FabSwingers.com forum: Unconventional attractions

By *eteyyy32 OP Man
3 weeks ago

redditch

What is something you find attractive that isn’t necessarily intended to be flirtatious or a turn on?

I’ll go first

I find it extremely attractive when a woman can down a pint of beer. Unsure why it works for me but it does.

Does anyone else have anything similar?

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By *enk15Man
3 weeks ago

Evesham

A big yawn and a stretch.

Funnily enough I see a lot of women yawn in my presence.

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By *urry BlokeMan
3 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Strabismus esotropia

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By *elix SightedMan
3 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Chuckling when they fart.

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By *arkjackMan
3 weeks ago

West Cork

A diabolical laugh. Sparks the devil in me. Not every laugh, it is hyperspecific. A lot of what people find attractive is near impossible to articulate.

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By *eteyyy32 OP Man
3 weeks ago

redditch

I had to google what this was but I can understand the attraction

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By *orthern StarsCouple
3 weeks ago

Durham

When I see my husband working. He can be dressed scruffy and up to his eyes in muck but his natural strength when he's handling stuff when working is a huge turn on.

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Being kind to dogs.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

A highly strung young lady

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
3 weeks ago

furnace

It’s all in the eyes

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By *WANDTGCouple
3 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

A women in a shirt.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

Competence. A kindness towards others.

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By *olden RatioWoman
3 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Good posture!

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By *arkjackMan
3 weeks ago

West Cork

"A highly strung young lady"

Yes! A neurotic can be super hot.

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

When someone's really passionate and knowledgeable about something dorky. Passion is incredibly sexy even on dorky topics and I like imagining it directed at me.

I also like watching someone writing. Or reading.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wales

When someone's comfortable enough to be their own weirdly goofy self.

I relate to those types

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By *ochaManMan
3 weeks ago

East of London

A playful nature, not taking themselves too seriously. It gives off self confident vibes I guess.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
3 weeks ago

Scarborogh

Quirky people.

People happy to be themselves.

People who really listen.

Those who reach out to assist others.

Mrs SW

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
3 weeks ago

furnace

Passionate

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By *riSiMan
3 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Being kind to dogs."

That works for me too, in fact any animals.

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By *abioMan
3 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"What is something you find attractive that isn’t necessarily intended to be flirtatious or a turn on?

I’ll go first

I find it extremely attractive when a woman can down a pint of beer. Unsure why it works for me but it does.

Does anyone else have anything similar?"

May I suggest you move to the north east… the use of a “half pint” glass has been banned and the rules for spirits are like darts (doubles and trebles only!)

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

A girl/lady that hit a good golf shot, that’s a big turn on for me 😛

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By *enXdadbodMan
3 weeks ago

North Manchester

Accents.

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By *abioMan
3 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"A girl/lady that hit a good golf shot, that’s a big turn on for me 😛"

Yeah… because what could ever go wrong with giving her a club and telling her to take it out on the ball!

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

A man who giggles

Men who will share their nerdy passions. Please info dump your interests, I love it.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
3 weeks ago

pink panther territory

When someone is actually funny without trying to be

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By *ags73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Sometimes eyes.

Sometimes hands

Sometimes intelligence.

Sometimes it’s tactile

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

I have an unconventional one.. scars! Obviously like all attractions, it’s subjective and not every one I see I find so, but for some reason when they do it for me, they do it for me, no idea why!

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By *herry_BlossomsWoman
3 weeks ago

Barnsley

A man who can call me out on my bullshit without being cruel!

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By *as_no_ideaWoman
3 weeks ago

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Deep conversations, where the other person is showing raw emotions....

They could crying or have tears in their eyes, sharing about how their cat tragically died when they were 10.. and I would be thinking.. damn you are hot, I could jump you right now....

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By *l chapo123Man
3 weeks ago

Costa del sol

A women can listen for me does it

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By *nterblueMan
3 weeks ago

manchester

Altruism can be attractive. Also a slightly off tangent sense of humour.

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By *oble_86Man
3 weeks ago

bedford

Mines very unconventional!

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By *apio51Man
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh ish

Interesting and interested.

But something physical?

Hands. What a woman does with her hands. The way she uses them to explain things, how she holds her drink or brushes her hair.

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
3 weeks ago

Cardiff

"I have an unconventional one.. scars! Obviously like all attractions, it’s subjective and not every one I see I find so, but for some reason when they do it for me, they do it for me, no idea why!"

I'm into it too, I like things that make people unique and human

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By *entlemanrogueMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

when a woman is in that totally relaxed lazing about the house mode clothing, some old oversized comfy top, hair up but messy. that's pretty hot.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
3 weeks ago

Castlebar

Something about hands, especially when a man is driving

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
3 weeks ago

St Leonards

"Something about hands, especially when a man is driving

I had a long-term partner who could get unusually excited by "driving hands".

It's definitely a thing.

I find a goofy clumsiness very attractive.

It makes me very tactile towards a woman.

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

A woman in one of my T-shirts where it’s way too big for her and looks like a night shirt

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By *entleman JayMan
3 weeks ago

Wakefield

Making me laugh.

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By *mf123Man
3 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I like it best when she bends over and her vagina blows you a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

When they talk about something that means a lot to them.

Obviously they have to be hot in the first place else it's just somebody rambling on.

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By *rSircumsizedMan
3 weeks ago

RISCA

I love a woman with a big gap in-between their 2 front teeth. Not missing teeth I may add, just the gap.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

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By *eordieJeansCouple
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’m not into over muscular women but for some reason a woman doing pull up does it for me.

