FabSwingers.com forum: Do you have to cum

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've always considered cumming as a key part of sex and love it if my partner does, jyst as much as if I do.

But I was surprised that previous gfs have said that they don't always need to cum to enjoy having sex and that's okay.

Is that actually a thing? Or am I just shit at sex and they didn't want to hurt my feelings?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Both maybe.

It's true. But also maybe they did think you were shit too.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

No I don't.

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By *he milf next doorWoman
over a year ago

bluebell woods

^ what he said

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By *atch0101Man
over a year ago

The wrong place

"No I don't. "

Your image has grabbed me.what are you your music tastes?

Sorry OP to jump on your thread. Didn't want to send a pointless pm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I don't.

Your image has grabbed me.what are you your music tastes?

Sorry OP to jump on your thread. Didn't want to send a pointless pm"

It's no longer mine once I've sent it into the world... it takes a life of It's own.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I reach orgasm incredibly easily.

If someone is trying to get me off and they can't, it probably is shit sex.

Unless we're playing silly deliberate denial games.

But. That's not the case for most people as far as I'm aware.

And I don't consider an orgasm the point at which sex is completed 💜

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both maybe.

It's true. But also maybe they did think you were shit too. "

Alas, I fear this to ge the case.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think that sex is more enjoyable when you get out of your own head and just enjoy all the feel good stuff that is happening rather than anything that isn't

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By *ildTimes.Man
over a year ago

Wherever I May Roam

Yes of course and it's time for them to leave

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Too much emphasis is put on cumming, like it's the holy grail of sex. That's crap, it takes two for good sex, the onus isn't on one person. If someone doesn't cum, it doesn't mean the other person is shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont always cum. I enjoy the journey nonetheless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Yes. "

Try harder then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d always prefer to cum but it’s not the be all and end all. The best sex I ever had was when I was on prescription painkillers and couldn’t cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Try harder then"

You try harder!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Yes of course and it's time for them to leave "

So long as they're not " mid " women eh ??🤣

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Yes.

Try harder then

You try harder!"

I did! I was disappointed

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By *herrybakewellCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

It's never a given for me (Mr) with new people.

It certainly doesn't mean I've not enjoyed myself though.

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By *ildTimes.Man
over a year ago

Wherever I May Roam

"Yes of course and it's time for them to leave

So long as they're not " mid " women eh ??🤣"

They wouldn't even be in my bed if they were 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cumming is awesome. Not essential though.

The pre-cumming waves though…. If I’m not getting those, I’m not meeting again.

Harsh - maybe.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

I don't cum everytime I have sex but I still enjoy myself, and I don't feel frustrated after.

Mrs

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't need too to enjoy it x

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By *idssissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Nr cricket ground birm

I rarely cum during kink or sex play and prefer not to. It's about others pleasure

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By *haosAfterDarkCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Tbh obviously I live when I cum, it feels good, but I'm more happy when my husband (or whoever lol) cums

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

I’m happier seeing the woman come and if I do too, that’s great.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No I don't. I get more of a kick out of making my partner orgasm.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes it is a thing. I have to know someone very, very well to have an orgasm but I enjoy the whole erotic encounter none the less.

I concentrate on the journey rather than the destination.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No, just kiss me lots with body contact, and I'll be fine.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

I don’t need to if I am having anal sex as I just enjoy the body sensations

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

No, and not many can get me to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t need to cum, in fact I hardly ever cum.

I’m happy as long as I’ve had what I needed from the session

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

I very rarely cum anyway (aka never) and I prefer if they do, but without any pressure or set goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex, I love all the activities .... I don't need to cum to have a fantastic time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I very rarely cum anyway (aka never) and I prefer if they do, but without any pressure or set goal."

This is also me.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Hiding

I am lucky, I cum easily and anyone who struggles to make me cum is not going to get another invite.

I would love to get whoever I'm with to cum as it's a huge turn on. However, I do realise not everyone is as blessed as I am in the cuming department so as long as they enjoyed themselves, I'm happy.

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