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By *arry bethelABC OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

If the tables were turned hiw woukd you make your first message to a guy

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By *ickshawedCouple
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Send him a picture of my tits and the word FAF?

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
3 weeks ago

The Continental


"Send him a picture of my tits and the word FAF? "

Nah, it’ll never catch on.

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By *arry bethelABC OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Haha works everytime

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Picture of my cock and a message saying drain my balls is all I’d need to do.

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Take a pic on the toilet and ask if they wanted a piece of this in the back of my van

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By *riar BelisseWoman
3 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Read his profile and write a message with our compatible likes, attached with a clear face pic.

The most important part is to not get angst, if he chooses to delete my message

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
3 weeks ago

The Continental


"Take a pic on the toilet and ask if they wanted a piece of this in the back of my van "

You had me at toilet.

Oooft

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
3 weeks ago

Bristol

Guys don’t need much chatting up. A little interest goes a long way, haha. You could basically wink.

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"Send him a picture of my tits and the word FAF? "

Detecting a little bit of sarcasm, although it's probably a successful tactic vice versa 🤣 x

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"Take a pic on the toilet and ask if they wanted a piece of this in the back of my van "

Again 🤣👍

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By *arry bethelABC OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Haha Deyey yeah i didnt factor in the diference between males and females

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Honestly if the status quo was reversed I'd be fucking terrible!

Good job I have a very charming man who connects with most people, I won't mention the number of times I've been a shit 'wing-woman' on meeting and messaging 🤦🤣 x

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'd send a simple Hey because that's all they need.

Then I'd follow up with the ?????? Just to make sure they didn't miss my amazing message.

Then I'd think about why they haven't replied and realised it can't be about me because I'm fantastic.. so it must be about them. So I'd follow up again with are you shy?

I'd then get in my feelings, call them a hoe and tell them I didn't fancy them anyway.

I'd then check my other 5000 copy and paste messages and repeat.

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By *ouple49Couple
3 weeks ago

Cheshire and Borders


"If the tables were turned hiw woukd you make your first message to a guy"

Just create a blank profile, it’s like fishing for Mackerel lol

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I wow them with my hilarious and seductive personality of course. And send a nude.

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"Haha Deyey yeah i didnt factor in the diference between males and females"

Merely market forces 'supply and demand ' 😉

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"I'd send a simple Hey because that's all they need.

Then I'd follow up with the ?????? Just to make sure they didn't miss my amazing message.

Then I'd think about why they haven't replied and realised it can't be about me because I'm fantastic.. so it must be about them. So I'd follow up again with are you shy?

I'd then get in my feelings, call them a hoe and tell them I didn't fancy them anyway.

I'd then check my other 5000 copy and paste messages and repeat."

🤣😉🤦

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"I wow them with my hilarious and seductive personality of course. And send a nude. "

Wouldn't need to be nude gorgeous!! 🔥

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"Take a pic on the toilet and ask if they wanted a piece of this in the back of my van

Again 🤣👍"

In all seriousness I’ve been the one to message first and it’s generally been a chat about something on their profile or forum related.

I haven’t got the patience to trawl through hundreds of profiles in search of just one I find possibly attractive so credit to the guys that do

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By *arry bethelABC OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"I wow them with my hilarious and seductive personality of course. And send a nude. "

Hahaha

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By *arry bethelABC OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

These responses have been fun. Forum crack is best part of fab

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

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I wouldn't chat them up. I'd just talk to them. I've sent first messages of varying lengths, about various things. It works for me.

The last first message I sent? I think it was a rather cheesy "Hey (redacted), didn't think I'd ever see you back". He liked it so much he keeps coming back. 🥰

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By *.hrisMan
3 weeks ago

Bath


"Send him a picture of my tits and the word FAF? "

That would work for me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'd say

'Hi

My name's X, have a look at my profile, if you're interested get in touch'

because I genuinely can't see anything wrong with that approach from anybody.

It leaves them with a clear choice and the sender (in this case a hypothetical single me) in no doubt as to the other person's interest or lack of.

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"I'd say

'Hi

My name's X, have a look at my profile, if you're interested get in touch'

because I genuinely can't see anything wrong with that approach from anybody.

It leaves them with a clear choice and the sender (in this case a hypothetical single me) in no doubt as to the other person's interest or lack of. "

Exactly, would you attach a face picture initially? 😘

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

3 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I'd say

'Hi

My name's X, have a look at my profile, if you're interested get in touch'

because I genuinely can't see anything wrong with that approach from anybody.

It leaves them with a clear choice and the sender (in this case a hypothetical single me) in no doubt as to the other person's interest or lack of.

Exactly, would you attach a face picture initially? 😘"

If I was here as a single woman, no. That horror is best left until I've got them hooked...

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"I'd say

'Hi

My name's X, have a look at my profile, if you're interested get in touch'

because I genuinely can't see anything wrong with that approach from anybody.

It leaves them with a clear choice and the sender (in this case a hypothetical single me) in no doubt as to the other person's interest or lack of.

Exactly, would you attach a face picture initially? 😘

If I was here as a single woman, no. That horror is best left until I've got them hooked... "

🤣👍

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By *midnight-Woman
3 weeks ago

...

I'd send a picture of my gash and a 'free now?' message

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By *hirleyMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere


"I'd send a simple Hey because that's all they need.

Then I'd follow up with the ?????? Just to make sure they didn't miss my amazing message.

Then I'd think about why they haven't replied and realised it can't be about me because I'm fantastic.. so it must be about them. So I'd follow up again with are you shy?

