FabSwingers.com forum: Love makes you crazy

By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 days ago

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True or false?

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
3 days ago

Merseyside

True

When I first met Tom I literally turned into an idiot and I couldn’t eat anything

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By *nya NeesWoman
3 days ago

Brum

Depends on crazy level prior imo

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By *ony MannMan
3 days ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

It can, but it should be controlled. Money and power can make you crazy, but it's no excuse

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By *ansoffateMan
3 days ago

Sagittarius A

Define crazy

also define true

and false.

Let's not go there with defining love.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 days ago

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"Define crazy

also define true

and false.

Let's not go there with defining love."

Like obsessive. I’ve read a lot about love feeling like obsession. Obsessive thoughts and desires. Etc etc

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By *eliWoman
3 days ago

I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.

The right kind of love though? For me, it brings out my softer, better self. Makes me strive to improve. Makes the world brighter, lights up my soul. I've been dating someone for six months and there's not been one argument. It's so... easy. Feels like home.

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By *ookie46Woman
3 days ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Yes

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By *enuine MikeMan
3 days ago

Guildford

Yes and you can't explain it

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
3 days ago

Birmingham

True if you're with the wrong person.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 days ago

You have to be crazy to fall in love

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 days ago

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"You have to be crazy to fall in love"

I won’t be doing it again.

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
3 days ago

Midlands

"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.

Love this ❤️

Mrs

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 days ago

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"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.

The crazy I’m talking about, you could still feel alongside this.

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By *issmorganWoman
3 days ago

Calderdale innit

I'd say true for some, but not others

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 days ago

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"I'd say true for some, but not others "

#NotAllPeople

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By *eliWoman
3 days ago

"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.

The crazy I’m talking about, you could still feel alongside this. "

How would you describe the crazy you're talking about?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 days ago

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"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.

The crazy I’m talking about, you could still feel alongside this.

How would you describe the crazy you're talking about?"

I described it above as obsessive. Feeling obsessive over the person, thinking about them all the time, talking to them all the time etc. obsessive thoughts and desires.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
3 days ago

Manchester / Cardiff

I agree with Meli when it's right, it's just, well, right!

But love can lead you along many a different path, and sometimes that path can be rocky, or worse, can lead you to a place you didn't want it to take it to.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 days ago

Castlebar

True

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By *eliWoman
3 days ago

"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.

The crazy I’m talking about, you could still feel alongside this.

How would you describe the crazy you're talking about?

I described it above as obsessive. Feeling obsessive over the person, thinking about them all the time, talking to them all the time etc. obsessive thoughts and desires. "

Ah. No, can't say I've experienced that. I know some of my friends have experienced limerence where they get those obsessive level of thoughts. If I am in love with someone I think about them often, little things will remind me of them but it's not obsessive. Perhaps it's down to the person and how they feel rather than the feeling itself.

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By *obilebottomMan
3 days ago

All over

Apparently it changes everything, Hands and faces, earth and sky.🤷‍♂️

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 days ago

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"I don't think so. But then my definition might not be the same as yours so I'm not sure. The wrong kind of love? Definitely.

The crazy I’m talking about, you could still feel alongside this.

How would you describe the crazy you're talking about?

I described it above as obsessive. Feeling obsessive over the person, thinking about them all the time, talking to them all the time etc. obsessive thoughts and desires.

Limerance comes up. I think people can be in love and feel it. Been a while since I experienced it. But I don’t enjoy someone having so much control over my thoughts.

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By *ack688Man
3 days ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Limerance certainly can

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By *avexxMan
3 days ago

cheshire

you cant eat.. you cant sleep... you cant think straight drives you insane.. but its kind of nice tho

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By *oelMan
3 days ago

Worcester

Yeah, head over heals can't think clearly

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 days ago

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It’s ok I just watched a YouTube video

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By *eliWoman
3 days ago

"Perhaps it's down to the person and how they feel rather than the feeling itself.

Limerance comes up. I think people can be in love and feel it. Been a while since I experienced it. But I don’t enjoy someone having so much control over my thoughts. "

People probably can be in love and have obsessive feelings/thoughts. Maybe it's not so much true or false but varying degrees of it. Love doesn't always make you crazy. For some people? Yeah, I can see it does.

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By *irlWithTheHazelEyesWoman
3 days ago

Stirlingshire

True. Especially when it's not reciprocated or you feel like it isn't.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
3 days ago

North Yorkshire

Infatuation or limerence can. I think proper love, once you've actually got to who they are, is much calmer and not-so-crazy-making.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
3 days ago

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"Infatuation or limerence can. I think proper love, once you've actually got to who they are, is much calmer and not-so-crazy-making."

Maybe I’ve never been in love 😭

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 days ago

North West

I think we felt it when we first fell in love, though we were 17/18 at the time.

We did some crazy shit so we could be together and we probably made crap decisions but none that ever had terrible repercussions. There is one incident I won't describe here but possibly THE most romantic, but insane thing anyone has ever done for me, was done by Mr KC as a 17yo

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By *ickedtiesCouple
3 days ago

limerick

It's true...you can't seem to see anything logically or filter what's the truth and what's lies..

Eventually you see through it though! Hopefully sooner rather than later

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By *ansoffateMan
3 days ago

Sagittarius A

"Define crazy

also define true

and false.

Let's not go there with defining love.

Like obsessive. I’ve read a lot about love feeling like obsession. Obsessive thoughts and desires. Etc etc "

Of those I have experienced love with, I can recall how it felt to be still in their silence, as if 30 years ago was yesterday. Yet I cannot recall what I did this time yesterday.

If that makes me crazy then I am glad that I am not well-adjusted to this world.

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By *ags73Man
3 days ago

glasgow-ish

Limerence has been on my mind. I think ‘afterglow’ was in my head and I don’t know. I think I felt i was on the up slope and it’s strange/nice combination.

The other side I guess I know more about, but getting back to before or even or ormal is gonna be the thing.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 days ago

little house on the praire

Sounds more like obsession than love. Love to me is a warm fuzzy feeling and thinking about them a lot. Didn't take over my life though

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By *ripfillMan
3 days ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Love for me is why I got married … then put into darkness for latter years

Fab for me is realism, life, colour and independence

Plus an appreciation for giving

( I owe one v special lady for seeing the light )

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By *mf123Man
3 days ago

with one foot out the door

Tbf i was a lil bit crazy before it but i think its not love that makes the crazy its the fear of losing it once you have it

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 days ago

pink panther territory

True

But a nice kind of crazy

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 days ago

East London

It makes you do stupid things, sometimes.

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By *sWyldWoman
2 days ago

Edinburgh

Yes. True.

Crazy, blind, probably killed a few brain cells, broke my heart and stole all my self worth...

However sometimes it doesn't do those things. It can actually be worth it.

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