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"3 line profile Meet verified by a TV/TS but you’re straight A singles profile where you have videos of you with a woman and photos. Does she know and does she consent. A huge red flag for me" Yeah that’s some random profile I’ve never met before I dunno how to remove the Tv/Ts meet. | |||
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"3 line profile Meet verified by a TV/TS but you’re straight A singles profile where you have videos of you with a woman and photos. Does she know and does she consent. A huge red flag for me Yeah that’s some random profile I’ve never met before I dunno how to remove the Tv/Ts meet. " How can it be a random profile you’ve never met? You have pics and videos of someone you’ve never met? I’m very confused. | |||
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"3 line profile Meet verified by a TV/TS but you’re straight A singles profile where you have videos of you with a woman and photos. Does she know and does she consent. A huge red flag for me Yeah that’s some random profile I’ve never met before I dunno how to remove the Tv/Ts meet. How can it be a random profile you’ve never met? You have pics and videos of someone you’ve never met? I’m very confused. " Whether that’s for the photos or videos or the verification it shows that some part of the profile is fake, the OP has admitted that | |||
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" Meet verified by a TV/TS but you’re straight " I agree with this, it's confusing to a woman. Also the will meet 18-99 thing is a put off for me, that shows no preferences just any fanny will do. | |||
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"3 line profile Meet verified by a TV/TS but you’re straight A singles profile where you have videos of you with a woman and photos. Does she know and does she consent. A huge red flag for me Yeah that’s some random profile I’ve never met before I dunno how to remove the Tv/Ts meet. How can it be a random profile you’ve never met? You have pics and videos of someone you’ve never met? I’m very confused. " No lol I don’t have pics of them it’s just some random profile. There are pics of me with a former lover who is a woman and other than that it’s just pics of me. The profile has hidden itself I honestly don’t know why it’s chosen me | |||
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"Yeah that’s some random profile I’ve never met before I dunno how to remove the Tv/Ts meet. " Have you reported it as a fake verification? Or contacted the person who left it? Profile says absolutely nothing about you. More space is taken up by a disclaimer about how no-one has the right to use your photos while you have photos of someone you're not longer seeing, when it's generally considered that if any consent was ever given to share photos of a partner it is revoked when you part ways. That'd be an instant no for me 💜 | |||
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"Yeah that’s some random profile I’ve never met before I dunno how to remove the Tv/Ts meet. Have you reported it as a fake verification? Or contacted the person who left it? Profile says absolutely nothing about you. More space is taken up by a disclaimer about how no-one has the right to use your photos while you have photos of someone you're not longer seeing, when it's generally considered that if any consent was ever given to share photos of a partner it is revoked when you part ways. That'd be an instant no for me 💜" He says it’s a fake verification but he would need to be verified to post video. I think it wasn’t fake just regretted. | |||
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"Yeah that’s some random profile I’ve never met before I dunno how to remove the Tv/Ts meet. Have you reported it as a fake verification? Or contacted the person who left it? Profile says absolutely nothing about you. More space is taken up by a disclaimer about how no-one has the right to use your photos while you have photos of someone you're not longer seeing, when it's generally considered that if any consent was ever given to share photos of a partner it is revoked when you part ways. That'd be an instant no for me 💜" She gave me permission to use the photos as long as her face wasn’t shown? | |||
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"He says it’s a fake verification but he would need to be verified to post video. I think it wasn’t fake just regretted. " Oh I'm not bothering to argue that, assumptions have already been made. Just asking if he's done anything to resolve it if were actually fake or mistaken 💜 | |||
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"She gave me permission to use the photos as long as her face wasn’t shown? " They all say that buddy. When you part ways with someone you should not be sharing their photos assuming consent from when you were together remains. And there is absolutely no way for people to confirm the truth of it. So most women will see it and expect you to do the same with pictures of them. Also, her face is in those pictures. | |||
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"She gave me permission to use the photos as long as her face wasn’t shown? They all say that buddy. When you part ways with someone you should not be sharing their photos assuming consent from when you were together remains. And there is absolutely no way for people to confirm the truth of it. So most women will see it and expect you to do the same with pictures of them. Also, her face is in those pictures." Not only most woman but men as well As you have pointed out there’s a disclaimer saying not to use his photos but he is clearly showing someone else Piss poor form | |||
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"She gave me permission to use the photos as long as her face wasn’t shown? They all say that buddy. When you part ways with someone you should not be sharing their photos assuming consent from when you were together remains. And there is absolutely no way for people to confirm the truth of it. So most women will see it and expect you to do the same with pictures of them. Also, her face is in those pictures." We’re still friends who fuck on occasions, she’s perfectly fine with it all. I don’t see her face at all in the pics. You’ve literally been zero help. Thanks. | |||
