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By *utieBootyPatootie OP   Woman
1 week ago

Here or There abouts

Another forum post just made me think of the last time I had fun with my fwb an thought I'd share my embarrassment lol

I sometimes find it hard to cum at all not sure if it's me or the guys that I'm letting near me. I can't cum from penetration only clitoral stimulation will do.

so I was in bed having a ball with my fwb, the sex had been done, he'd cum and he was using one of my dildos on me while I got to work with my vibrator, teamwork makes the dreamwork! Or not in this case, we were trying to make me cum for a good 40 mins both our arms were getting tired but we perservered and he's offering hot and horny words of encouragement like come on baby cum for me that's it good girl, ect...

An eventually he said I'm sorry love but I gotta go and we both just bust out laughing so no big o for me that night but it's not the be all and end all, just made me feel slightly embarrassed when he announced he had to leave like he was getting bored wanking me an watching me wank lol but it was 5am in the morning so, understandable lol

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
1 week ago

Willenhall


"

we were trying to make me cum for a good 40 mins both our arms were getting tired but we perservered and he's offering hot and horny words of encouragement like come on baby cum for me that's it good girl, ect..."

Maybe if he tried saying something like "come on you dirty bitch; you fucking love this don't you? Yeah...go on, groan...I'm gonna stick my fingers in your arse and lick your clit whilst I twist this around inside you" sort of talk might have worked.

I think I can confidently chalk up my "thread killer" tally after that one.

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

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I'd feel mortified. I also would have stopped a lot sooner than then. It sounds like there was a heap of pressure on you coming and it was too late/early for those kind of shenanigans. Do you still see him now?

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By *anther81Man
1 week ago

Drogheda

You get it easier to cum on your own?

I get it hard to cum with partners and at times it doesn’t happen for me. Can be turned on and hard but just can’t cum

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By *hePleasurerMan
1 week ago

Cheshire

I'd be ashamed if I let myself cum before giving the woman a good orgasm or three...

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By *dam1971Man
1 week ago

Bedford

If you’re already feeling the pressure, being told “cum for me” probably only makes it worse?

Glad you were able to laugh it off together, now to find a way of both of you making it better next time!

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By *ortyairCouple
1 week ago

Wallasey

Don't worry about it. I have only had an organised from some else twice. I cannot cum from penetrative, I'm not a big fan of receiving oral and can only cum by manual stimulation of my clit.

Only my hubby has made me cum like this and like I said its only been twice.

But I can make myself cum about 90% of the time and don't feel like I'm missing out on anything.

It's the pressure guys place on themselves to make a woman cum that's the real issue. So by removing this, sex is just about fun rather than about reaching a destination.

So don't get hung up about getting there, just enjoy the ride,

Mrs x

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By *anilla-sinCouple
1 week ago

lancs

When it gets to that stage.. we call it "chopping wood". Because you can do it for hours, get hot, sweaty, tired, and nobody is going to cum from it 😆

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By *ell GwynnWoman
1 week ago

North Yorkshire

I can be the same, OP. I don't tend to carry on for more than 10 mins as overstimulation can mean it'll never happen. I'd rather stop, cuddle, talk nonsense and try again later. Especially if my FWB has to leave soon.

My embarrassing story? On Friday, my FWB pushed my knees up to my chest to go down on me. That position made me "swallow" air, and I queefed in his face. Twice. Luckily, he's already farted in front of me (dirty bugger), so the embarrassment was minimal, and we had a good laugh. I'd have been mortified if it was with someone I didn't know well 🙈

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
1 week ago

Ends

I’m not reading all that

But congrats

Or sorry that happened to you.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

It's near impossible for me if I can't get out my head, which is rare.

I'd have just faked it and then gone to sleep.

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By *utieBootyPatootie OP   Woman
1 week ago

Here or There abouts


"

we were trying to make me cum for a good 40 mins both our arms were getting tired but we perservered and he's offering hot and horny words of encouragement like come on baby cum for me that's it good girl, ect...