I'd then get in my feelings, call them a hoe and tell them I didn't fancy them anyway.

I'd then check my other 5000 copy and paste messages and repeat."

Only 5000? Amateur numbers

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By *arry bethelABC OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"I'd send a picture of my gash and a 'free now?' message"

Gash is a strong word

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

A simple "get your coat, you've pulled" 🤣🤣

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By *ubFTMTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Swindon

Fuck now?

How most of the messages I receive are written lol

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By *midnight-Woman
3 weeks ago

...


"I'd send a picture of my gash and a 'free now?' message

Gash is a strong word"

Ohh...too much for a sex site 🤭🤭

..is cunt better

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By *hirleyMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere


"I'd say

'Hi

My name's X, have a look at my profile, if you're interested get in touch'

because I genuinely can't see anything wrong with that approach from anybody.

It leaves them with a clear choice and the sender (in this case a hypothetical single me) in no doubt as to the other person's interest or lack of.

Exactly, would you attach a face picture initially? 😘

If I was here as a single woman, no. That horror is best left until I've got them hooked... "

I knew you were a card player

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By *arry bethelABC OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"A simple "get your coat, you've pulled" 🤣🤣"

Haha the classics are the best

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By *arry bethelABC OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"I'd send a picture of my gash and a 'free now?' message

Gash is a strong word

Ohh...too much for a sex site 🤭🤭

..is cunt better "

Haha love it

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By *hirleyMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere


"I'd send a picture of my gash and a 'free now?' message

Gash is a strong word

Ohh...too much for a sex site 🤭🤭

..is cunt better "

No, you said free gash, where?

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By *r TriomanMan
3 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Read his profile and write a message with our compatible likes, attached with a clear face pic.

The most important part is to not get angst, if he chooses to delete my message "

Treating others as you wish to be treated yourself, it's the only way - I love it but I doubt it'll ever catch on.

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By *iscotti32Woman
3 weeks ago

choomah island

Normally I message saying I want them in my vagina 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *arry bethelABC OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"Normally I message saying I want them in my vagina 🤷🏻‍♀️"

Anyone ever said no?

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By *hirleyMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere


"Normally I message saying I want them in my vagina 🤷🏻‍♀️"

Cool mighty boosh reference 😅

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
3 weeks ago

West Suffolk/Essex

We don’t usually search as guys come searching, but we do message guys that have viewed us and not messaged us that we think would be a good fit. 75% reply positivity so we do wonder why they never messaged.

But I guess the ironic answer to your question for a woman would be to send them a pic of their pussy and ask if they wanted some of it.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
3 weeks ago

North West


"I'd send a simple Hey because that's all they need.

Then I'd follow up with the ?????? Just to make sure they didn't miss my amazing message.

Then I'd think about why they haven't replied and realised it can't be about me because I'm fantastic.. so it must be about them. So I'd follow up again with are you shy?

I'd then get in my feelings, call them a hoe and tell them I didn't fancy them anyway.

I'd then check my other 5000 copy and paste messages and repeat."

First answer is this ^^^ 👌

Otherwise. If it's someone I've met at a group social along the lines of "It was great to meet you at... For the avoidance of all doubt I fancy you"

Or if they're going to be at an event and I think there might be mutual interest I'll send a message telling them I'm looking forward to saying hello in person. I will also send this message to people I just want to say hello to too. I'm a nightmare. 😂

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
3 weeks ago

Coventry


"Send him a picture of my tits and the word FAF? "

The funny thing is the disparity in how male promiscuity plays vs female promiscuity play out. I'd say you'd be 99% successful in that (the other 1% probably being a guys who can't work it around their wife, family and work)

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By *arry bethelABC OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"Send him a picture of my tits and the word FAF?

The funny thing is the disparity in how male promiscuity plays vs female promiscuity play out. I'd say you'd be 99% successful in that (the other 1% probably being a guys who can't work it around their wife, family and work)"

Think more than 1% might have that issue

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By *ddie1966Man
3 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Honestly....

If a message appeared in my inbox from a woman, I wouldn't care what the content was, I'd be grabbing my car keys.

If I noticed it was from Raven or Midnight, I'd be fainted, holding my phone to my chest!

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By *ildTimes.Man
3 weeks ago

Colchester/London


"Honestly....

If a message appeared in my inbox from a woman, I wouldn't care what the content was, I'd be grabbing my car keys.

If I noticed it was from Raven or Midnight, I'd be fainted, holding my phone to my chest! "

I've got loads I've rejected... I'll send them your way 😉

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By *oberto7Man
3 weeks ago

Greenock

Ffs m8 come out the closet ! No big deal nowadays

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
3 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Hint

Cake works for me 🍰

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Pic of open legs - faf?

That's how the guys do it so it must work right.

Mrs

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By *arry bethelABC OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"Pic of open legs - faf?

That's how the guys do it so it must work right.

Mrs "

Would definteley work

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By *attooedskinzMan
3 weeks ago

Tayside


"Take a pic on the toilet and ask if they wanted a piece of this in the back of my van "

Would work for me

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By *istyblue1967Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

send a picture from your messy bedroom ?????

lol lol

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By *iscotti32Woman
3 weeks ago

choomah island


"Normally I message saying I want them in my vagina 🤷🏻‍♀️

Anyone ever said no?"

Nope

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By *iscotti32Woman
3 weeks ago

choomah island


"Normally I message saying I want them in my vagina 🤷🏻‍♀️

Cool mighty boosh reference 😅"

It upsets me how many people don’t have a clue and just think im unhinged 😂

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