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A commanding dom for Midnight

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
9 weeks ago

All over

With permission from midnight and since is nearly the new year, I am helping to find a good commanding dom guy for her. I am sure others will enjoy the thread too. You have to be the real deal and only post on here as a possible suitor if you think you will make the grade. Study midnight's profile really carefully and come forward if you are that commanding dom. Let's see if you are aout there

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By *arrus8t5Man
9 weeks ago

manchester

Haha you actually did it

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By *asty tatsyMan
9 weeks ago

london

I am defo putting myself forward I’m well aware of the risks and I think it’s safe to say im pretty sane 😁😁😁

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By *tr8MrEMan
9 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop

Oh dear!!

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By *elix SightedMan
9 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"Haha you actually did it"

MB always follows through…

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I'm gonna say none exist on the forums...you'll get some wannabes though.

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By *he MinionMan
9 weeks ago

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I'm of the opinion that if you need to claim to be a dom, you aint one.

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By *aitonelMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

What's in it for me?

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By *asty tatsyMan
9 weeks ago

london


"I'm gonna say none exist on the forums...you'll get some wannabes though. "

Thread closed then

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
9 weeks ago

All over


"What's in it for me? "

No idea, you will need to ask midnight for that and you may not fit hwr ctitetia anyway

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
9 weeks ago

Essex

Goddam my stupid tits

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By *he Silver FuxMan
9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Surely a ‘commanding dom’ is a pleonasm 🤨

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By *cottish guy 555Man
9 weeks ago

London


"Goddam my stupid tits "

Wash your mouth out.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
9 weeks ago

North West

For a full D/s relationship or for occasional scenes?

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
9 weeks ago

All over


"Surely a ‘commanding dom’ is a pleonasm 🤨

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You are probably right but I used midnight's words. Perhaps she wanted the emphasis

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By *aitonelMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool


"What's in it for me?

No idea, you will need to ask midnight for that and you may not fit hwr ctitetia anyway "

That's her problem.

Bit pointless if she isn't here to answer any enquiries.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
9 weeks ago

All over


"What's in it for me?

No idea, you will need to ask midnight for that and you may not fit hwr ctitetia anyway

That's her problem.

Bit pointless if she isn't here to answer any enquiries. "

I must say, I hope she does as I don't have a clue in these matters

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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🤩🤩🤩 oh yes fantastic!

Gentlemen, permission to message if you think our interests align and you are local-ish to me 😎😎

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"I am defo putting myself forward I’m well aware of the risks and I think it’s safe to say im pretty sane 😁😁😁"

Aww you are in London though ! That is definitely not local-ish to me 😭

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"I'm gonna say none exist on the forums...you'll get some wannabes though. "

But what if there is one.. I only need one... I'm always optimistic 😍

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"I'm of the opinion that if you need to claim to be a dom, you aint one."

It does sometimes help to establish initial interest though

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"What's in it for me? "

Well that would need to be discussed and agreed

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"Goddam my stupid tits "

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"For a full D/s relationship or for occasional scenes? "

Ideally the former

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"Surely a ‘commanding dom’ is a pleonasm 🤨

You are probably right but I used midnight's words. Perhaps she wanted the emphasis "

Very true... I've had a few wishy washy one's in my mailbox so just trying to distinguish

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By *asty tatsyMan
9 weeks ago

london


"I am defo putting myself forward I’m well aware of the risks and I think it’s safe to say im pretty sane 😁😁😁

Aww you are in London though ! That is definitely not local-ish to me 😭"

Oh I know but I thought you’d like what u did there 😁

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
9 weeks ago

North West


"For a full D/s relationship or for occasional scenes?

Ideally the former "

I don't think I can help then (well not me, but commanding do types I know)

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By *rPunxMan
9 weeks ago

Hull

Normally a submissive picks the Dom as they are the ones who chose to submit control to someone they can trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

There are more suitable options than me on this thread so I’m out. All the best to whoever gets to fill the slot

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
9 weeks ago

Essex


"Normally a submissive picks the Dom as they are the ones who chose to submit control to someone they can trust."

But one needs menus to peruse

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By *rPunxMan
9 weeks ago

Hull


"Normally a submissive picks the Dom as they are the ones who chose to submit control to someone they can trust.

But one needs menus to peruse "

True. Though a quick flick through

posters profiles could give some inclination. I suppose I could get into a massive discussion of what is a Dom and what is a submissive and current trends etc. But it has been a long day and I'm a little tired.

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By *ags73Man
9 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Too far away. Meh.

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By *ruceyyMan
9 weeks ago

London

In

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
9 weeks ago

St Leonards

I'd enter the room to this:

https://youtu.be/-bzWSJG93P8?si=gNtbrIBUUTx5Qs2t

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
9 weeks ago

St Leonards


"I'd enter the room to this:

https://youtu.be/-bzWSJG93P8?si=gNtbrIBUUTx5Qs2t"

...but she'd have to put up with my fuchsia hotpants and nipple tassels.

