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"Nobody sends me nudes. "Oh Wick, this is truly heartbreaking. Would your life improve with some randomer's penis/boobs in your box? | |||
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"Have you ever been sent an unsolicited, unwanted nude? If you sent a nude/have sent one and the other person didn't want to see it, how would you feel about it and respond? Is anger ever justified as a response (in terms of this)? It's musings inspired by Pickle's thread, fyi! " Hell No Have never sent one or received one wouldn’t be angry about it life’s to short Anyway can’t imagine anyone would want to see a sixty plus man naked Put you off you’re food   | |||
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"Yes I get sent a lot, I just block and move on. I sent messages back before saying I don't appreciate this type of message.That just opened the flood gates for them messaging more. Blocking is easier " Has anyone ever been... less than amused when you've said you don't appreciate it? | |||
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"Never been sent one and never sent one myself. It's always a naturally occurring thing that happens during the flow of conversation. If a lady sent me naked photos without me asking or out chat(s) reaching that point, I wouldn't mind at all. Me sending one just wouldn't happen, as I have yet to break that particular rule and have no plans to in the future. 😊" You wouldn't mind at all? What if it was a nude you'd rather not have seen? I like that it's part of a more natural flow of conversation for you, not just a *bam* kind of thing. | |||
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"I’m not going to talk about dick pics on fab from strangers because we all know it happens. Not to me, admittedly, I use filters 👸🏻 I’ve had many many unsolicited nudes from people- usually people I’m seeing. If I’m seeing someone, it’s always appreciated. They don’t really do much for me by way of turning me on but if there’s a comical element like a funny pose I will be into it. If it’s not someone I’m seeing and it comes out the blue then I’ll probably just block because I can’t imagine a dynamic where I’m talking to someone without suggestion of sex, they send a nude, and I carry on talking with them. That would finish off any chat. Have I sent unsolicited nudes? Yes all the time. Again mostly to people I’m seeing but also every now and then to someone I’m probably going to have sex with. It’s never been unappreciated. If it was, I’d die of humiliation. I would retreat back into the lake and live out my days as the unwanted, rejected, amphibious creature that I am. I wouldn’t cope well if it wasn’t well received " Giz a nude | |||
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"I don't get sent very many, occasionally it's not something to my tastes, and I politely say so. If I send one, it's to someone who has either asked for it or is clearly up for recieving." Clearly up for receiving. Yes, I understand that. Sometimes you just know it will be erm well received. | |||
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"Yes I get sent a lot, I just block and move on. I sent messages back before saying I don't appreciate this type of message.That just opened the flood gates for them messaging more. Blocking is easier Has anyone ever been... less than amused when you've said you don't appreciate it?" Yes, one or two have been aggressive and I've name calling, I shrugged it off reported and blocked them. | |||
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"Hi Meli, happy new year! Yes, I have been sent unsolicited pictures in the past. Even though I could see that little attachment icon, curiosity got the better of me every time. My thoughts are usually "why have they sent me that?" Then I continue on with my day." Hello Willy, Happy New Year! That's a very valid thought, thank you for sharing. | |||
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"Hi Meli, happy new year! Yes, I have been sent unsolicited pictures in the past. Even though I could see that little attachment icon, curiosity got the better of me every time. My thoughts are usually "why have they sent me that?" Then I continue on with my day. Hello Willy, Happy New Year! That's a very valid thought, thank you for sharing." You're welcome, Meli. Have a lovely day! | |||
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"On the rare occasion I did receive one from profiles I hadn't chatted to prior. Just ignored it. I've never sent unsolicited nudes to anyone. Only on request. S" You mean you weren't dripping in them? That's a surprise. Gosh. Only on request... so someone had to ask for one? Never if it felt right in that moment of time, you had to have explicit consent? | |||
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"Even I have had this. From men obviously. Big gaping buttholes asking to be filled. No thank you good sir!" Yeah, I've had a fair amount of these too. I have my tastes, and my first impression (male or female) being an anal gape isn't going to do it for me. Especially with only comment being "fill me". I'm guessing a shotgun approach of "send to all and some one will have that taste somewhere....". M or F, any nude that has some presentation I'm likely to view in some way (from verging on nude to sex), but explicit anal gapes is a no and block from me. | |||
