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Why don't people read your profile before messaging before messaging

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By *INKYLOVE69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Who's got time when there's another 83 viable holes to message before the wife wonders why his shit is taking so long 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's got time when there's another 83 viable holes to message before the wife wonders why his shit is taking so long 💜"

And they say men can’t multitask

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By *INKYLOVE69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they see the tits on your profile pic and cant help themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are just thinking sex all the time 24/7 it overrules reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And it’s usually a copy paste message you get sent most of the time anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And it’s usually a copy paste message you get sent most of the time anyway "
Men who'd have em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And it’s usually a copy paste message you get sent most of the time anyway Men who'd have em"

I know right but they do have their uses at times 🤷‍♀️

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By *li LuckWoman
over a year ago

North devon

Cos obviously they are gods gift and what ever you have written doesnt apply to them anyway, cos once they have messaged you, you are sure to drop your knickers for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And it’s usually a copy paste message you get sent most of the time anyway Men who'd have em

I know right but they do have their uses at times 🤷‍♀️"
lol

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

Because they want to demonstrate that your views are not relevant to them.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

Some do some don’t some like the look of your profile pic and think I’d like that on my face

Some think I wouldn’t touch that with someone else’s

Why get hung up on it

Just delete and move on

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By *oughmanMan
over a year ago

Sunderland

I always read the profile. Can I possibly match what they are looking for. If they are looking for a 6'+ athletic guy with brown hair or a woman, what the hell would be the point? I'm just wasting my time. This isn't archery with a blindfold.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

In my experience it's mostly couples who can't or don't accept what they read on profiles.

They are the ones who start their messages with "I know you aren't meeting but...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos reading is hard work innit.

I just wanna get to the tiddies n pussys

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By *ildTimes.Man
over a year ago

Wherever I May Roam

Because most of them are boring, long winded snooze fests and have a list of do's and don'ts and rules and demands, ...then they complain on forums and status's about not finding the right guys...it's because you bored them into a coma

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By *oughmanMan
over a year ago

Sunderland

It my they just look at the pictures and move on😄

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because men can't wank and read at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some guys will try and fuck a pothole if traffic is light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely do if it's longer than one paragraph.

If it had a heading that stated rules...I definitely wouldn't. But then again I also wouldn't message.

It's a swinging site, when women have provocative pics men aren't gonna read.

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By *impdaddyMan
over a year ago

New Brighton

If it's short I'll read it.. when it looks like a cyclopedia fuck dat, especially when 9 times out of 10 your read them profiles, and going by that profile, you fit the criteria. So you take time to send an informative message only to not even have it read, that's time out of your life your never get back plus it disrespectful, so no if it's long im not giving them my time.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Because reading takes some level of IQ and the majority of people (men) think dick 1st.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fab in a nutshell. Write a decent, well thought out profile and no one bothers to read it.

That and I’m convinced most folks just look at the pictures and base it off that rather than the content of the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people (not me) subscribe to the philosophy of if you take enough shots you'll score eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t read it if you can’t read 😂

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Because some people don't care what you're looking for, they just think about themselves.Or they're blinded by pics so just don't bother with the text.

This applies to couples aswell as men, I am not interested in couples, but I still used to get them messaging me. I am also half a couple and some of our messages from other couples have been dire too.

It's a good filter op and it is usually really obvious when they haven't, even when they claim they've read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some profiles contradict what they are looking for with their verified meets. That along with profiles not being updated. “New here, taking it slow” but been on here a year?

So I guess some just shoot their shot. But it means annoying those who would like their profile read

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