FabSwingers.com forum: This year I learned…

By *ea monkey OP Man
9 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yes, it’s a retrospective thread, no, it’s not serious.

What did you learn this year? It can be as big or as small as you like, just an understanding that every year is a lesson of some sort.

This year I learned that doggers love Eurovision. Don’t ask me how I know but I know it’s true.

Over to you folks

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I learned a lot about myself. The explanation is far too deep and serious for this time on New Year’s Eve so I don’t even know why I commented

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
9 weeks ago

This year I learned how to live by myself & can now say I bloody love it my time is my own

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

I learned that after marriage I get less facials than before.

I didn't sign up for this.

Husband - jizz on me!!

Mrs

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
9 weeks ago

St Leonards

I learned that after 45 years, a family member who I love very dearly has finally been through the mill enough herself that she can be trusted with more "truth" than she could process before.

She's chuffed to bits we've now connected at this deeper level, and I'm relieved not to have to give bite-sized chunks any more.

💙❤️💜

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Patience is a virtue an can be its own reward.

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By *rHotNottsMan
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I learn that I have a type, I think - only took me half a century

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By *cedGemWoman
9 weeks ago

your dreams

Trust no-one

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
9 weeks ago

N. Wales

"I learned that after marriage I get less facials than before.

I didn't sign up for this.

Husband - jizz on me!!

Mrs "

I'm gonna have to check the fine print, because I've learnt this over the years too. It's always in, never on 🙄😅

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
9 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

This year I learned that doggers love Eurovision. Don’t ask me how I know but I know it’s true."

I can’t let that lie! How did you learn this?

I learned that having a more whiskery chin makes it strokably soft.

Mrs TMN x

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
9 weeks ago

N. Wales

I learned to care less of what people think of me. It's early days, and work to be done, but still.

I also learned how to find myself again in this last quarter.

~ Mrs. DS

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By *uckurcumMan
9 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

People are still full of shit !

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
9 weeks ago

Essex

To trust my gut

To ignore the negative

And that I really do not like maple hazelnut lattes 🤢🤢🤢

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By *ickshawedCouple
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I learnt you truly can be 40 and fabulous

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
9 weeks ago

North West

That *everyone* loves Grab a Pig.

Oink.

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By *ig_belly_grrrlWoman
9 weeks ago

Finchley

That the numbers on a toaster don't relate to the intensity of the heat, but are actually the amount of minutes the bread is in there for.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
9 weeks ago

Excommunicdo.

Rolling Stones - you can’t always get what you want

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By *aitonelMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

People are cunts... Oh wait I already knew this. Each year is a reminder I guess.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
9 weeks ago

pink panther territory

This year I learned that being nice really gets you nowhere, hmmm I actually learnt that years ago

But here we are again

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By *riar BelisseWoman
9 weeks ago

Bliss

That my interest playing with narcissistic men will eventually burn out and its time to hang up my risk taking thrills with them. Don't get me wrong I've had a chess master blast, playing the games with them, but it's time to draw the line and settle down with my friends

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By *parkleisback79Woman
9 weeks ago

Southend

I've learned (yet again) that I tolerate too much and hold out for empty promises for too long- must speak up more in 2025

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By *weetiepie99Woman
9 weeks ago

cardiff

That there are hundreds of sex gods and goddesses on Fab (this may be tongue in cheek, or not)

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West

I learned that there are truly some kind and generous people in this world, people who don't really know you much or at all and who are willing to step in and do what you kin seem unwilling or incapable of doing.

Thank you

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By *allipygousMan
9 weeks ago

Leicester

"That the numbers on a toaster don't relate to the intensity of the heat, but are actually the amount of minutes the bread is in there for."

No! 😲

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
9 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Good things come in very small packages.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I used to always be out. Needed to be out. Somewhere, anywhere. I’ve learned to be peaceful in my head and enjoy being at home.

I was always doing everything I could to win people’s approval. This year I learned I have it it don’t. I can’t win it.

When I stopped giving, people stopped asking. And disappeared from my life. I’ve learned to feel the weight of an undeserving piggyback.

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

South Wales

I have learned (finally!) that when all is said and done, I’m actually happiest being single.

And I’m alright with that.

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
9 weeks ago

St Leonards

I've learned that I can, on occasion, be a tad sarcastic.

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By *issBehavexxxWoman
9 weeks ago

essex

"Trust no-one

Yep I second this.

Oh and I learned that jewellery can be made out of cum. I’m still amazed by this

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
9 weeks ago

Essex

"Good things come in very small packages. "

But poison comes in small bottles 😇😇

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
9 weeks ago

your head

Not learned but was reminded, I have the most amazing friends and partner 🥰

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By *ensual DesiresMan
9 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

That I'm still the one sat in the corner alone at parties

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By *haz46Woman
9 weeks ago

Stockport

i can take a bigger cock than when I was young

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By *orthern BeardMan
9 weeks ago

The North West

"That the numbers on a toaster don't relate to the intensity of the heat, but are actually the amount of minutes the bread is in there for."

I also learned this

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
9 weeks ago

Markfield

I recognised my friendship boundaries.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

I learnt how much stress working was causing me. Plus how hard it is to keep properly hydrated if you are not thirsty.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

"That I'm still the one sat in the corner alone at parties "

Aww I am too. Let's sit in the same corner!

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
9 weeks ago

Hereabouts

I learned to crochet

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By *elboy1978Man
9 weeks ago

Jarrow

This year I learned that no one wants me

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By *ensual DesiresMan
9 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

"That I'm still the one sat in the corner alone at parties

Aww I am too. Let's sit in the same corner!"

I'd love that thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

That it isn't always scary 🥰

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By *elix SightedMan
9 weeks ago

Cloud 8

So much! I learned:

That I can do my job just working my contracted hours and that, despite how busy I feel, I will always catch up eventually.

That I have a praise kink. I’d never heard that phrase before this year.

That I can control the rage.

The difference between history and prehistoric (thanks Mrs N).

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I learned that my future lies with FWBs, not LTRs. And it's time I focused on what I want out of my fucket list.

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

...

To start investing in myself

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By *aleforfun22Man
9 weeks ago

Lancashire

This year i learnt that this site is like a family.i lost my mum 6 weeks ago and the support i got on here was amazing as i got no family.all the love and messages i recived was heart warming and appreciated.

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By *ad NannaWoman
9 weeks ago

East London

To not trust my farts.

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By *ags73Man
9 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I learned that I probably do like company of people. It had been a while and I usually felt okay on my own, but it’s made me realise it’s better to try.

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By *punk n gushCouple
9 weeks ago

deal

To realise to take a step back and let people help or even that's it's OK for me to ask for help shame it took me getting a chronic illness to learn that

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By *parkle1974Woman
9 weeks ago

Leeds

I learned that the only person I can trust and rely on is me x

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By *ife NinjaMan
9 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I'm slowly becoming obsolete

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
9 weeks ago

Hastings

I'm not as fit as I was 20 years ago so need to work on that.

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By *parkleisback79Woman
9 weeks ago

Southend

"I learned that the only person I can trust and rely on is me x"

From one sparkle to another I couldn't agree more x

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By *orphia2003Woman
9 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

That Fab and depression don't mix well.

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By *sWyldWoman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I've learnt I'm not as lonely as I thought I was. I've also learnt the importance of being a little more selfish

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