age of 84, this puts into doubt that I will reach my target age of 99

Mentally I feel that I am somewhere between 60 and 70, just as I begin to feel really good then I get the phone call telling me that one of my friends as passed away, sadly this happens all to often.

It happens more frequently as we grow older doesn't it.

You always seem to have a youthful attitude to me

I was youthful at the weekend, I borrowed my Sisters Porsche, I was 18 again "

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"After my nightshifts I feel 80 but on the whole I feel younger than my age."

Working nights can do that to a person

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Some days I feel as if I'm in my 40s but that's usually after I've climbed a high peak somewhere.

Those days are few and far between though so most days I just feel my actual age. "

Mentally?

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By *sWyldWoman
2 days ago

Edinburgh

First thing in the morning, definitely my full 41 years.

However other times around 25 but able to enjoy it now

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By *illmotMan
2 days ago

Bognor Regis

Don't feel anywhere near my 67 although some days I feel a 100

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 days ago

East London


"My mind is telling me to walk to the park with food for the birds, to thrash my boots through the leaves and have a go on the swings.

My body is saying grow up you silly cow, you wouldn't make it past the shops 🤣

Sorry to hear that 😓

I could probably get a bus there, then freeze and wish I was at home on my sofa with my blanket.

Will you be able to do it when it's warmer?"

I'd get further, if it's not too warm.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"From comments on a post on the Ireland forum I am so old I am likely to soil mysef and am incapable of living independently.

Ageism, like myself, is alive and well in 2025.

"

really!

We raised an eyebrow when people were mentioning that the woman rescued from her car in floodwater is 63 as if that was as old as Methuselah himself

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 days ago

Belfast


"Some days I feel as if I'm in my 40s but that's usually after I've climbed a high peak somewhere.

Those days are few and far between though so most days I just feel my actual age.

Mentally?"

Mentally I'm always in my 40s but physically not so much

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"First thing in the morning, definitely my full 41 years.

However other times around 25 but able to enjoy it now "

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Don't feel anywhere near my 67 although some days I feel a 100 "

Good!

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"My mind is telling me to walk to the park with food for the birds, to thrash my boots through the leaves and have a go on the swings.

My body is saying grow up you silly cow, you wouldn't make it past the shops 🤣

Sorry to hear that 😓

I could probably get a bus there, then freeze and wish I was at home on my sofa with my blanket.

Will you be able to do it when it's warmer?

I'd get further, if it's not too warm. "

Spring and autumn are your seasons then

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
2 days ago

here there and everywhere

Physically I still feel like I did in my 20s… mentally most days I hit about 10-12… my own kids tell me all the time that I need to grow up 😂

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By *teve 18!Man
2 days ago

Workington

If played rugby or football over the weekend Monday morning body feels easily 80

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
2 days ago

St Leonards

57 and 19/24.

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By *erry bull1Man
2 days ago

doncaster

I’m 67 and feel about 50 and can still do a hard days work , tree felling etc

Oh and my cock still stands proud

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically I still feel like I did in my 20s… mentally most days I hit about 10-12… my own kids tell me all the time that I need to grow up 😂"

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By *an8iMan
2 days ago

Bilston

I'm mid 40's but I'm peter pan and I've never grown up so

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"If played rugby or football over the weekend Monday morning body feels easily 80 "

😱

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"57 and 19/24."

57 and 19/24ths?

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I’m 67 and feel about 50 and can still do a hard days work , tree felling etc

Oh and my cock still stands proud "

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By *eroLondonMan
2 days ago

Mayfair


"...probably about 45/50 mentally and will stay there until I'm called to the great coffee shop in the sky. "

Please kindly ensure it's a Caffé Nero™ coffee shop and not Starbucks, where certain tricenarians like to ebb away their lives drinking PSLs.

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By *teve 18!Man
2 days ago

Workington


"If played rugby or football over the weekend Monday morning body feels easily 80

😱"

Need to realise I'm to old and hang up my boots.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I'm mid 40's but I'm peter pan and I've never grown up so "

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
2 days ago

St Leonards


"57 and 19/24.

57 and 19/24ths? "

Yup xxxx

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"...probably about 45/50 mentally and will stay there until I'm called to the great coffee shop in the sky.

