FabSwingers.com forum: Consent

By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 weeks ago

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I hate to be that guy but do you ever think about all the pictures posted on accounts of sex not including the people in the profile and wonder if they’ve consented to it being posted.

I’m sure they were ok with it being filmed but do you think they have consented to it being posted. Pictures too. So many profiles with pictures of others and I can’t help but think about it.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
3 weeks ago

The Continental

I’d wager that the majority of those pics are posted without consent or knowledge of the other party.

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By *arry McKockiner69Man
3 weeks ago

Exeter

I would imagine there are a good number of pics that have not had any consent for posting on here and possibly videos too. If they meet the photo rules then there isn't really much fab can do, unfortunately.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
3 weeks ago

furnace

Full consent of ladies on mine so fully aware

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By *arry McKockiner69Man
3 weeks ago

Exeter

"Full consent of ladies on mine so fully aware "

Signatures and everything?

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By *nesCouple
3 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

I absolutely hate it.

Same as all the gross men on single profiles requesting chats about their wives, with each other.

Not all men, but always men 🤮

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By *tevenTellyCouple
3 weeks ago

Newmarket

We ask before posting pictures with someone else in them.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
3 weeks ago

furnace

"Full consent of ladies on mine so fully aware

Signatures and everything?

There good friends and have full access to my photos etc

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
3 weeks ago

furnace

"We ask before posting pictures with someone else in them. "

Absolutely

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By *illy IdolMan
3 weeks ago

Midlands

It keeps me awake most nights, Pickles. Especially the couples accounts, they're a law unto themselves.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
3 weeks ago

Lake District

Fully understand your point.

Couples profiles where it's videos or pictures of them both, understandable but single profiles - both men and women - it does make you wonder.....

Really there should be an option to "tag" another person's profile in the picture if you've filmed/taken pictures of a meet from FAB and a box for them to tick they consent it being uploaded.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
3 weeks ago

The Continental

"Fully understand your point.

Couples profiles where it's videos or pictures of them both, understandable but single profiles - both men and women - it does make you wonder.....

Really there should be an option to "tag" another person's profile in the picture if you've filmed/taken pictures of a meet from FAB and a box for them to tick they consent it being uploaded. "

Not really workable.

I’m gonna hazard a guess that a lot of the guys photos that feature others. Are either ex partners, or random hookups.

It’s one of those things that are pretty much impossible to police. It’s easy for the pic owner to say “yes, I have permission” and there’s not a lot anyone can do but take it at face value.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"Fully understand your point.

Couples profiles where it's videos or pictures of them both, understandable but single profiles - both men and women - it does make you wonder.....

Really there should be an option to "tag" another person's profile in the picture if you've filmed/taken pictures of a meet from FAB and a box for them to tick they consent it being uploaded. "

Couples also post pictures and videos saying ‘not my husband’ or various pictures and videos of different men

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By *midnight-Woman
3 weeks ago

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I know pictures of me are sent to random strangers, despite me asking them not to use them. At least they are no longer displayed on their profile which is a small win

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"I know pictures of me are sent to random strangers, despite me asking them not to use them. At least they are no longer displayed on their profile which is a small win "

Disgusting

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By *endalshaggersCouple
3 weeks ago

Lake District

"Fully understand your point.

Couples profiles where it's videos or pictures of them both, understandable but single profiles - both men and women - it does make you wonder.....

Really there should be an option to "tag" another person's profile in the picture if you've filmed/taken pictures of a meet from FAB and a box for them to tick they consent it being uploaded.

Not really workable.

I’m gonna hazard a guess that a lot of the guys photos that feature others. Are either ex partners, or random hookups.

That's true, was just thinking of some sort of workaround for consent that, whilst it wouldn't alleviate the issue, may at least try and narrow it down somewhat.

Agree that there's loads of pictures on here where it's dubious the other person other than the profile holder is aware.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"I know pictures of me are sent to random strangers, despite me asking them not to use them. At least they are no longer displayed on their profile which is a small win "

My other hate- people sending sexual stuff to groups or individuals and there’s no suggestion of consent.

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By *he ShivsCouple
3 weeks ago

Fife

The ones where they show the other persons face but not their own. It’s makes me wonder.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"Fully understand your point.

Couples profiles where it's videos or pictures of them both, understandable but single profiles - both men and women - it does make you wonder.....

Really there should be an option to "tag" another person's profile in the picture if you've filmed/taken pictures of a meet from FAB and a box for them to tick they consent it being uploaded.

Not really workable.

I’m gonna hazard a guess that a lot of the guys photos that feature others. Are either ex partners, or random hookups.

That's true, was just thinking of some sort of workaround for consent that, whilst it wouldn't alleviate the issue, may at least try and narrow it down somewhat.

Agree that there's loads of pictures on here where it's dubious the other person other than the profile holder is aware. "

Totally get you. Tagging is a good solution in my opinion.

I think my other issue is profiles that aren’t even verified being able to upload this stuff

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"The ones where they show the other persons face but not their own. It’s makes me wonder. "

Profile of a man showing just their penis and torso but woman’s entire face while she’s on her knees. Ok mate

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By *he ShivsCouple
3 weeks ago

Fife

"The ones where they show the other persons face but not their own. It’s makes me wonder.

