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Paradigm shift alternative culture.

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By *rPunx OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hull

Hopefully this thread can explain to me at what point the attraction of alternative types superceded the hatred and outrage against them. I.e. at what point did trendy (cool kids) types become obsessed with the concept of the (big titty) goth girlfriend. And does the same apply to females in an attraction to alternative guys ?

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
3 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

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By *apio51Man
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh ish

When (most) people woke up and realised perceived societal norms and expectations were just a lot of narrow minded bullshit.

I.e: if you quite like the look of that “alternative” person over there then it is actually ok to be attracted to them. Instead of burying those feelings under a mountain of incorrect perceptions and expectations.

And that’s about all I have to say about that. Anyone for a box of chocolates? You never know what you’re gonna get.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
3 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

I blame those goth porn sites.. though I'm sure 99% .. don't actually contain real Goths...I mean some of them have suntans..😉

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By *mmaleiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Think it was maybe when suicide girls 1st started & it actually had alternative girls on there to start

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By *rPunx OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hull

All pretty good points. It's just I remember on multiple occasions being out in town with my friends and receiving not only verbal abuse but also actual attempted assaults just because someone had taken such offence at our appearance

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By *apio51Man
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh ish


"All pretty good points. It's just I remember on multiple occasions being out in town with my friends and receiving not only verbal abuse but also actual attempted assaults just because someone had taken such offence at our appearance "

Sorry to hear that.

Unfortunately, there are still far too many people getting all upset about what other people are doing.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West

I married your stereotypical geek guy WAYYYYYYY before it was deemed "cool". I married him because I adored (and adore). him and because he's handsome as fuck, more intelligent than anyone I've ever met and wasn't in the slightest bit fazed about becoming a step parent at the age of 17.

Geeks rule

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By *rPunx OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hull


"All pretty good points. It's just I remember on multiple occasions being out in town with my friends and receiving not only verbal abuse but also actual attempted assaults just because someone had taken such offence at our appearance

Sorry to hear that.

Unfortunately, there are still far too many people getting all upset about what other people are doing. "
no worries I know how to look after myself, tbh I used to find it funny they could get so angry at such trivial things. Itsthe people who defend themselves that used to annoy me.

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By *rPunx OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hull


"I married your stereotypical geek guy WAYYYYYYY before it was deemed "cool". I married him because I adored (and adore). him and because he's handsome as fuck, more intelligent than anyone I've ever met and wasn't in the slightest bit fazed about becoming a step parent at the age of 17.

Geeks rule "
👍

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
3 weeks ago

Gravesend

Those people who make snap judgements or have unfounded views on people just because of what they look like or what they choose to wear, or listen to, or take part in are ultimately those people who miss out so much in life.

Our relationship is built on neither of us are the others natural type, but boy is it a fun, strong and long lasting relationship.

P.s. is any big titted goth girls want to come and say hello they are more than welcome lol.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’ve always found goth girls attractive. This will probably rattle a few feathers but it was more the goth lads that looked like they hadn’t had a wash for a month that people didn’t like.

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By *mf123Man
3 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Channel 4 christmas message is they day

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
3 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue


"I’ve always found goth girls attractive. This will probably rattle a few feathers but it was more the goth lads that looked like they hadn’t had a wash for a month that people didn’t like."

I think you're getting goths confused with crusties..😸

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By *eordieJeansCouple
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I’ve always found goth girls attractive. This will probably rattle a few feathers but it was more the goth lads that looked like they hadn’t had a wash for a month that people didn’t like.

I think you're getting goths confused with crusties..😸"

They were all one group when I was at school.

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By *ellinever70Woman
3 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Those people who make snap judgements or have unfounded views on people just because of what they look like or what they choose to wear, or listen to, or take part in are ultimately those people who miss out so much in life.

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I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything after I've made a snap judgement that something about someone is unappealing to me

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By *mmaleiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"Those people who make snap judgements or have unfounded views on people just because of what they look like or what they choose to wear, or listen to, or take part in are ultimately those people who miss out so much in life.

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As a goth, I do this to ‘normal’ guys, they do nothing for me & all blend into eachother

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By *rPunx OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hull

This is all good stuff, I like the differing views. Life would be boring if we were all the same

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By *rPunx OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hull


"

I think you're getting goths confused with crusties..😸"
yep I'd agree with this

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

Fashion changes.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I think it was only 2007 when Sophie Lancaster was murdered for being a goth. That was well into the 'goth girls are hot' process as far as my teen goth self knew. And well after suicidegirls became big. And long after I remember a friend laughing at his big brother for going 'emo' and the brother telling him he'd never had so much pussy in all his life.

The entirety of society will never agree 100% on something 💜

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By *rPunx OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Hull


"I think it was only 2007 when Sophie Lancaster was murdered for being a goth. That was well into the 'goth girls are hot' process as far as my teen goth self knew. And well after suicidegirls became big. And long after I remember a friend laughing at his big brother for going 'emo' and the brother telling him he'd never had so much pussy in all his life.

The entirety of society will never agree 100% on something 💜"
yes the Sophie Lancaster murder was a totally tragic event and highlights the kind of mindless thugs I was talking about before. This reminds me of a time I was with an ex girlfriend and two friends heading to a taxi stand at the end of a night out. Two d*unken thugs (grown men) were shouting abuse and throwing glass bottles at us as we walked past. Having not managed to provoke us they then turned their attention to a single guy a little further behind us who was a heavy metal fan. Punching and kicking him and trying to throw him through a shop window. Myself and the other male friend in our group decided we wouldn't stand for this and came to his aid, pushing back his attackers and helping him up. This all happened as four police men watched and did nothing.

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