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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Earlier in the year i dated a guy into tantric sex and i have to say i wasn't very impressed. Not sure if he was doing it right but he seemed to think that there shouldn't be foreplay, that during sex he would just suddenly stop and do deep breathing for a couple of minutes regardless of if i wanted him to stop before suddenly starting again and he never came, he didn't want to actually orgasm from sex. Needless to say i wasn't very impressed and it didn't last long.

What are other peoples experiences of tantric sex?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Earlier in the year i dated a guy into tantric sex and i have to say i wasn't very impressed. Not sure if he was doing it right but he seemed to think that there shouldn't be foreplay, that during sex he would just suddenly stop and do deep breathing for a couple of minutes regardless of if i wanted him to stop before suddenly starting again and he never came, he didn't want to actually orgasm from sex. Needless to say i wasn't very impressed and it didn't last long.

What are other peoples experiences of tantric sex? "
Very very very different. But I think it is a llittle bit like BDSM and other leanings - different people understand different things by the same word?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did question him and he said as he was indian and it was the teachings from home. I have to admit the stopping to take deep breaths and then i had to stay still and not be distracting was rather unsexy lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I did question him and he said as he was indian and it was the teachings from home. I have to admit the stopping to take deep breaths and then i had to stay still and not be distracting was rather unsexy lol"
Sounds like the natural flow of things was interrupted at what was the wrong time for you.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Earlier in the year i dated a guy into tantric sex and i have to say i wasn't very impressed. Not sure if he was doing it right but he seemed to think that there shouldn't be foreplay, that during sex he would just suddenly stop and do deep breathing for a couple of minutes regardless of if i wanted him to stop before suddenly starting again and he never came, he didn't want to actually orgasm from sex. Needless to say i wasn't very impressed and it didn't last long.

What are other peoples experiences of tantric sex? "

Just a stab in the dark but perhaps a technique to stop him from orgasming......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh it was but he then wouldnt cum anyway. He told me he had limited himself to 12 times that year.

So how is proper tantric different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. But wouldn't just slowing down a bit and concentrating on pleasures for the lady instead of himself be better? That's what I do.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


" I agree. But wouldn't just slowing down a bit and concentrating on pleasures for the lady instead of himself be better? That's what I do. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half Man Half Biscuit have a song entitled

Surging out of Convalescence - One of the lines is:-

"Last Ash Wednesday I had tantric sex and it was shit"

If it's made it into a song, it's probably true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did question him and he said as he was indian and it was the teachings from home. I have to admit the stopping to take deep breaths and then i had to stay still and not be distracting was rather unsexy lol"

He was probably concentrating on keeping it hard many of these tric'ers go into it as they struggle to maintain wood.

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