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"Have you ever been sent an unsolicited, unwanted nude? If you sent a nude/have sent one and the other person didn't want to see it, how would you feel about it and respond? Is anger ever justified as a response (in terms of this)? It's musings inspired by Pickle's thread, fyi! Hell No Have never sent one or received one wouldn’t be angry about it life’s to short Anyway can’t imagine anyone would want to see a sixty plus man naked Put you off you’re food " I think some people might want to! Over sixties aren't unattractive because of their age. | |||
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"I've had them, mostly from men lol. Normally I just continue my day but sometimes I think how close is she and is she a Costa or Restaurant lady." A Costa or Restaurant lady? I'm a bit slow... do you mean does she like food or coffee? | |||
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"Never been sent... ... in the future. 😊 You wouldn't mind at all? What if it was a nude you'd rather not have seen? I like that it's part of a more natural flow of conversation for you, not just a *bam* kind of thing. "I guess if it was something disgusting, then I definitely wouldn't appreciate it and an immediate block would be on the cards. But some nice naughty bits or cheeky photos that don't quite show everything? Absolutely happy to peek at them. 🤭 Yeah, I've never been the type to just go "Here's my cock!" and expect them to be instantly turned on by it. It's a common strategy that you hear being complained about all the time, on every service I've used in the past and present. Likely the future too. The dick pic is a bold move and one that seems to have very little success, yet it baffles me why people still try and expect outstanding results. 😆 The majority of ladies I've talked with enjoy the build-up and anticipation of reaching that stage. For both of us to be comfortable with one another and feel that desire to share ourselves intimately, that's just the best feeling. I can only recall one who wanted to see it before we chatted, to which I politely declined and didn't continue any conversation. It's not for me, Jen. | |||
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"I’m not going to talk about dick pics on fab from strangers because we all know it happens. Not to me, admittedly, I use filters 👸🏻 " You're truly virtuous. A queen amongst women. "I’ve had many many unsolicited nudes from people- usually people I’m seeing. If I’m seeing someone, it’s always appreciated. They don’t really do much for me by way of turning me on but if there’s a comical element like a funny pose I will be into it. If it’s not someone I’m seeing and it comes out the blue then I’ll probably just block because I can’t imagine a dynamic where I’m talking to someone without suggestion of sex, they send a nude, and I carry on talking with them. That would finish off any chat. Have I sent unsolicited nudes? Yes all the time. Again mostly to people I’m seeing but also every now and then to someone I’m probably going to have sex with. It’s never been unappreciated. If it was, I’d die of humiliation. I would retreat back into the lake and live out my days as the unwanted, rejected, amphibious creature that I am. I wouldn’t cope well if it wasn’t well received " Not like a troll going back to hiding under its bridge and emerging every seven years for brie, adoration and pumpkin spice lattes? If someone sent you a nude that you never wanted to have sex with but you were friends, how would you respond? | |||
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"I send them purposefully to annoy people no one ever sends them back "Hmmm... I can't decide if this is true or grumpy I hate the world stuff. | |||
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"Even I have had this. From men obviously. Big gaping buttholes asking to be filled. No thank you good sir!" No women have sent you one?  Not even when you were working in Manchester and staying in a hotel for a bit? | |||
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"Depends if all looks right! I've been sent nudes before, but there's a big difference between expected/in line with their profile and what appears to be bots, baiting or cat fishing. There's been nudes sent to me but they appear to be from the person on their profiles and matches what they've sent or I've seen of them. They're saucy but normal people. Then there's unsolicited pics from 10's, new or recent accounts, whereas I'm a 5. If they're a 10 sending nudes to anything below a 9, I'm suspicious. Their profile or previous interactions haven't matched up and the sniff test is failed. I'm then mega cautious to who's sending them " Oh I'd not really thought about fake accounts. Yes, I think some men probably do fall for that really hot, perfect body nineteen year old anal slut wanting to meet Bob the 50 something. | |||