Maybe if he tried saying something like "come on you dirty bitch; you fucking love this don't you? Yeah...go on, groan...I'm gonna stick my fingers in your arse and lick your clit whilst I twist this around inside you" sort of talk might have worked.

Haha, maybe, guess I'll never know, i doubt it would have, if it aint happening from a good plunging and vibrating I dont think any form of words would have helped lol "

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By *utieBootyPatootie OP   Woman
1 week ago

Here or There abouts


"I'd feel mortified. I also would have stopped a lot sooner than then. It sounds like there was a heap of pressure on you coming and it was too late/early for those kind of shenanigans. Do you still see him now?

Yeah it was too late an we were both already tired after the fun beforehand, I also felt pressured, not that he was pressuring me but the longer it took without "results" made me v aware of the time an in my head too much I guess plus I felt stagefright lol like hes just there staring at me, waiting 😬

An yeah we still meet now, have known him a good few years an is a good freind minus the sexy fun in all the years ive known him hes only made me cum like a handful of times but yeah thats more on me than him, my pussy is a cunt lol

The first time when he managed to make me cum we high fived after an laughed our asses off 🤣"

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By *utieBootyPatootie OP   Woman
1 week ago

Here or There abouts


"You get it easier to cum on your own?

I get it hard to cum with partners and at times it doesn’t happen for me. Can be turned on and hard but just can’t cum

Sometimes i can cum on my own sometimes i find it hard to get myself there so what chance has a man got if i cant even manage it myself lol but yeah its not the be all and end all im more than happy to take part and enjoy the ride regardless of if i reach my destination "

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By *utieBootyPatootie OP   Woman
1 week ago

Here or There abouts


"

It's the pressure guys place on themselves to make a woman cum that's the real issue. So by removing this, sex is just about fun rather than about reaching a destination.

So don't get hung up about getting there, just enjoy the ride,

Mrs x

^^^ this, my thoughts exactly "

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By *midnight-Woman
1 week ago

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I can O in just a few mins on my own, when turned on...but I can't do it with a partner... I like specific porn/ written words to tip me over the edge

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By *utieBootyPatootie OP   Woman
1 week ago

Here or There abouts


"When it gets to that stage.. we call it "chopping wood". Because you can do it for hours, get hot, sweaty, tired, and nobody is going to cum from it 😆

Lol chopping wood 😁"

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By *ags73Man
1 week ago

glasgow-ish


"I can O in just a few mins on my own, when turned on...but I can't do it with a partner... I like specific porn/ written words to tip me over the edge"

Would whispering in your ear work?

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By *utieBootyPatootie OP   Woman
1 week ago

Here or There abouts


"I can be the same, OP. I don't tend to carry on for more than 10 mins as overstimulation can mean it'll never happen. I'd rather stop, cuddle, talk nonsense and try again later. Especially if my FWB has to leave soon.

My embarrassing story? On Friday, my FWB pushed my knees up to my chest to go down on me. That position made me "swallow" air, and I queefed in his face. Twice. Luckily, he's already farted in front of me (dirty bugger), so the embarrassment was minimal, and we had a good laugh. I'd have been mortified if it was with someone I didn't know well 🙈

lol yeah these things happen and its good it happened with someone your comfortable with an could just laugh it off "

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By *midnight-Woman
1 week ago

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"I can O in just a few mins on my own, when turned on...but I can't do it with a partner... I like specific porn/ written words to tip me over the edge

Would whispering in your ear work?"

Possibly but it would have to be very specific

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By *ags73Man
1 week ago

glasgow-ish


"I can O in just a few mins on my own, when turned on...but I can't do it with a partner... I like specific porn/ written words to tip me over the edge

Would whispering in your ear work?

Possibly but it would have to be very specific "

The right words sort of thing.

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By *vonne5exMan
1 week ago

Doncaster


"I'd feel mortified. I also would have stopped a lot sooner than then. It sounds like there was a heap of pressure on you coming and it was too late/early for those kind of shenanigans. Do you still see him now? "
Read what she says and she's not the only woman to be like this.

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