Profile of a man showing just their penis and torso but woman’s entire face while she’s on her knees. Ok mate"

Yeah, I really don’t like it.

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By *xXGemEcsXxXCouple
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

We would never post a picture of video of a meet without the other persons consent. I even send them privately so they can see what’s being posted before I do it. However I can see how easy it is to just say you’ve had their consent

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By *he ShivsCouple
3 weeks ago

Fife

"We would never post a picture of video of a meet without the other persons consent. I even send them privately so they can see what’s being posted before I do it. However I can see how easy it is to just say you’ve had their consent "

There’s really no way around stopping it from happening. They could enforce a rule that you can’t have pictures of others on single profiles, but there’s no stopping couples who can say it’s their partner. It’s horrible for the people who are oblivious to it.

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

Sometimes I think about it. Like now. It's rare though. Anyway, yes it's grim but not sure how it'll be managed. Sometimes they do have consent, other times? I really doubt it.

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By *xXGemEcsXxXCouple
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

"The ones where they show the other persons face but not their own. It’s makes me wonder.

Profile of a man showing just their penis and torso but woman’s entire face while she’s on her knees. Ok mate"

Yeah I don’t like that

one of the reasons we ask our meets if they are ok with us filming with our own device

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By *ansoffateMan
3 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I can appreciate your concern. What proportion are without consent is difficult to gauge though. To me that's more of an issue than whether the images are distasteful.

I don't see a way to police that though. Unless we are to expect every photo taken to be subject to some kind of formal contract detailing its usage. That would then require people to submit their personal information and allow that to be forwarded to sites so that they could verify consent was given?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

If you’re taking pics of yourself and sharing them - either by posting online on via messages - they are out of your control. I found this out the hard way a good few years ago. As much as I agree with you, it’s as simple as that.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"If you’re taking pics of yourself and sharing them - either by posting online on via messages - they are out of your control. I found this out the hard way a good few years ago. As much as I agree with you, it’s as simple as that.

Mrs TMN x"

After but that’s but what the thread is about? If I consent to someone taking a picture of me that’s not consenting for it to be shared online.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Mrs TMN x

After but that’s but what the thread is about? If I consent to someone taking a picture of me that’s not consenting for it to be shared online. "

I hear you. I think it’s pretty much impossible to police, though. You gotta manage your own risks.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chester

Allowing yourself to be pictured or filmed by someone you met on fab is asking for trouble. You know what you're potentially letting yourself in for

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Yes

It’s off putting and I’ll simply not meet someone who’s entire gallery is them hanging out of the back of various other bodies

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By * and R cple4Couple
3 weeks ago

swansea

Every picture we have with other people are friends of ours off and on fab we show them the pictures first to make sure it's ok and they also have pictures of us.

We don't have pictures done with people we dont know or trust as we have heard some stories about pictures being shared without consent on groups.

We've had our pictures used on fake profiles so I'm not sure how fab can police it.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"Yes

It’s off putting and I’ll simply not meet someone who’s entire gallery is them hanging out of the back of various other bodies"

Yeah, well I think I can persuade you.

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By *luebell888Woman
3 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I always ask for consent before I post a pic with me and others.

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By *ansoffateMan
3 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Mrs TMN x

After but that’s but what the thread is about? If I consent to someone taking a picture of me that’s not consenting for it to be shared online.

I hear you. I think it’s pretty much impossible to police, though. You gotta manage your own risks."

I am pretty much in agreement with this. If I felt that strongly about it not being online, then I wouldn't allow the pic in the first place.

I'd only place that level of trust in a partner or very close friend.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West

"I hate to be that guy but do you ever think about all the pictures posted on accounts of sex not including the people in the profile and wonder if they’ve consented to it being posted.

I’m sure they were ok with it being filmed but do you think they have consented to it being posted. Pictures too. So many profiles with pictures of others and I can’t help but think about it. "

Yes, every time I see one. It unsettles me significantly.

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By *partharmonyCouple
3 weeks ago

Ruislip

We have a couple of photos with a lady who has joined us a few times. I checked with her before posting and she was happy with what we have put up. She would have been OK with us putting up more than we did.

If she asked us to take the down we would do it immediately. There was one type of photo she said she didn't want posted so we didn't.

She shows her face and more in her profile.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 weeks ago

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Guys you don’t need to justify to me you have consent. I just was thinking generally about it

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yes I do, especially when the woman would be easily identifiable to those who know her & the man just has a bit of hand or cock in the pic.

As someone else mentioned futher up, I wish men wouldn't try and swap their wives pics or underwear without their knowledge too, it's vile.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Ryde

All pics and videos are taken with full consent during nookie sessions, knowing that we'll be discretely posting them on our profile.

The only reservations they have about posting them are if they want to have their faces obscured or not.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
3 weeks ago

A town near you

"I hate to be that guy but do you ever think about all the pictures posted on accounts of sex not including the people in the profile and wonder if they’ve consented to it being posted.

I’m sure they were ok with it being filmed but do you think they have consented to it being posted. Pictures too. So many profiles with pictures of others and I can’t help but think about it. "

We get a lot of mail from single guys and often they have public images of themselves with women and sometimes inc pics in the message which contain women. Often these guys are unverified so it's unlikely the pics are from a fab play date.

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