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By *ea monkeyMan
9 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

*Throws hat in the ring*

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By *rPunxMan
9 weeks ago

Hull

All i can say is my menu is on display. Just a little detective work is needed to find it. 😉

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I’ve just had an inbox offering me 4 “real men” who are “real doms” to sort me out.

I’m not in the mood for quotation mark doms shall I pass them on to you midnight?

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By *nsaneronMan
9 weeks ago

Plymouth

Unfortunately way too far away.

Only been a Dom 37 years god I’m old 🤣

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By *avexxMan
9 weeks ago

cheshire

nope im way to old for this woman

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"I’ve just had an inbox offering me 4 “real men” who are “real doms” to sort me out.

I’m not in the mood for quotation mark doms shall I pass them on to you midnight?"

This is my problem too

I can literally feel the hairs lifting on my arm when I open a certain style of message. Maybe I need to open more messages 🤔🤔

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

If any dommes are reading this thread, hmu.

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

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Have you tried the site that's more kink friendly?

*just trying to reply like I would to a man looking for that kind of dynamic.

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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It's like a venn diagram is needed

Too old, too young, too close, too far, too Dom, not dom...

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
9 weeks ago

Ends


"Have you tried the site that's more kink friendly?

*just trying to reply like I would to a man looking for that kind of dynamic. "

Equality #

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"If any dommes are reading this thread, hmu. "

Oiii!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
9 weeks ago

Wherever

Any left overs going spare?

Send them my way.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
9 weeks ago

Ends


"If any dommes are reading this thread, hmu.

Oiii!"

Still hate me I see

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"Have you tried the site that's more kink friendly?

*just trying to reply like I would to a man looking for that kind of dynamic. "

Yes - I'll add my username to my profile again..had some interesting crossover last time I was here

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
9 weeks ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"Have you tried the site that's more kink friendly?

*just trying to reply like I would to a man looking for that kind of dynamic. "

Meli, are you an inhabitant of that site also?

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By *nsaneronMan
9 weeks ago

Plymouth


"It's like a venn diagram is needed

Too old, too young, too close, too far, too Dom, not dom... "

Have you tried Fet.

Doms don’t come one size fits all, from my experience we Dom/sub need to build a happy equilibrium through talking and vetting as much as I dislike that phrase.

Limits and safe words need to be discussed before ever thinking of play

Good luck with your search

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By *ildTimes.Man
9 weeks ago

Colchester/London

Unfortunately my name's not Dom so I'm out...good luck though

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By *aitonelMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I’ve just had an inbox offering me 4 “real men” who are “real doms” to sort me out.

I’m not in the mood for quotation mark doms shall I pass them on to you midnight?

This is my problem too

I can literally feel the hairs lifting on my arm when I open a certain style of message. Maybe I need to open more messages 🤔🤔"

Is there a course with a certificate at the end to become a real dom?

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"I’ve just had an inbox offering me 4 “real men” who are “real doms” to sort me out.

I’m not in the mood for quotation mark doms shall I pass them on to you midnight?

This is my problem too

I can literally feel the hairs lifting on my arm when I open a certain style of message. Maybe I need to open more messages 🤔🤔

Is there a course with a certificate at the end to become a real dom? "

I did get a certificate from my last Dom 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *ruceyyMan
9 weeks ago

London

Midnight here's the deal.

You look pretty in that lingerie. Ill seduce you with flirty chat, then be in control and before you know it you'll be giving me handies and foot massages.

Shall we crack on?

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By *asterfulsoulMan
9 weeks ago

Manchester

They're only Dom(me)s if they're from the Dompagne region of France, otherwise they're just sparkling authoritarians.

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By *rPunxMan
9 weeks ago

Hull

I must say all this 50 shades bs has alot to answer for.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
9 weeks ago

St Leonards


"They're only Dom(me)s if they're from the Dompagne region of France, otherwise they're just sparkling authoritarians."

Winner

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

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"Have you tried the site that's more kink friendly?

*just trying to reply like I would to a man looking for that kind of dynamic.

Meli, are you an inhabitant of that site also? "

An inhabitant really tickled me. Yes but I very, very, very rarely use it. Last time was to read something a friend shared with me.

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By *ags73Man
9 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"It's like a venn diagram is needed

Too old, too young, too close, too far, too Dom, not dom... "

Weekend in Glasgow?

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"They're only Dom(me)s if they're from the Dompagne region of France, otherwise they're just sparkling authoritarians."

Ok you win this made me actually laugh

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby

As a younger guy in his late 20s with an awkward disposition... Out

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"As a younger guy in his late 20s with an awkward disposition... Out"

OMG beanie !! You'll be giving fab an orgasm appearing here

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