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"It’s all in the face The eyes. The smile The smirk Maybe a lip bite A body can change due to life events whereas a face just ages and, for me, that’s part of the attraction, the same as greying hair. Just my thoughts " I like signs of life lived in a face but at the same time not too... craggy? 
Oh the lip bite! That seems to really do it for people. In person it's hot when it's almost unaware, done without thinking. In photos it looks to me like they're gnawing off dead skin. Never seen a hot one yet. | |||
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"It's all in the face for me, I can't kiss a face I don't want to look at, if I'm not attracted to the face th body won't make up for that, but if I am attracted to the face I generally will be attracted to their body too. Mrs " Have you found that if you're attracted to their face you will be to their body as well? Sometimes there's a bit of a gap. Gosh I'm being diplomatic. Tad cuntish. | |||
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"You need the good face! I've gone from "ah he's ok" to" god dam" based on a face pic. Though I do need the body and personality to match. A bit of stubble, fuck me eyes...yes please. My face? Meh. Sometimes I think I look ok other times I just look old and haggard. Eye liner is my life saver. " I thought you didn't wear make up?  No, that aside... I get about the personality needing to match. It's all good having a nice face but if there's nothing of interest behind it? It's incredibly dull and not attractive. | |||
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"You need the good face! I've gone from "ah he's ok" to" god dam" based on a face pic. Though I do need the body and personality to match. A bit of stubble, fuck me eyes...yes please. My face? Meh. Sometimes I think I look ok other times I just look old and haggard. Eye liner is my life saver. " Can confirm you make the old and haggard look seem quite alright and not too bad. | |||
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"You need the good face! I've gone from "ah he's ok" to" god dam" based on a face pic. Though I do need the body and personality to match. A bit of stubble, fuck me eyes...yes please. My face? Meh. Sometimes I think I look ok other times I just look old and haggard. Eye liner is my life saver. I thought you didn't wear make up? No, that aside... I get about the personality needing to match. It's all good having a nice face but if there's nothing of interest behind it? It's incredibly dull and not attractive. "I don't wear foundation, I probably should but I don't. Eye liner makes me look human. Some people are very attractive but you can tell there is nothing behind their eyes, it's empty inside! | |||
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"When it comes to meeting someone on here... how important is their face? Do you prioritise a good body more than a face? Have you ever been disappointed/surprised when you've seen someone's face? And final question - do you think your face is attractive?" Facial attraction is very important for me, on par, if not slightly ahead of the physical. Yes, I've been surprised both positively and negatively in the past. As to mine, L finds it handsome and that's enough for me
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"You need the good face! I've gone from "ah he's ok" to" god dam" based on a face pic. Though I do need the body and personality to match. A bit of stubble, fuck me eyes...yes please. My face? Meh. Sometimes I think I look ok other times I just look old and haggard. Eye liner is my life saver. I thought you didn't wear make up? No, that aside... I get about the personality needing to match. It's all good having a nice face but if there's nothing of interest behind it? It's incredibly dull and not attractive.
I don't wear foundation, I probably should but I don't. Eye liner makes me look human.
Some people are very attractive but you can tell there is nothing behind their eyes, it's empty inside! "Very very true , but sometimes you just strike gold and behind those eyes once they open up a bit … | |||
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"When it comes to meeting someone on here... how important is their face? Do you prioritise a good body more than a face? Have you ever been disappointed/surprised when you've seen someone's face? And final question - do you think your face is attractive?" Yes a person's face is important - more than it logically should be in some ways as there's no automatic link between a beautiful face and body. But of course beauty is subjective - there are lots of women considered among the most beautiful on the planet (according to celebrity polls) who do nothing for me at all, while others who might be considered quirky can be very attractive to me. Have I ever been surprised/disappointed? Hmm. Maybe occasionally but I can't think of any specific examples - but then I don't get many face pics on here to judge. I know that people have been disappointed in mine and said 'No thanks' when they've seen me - which is fair enough. Is my face attractive? I'd say 'No' - I'm bang average on my very best day. But thankfully people sometimes disagree with me. | |||
