FabSwingers.com forum: How did you discover fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

How did you guys find out about fab?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
28 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Friends at the clubs told me it was the easiest way to see what's on without trying to remember the posters from previous nights or relying on word of mouth 💜

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By *ickshawedCouple
28 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

When my husband told me he'd created an account on here for us and showed me hundreds of messages

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By *otcplmidsCouple
28 weeks ago

Warwick

Through friends at a club

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By *r Looking 69Man
28 weeks ago

north

A friend I was on holiday with told me a out it when we got dumped in a room together as everyone else was all coupled up.not the only thing she showed me that weekend in Benidorm haha

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By *urls and DressesWoman
28 weeks ago

Somewhere near here

A friend told me about it whilst we were in a lecture, we then spent that lecture looking through. That was several years ago now

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By *ustAnotherMan
28 weeks ago

brumish

After a very fun night a lady asked me my name here and I didn't have one!

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Search engine

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"How did you guys find out about fab?"

Ex tried to force me into it so once it ended I decided to venture into it on my own terms.

I'm not a swinger so once I find a reason to delete all this I'll be happy to leave it all behind as I have zero interest in sharing my partner, it's been a healthy way of discovering what I like and I've learnt so much from this lifestyle.

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By *2teleMan
28 weeks ago

Stirlingshire

"A friend told me about it whilst we were in a lecture, we then spent that lecture looking through. That was several years ago now"

At Sydney University?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
28 weeks ago

"When my husband told me he'd created an account on here for us and showed me hundreds of messages "

Hot but could of backfired

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By *orthern BeardMan
28 weeks ago

South Wales / Lancashire

Honestly it’s been about 8/9 years and I can’t remember for the life of me

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By *ickshawedCouple
28 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"When my husband told me he'd created an account on here for us and showed me hundreds of messages

Hot but could of backfired"

We'd already had an account on a rival website, so it wasn't a massive shock. Although he also created that account without telling me

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Someone mentioned it in a kik chatroom

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By *urls and DressesWoman
28 weeks ago

Somewhere near here

"A friend told me about it whilst we were in a lecture, we then spent that lecture looking through. That was several years ago now

At Sydney University?

How did you know?

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By *he MinionMan
28 weeks ago

"Someone mentioned it in a kik chatroom"

Same, through kik friends

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By *reggSausageMan
28 weeks ago

derby

I discovered it back when the internet was good

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By *inxy777Woman
28 weeks ago

essex

On a different site, asked if I was on here. x

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By *electableicecreamMan
28 weeks ago

The West

My ex told me about it while I helped set up her tinder account

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By *punk n gushCouple
28 weeks ago

deal

Was on a dogging site and a guy we meet there told us abut it

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By *2teleMan
28 weeks ago

Stirlingshire

"A friend told me about it whilst we were in a lecture, we then spent that lecture looking through. That was several years ago now

At Sydney University?

How did you know?

They're obsessed with Fab

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By *orphia2003Woman
28 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Friend told me about it, after another site wasn't really working for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Through kik

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
28 weeks ago

London

A guy I was seeing was on it.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
28 weeks ago

Holibobs

My fb at the time introduced me, 6 1/2 years ago now, how time flies

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By *elix SightedMan
28 weeks ago

Cloud 8

As I scrolled past the link on Google I smelled fish and wandered in to explore.

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By *nkymikeyMan
28 weeks ago

Andover

Some lady on a dating site told me to have a look and join

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
28 weeks ago

Birmingham

Google sent me

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By *jlondon78Man
28 weeks ago

Suffolk

From a club I attended all the members told me about it

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By *ensual DesiresMan
28 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

A female friend told me about it after she started going with someone

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By *ove2watchMan
28 weeks ago

weymouth

Googled it

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By *ealitybitesMan
28 weeks ago

Belfast

I was searching for a solution to fatfingers and ironically.......

