FabSwingers.com forum: Serious profile question.

By *gent Coulson OP Man
7 days ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I get a fair few compliments on my profile, however just lately there have been a few negative ones.

Question.

Does my profile come over as all I want is kink, even though I clearly state i don't have to play that way.

Opinions please

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By *iker JackMan
7 days ago

Wolverhampton

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
7 days ago

Cardiff

The song bit is bugging me who sings it ?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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7 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Unless you've changed it in the last 8 minutes.....nope. looks fine to me. 🤷‍♂️

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By *osey WalesMan
7 days ago

La La Land

Apperently people dont read profiles anyway 🤷‍♂️

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
7 days ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"The song bit is bugging me who sings it ? "
it from the song the flame still burns from the film Still Crazy

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By *osey WalesMan
7 days ago

La La Land

All jokes aside i dont see your profile as a bad profile. The kink part is what it is. You say it is not a pre requisite so thats covers that

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By *eeCee76Man
7 days ago

Edinburgh

Looks good to me. You’ve put some thought and time into it as opposed to just being brutal.

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By *rHotNottsMan
7 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think the fact that you say you like kink are are dominant, people will focus on that as a reason to say you’re not from them maybe when it’s possibly due to other reasons like age? I don’t know just a thought.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
7 days ago

Manchester / Cardiff

are the comments specifically negative about your profile OP, or are the 'all you want is kink' comments part of a no thanks type reply/conversation?

Perhaps if it's the latter it's just folk trying to say no politely? If it's the former, then fuck 'em!

I think you're right, your profile does state you're happy with more than just kink, although your photos might mislead someone into not believing what they read. To be fair, your profile is you, if you're happy with it, then it's right! 😊

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
7 days ago

Cardiff

"The song bit is bugging me who sings it ? it from the song the flame still burns from the film Still Crazy"
ah right thank you

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By *riar BelisseWoman
7 days ago

Delightful Bliss

It used to Phil, Yes.

I liked looking at all your rope and suspension work, as I find it interesting. However I can see how many on here wouldn't as they simply aren't into shibari

I hope you can find a happy medium that fits you lovely x

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By *a LunaWoman
7 days ago

South Wales

I think it would only bother those that just looked at the pics and saw the paddles, rope stuff etc and just assume you are just into kink, rather than reading.

The profile write up itself is pretty clear.

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
7 days ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"I think it would only bother those that just looked at the pics and saw the paddles, rope stuff etc and just assume you are just into kink, rather than reading.

The profile write up itself is pretty clear."
Thanks

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