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"Yeah that’s some random profile I’ve never met before I dunno how to remove the Tv/Ts meet. Have you reported it as a fake verification? Or contacted the person who left it? Profile says absolutely nothing about you. More space is taken up by a disclaimer about how no-one has the right to use your photos while you have photos of someone you're not longer seeing, when it's generally considered that if any consent was ever given to share photos of a partner it is revoked when you part ways. That'd be an instant no for me 💜 He says it’s a fake verification but he would need to be verified to post video. I think it wasn’t fake just regretted. " Haha no regrets whatsoever! I’m just confused as to how someone can verify a meet with me when they haven’t met me before. Also how do you report/delete their meet? | |||
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"She gave me permission to use the photos as long as her face wasn’t shown? They all say that buddy. When you part ways with someone you should not be sharing their photos assuming consent from when you were together remains. And there is absolutely no way for people to confirm the truth of it. So most women will see it and expect you to do the same with pictures of them. Also, her face is in those pictures. We’re still friends who fuck on occasions, she’s perfectly fine with it all. I don’t see her face at all in the pics. You’ve literally been zero help. Thanks. " If you say so buddy. I specifically stated that most women will see the pictures and assume you'll post pictures of them without consent and that's gonna be an instant no. But sure. No help at all in explaining why nobody is responding positively to you 💜 | |||
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"I’ve been on here for a while now and just dont really know what I’m doing wrong when it comes to engagement with women. I feel I do everything right, I read the bio, I listen to what women want and don’t want, I make the effort of sending well thought messages without putting pressure on from the get go and all I get in return is deleted messages. So I’m at my wits end and I’d like the women of this site to please let me know what I’m doing wrong, critique my page, my bio, my pics etc. I don’t even wanna meet anymore but for fuck sake some conversation would be nice!!! Let me know " You have all the sex vids on your profile you're doing ok! | |||
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"She gave me permission to use the photos as long as her face wasn’t shown? They all say that buddy. When you part ways with someone you should not be sharing their photos assuming consent from when you were together remains. And there is absolutely no way for people to confirm the truth of it. So most women will see it and expect you to do the same with pictures of them. Also, her face is in those pictures. We’re still friends who fuck on occasions, she’s perfectly fine with it all. I don’t see her face at all in the pics. You’ve literally been zero help. Thanks. If you say so buddy. I specifically stated that most women will see the pictures and assume you'll post pictures of them without consent and that's gonna be an instant no. But sure. No help at all in explaining why nobody is responding positively to you 💜" I just don’t understand the need to attack the way you have, I’m simply asking a question on how to become more approachable to women on here and your response is to call me out on stuff you know nothing about with accusations that aren’t true? I was led to believe this is a community of like minded people who all want the same thing. It feels like you’re fishing for an argument and I can’t be bothered for that. You’ve made the assumption and I’ve just explained my situation. So I don’t believe what you’ve said is helpful nor do I believe you had any intention of being helpful but I appreciate your concern ❤️ | |||
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"She gave me permission to use the photos as long as her face wasn’t shown? They all say that buddy. When you part ways with someone you should not be sharing their photos assuming consent from when you were together remains. And there is absolutely no way for people to confirm the truth of it. So most women will see it and expect you to do the same with pictures of them. Also, her face is in those pictures. We’re still friends who fuck on occasions, she’s perfectly fine with it all. I don’t see her face at all in the pics. You’ve literally been zero help. Thanks. If you say so buddy. I specifically stated that most women will see the pictures and assume you'll post pictures of them without consent and that's gonna be an instant no. But sure. No help at all in explaining why nobody is responding positively to you 💜" If I had created this thread, this answer would be the light bulb above my head moment. | |||
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"14 of your 18 pictures are essentially the same, so we got bored even before reading the profile. " That’s fair I suppose I can be a bit more creative with my pictures | |||
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"Kinda don't want the OP to change a thing so he can keep all his red flags in place as a community service." Sorry I got distracted by all the green flags and booty on your profile, jeeeez! | |||
