FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *orkshir20308 OP Man
3 weeks ago

yorkshire

I’ve been on here a while now. I have had a previous profile where I had a few verifications from people I had met/facetimed with. I’m struggling to get any meets or chat with people who’s time round due to not having any! Any help/advice would be greatly appreciated!

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By *adeiteWoman
3 weeks ago

Stafford

Do a forum search for profile advice and you'll find hundreds chanting the same comments which will apply to you.

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By *orkshir20308 OP Man
3 weeks ago

yorkshire

Thank you

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

A blank avatar, no photographs and a terse profile narrative is going to be your inhibitor in the first instance...I suspect.

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"I’ve been on here a while now. I have had a previous profile where I had a few verifications from people I had met/facetimed with. I’m struggling to get any meets or chat with people who’s time round due to not having any! Any help/advice would be greatly appreciated! "

Your message would be automatically deleted by me with very little (and grumpy sounding) bio and no pics

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

You could ask those who verified your previous profile

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By *orkshir20308 OP Man
3 weeks ago

yorkshire

Thank you all! I’ve messaged the previous that I’ve met. I’ve changed my profile to sound a little more on the friendly side.

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I think it's more likely because you've no pics and not much text op.

People tend to look at a profile before they read a a message, if it's not interesting or appealing, they'll delete it.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
3 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"Thank you all! I’ve messaged the previous that I’ve met. I’ve changed my profile to sound a little more on the friendly side. "

You need to add a little more ,and a pic it doesn't have to be of your face

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By *idnightMischiefMan
3 weeks ago

London

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By *idnightMischiefMan
3 weeks ago

London

I had a few verifications on my original profile - but for whatever reason I deleted it, and when I returned a few years later none of those people were here anymore.

In all honesty, I actually had more success on a different swinger website - but again that was many years ago.

TBH, I just don't bother a lot of the time - I really can't be arsed sending speculative messages to hundreds of people in hope of a scrap of attention - so instead they have to find me.

Meanwhile, I just perv the profiles and occasionally chat in the forum.

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By *rnyLadMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Hey mate, this site has changed a lot over the last few years. I think people are unrealistic, ignorant and also I think people get nervous and end up as a messer. Communication is key. Also, I would put a little more content on your profile, pics more description.

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By *rnyLadMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

"I had a few verifications on my original profile - but for whatever reason I deleted it, and when I returned a few years later none of those people were here anymore.

In all honesty, I actually had more success on a different swinger website - but again that was many years ago.

TBH, I just don't bother a lot of the time - I really can't be arsed sending speculative messages to hundreds of people in hope of a scrap of attention - so instead they have to find me.

Meanwhile, I just perv the profiles and occasionally chat in the forum.

Ah, what other site did you use. Direct message me. If ya don't mind.

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By *orkshir20308 OP Man
3 weeks ago

yorkshire

I’d be interested to know if you could dm me too please

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

"Thank you all! I’ve messaged the previous that I’ve met. I’ve changed my profile to sound a little more on the friendly side. "

Really?

Couldn't you use the older profile instead?

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By *ark n kimCouple
3 weeks ago

Durham

Your no effort profile definitely won't help you.

But socials are always a good way to meet people,it's also a good way to get decent verifications.

They can be good fun too.

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