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By *idnightMischiefMan
28 weeks ago

London

I'm sure this question was asked a couple of days ago. 🤔

But anyway, this isn't my first profile, but this is how I found out about Fabs...

There used to be a popular site called Faceparty (may still exist), and a woman sent me a familiar-sounding message as if they already knew me.

It turned out that someone had stoIen my photos and was using one for their profile on here. 😧

Unbelievably, they were also meet-verified! 😳

I vaguely remember that I needed to join in order to report it, and I decided to stick around. 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

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By *rdere OpusCouple
28 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Not long after it launched, someone left ads on cards in a club I was in so I created an account and it went from there. I already had an account on another well known site at the time.

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By *a1970Man
28 weeks ago

East cork

I'd say by accident...

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By *ilBWoman
28 weeks ago

West Midlands

In a hot tub in a sex club, didn't even know what swinging was, or fab or any filth.

Just turned up to have sex and the rest just unfolded like a dirty little pile of washing

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By *midnight-Woman
28 weeks ago

...

My first Dom set up a couple's account

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
28 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

I Googled free sex on tap

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By *orkshirebear74Man
28 weeks ago

Sheffield

Girl in the office said I might like it! 2 yrs later still here.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Fancied an ice lolly and took a wrong turn 😂

Been stuck here ever since

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By *100Man
28 weeks ago

Essex

I originally searched for swingers and up came fab and so did my cock so I’ve been on here for years and loved every minute

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Google was my friend

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

What’s fab?

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By *omeones GrumpMan
28 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Fell through a mince pie into the forums

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By *adbod2godbodMan
28 weeks ago

Manchester

I was told about it "best thing ever"

God knows how long since (years), 1 meet

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By *herry_BlossomsWoman
28 weeks ago

Barnsley

15 years ago when my first marriage was coming to end (because I'd married an asexual), a friend of mine tried to convince me to join. I didn't while I was still married, but once that was done I signed up and never looked back. I even met husband number 2 on here.

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By *ure_and_InnocentWoman
28 weeks ago

Knaresborough

Through someone I met on a regular dating site, I thought it wasn’t for me but did the whole let’s just have a little look and see what it’s all about…and here we are 12 months later 😂

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By *apio51Man
28 weeks ago

airport

My ex partner and I were surfing porn and stuff and stumbled across a link or ad or something. Thought it looked pretty hot and created a profile, got photo verified, gold members etc. I wasn't too bothered about meeting women but I was hot for a MFM or watching her with another guy (she didn't want to play bi).

We had some fun messaging folks for a while, then she said she didn't want to be on here anymore. I was up for going to clubs and really getting into the scene, but something spooked her or *shrug* she never really said.

That was quite a few years ago now before the cosmo thing and the influx of new profiles (for good or bad). We split up a couple of years later for other reasons...but hey ho

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By *mmaleiaWoman
28 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I got my mojo back after a menopause break & wanted sex on tap!

Reality of the quality of blokes on here led me to the forums, it’s pretty much the only reason I stay …

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Had way more success thru meeting outside of fab

But still looking for quality fun

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
28 weeks ago

Birmingham

A work colleague told me many moons ago.

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
28 weeks ago

St Leonards

I went to a club in Kent in 2016, made a friend, and she told me about it.

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By *luebell888Woman
28 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Went to a swingers club and people kept asking if I was on Fab. Had never heard of Fab before that.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Through a friend she told me to join

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By *omRachCouple
28 weeks ago

Wirral

We used another swinging site that was pretty crap if I'm honest and someone on there suggested we try here.

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By *haiababeWoman
28 weeks ago

North devon

Guy i was chatting to on tinder told me about it. I had been single for about 9 months, had meet a couple of guys on tinder but i had realised that i didn't acrually want a monogamous fwb, which was what inwas originally looking for. That and wanted to explore somme things i had never tired so he suggested here. And thay was that.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
28 weeks ago

London

Someone I was casually seeing created a couples account without my knowledge and I found out by accident, long story short here I am a few years later, but I wish I wasn’t.