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"She gave me permission to use the photos as long as her face wasn’t shown? They all say that buddy. When you part ways with someone you should not be sharing their photos assuming consent from when you were together remains. And there is absolutely no way for people to confirm the truth of it. So most women will see it and expect you to do the same with pictures of them. Also, her face is in those pictures. We’re still friends who fuck on occasions, she’s perfectly fine with it all. I don’t see her face at all in the pics. You’ve literally been zero help. Thanks. If you say so buddy. I specifically stated that most women will see the pictures and assume you'll post pictures of them without consent and that's gonna be an instant no. But sure. No help at all in explaining why nobody is responding positively to you 💜 I just don’t understand the need to attack the way you have, I’m simply asking a question on how to become more approachable to women on here and your response is to call me out on stuff you know nothing about with accusations that aren’t true? I was led to believe this is a community of like minded people who all want the same thing. It feels like you’re fishing for an argument and I can’t be bothered for that. You’ve made the assumption and I’ve just explained my situation. So I don’t believe what you’ve said is helpful nor do I believe you had any intention of being helpful but I appreciate your concern ❤️" You have singled the replies of this one person out where everyone else has almost said the same. So why pick on one person? And you’re right it is or can be a community of like minded people. And part of being in any community is looking after each other. So if people see photos of others on a single profile where there is no mention of consent then it will be called out Also the title of your post is “roast me” Don’t ask to be roasted or even have what would be considered helpful advice given if you then pick it apart | |||
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"I just don’t understand the need to attack the way you have, I’m simply asking a question on how to become more approachable to women on here and your response is to call me out on stuff you know nothing about with accusations that aren’t true? I was led to believe this is a community of like minded people who all want the same thing. It feels like you’re fishing for an argument and I can’t be bothered for that. You’ve made the assumption and I’ve just explained my situation. So I don’t believe what you’ve said is helpful nor do I believe you had any intention of being helpful but I appreciate your concern ❤️" You asked a question. I replied with an answer. If you have pictures of someone else on a single profile and no clear link to the profile of that person to verify consent, it will be assumed that you do not have consent to share them, and it will put people off. You can declare all you like that there is consent and that there's no face on show in those blowjob pictures and videos (there is), but the simple fact is that it will put people off. And having most of your profile text taken up with a statement that no-one has the right to use your photos only seals that. I'm sorry you feel attacked by someone pointing out that there will be obvious assumptions made from those. Or that you feel it had to be an argument when simple facts of perception were pointed out to you. If you have consent, then you do you, post whatever you like. But when no woman wants to talk to you and you wonder why, don't ask if you don't actually want to know 💜 | |||
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"Funny the bj pic is gone now " The fuck am I supposed to do then? Not listen to the advice? | |||
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I'm not meeting the others. I assume he's not a virgin and I'd not want pictures to prove he's not.
What do you think your 2 videos add? They seem thoughtless. If my needs are ignored, I'm out of there immediately | |||
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"Your expectations might have been unrealistic. Perhaps first error. What percentage of women do you expect generally to want to have sex with you? And what about the women here? You'll only reasonably get replies from people who might have sex with you. If not mutually compatible, they'll delete and potentially block you. I want to know how the person I may have fucking me, actually looks, so I can guage attraction. Why a man adds someone into his pictures, making this harder or impossible for me, is beyond me .
I'm not meeting the others. I assume he's not a virgin and I'd not want pictures to prove he's not.
What do you think your 2 videos add? They seem thoughtless. If my needs are ignored, I'm out of there immediately "Thank you, given me a lot to think about. You’re right they are thoughtless, I’ve just found that profiles with vids tend to have a higher verification/meet count. Maybe I shouldn’t have assumed that | |||
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"Your expectations might have been unrealistic. Perhaps first error. What percentage of women do you expect generally to want to have sex with you? And what about the women here? You'll only reasonably get replies from people who might have sex with you. If not mutually compatible, they'll delete and potentially block you. I want to know how the person I may have fucking me, actually looks, so I can guage attraction. Why a man adds someone into his pictures, making this harder or impossible for me, is beyond me .
I'm not meeting the others. I assume he's not a virgin and I'd not want pictures to prove he's not.
What do you think your 2 videos add? They seem thoughtless. If my needs are ignored, I'm out of there immediately
Thank you, given me a lot to think about. You’re right they are thoughtless, I’ve just found that profiles with vids tend to have a higher verification/meet count. Maybe I shouldn’t have assumed that "By all means have videos. But have videos of yourself, and not some random woman. Potential partners want to see YOU, not just a bit of you hanging out of a woman. | |||
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"Action shots with others immediately put me off. It raises questions of consent to their images being shared, plus I’m not interested in what they look like with your cock just in shot Dark, out of focus images with your laundry in the foreground - come on some effort please. Lazy pics = lazy fuck. Rest of your pics are all the same at the same angle. Think about lighting, angles, shadow and shade. If the background neat and tidy, remove items that don’t need to be there, make your bed etc. Bio is blank, so I would auto delete. You can be hunours, serious, matter of fact or silly but for fuck sake put something. " THANK YOU! Exactly what I needed to hear, profile revamp is needed then | |||
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