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"Nope never received one and never sent one. Just plain rude." It is a bit much isn't it? I don't know if it's rude always, can't decide on that. | |||
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"Solicited nudes are great, basically. Unsolicited ones are rarely so. Sometimes, but rarely." Yep, that's how I feel; "knowing" your audience is important. | |||
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"On the rare occasion I did receive one from profiles I hadn't chatted to prior. Just ignored it. I've never sent unsolicited nudes to anyone. Only on request. S You mean you weren't dripping in them? That's a surprise. Gosh. Only on request... so someone had to ask for one? Never if it felt right in that moment of time, you had to have explicit consent?" Shock I wasn't knee deep in them eh?😂 I'll rephrase. I never sent an unsolicited nude to someone who hadn't requested one prior. After that was sorted, I'd have sent the odd one, but off the back of 'saucy chat' that made it acceptable and even expected. S | |||
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"Yep, that's how I feel; "knowing" your audience is important. " There is a sort of in-between situation that can go either way. It’s a risky approach, but … When someone knows you from the forums but you’ve never chatted privately, and unexpectedly pops into your inbox with a ‘hello, here’s my tits!’ - that’s either *very* welcome or very much not. It’s a bold gambit. | |||
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" The dick pic is a bold move and one that seems to have very little success, yet it baffles me why people still try and expect outstanding results. 😆 The majority of ladies I've talked with enjoy the build-up and anticipation of reaching that stage. For both of us to be comfortable with one another and feel that desire to share ourselves intimately, that's just the best feeling. I can only recall one who wanted to see it before we chatted, to which I politely declined and didn't continue any conversation. It's not for me, Jen." The dick pic unsolicited is such a bold move! When it works? Fantastic, I'll be daydreaming about it imprinting on my throat. When I've made it very clear there's no sex happening or I've never spoken to someone... I don't get it. I've never seen one that's made me want the person without that initial attraction being there. | |||
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"The dick pic... ... for me, Jen. The dick pic unsolicited is such a bold move! When it works? Fantastic, I'll be daydreaming about it imprinting on my throat. When I've made it very clear there's no sex happening or I've never spoken to someone... I don't get it. I've never seen one that's made me want the person without that initial attraction being there." That's the thing, unless there is attraction (to the person as a whole, not just their physical appearance), I don't see the point either. Sure, you can admire someone's appearance, as we all do from time-to-time. You see some photos and think "Wow, they look gorgeous!" but ultimately, without any connection, it's just something nice to look at. It doesn't do anything more than that. At least not for me, anyhow. The connection being built and wanting to share these naughty things, is what makes it fun. If it's someone I'm chatting with, love to see them. If it's a stranger, sure it might be nice to look at (and the chances it is are 50/50),but overall it doesn't add to the conversation or getting to know them. Granted, some might just want that physical attraction and nothing else. That's up to them, but I always get the feeling they're in the minority everywhere I go. 😂 | |||
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" … Not like a troll going back to hiding under its bridge and emerging every seven years for brie, adoration and pumpkin spice lattes? If someone sent you a nude that you never wanted to have sex with but you were friends, how would you respond?" A troll would also work. My platonic friends send me nudes all the time. Usually they’re for my opinion. Sometimes I get a heads up, sometimes I don’t. It doesn’t bother me. I’m not offended by my friends bodies. If it was a friend I didn’t have that closeness with then I’d want to know why they were sending it | |||
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"I have been sent them, both on here and off. To be honest, it’s very rare I get an unsolicited dick pic on here and if I do it’s usually via the forums (from a lurker). I enjoy a penis pic so it doesn’t bother me, especially on sites such as this. If I was sent one in work by a colleague or something THEN I’d be irate. I don’t think I’ve sent a pic of my bits just for the fun of it. I don’t really have the type of figure that is enjoyed by a lot of folk. If I had a banging body then I may have been inclined (in the past!) to send pics of my bits out to tease a fella, but luckily for men, I don’t have that kind of bod!! And of course, it’s not appropriate. "Good girl with that caveat at the end. 