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By *assy69Man
28 weeks ago

sussex and Wales

"How did you guys find out about fab?"

it was not long after the site came into existence, a friend told me about it

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

A female at work told me years ago saying her and her fella went on it

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By *amsevenMan
28 weeks ago

cork

Through a ki k group chat. Wish I'd never heard of it

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By *dz69247Man
28 weeks ago

Manchester

Was in my early 20s, Had a mate like jay from the inbetweeners always chatting shit, he mentioned one day he’s been to a club where all the women walk round naked and you can shag them. We called bollocks and asked him to take us.

He duly did, and unbelievably there was indeed ladies, who walked around naked, and you could indeed shag them (was an old school greedy girls night, so literally just jump in, get the nod of the partner and have your way). Now being young handsome studs, we got our fill, multiple times that night.

Towards the end of the evening I was chatting to a couple, and I mentioned how this was my first time at a club, they introduced me to fab, and invited me and my mate (not the chat shit one) round to their house at the weekend.

From them I found my love for gangbangs, and 15 years later (been on and off when in relationships etc) I still use fab to find these amazing times. I’d say I’m addicted to them now.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
28 weeks ago

Swansea

When I was single and on dating sites I was chatting to a guy, he told me he leads an alternative sex life by having sex with couples. I was super intrigued and as we were discussing it I was busy creating my own profile. That was almost 12 years ago.

Mrs

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By *inkywife1981Couple
28 weeks ago

A town near you

We used another site aimed at the Irish market and realised people were also using something called Fabswingers.com

We subsequently switched site as we found this site better.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
28 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

A male friend thinks it’s the sorriest thing he told me

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

From when the original sites of cottaging and dogging transferred from full websites to fab the mobile friendly versions

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By *ruceyyMan
28 weeks ago

London

LSD

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
28 weeks ago

perth

And do you still more people about fab

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

From another user on a different site. Was glad to leave that place behind lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I discovered a dogging site and from there found here

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By *issmorganWoman
28 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Someone I used to see, told me about it.

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By *ettpairCouple
28 weeks ago

Kettering

From a friend/playmate

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

It's how I discovered my ex was cheating on me.

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By *mf123Man
28 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

While exploring in the amazon rain forest dodging a poison dart i tripped over a rock and there it was staring at me with all its tits on show

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
28 weeks ago

Coventry

My ex wife brought up swingers clubs. She used to go to one when she was 17 (she was 19 when we met). She was testing the waters with me about going. I think she really wanted to do it again. So naturally doing some research online fab is one of the first things back then that came up about swinging. I looked at the site and seen what it was about. Then put the whole thing on the back burner as we had our first child.

In the end we never got round to swinging together which was a really good thing. She turned out to be a woman that couldn't be trusted and this would have been a disaster in this lifestyle. I believe it would have gone terribly wrong. I hindsight I suspect she was looking for a way to sort of cheat rather than a way to explore our sexual desires within a secure relationship (if that makes sense).

BTW (as if it's not obvious) I have no objections to swinging. When I decided to divorce her I was a free individual again. I was rediscovering myself and what I wanted from life going forward. I wanted to explore the swinging and naturally I remembered Fab and came back to the site and created a profile. I had some great experiences as a single and a few new discoveries like clubs because of it. Most of all I met Mrs Misfit and discovered how awesome this lifestyle is shared in a secure and honest relationship. It's definitely helped our relationship and communication grow over the years and been such a positive aspect of our life as well as being a lot of fun. So glad I didn't explore this with my ex wife.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Horsham

I was told it by a bloke that I had met up with from another site, he was telling me about it as we sat and chatted.

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By *ornym66Man
28 weeks ago

Col /ips

"It's how I discovered my ex was cheating on me.

Wow silly fucker

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By *oughmanMan
28 weeks ago

Sunderland

Curiosity and a desire for change led me me down a rabbit hole.