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"When it comes to meeting someone on here... how important is their face? Do you prioritise a good body more than a face? Have you ever been disappointed/surprised when you've seen someone's face? And final question - do you think your face is attractive? Yes a person's face is important - more than it logically should be in some ways as there's no automatic link between a beautiful face and body. But of course beauty is subjective - there are lots of women considered among the most beautiful on the planet (according to celebrity polls) who do nothing for me at all, while others who might be considered quirky can be very attractive to me. Have I ever been surprised/disappointed? Hmm. Maybe occasionally but I can't think of any specific examples - but then I don't get many face pics on here to judge. I know that people have been disappointed in mine and said 'No thanks' when they've seen me - which is fair enough. Is my face attractive? I'd say 'No' - I'm bang average on my very best day. But thankfully people sometimes disagree with me." Worth adding that attraction isn't always immediate. There have been times I've met someone and not especially fancied them, but as time's gone on and I've gotten to know them they've become attractive to me. What changed? Maybe I saw them relax more, maybe I just needed time to really see them, maybe when you like a person as a person you like their face more too. | |||
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"Not as easy a question as it first seems , it’s a swingers site so most are looking for the sex and fulfilling fantasies etc, not looking to fall in love or find ‘the one ‘ so maybe looks not all that important as a nice cock -tits-ass etc . Maybe I’m being a bit shallow but as an example a couple looking for a sexy guy receive a message from a vastly overweight male but he has a really pretty face ,they also receive a message off a well toned guy .great cock on him but his isn’t the best looking at all . We’re do we all think they are more likely take things further with and possibly play with ? Thoughts ?" I don't think you are being shallow. A lot of people will describe someone as stunning without ever seeing their face and it's because their body is attractive. Or their face is a bit meh, their body is hot and that's enough for them. Different strokes for different folk isn't it? There's no right or wrong way of approaching things, as long as you're not a throbber it's fine. | |||
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"Not as easy a question as it first seems , it’s a swingers site so most are looking for the sex and fulfilling fantasies etc, not looking to fall in love or find ‘the one ‘ so maybe looks not all that important as a nice cock -tits-ass etc . Maybe I’m being a bit shallow but as an example a couple looking for a sexy guy receive a message from a vastly overweight male but he has a really pretty face ,they also receive a message off a well toned guy .great cock on him but his isn’t the best looking at all . We’re do we all think they are more likely take things further with and possibly play with ? Thoughts ? I don't think you are being shallow. A lot of people will describe someone as stunning without ever seeing their face and it's because their body is attractive. Or their face is a bit meh, their body is hot and that's enough for them. Different strokes for different folk isn't it? There's no right or wrong way of approaching things, as long as you're not a throbber it's fine." thanks ( thought it was just me who had this outlook ! As an example if on a Saturday night we get a couple of replies from guys hoping to play , first one sends his face pic and he is George out looking but then follows it up with his body pic which is very out of shape etc with an average but barely viewable cock , the chances are im plumping for number 2 , he has a muscly toned bospdy , cock to die for but when he sends his face pic there is no attraction whatsoever ! Not pig ugly but not the best looker at all , im having his body annd cock all day long in a choice and at any point if I’m finding his face a bit off putting il just sit on it !!! So we’re no oil paintings by the way xx | |||
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"Personally speaking it's body first, I have no issues putting a bag over the head 🤷🏻♂️" would he not then suffocate ? | |||
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"I have to be attracted to a face without doubt but I often find I can be attracted to the unconventional just as much as the genpop standard of attractive. Just as I can be turned off by both too. Eyes often win a face over for me. If I'm drawn in by those eyes then everything else goes up a notch. When it comes down to it though, it's all a package. The holy trinity. Face, body, personality. All 3 enhance and detract from the other. None are a priority and none are ignored." ☝️ what he said. I was going type up a deep and thoughtful reply, but Kai' has said what I was thinking! I would add though, someone's voice can also add to the attraction for me; same as folk have said about eyes, how someone talks and sounds can make that difference too. | |||
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"for me, a persons face is important for attraction, over body everytime. I also think personality is very attractive, I met someone off tinder once who was OK looking to me, but wasn't an instant yes i fancy you, however their personality was amazing, so went on quite a few dates in the end and found her very attractive even though it ultimately fizzled out. " so your face with a 25 stone woman with a lovely face or a 9 stone stunning body model whose face is shall we say not the best at all , your picking the first over the latter ? ( bearing in mind it’s a fuck and your not proposing ? Just curious | |||
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"Personally speaking it's body first, I have no issues putting a bag over the head 🤷🏻♂️ would he not then suffocate ?" Paper bag, I'm all heart | |||
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"When it comes to meeting someone on here... how important is their face? Do you prioritise a good body more than a face? Have you ever been disappointed/surprised when you've seen someone's face? And final question - do you think your face is attractive?" Face is more important than body to me but body comes a very close second . I have been disappointed by a face. I no longer think my face is attractive to anyone but me. | |||
