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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago

Couples , do you ever want to be approached by single guys?

If yes, what's your ideal way to be approached?

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
6 weeks ago

The Continental

I suppose it’s pretty simple really.

Introduce yourself and ask if you can join them for a drink/chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago


"I suppose it’s pretty simple really.

Introduce yourself and ask if you can join them for a drink/chat. "

What's your success rate?

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By *rdere OpusCouple
6 weeks ago

Brum - ish

For us, a key point is to approach socially at first. If your view would be that you’ve wasted your time talking if it goes nowhere sexually, I would see it as you’re coming at it wrongly.

There’s nothing wrong with hope of course but any kind of expectation, or resentment if it’s only a social interaction, would not be how we’d want to be approached.

Won’t be the same for everyone but we like to make contacts not purely get stuck straight in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago


"For us, a key point is to approach socially at first. If your view would be that you’ve wasted your time talking if it goes nowhere sexually, I would see it as you’re coming at it wrongly.

There’s nothing wrong with hope of course but any kind of expectation, or resentment if it’s only a social interaction, would not be how we’d want to be approached.

Won’t be the same for everyone but we like to make contacts not purely get stuck straight in. "

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
6 weeks ago

The Continental


"I suppose it’s pretty simple really.

Introduce yourself and ask if you can join them for a drink/chat.

What's your success rate?"

I wouldn’t know, I don’t go to clubs.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
6 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Just make conversation like you would with anyone in a normal bar and if we all like each other it would naturally progress from there.

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By *iss DevilWoman
6 weeks ago

Bedford


"I suppose it’s pretty simple really.

Introduce yourself and ask if you can join them for a drink/chat. "

This! I don't need anyone to join me when I'm in a club as I normally go with either my partner or my FWB. So if anyone wants to join us, they need to make a little bit of effort and talk to me like a person when I am chilling in the social area, not when I'm already playing. Also, do spend more than 30 seconds interacting before running off to other parts of the club or expecting to play.

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By *end1Man
6 weeks ago

southend on sea

I just use the opening line of can I smash the wife's dirtbox! 😂😂

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago


"I just use the opening line of can I smash the wife's dirtbox! 😂😂"

🤣🤣

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By *urreyfun2008Man
6 weeks ago

East Grinstead

Mine is more of the dance badly on dance floor and and grab the nearest sofa spot when its break time and say hi.

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By *anielpiercedMan
6 weeks ago

by the seaside


"I suppose it’s pretty simple really.

Introduce yourself and ask if you can join them for a drink/chat. "

^^ This, but also engage with both parties don't just speak to the female half. Be polite and friendly and don't have any expectations. If something happens it happens don't try and force something.

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