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By *IXEN200 OP   Woman
27 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

They say there's a fine line between pain and pleasure. So I'd like to to know how much pain can you handle before it becomes unpleasurable

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By *ir tootMan
27 weeks ago

Raccoon city

I don't do pain at all, maybe bites and spanks are good though. 🤔

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By *ags73Man
27 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Pleasure as I can have a stupidly high tolerance to things

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Depends on the circumstances and relationship

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By *omeones GrumpMan
27 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Depends how hard you spank me

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By *ripfillMan
27 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

I am 100% giving pleasure it’s how I roll

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By *elix SightedMan
27 weeks ago

Cloud 8

30%

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By *ChubsMan
27 weeks ago

West Midlands

I cycled 10 miles home on my mountain bike with a later to be diagnosed trapped nerve in my back, that became unpleasant almost instantly 😫

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

My dentist (who I'm ironically afraid of) says that I gave a very high pain tolerance. She also says I metabolise anaesthetic very fast so she doubles the dose but it's thawed in half the time.

I also never take painkillers (unless it's a headache).

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Bit of both please x

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By *IXEN200 OP   Woman
27 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"My dentist (who I'm ironically afraid of) says that I gave a very high pain tolerance. She also says I metabolise anaesthetic very fast so she doubles the dose but it's thawed in half the time.

I also never take painkillers (unless it's a headache). "

I'm like that my dentist says she has to give me enough anesthetic to knock a small elephant out... now I think of it I hope she wasn't referring to my weight haha

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By *oxy-RedWoman
27 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Pleasure,a little spanking,nibbling that's it

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By *aybickleyMan
27 weeks ago

bromley

I quite like a bit of pain infliction with nice long nails!

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By *tevie1Man
27 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Pain does it for me

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
27 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Anything harder than a feather duster ceases to become pleasure. Actually, even a feather duster tickles like mad

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By *abbit48Man
27 weeks ago

Catterick Garrison

Well there's good pain ( flogging, caning, whipping, brushes hot wax, electro wand) all of which are a pleasure

Then there's bad pain (cuts, headaches, ne koain from collapsed disks)

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Nowhere

Both please

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

But of one before the other

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By *ack688Man
27 weeks ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Heat of the moment stuff, like getting my shoulder bitten or my back scratched while we’re fucking can be great, doing something specifically and intentionally to be painful, nope!

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By *r.ZeusMan
27 weeks ago

Basgiath War College

I have buns of steel, if you spank me you’ll hurt your hand.

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By *IXEN200 OP   Woman
27 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"I have buns of steel, if you spank me you’ll hurt your hand."

I'd like to try that some day.....

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By *IXEN200 OP   Woman
27 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

It's been interesting reading all your replies thank you so much

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By *r.ZeusMan
27 weeks ago

Basgiath War College


"I have buns of steel, if you spank me you’ll hurt your hand.

I'd like to try that some day....."

😈

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By *rant72Man
27 weeks ago

darlington

Love nipple pain , pegs , clamps etc

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By *arkus1812Man
27 weeks ago

Lifes Departure Lounge

"Pain and Pleasure" in equal measure is fun.

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By *vaRoseWoman
27 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

A little bit of pain can enhance the pleasure

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
27 weeks ago

Voldsøy


"A little bit of pain can enhance the pleasure "

Yes, this! 👆

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
27 weeks ago

St Leonards

Well OP,

You could punch me a few times in the face and it might tickle a bit.

But no one's going anywhere near my balls with malicious intent unless they enjoy being in a three month coma afterwards 😘😘 xxxx

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By *ensualMan
27 weeks ago

Sutton

Pain and pleasure in a sexual and BDSM perspective is largely an individual matter, and even for the same individual can vary on each occaision.

There needs to be distinguished activities that vanilla people may consider painful but are enjoyed by those who like those activities. For them it is not painful but is pleasurable, or the pleasure comes from enduring it ( similar to running a marathon).

In my experience as a Top and Dominant in those circumstances there are only a few activities and circumstances where there is a narrow line between pleasure and pain, but largely there is a wide gulf.

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