I wasn't specifically thinking about just this site when I did the OP, it was more general musing. Not localised, if that makes sense. But yes, it's definitely situational. Subjective. How you feel about them in general etc. | |||
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"On the rare occasion I did receive one from profiles I hadn't chatted to prior. Just ignored it. I've never sent unsolicited nudes to anyone. Only on request. S You mean you weren't dripping in them? That's a surprise. Gosh. Only on request... so someone had to ask for one? Never if it felt right in that moment of time, you had to have explicit consent? Shock I wasn't knee deep in them eh?😂 I'll rephrase. I never sent an unsolicited nude to someone who hadn't requested one prior. After that was sorted, I'd have sent the odd one, but off the back of 'saucy chat' that made it acceptable and even expected. S" Always S, always. Please don't ruin that for me. Let me have that image, I'm poorly *cough cough*. See? Poorly. | |||
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"God yes. More times than I can ever remember. I just eye roll and dont comment. If I want a nude, I will ask. Same goes for a dick pic. Although every guys profile on here has one or a billion of them." Sorry to disappoint I don’t and don’t send dick pics For private viewing only | |||
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"God yes. More times than I can ever remember. I just eye roll and dont comment. If I want a nude, I will ask. Same goes for a dick pic. Although every guys profile on here has one or a billion of them. Sorry to disappoint I don’t and don’t send dick pics For private viewing only "Apologies, I meant to rephrase that...most guys. Not all. And I do appreciate the guys with no dick pics on their profiles 😘 | |||
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"God yes. More times than I can ever remember. I just eye roll and dont comment. If I want a nude, I will ask. Same goes for a dick pic. Although every guys profile on here has one or a billion of them. Sorry to disappoint I don’t and don’t send dick pics For private viewing only
Apologies, I meant to rephrase that...most guys. Not all. And I do appreciate the guys with no dick pics on their profiles 😘"I wasn’t having a go and apologize if came across as that I just think that many guys and women for that matter are worth more than dick or vag pic Once again many apologies | |||
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"God yes. More times than I can ever remember. I just eye roll and dont comment. If I want a nude, I will ask. Same goes for a dick pic. Although every guys profile on here has one or a billion of them. Sorry to disappoint I don’t and don’t send dick pics For private viewing only
Apologies, I meant to rephrase that...most guys. Not all. And I do appreciate the guys with no dick pics on their profiles 😘
I wasn’t having a go and apologize if came across as that
I just think that many guys and women for that matter are worth more than dick or vag pic
Once again many apologies "No need to apologise. I agree 100% with you. We all know men have a penis and women have a vagina. Its only if I am interested in the man himself, will I then begin to wonder about his penis. | |||
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"Yep, that's how I feel; "knowing" your audience is important. There is a sort of in-between situation that can go either way. It’s a risky approach, but … When someone knows you from the forums but you’ve never chatted privately, and unexpectedly pops into your inbox with a ‘hello, here’s my tits!’ - that’s either *very* welcome or very much not. It’s a bold gambit." Ohhh! Women do that? Actually, there are some women I can imagine doing that very easily. I might try that with someone I forum know and see how it goes. Thanks for the inspiration Rosie. | |||
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"It's a sex site...I expect to see a lot of things I wouldn't necessarily choose to see... I see some that make me think, what the heck is that It doesn't impact my day, my outlook, my thoughts on the sender or how I fab in my own little corner." But it does make you think 'what the heck is that'. That's still some thought on the sender. A small one but you know. Still tickled with mafting tbh. Need to use it soon. | |||
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" … Not like a troll going back to hiding under its bridge and emerging every seven years for brie, adoration and pumpkin spice lattes? If someone sent you a nude that you never wanted to have sex with but you were friends, how would you respond? A troll would also work. My platonic friends send me nudes all the time. Usually they’re for my opinion. Sometimes I get a heads up, sometimes I don’t. It doesn’t bother me. I’m not offended by my friends bodies. If it was a friend I didn’t have that closeness with then I’d want to know why they were sending it" It's me! I'm a friend who has sent you nudes because your opinion is valued. And also not sugar coated. You're a good person to have around beautiful not troll person. 🩷 | |||
