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By *IXEN200 OP   Woman
3 days ago

newcastle upon tyne

Has anyone ever made a decision to meet someone for a social to then find out they've hidden their profile that same night you were talking to them..

What have you done or what would you do?

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By *aron Von RingsplitterMan
3 days ago

Mottram St Andrew

Similar situation, and I just let it go. It might be a little beguiling or frustrating but c'est la vie.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 days ago

little house on the praire

Never happened to me but maybe they hid their profile as they where meeting you

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By *ad NannaWoman
3 days ago

East London

You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.

If they stopped responding to me I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
3 days ago

pink panther territory


"Never happened to me but maybe they hid their profile as they where meeting you"

This

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By *IXEN200 OP   Woman
3 days ago

newcastle upon tyne


"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.

If they stopped responding to me I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested. "

I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine

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By *orthern StarsCouple
3 days ago

Durham

It's never happened to us. I would be quite dubious but as someone else has said, you can still message them.

Ruby

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 days ago

East London


"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.

If they stopped responding to me I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested.

I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine "

I've had people go quiet because they're busy, then message a couple of hours before the arranged time. I don't start to get ready until I've heard from them and tell them a time I need the green light by.

In this weather I wouldn't bother changing out of my pjs in the morning if I hadn't had a response the previous day.

I don't do sex chat, in case it's all they want.

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By *IXEN200 OP   Woman
2 days ago

newcastle upon tyne


"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.

If they stopped responding to me I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested.

I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine

I've had people go quiet because they're busy, then message a couple of hours before the arranged time. I don't start to get ready until I've heard from them and tell them a time I need the green light by.

In this weather I wouldn't bother changing out of my pjs in the morning if I hadn't had a response the previous day.

I don't do sex chat, in case it's all they want. "

Thanks, I'm not going to be doing anything till I hear from him it's just taking me a long time to build myself up to meeting someone new and now my anxiety kicks in

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 days ago

East London


"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.

If they stopped responding to me I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested.

I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine

I've had people go quiet because they're busy, then message a couple of hours before the arranged time. I don't start to get ready until I've heard from them and tell them a time I need the green light by.

In this weather I wouldn't bother changing out of my pjs in the morning if I hadn't had a response the previous day.

I don't do sex chat, in case it's all they want.

Thanks, I'm not going to be doing anything till I hear from him it's just taking me a long time to build myself up to meeting someone new and now my anxiety kicks in"

It can be a bollock ache at times. Someone changed our plans slightly, last minute this evening and sent me into a panic.

I was close to saying let's do it another time, but I took a deep breath and gave myself a lecture.

I hope they do come through for you, but, if not, try to not let it put you off arranging to meet others.

Remember, no sex chat lol

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By *oopy FroodMan
2 days ago

Orbiting Planet Rupert

The fool

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By *luebell888Woman
2 days ago

Glasgowish


"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.

If they stopped responding to me I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested.

I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine "

I would message again to tell him if you don't hear from him by 10am you will make other plans.

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 days ago

East London


"You can still message them, even with a hidden profile.

If they stopped responding to me, I'd stop messaging and assume they weren't interested.

I sent a message this morning but it's not been read yet, we are planning to meet tomorrow but if he doesn't respond by then. I guess it's his loss not mine

I would message again to tell him if you don't hear from him by 10am you will make other plans. "

And if they message you at 11 am saying, Oh no, I really wanted to see you today, but never mind, we can rearrange. Then, tries to have a conversation about what they want to do to you. Tell them to get lost.

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By *apio51Man
2 days ago

Edinburgh ish

A hidden profile does not mean they don’t want to speak with people they are already speaking to??!! I have conversations with a few people that routinely hide their profiles…usually it’s because they don’t want new people messaging them.

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By *IXEN200 OP   Woman
2 days ago

newcastle upon tyne


"A hidden profile does not mean they don’t want to speak with people they are already speaking to??!! I have conversations with a few people that routinely hide their profiles…usually it’s because they don’t want new people messaging them."

I do understand this totally

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By *IXEN200 OP   Woman
2 days ago

newcastle upon tyne

Thank you for the words of wisdom I'll take them on board and I'll not let it put me off meeting when I'm ready to.

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