FabSwingers.com forum: How do I?

By *urtlepower OP Man
1 week ago

Watford

Get my first meet, I'm new to this and it seems difficult and scary lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 week ago

Leeds

Message people you like (read profiles 1st to see if you match any or all things they are after).

Most of all, don't be a dick

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By *electableicecreamMan
1 week ago

The West

And don't send your dick unless they ask

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By *reggSausageMan
1 week ago

derby

Don’t be a dick is the number one piece of advice, it’s not easy remember you are one of many, easiest way to gauge what you are up against is simply turn on your who is nearby and see what is around you, notice there’s about thirty makes three couples and one female, welcome to fab, turn your who is nearby off by the way, you won’t need it, have a smart profile, good photos, be entertaining and if you are brave attend socials, good luck Op

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
1 week ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Never be a dick, just be yourself. Unless you're a dick

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By *antricSeeker60Man
1 week ago

Durham

The odds are stacked against you however as others have said just be yourself and be respectful. You could also consider visiting a club. Good luck.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
1 week ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"The odds are stacked against you however as others have said just be yourself and be respectful. You could also consider visiting a club. Good luck. "

You've let us down by not carrying on the don't be a dick theme

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By *ice136Man
1 week ago

HULL

Try socials, although they can be a bit cliquey

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
1 week ago

Manchester / Cardiff

Definitely, don't be a dick.

You're a good looking chap, try a few more photo's; again, no dick (at least not 30 different shots from a slightly different angle over a sink or with your socks on!). I'd deffo suggest a little more blurb in your profile; what do you like, what are you looking for (again, don't be a dick), what will a potential companion likely expect when they meet you.

It's a start, but most of all be patient and oh yeah, don't be a dick.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
1 week ago

Bristol

Be yourself! Engage with people in the forums, hold no expectations nor be too forward

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By *enk15Man
1 week ago

Evesham

Patience.

Perseverance.

Proactive.

Oh and don’t be a dick

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By *midnight-Woman
1 week ago

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Think about what to put in your profile.. Think about it as your shop window -your way of attracting similar minded people

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By *antasdeerideMan
1 week ago

winfrith

Just take a pic with a puppy they'll be clambering to meet you .

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
1 week ago

Merseyside

Go to an organised local social event and that will help you get verified for meets

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By *vaRose43Woman
1 week ago

Forest of Dean

I’d add to the above to fill in your profile. Blank bios are an auto delete for me…. Lazy on the keyboard equals lazy on the headboard in my eyes. Think of it as your chance to show people that there’s something going on upstairs.

Add a few more pics, not just recycled life ones. Tease your audience and take some shots specifically to show off your body.

Then, finally. Don’t be a dick in your messages

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By *exy SebMan
1 week ago

Bath

Good advice

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
1 week ago

Wales

Hhhm, maybe it's your approach as in 'get your first meet'. To me, you're thinking about it wrong.

Perhaps, what can I offer that people want might be a more successful approach.

Good luck!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
1 week ago

Leeds

If someone messages, I read their profile to see if we are compatible, if said profile is blank/lacking info I won't respond.

I assume if the profile has no effort neither will the meet.

Mrs

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

Write a bit more of a bio op.

At the min that tells us nothing. Most ladies, will look at a profile when they get a message, if there's not much on it, they won't respond.

Have a look at other men on the site and they types of profiles that seem to be successful.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
1 week ago

Brum - ish

"Write a bit more of a bio op.

At the min that tells us nothing. Most ladies, will look at a profile when they get a message, if there's not much on it, they won't respond.

Have a look at other men on the site and they types of profiles that seem to be successful.

Absolutely this.

You’ll find it significantly harder to meet if you’re giving no clues about what you’re looking for and what you offer.

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