FabSwingers.com forum: Timewasters

By *ensual Desires OP Man
31 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

Don't you just hate timewasters. Ho to meet they say to go to another place to meet them and don't turn up.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
31 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Can't say it was ever a common occurrence for me even when I was meeting one on one.

If someone changed the location last minute I'd opt out anyway rather than chase them all over.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

If I arranged to meet someone in one place and they were not there, then they told me to go to another I would definitely want to know why

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By *enk15Man
31 weeks ago

Evesham

"Don't you just hate timewasters. Ho to meet they say to go to another place to meet them and don't turn up. "

Sorry this happened to you, OP.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
31 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Don't you just hate timewasters. Ho to meet they say to go to another place to meet them and don't turn up. "

Some people are utter fuckwits x

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

A valuable, if harsh, lesson learned.

Don’t go chasing the pussy all over the show. Arrange to meet at one place, and if they don’t turn up there…..go home.

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
31 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

Im not good out at night but i thought put myself out there then this anxiety bad now

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

It won’t always happen that way. You’ll get a sixth sense for those that intend to meet and those just being dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Im not good out at night but i thought put myself out there then this anxiety bad now "

If you’re not good out at night then let them know that when you’re talking of setting a meet up

A lot of people have reasons why they can’t meet at certain times so be clear

I think that people are afraid to say that something doesn’t work for them and compromise what they would normally do

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
31 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

I was agoraphobic for 2 years

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

Kudos on getting yourself out there.

Set yourself some ground rules, sensible ones. It helps.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
31 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"I was agoraphobic for 2 years "

That's fantastic you've got yourself out of the house x

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

This is why I never bother. They never show up. Always some shit excuse or just unable to contact on the day. Waste of time.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
31 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"This is why I never bother. They never show up. Always some shit excuse or just unable to contact on the day. Waste of time. "
if I was anywhere near Leeds I'd definitely turn up for a meet

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By *YDB75Man
31 weeks ago

Beverley

Its what makes this place annoying at times

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By *hirleyMan
31 weeks ago

London

Ohh god no. Love a good timewaster me. I've got so much time it makes no odds to how much I get out of it

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By *ojangles69Woman
31 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

"A valuable, if harsh, lesson learned.

Don’t go chasing the pussy all over the show. Arrange to meet at one place, and if they don’t turn up there…..go home. "

Or cocks too....its their loss....don't know what they have missed out on!! Well that's my way if thinking..... negative into a positive! Plus think of it as a lucky escape!

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By *oxy-RedWoman
31 weeks ago

pink panther territory

Crap happens op,not nice but unfortunately it happens

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By *cotlad178Man
31 weeks ago

falkirk

Yep and one of my peaves is they'll give you a postcode and say to msg when there but then after that they proceed to go offline and ghost, so just wasted fuel/ transport fair money 😔

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By *ucka39Man
31 weeks ago

Newcastle

Always have a backup plan, never experienced a time waster, time is of the essence

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By *tsJustKateWoman
31 weeks ago

London

It's why I now insist on guys picking me up from home, if they don't show then I can just get back into my PJs.

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
31 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

"It's why I now insist on guys picking me up from home, if they don't show then I can just get back into my PJs.

I'd turn up gor you

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
31 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

"Yep and one of my peaves is they'll give you a postcode and say to msg when there but then after that they proceed to go offline and ghost, so just wasted fuel/ transport fair money 😔"

Yea gave me a postcode after it was a deadend street

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By *ensual Desires OP Man
31 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

"Crap happens op,not nice but unfortunately it happens"

Yes. For some reason I cannot see your profile yet we have never spoken

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Lots, time wasters and prick teases on here.

All very keen on message and then suddenly nothing. I know it happens to women too and I’m sure is annoying, but women have literally the pick of guys here in general- 99% men get hardly any response on message here normally so when you do get something you look forward to it- then that goes to shit and it’s ages of nothing again

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By *ealitybitesMan
31 weeks ago

Belfast

I can honestly say I don't hate timewasters.

My only time wasting experience in almost 9 years here is people who waste their own time by not reading my profile or trying to push their own agenda.

I've never had a no show but then again I don't meet without at least one social which will always be in a public place.

Any suggestion of meeting at someones house or a random postcode brings that conversation to an immediate end.

I've had conversations lasting weeks or months that have fizzled out but I've always thought of those as part of the process rather than a waste of my time.

If I agree to meet someone it will always be somewhere that offers the safest option for both of us which is why I have turned down requests from women with dozens of verifications to go to their homes.

If they are happy to invite me as a complete stranger into their home and share their name and address with someone they've only ever chatted to online, they are not women I have any interest in meeting.

The fact I've never had a no show, been stood up or catfished or engaged with a fake profile on here isn't down to luck.

It's all down to risk assessment and due diligence.

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By *udie NudieMan
24 weeks ago

Newcastle NE3

"...The fact I've never had a no show, been stood up or catfished or engaged with a fake profile on here isn't down to luck.

It's all down to risk assessment and due diligence."

I agree.

I have friends who say I'm lucky. It's not luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Well, sometimes it's best to exchange everything before making a move to meet because people are not reliable and are liars.

Trust no one but be honest because the truth always comes out.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
24 weeks ago

Reading

Just focus on the fact that you showed up. That's the real achievement here.

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By *inkShyWoman
24 weeks ago

near Windsor

Sorry that happened to you. I've been fortunate in my meets, but that is a worry I had beforehand. Says more about them than you though x

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