Please kindly ensure it's a Caffé Nero™ coffee shop and not Starbucks, where certain tricenarians like to ebb away their lives drinking PSLs. "

It will be neither. It'll be a book lined, cosy chaired, log fire burning nook.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 days ago

Mayfair


"...probably about 45/50 mentally and will stay there until I'm called to the great coffee shop in the sky.

Please kindly ensure it's a Caffé Nero™ coffee shop and not Starbucks, where certain tricenarians like to ebb away their lives drinking PSLs.

·

It will be neither. It'll be a book lined, cosy chaired, log fire burning nook. "

That sounds uncannily like the Claridges' library. 📚

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"...probably about 45/50 mentally and will stay there until I'm called to the great coffee shop in the sky.

Please kindly ensure it's a Caffé Nero™ coffee shop and not Starbucks, where certain tricenarians like to ebb away their lives drinking PSLs.

·

It will be neither. It'll be a book lined, cosy chaired, log fire burning nook.

That sounds uncannily like the Claridges' library. 📚 "

Is it perchance attached to the Churchill Suite?

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By *avexxMan
2 days ago

cheshire

physically-40

mentally 30.. i still need to grow up a little

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"physically-40

mentally 30.. i still need to grow up a little "

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By *tu.xMan
2 days ago

around

I've never been this age before but feels right

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By *scaMan
2 days ago

Herts / London / Beyond

Pretty happy with the age and feeling I currently have.

It’s all pretty arbitrary if you feel strong and energetic

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I've never been this age before but feels right "

Same!

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Pretty happy with the age and feeling I currently have.

It’s all pretty arbitrary if you feel strong and energetic "

True.

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By *ortyairCouple
2 days ago

Wallasey

I'm old enough to be thinking about having work done to my outside appearance, and I feel young enough mid 20s to 30s, and stupid enough, to think it might be a good idea. What happened to growing old gracefully haha,

Mrs x

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By *xbabyxxxWoman
2 days ago

Bradford

Some days physically 60+ others my age 40

Mentally I don't have a clue

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
2 days ago

your head

Mentally depends on the day. Physically, about 90 at the moment.

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By *enuine MikeMan
2 days ago

Guildford

I'm 48. Mind thinks I'm still 15 and the body feels like it's 65

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
2 days ago

Reading


"There are a lot of threads focussing on age at the moment. I think it doesn't matter how old you are chronologically you kind of settle on an age at some point and stay there on the inside.

I'm probably about 45/50 mentally and will stay there until I'm called to the great coffee shop in the sky. "

Mentally, in my late 20s, early 30s.

Physically, given the rate everything's wearing out, probably 90s.

According to the lovely correspondence I've recently received, I'm about to become an old age pensioner. When the fuck did that happen?

Jerry

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
2 days ago

My Own Little World

At 04.30 am in Morning bad really bad after that everything gets better copious amounts of coffee and some breakfast

Ready for day

Age is but a number they say

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By *ust want fun 888Man
2 days ago

nearby

I honestly, in my mind and Away I think, I still feel in my mid twenties to mid 30s which is probably why I’m interested in younger women, not that I’m not interested in older women either

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By *mudge354Man
2 days ago

Mid Sussex


"Physically, 80+.

Mentally, 12."

Same here, mentaly never aged past my shoe size pmsl

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By *teve 18!Man
2 days ago

Workington


"I'm old enough to be thinking about having work done to my outside appearance, and I feel young enough mid 20s to 30s, and stupid enough, to think it might be a good idea. What happened to growing old gracefully haha,

Mrs x"

your only as old as the man you feel is a quote I heard once from a women ha ha needless to say that night she was 10 years younger. And Mrs you certainly don't need any work done one bit

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
2 days ago

My boudoir - S Wales

102.

This cold weather is giving me hip pain. I can’t get up off a chair without whelping.

I feel 30 in the summer, glowy skin, happy and warm enough to want sex 😂

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By *mmaleiaWoman
2 days ago

Trowbridge

Physically 85

Mentally 30

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
2 days ago

BRIDPORT

I don’t know OP, why don’t you give me a feel and tell me

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By *orphia2003Woman
2 days ago

Tonypandy.

Physically 70

Mentally 8

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By *oroRick1027Man
2 days ago

Middlesbrough

Physically around 50, mentally 30

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By *vonne5exMan
2 days ago

Doncaster


"Physically, 80+.