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By *ee642024Woman
3 weeks ago

Crook

Builders in work gear do it for me

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By *ookie46Woman
3 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

When they have a passion for something and tell you about it

Humour

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By *rjonesnotMan
3 weeks ago

ilfracombe

Someone who's confident probably because I'm not

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By *ogerroger69Man
3 weeks ago

West Yorks

I love a nice belly on ladies x

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By *irsSubCouple
3 weeks ago

Darlington

"Strabismus esotropia"

But what about those folks with an exo?

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By *partharmonyCouple
3 weeks ago

Ruislip

A lady in a big wooly jumper.

A lady in a skirt.

A lady in dungarees.

All super-hot to me. Luke

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By *elly_ukcdTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Hinckley

I love the little lines that eminate from the corner of a mature woman's eyes. She probably hates them and potentially spends money and time trying to reduce / prevent them developing. But they say experience and a life lived and smiling anx laughing and squinting on a sunny day.

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By *arkjackMan
3 weeks ago

West Cork

"I love the little lines that eminate from the corner of a mature woman's eyes. She probably hates them and potentially spends money and time trying to reduce / prevent them developing. But they say experience and a life lived and smiling anx laughing and squinting on a sunny day."

Yeah I've often stroked to those, so hot.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
3 weeks ago

Durham

I find quirkiness so undeniably attractive.

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By *iscotti32Woman
3 weeks ago

choomah island

Big noses. Love em

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By *ein-guyMan
3 weeks ago

Cowes

"Chuckling when they fart."

When I first saw this I thought wtf

Then I realised that a fwb of mine does exactly the same thing and I'm strangely attracted to it

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By *rincipessaWoman
3 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

Passion and knowledge, particularly about something I know nothing of. I have someone who traces a finger round my body naming, muscles, bones, joints. Means fuck all to me but doesn’t half make me wet 🙈😂

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By *ruceyyMan
3 weeks ago

London

"Passion and knowledge, particularly about something I know nothing of. I have someone who traces a finger round my body naming, muscles, bones, joints. Means fuck all to me but doesn’t half make me wet 🙈😂"

I would love it if he made it up. This is the theribular...

Annoyingly I am dating a doctor who does this but I don't love it 😂

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
3 weeks ago

Southampton

"When someone's comfortable enough to be their own weirdly goofy self.

I relate to those types

Oh in definitely weird 🤣😉😘

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By *rincipessaWoman
3 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

I would love it if he made it up. This is the theribular...

Annoyingly I am dating a doctor who does this but I don't love it 😂"

Ah that’s where the trust comes in, trust he’s not bullshitting. And trust is very sexy too.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
3 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Play the drums.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Play the drums.

I used to kick ass at Rock Band drums. Got so into it I had to play topless at times

Mrs TMN x

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
3 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"Play the drums.

I used to kick ass at Rock Band drums. Got so into it I had to play topless at times

Mrs TMN x"

I mean, there's flirting, and there's this!

Jtfc

🫠

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By *illy IdolMan
3 weeks ago

Midlands

When they play an instrument and sing.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Someone who is very good at whatever it is they are doing. Who’s in their element. It’s a beautiful and very attractive thing.

Mrs TMN x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Play the drums.

I used to kick ass at Rock Band drums. Got so into it I had to play topless at times

Mrs TMN x

I mean, there's flirting, and there's this!

Jtfc

🫠

Ha ha, I just looked at fab at the right moment

It’s totally true, ask Mr TMN!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Can confirm ^ Tits everywhere

Mr TMN

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By *ogerroger69Man
3 weeks ago

West Yorks

Toned calves & thighs on older women

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By *rilingualMan
3 weeks ago

Guildford

"Competence. A kindness towards others. "

That’s really quite beautiful

Don’t stop being amazing.

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By *ggdrasil66Man
3 weeks ago

Saltdean

Women who like old school music. Anything from Punk and Oi, to 80’s Ronantics and Soul.

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By *ggdrasil66Man
3 weeks ago

Saltdean

"Women who like old school music. Anything from Punk and Oi, to 80’s Ronantics and Soul."

*Romantics.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I find it attractive when someone does something considerate for me without my asking.

For example, recently I my train was cancelled to the airport , and the guy I was in the gym (who I barely know) with said without hesitation “I’ll take you there”, and he woke up at 4am the next day and drove me to my destination, over 2 hrs away.

Another recent time a colleague came over to me holding my jacket and held it open and put it on me. Then rubbed my shoulders and said they don’t want me to get cold. They did it with this really honest sincerity and strength that made me feel some kind of way.

Both of those are pretty mundane things but are also strangely intimate and they really made me start fancying both people involved.

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By *hortyscotWoman
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

I can be a bit sarcastic, but when someone out-sarcasms me I'm sold.

Also, throat tattoos

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

I’m attracted to people that are not conventionally or stereotypically attractive (I’m also attracted to conventionally attractive people too).

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

But to your point OP- I find it very attractive when a woman wears a tracksuit and fresh trainers.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West

"But to your point OP- I find it very attractive when a woman wears a tracksuit and fresh trainers. "

I bought a new outfit actually. It's joggers and a cropped hoodie top. No new trainers tho.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

"But to your point OP- I find it very attractive when a woman wears a tracksuit and fresh trainers.

I bought a new outfit actually. It's joggers and a cropped hoodie top. No new trainers tho."

Get some new trainers and we’ll talk

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West

"But to your point OP- I find it very attractive when a woman wears a tracksuit and fresh trainers.

I bought a new outfit actually. It's joggers and a cropped hoodie top. No new trainers tho.

Get some new trainers and we’ll talk"

I don't need shoes

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By *ags73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"I can be a bit sarcastic, but when someone out-sarcasms me I'm sold.

Also, throat tattoos

Oooh - sarcasm. 🙃

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