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By *dmundwilsonMan
28 weeks ago

Llandudno

Via dogging dot co dot uk.. as was

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By *erry2020888Man
28 weeks ago

stockport

from the wife lol

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By *ools and the brainCouple
28 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Your mum

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

A friend off AFF told me about it years ago .

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By *enk15Man
28 weeks ago

Evesham

I was challenged to a game of ddakji on the subway. Afterwards he handed me a card with the FAB website on.

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
28 weeks ago

Southampton

Google, we were looking for somewhere we could post nudes and research the scene.

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By *uckurcumMan
28 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Used to use the old dogging co.uk site ..

Happy days..great site ...

How times have changed

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By *ifewantstoplayCouple
28 weeks ago

somewhere

Was searching for a fabulous swing for the garden on the interweb

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By *ark.aitkenMan
28 weeks ago

Newcastle

"I was challenged to a game of ddakji on the subway. Afterwards he handed me a card with the FAB website on."

Jesus. That sounds like the plot of squidgame

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By *enk15Man
28 weeks ago

Evesham

"I was challenged to a game of ddakji on the subway. Afterwards he handed me a card with the FAB website on.

Jesus. That sounds like the plot of squidgame

Never heard of it.

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By *ykoCouple
28 weeks ago

york

A couple we met at a club told us about it and we are still are friends now.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
28 weeks ago

Good question…. I really don’t remember

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By *ovecumfromyouCouple
28 weeks ago

northampton

Met a guy at Chams, he told us about it. Hubby then put a profile on with some pictures. It’s been fun ever since.

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By *appy willyMan
28 weeks ago

where my willy is happy to be

At a camp site watching swingers swinging.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
28 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

A Tinder date told me all about her swinging lifestyle and suggested I would enjoy Fab. 3 days later I signed up

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By *rmrshorny2Couple
28 weeks ago

Seaside

On another swingers site

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By *iss KinkWoman
28 weeks ago

Up North

Was looking at club reviews and found it

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By *icketToRudeCouple
28 weeks ago

Wellingborough

Mr heard about it and joined many moons ago and can't really remember how he found it 🤭

Mrs is far easier though... March last year we were comparing the porn we both like, at which point Mr suggested if we ever wanted it to happen, he knew a site with like minded people 😉 showed her his profile and the number of local people 😅 totally nieve to it all, she was amazed! Within 24 hours we'd joined as a couple, been bombarded with messages but decided to dip our toes in further

Had a meet fairly early on and the rest as they say is history

still here, loving the lifestyle, discovering our likes and regularly enjoy meets and the occasional club visit.

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By *aiducMan
28 weeks ago

Chelmsford

I used to be on a site called Cottaging. Someone on there mentioned another site called Fabguys. Once I'd been on there a little while I discovered Fabswingers. This was about 11 years ago.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
28 weeks ago

Manchester

Someone on a different fetish site suggested it to me. I hadn't realised how popular swinging was or how many clubs there are until I joined. It was like discovering a whole new world.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"How did you guys find out about fab?"

Funny story, was in prison and someone said they used to come on here when he wanted a shag haha

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By *batMan
28 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I was chatting on Flingster when someone was showing some very impressive stuff! They told me about Fab and it went from there!

Gbat

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By *laytime_13Woman
28 weeks ago

Lincs

I think I’d hit the roof if I’d discovered a partner had created a profile for us already before talking to me

The site was recommended to me on mumsnet of all places.

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
28 weeks ago

Pontyclun

Friend

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By *ob357Man
28 weeks ago

Oswestry

Ex gf

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By *unny usernameMan
28 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I was 18 and had always had a huge attraction to older and larger ladies, and i just stumbled across this

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By *isterMushroomMan
28 weeks ago

Warrington

I got told about it over 15 years ago from someone on a chat room on excite

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By *traight-shooterMan
28 weeks ago

Douglas

Bi sexual male friend mentioned it once or twice in conversation. Originally forgot what the site was called. I had to do some research

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