Mentally, 12."

like it

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By *oeBeansMan
2 days ago

Derby

Since being back at the gym after a week and a half off... About 70 🙈

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I'm old enough to be thinking about having work done to my outside appearance, and I feel young enough mid 20s to 30s, and stupid enough, to think it might be a good idea. What happened to growing old gracefully haha,

Mrs x"

You can age gracefully and have work done. It's not something I'd consider because I'm too scared

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Some days physically 60+ others my age 40

Mentally I don't have a clue "

It can vary

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Mentally depends on the day. Physically, about 90 at the moment. "

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By *obilebottomMan
2 days ago

All over


"Some days physically 60+ others my age 40

Mentally I don't have a clue

It can vary "

Oscillate

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By *hunky GentMan
2 days ago

Maldon and Peterborough

They say you're as old as the person you feel.

So I must be 5 - 4 fingers and 1 thumb. Lol

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I'm 48. Mind thinks I'm still 15 and the body feels like it's 65 "

65 isn't too bad.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"There are a lot of threads focussing on age at the moment. I think it doesn't matter how old you are chronologically you kind of settle on an age at some point and stay there on the inside.

I'm probably about 45/50 mentally and will stay there until I'm called to the great coffee shop in the sky.

Mentally, in my late 20s, early 30s.

Physically, given the rate everything's wearing out, probably 90s.

According to the lovely correspondence I've recently received, I'm about to become an old age pensioner. When the fuck did that happen?

Jerry"

It creeps up on you .

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By *riar BelisseWoman
2 days ago

Delightful Bliss

Mentally 25

Physically late 50's

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"At 04.30 am in Morning bad really bad after that everything gets better copious amounts of coffee and some breakfast

Ready for day

Age is but a number they say

"

They do say that but it's how we describe ourselves quite often

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I honestly, in my mind and Away I think, I still feel in my mid twenties to mid 30s which is probably why I’m interested in younger women, not that I’m not interested in older women either"

Might as well spread the net wide

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By *heLeadbettersCouple
2 days ago

Reading


"There are a lot of threads focussing on age at the moment. I think it doesn't matter how old you are chronologically you kind of settle on an age at some point and stay there on the inside.

I'm probably about 45/50 mentally and will stay there until I'm called to the great coffee shop in the sky.

Mentally, in my late 20s, early 30s.

Physically, given the rate everything's wearing out, probably 90s.

According to the lovely correspondence I've recently received, I'm about to become an old age pensioner. When the fuck did that happen?

Jerry

It creeps up on you . "

Ninja mode.....

Jerry

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"102.

This cold weather is giving me hip pain. I can’t get up off a chair without whelping.

I feel 30 in the summer, glowy skin, happy and warm enough to want sex 😂 "

You're looking pretty good for 102

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically 85

Mentally 30"

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I don’t know OP, why don’t you give me a feel and tell me "

Firing up the moped. I might be a while

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically 70

Mentally 8"

That's quite a wide gap

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically around 50, mentally 30"

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By *punk n gushCouple
2 days ago

deal

Mentally 30 to 40 physically due to medical condition about 80

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Since being back at the gym after a week and a half off... About 70 🙈"

Well I'm about 70 (in two years) so you probably feel pretty good

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By *agneto.Man
2 days ago

Bham

About 25.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"They say you're as old as the person you feel.

So I must be 5 - 4 fingers and 1 thumb. Lol"

Chunky!

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By *ucka39Man
2 days ago

Newcastle

Physically about 21

Mentally (insane)

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By *ayjay39777Man
2 days ago

Warrington

I feel im part of the wrong generation sometimes.

I feel im about 38/40

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Mentally 25

Physically late 50's"

Hope you soon feel mid forties

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Mentally 30 to 40 physically due to medical condition about 80"

Oh

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"About 25. "

Good!

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"Physically about 21

Mentally (insane)"

That's not an age though

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By *hunky GentMan
2 days ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"They say you're as old as the person you feel.

So I must be 5 - 4 fingers and 1 thumb. Lol

Chunky! "

Or

10 if I use both hands.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex


"I feel im part of the wrong generation sometimes.

I feel im about 38/40"

That's interesting. Do you feel more in tune with people older than you?

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