FabSwingers.com forum: Meet ads, but blocked from messaging

By *oggstarr OP Man
9 weeks ago

Calderfornia

Just a quick one - if a meet is advertised on the site, and it explicitly says they are looking for guys, but when you try to message the people, they've blocked guys from messaging - what is that about?

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
9 weeks ago

Swansea

They may have forgotten to drop their filters or they could be contacting those on their friends list or hotlist directly.

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"Just a quick one - if a meet is advertised on the site, and it explicitly says they are looking for guys, but when you try to message the people, they've blocked guys from messaging - what is that about?"

Maybe they use the fabs on the meet to view those interested and contact the ones they like the look of

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
9 weeks ago

Excommunicdo.

They’re doing the searching for guys they’re interested in, rather than having to deal with an inbox full of unsuitable guys.

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By *enshun4Man
9 weeks ago

Cheshire

There are so many that do this can be frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

They message the guys?

They've blocked guys to go through all he messages they've already received?

They only want those they've previously contacted?

Either way op, you ain't getting it so I wouldn't worry about it.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Just fab the meet, if they’re interested, they’ll contact you

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By *ugby 123Couple
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9 weeks ago

O o O oo

I can understand people blocking a certain gender from mails even though they say it is what they are looking for as they could be choosing who they want to mail...but I have never got why a meet would be posted and keep the mail filters on , how are they going to know who is interested.

The only thing I can think of is they have forgotten they have mail filters set and are now thinking to themselves well that's not good, not one person is interested !!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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9 weeks ago

O o O oo

"They’re doing the searching for guys they’re interested in, rather than having to deal with an inbox full of unsuitable guys. "

But surely they can do that anyway?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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9 weeks ago

O o O oo

PS, welcome to the forum OP

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
9 weeks ago

North West

Maybe they use the fabs on the meet to view those interested and contact the ones they like the look of"

Can you see fabs on a meet? I've never found where to see those.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

It's perhaps that they've temporarily suspended new messages, whilst they deal with contacts they do have. There's no waiting list option, so they can open contact, when they are ready.

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By *ildTimes.Man
9 weeks ago

Colchester/London

They're attention seekers...ignore them

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Maybe they use the fabs on the meet to view those interested and contact the ones they like the look of

Can you see fabs on a meet? I've never found where to see those. "

I’ve no idea as I’ve never posted a meet

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe the meet request is for their friends or past meets only, to see if anyone is free.

Or they may just do the searching themselves and put the meet up to show they're open to a meet.

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By *oggstarr OP Man
9 weeks ago

Calderfornia

"PS, welcome to the forum OP"

Thank you!

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