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"God yes. More times than I can ever remember. I just eye roll and dont comment. If I want a nude, I will ask. Same goes for a dick pic. Although every guys profile on here has one or a billion of them. Sorry to disappoint I don’t and don’t send dick pics For private viewing only
Apologies, I meant to rephrase that...most guys. Not all. And I do appreciate the guys with no dick pics on their profiles 😘
I wasn’t having a go and apologize if came across as that
I just think that many guys and women for that matter are worth more than dick or vag pic
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No need to apologise. I agree 100% with you. We all know men have a penis and women have a vagina. Its only if I am interested in the man himself, will I then begin to wonder about his penis. "No truer words said in jest Think it’s about the personality as well and again don’t think about the boobies or vag one look in to her eyes that’s me sold Eyes are the windows to the soul Right best get back to work have great day all | |||
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"Nope never received one and never sent one. Just plain rude. It is a bit much isn't it? I don't know if it's rude always, can't decide on that." Okay, maybe rude was not the right word for it. Depending on case by case situation as well. It's just not something I do. I respect other to much to do it. Not that anyone is going to appreciate getting anything of this bod 😄🤣 | |||
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"Have you ever been sent an unsolicited, unwanted nude? If you sent a nude/have sent one and the other person didn't want to see it, how would you feel about it and respond? Is anger ever justified as a response (in terms of this)? It's musings inspired by Pickle's thread, fyi! " Pretty much receive one every day. Mostly cock pics and occasional action pic. | |||
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"I've been sent nudes from women I've been chatting to before as well as men who have done so in the first message and I think what makes the former hotter is that A) It's a woman, duh but B) that she's into me enough that she would want to send a nude based off our current interaction. " ON this paragraph alone I wish to say... Joe, you are an utter bastard and I hate you. You lucky lucky lucky utter bastard. | |||
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"I've been sent nudes from women I've been chatting to before as well as men who have done so in the first message and I think what makes the former hotter is that A) It's a woman, duh but B) that she's into me enough that she would want to send a nude based off our current interaction. ON this paragraph alone I wish to say... Joe, you are an utter bastard and I hate you. You lucky lucky lucky utter bastard." I'm not lucky, it gets annoying after the 10th one in a row. Horny women are feral 🙄😇 | |||
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"Have you ever been sent an unsolicited, unwanted nude? If you sent a nude/have sent one and the other person didn't want to see it, how would you feel about it and respond? Is anger ever justified as a response (in terms of this)? It's musings inspired by Pickle's thread, fyi! " About 100 times a day on here 😂 | |||
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"Have you ever been sent an unsolicited, unwanted nude? If you sent a nude/have sent one and the other person didn't want to see it, how would you feel about it and respond? Is anger ever justified as a response (in terms of this)? It's musings inspired by Pickle's thread, fyi! About 100 times a day on here 😂" | |||
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"Have you ever been sent an unsolicited, unwanted nude? If you sent a nude/have sent one and the other person didn't want to see it, how would you feel about it and respond? Is anger ever justified as a response (in terms of this)? It's musings inspired by Pickle's thread, fyi! About 100 times a day on here 😂" Forward to me if there not for your eyes ! | |||
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"Have you ever been sent an unsolicited, unwanted nude? If you sent a nude/have sent one and the other person didn't want to see it, how would you feel about it and respond? Is anger ever justified as a response (in terms of this)? It's musings inspired by Pickle's thread, fyi! " Not sure getting angry is ever a good response. All it does is give you more weight to carry around. | |||
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