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"Not reading all the posts but face is most important to us - we value a pretty or handsome face above the body. " that’s fair comment , but have you ever met any really overweight couples though because they had great personalities and pretty faces ? | |||
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"When it comes to meeting someone on here... how important is their face? Do you prioritise a good body more than a face? Have you ever been disappointed/surprised when you've seen someone's face? And final question - do you think your face is attractive?" What about you OP? | |||
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"It's all in the face for me, I can't kiss a face I don't want to look at, if I'm not attracted to the face th body won't make up for that, but if I am attracted to the face I generally will be attracted to their body too. Mrs Have you found that if you're attracted to their face you will be to their body as well? Sometimes there's a bit of a gap. Gosh I'm being diplomatic. Tad cuntish." Yes, there's yet to be a body I've been put off when I've liked the face and person. I don't have a type though maybe that's why? I've dated skinny, large, muscular and in-between, it's the face and personality that makes it or breaks it for me. Mrs | |||
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"Not reading all the posts but face is most important to us - we value a pretty or handsome face above the body. that’s fair comment , but have you ever met any really overweight couples though because they had great personalities and pretty faces ?" Erm overweight people can be attractive. Maybe not to you personally, but suggesting that just being overweight makes people unattractive just isn't a good vibe. | |||
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"Not as easy a question as it first seems , it’s a swingers site so most are looking for the sex and fulfilling fantasies etc, not looking to fall in love or find ‘the one ‘ so maybe looks not all that important as a nice cock -tits-ass etc . Maybe I’m being a bit shallow but as an example a couple looking for a sexy guy receive a message from a vastly overweight male but he has a really pretty face ,they also receive a message off a well toned guy .great cock on him but his isn’t the best looking at all . We’re do we all think they are more likely take things further with and possibly play with ? Thoughts ? I don't think you are being shallow. A lot of people will describe someone as stunning without ever seeing their face and it's because their body is attractive. Or their face is a bit meh, their body is hot and that's enough for them. Different strokes for different folk isn't it? There's no right or wrong way of approaching things, as long as you're not a throbber it's fine.thanks ( thought it was just me who had this outlook ! As an example if on a Saturday night we get a couple of replies from guys hoping to play , first one sends his face pic and he is George out looking but then follows it up with his body pic which is very out of shape etc with an average but barely viewable cock , the chances are im plumping for number 2 , he has a muscly toned bospdy , cock to die for but when he sends his face pic there is no attraction whatsoever ! Not pig ugly but not the best looker at all , im having his body annd cock all day long in a choice and at any point if I’m finding his face a bit off putting il just sit on it !!! So we’re no oil paintings by the way xx" For me it’s a combination of both good body and a face that I have an attraction too. I couldn’t meet someone I didn’t find attractive even though as you say it’s just for sex. If nether of the options ticked all my boxes I would just wait until I found someone who did. I guess it’s really case of different strokes for different folks | |||
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"When it comes to meeting someone on here... how important is their face? Do you prioritise a good body more than a face? Have you ever been disappointed/surprised when you've seen someone's face? And final question - do you think your face is attractive? Body every time , especially if a nice cocks attached , if face is putting me off il just sit on it !problem solved x What about you OP? " | |||
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"Yes it’s incredibly important, and also subjective. Not everyone is my cup of tea, and I damn sure don’t expect to be everyone else’s either. I’m much more flexible about body type, and try to be as honest as possible about my own. It’s why I insist on exchanging clear and recent face pics before a conversation gets going, as if there is no initial mutual attraction then there is no point for me. Nothing dries me up faster than a guy who says he wants to fuck me yet hasn’t even seen what I look like - it shows an absence of standards and is actually pretty insulting. I think I look okay for my age. I’ve been blessed with really healthy pale skin and fairly youthful looks… but again that’s subjective xx" That's very true - attractiveness can be really quite subjective can't it? I'm not sure I agree about it being an absence of standards though - people place varying levels of importance on things. Also, it's a bit of a cheesy line. | |||
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"The face is important. But how I see the face is very dependent on everything else. There are people I've seen regularly in passing for months on end and never really noticed, but after spending a little time and getting to know them their face becomes absolutely beautiful to me and I can't fathom ever not seeing them that way. I can also lose all attraction to a face when it's associated with irredeemable negatives, and wonder how I ever felt it was attractive. So, maybe not? Some people are undeniably beautiful. But that doesn't always translate as attractive. I do have to be attracted to someone's face to want to kiss them. But my attraction is rarely based solely in aesthetics 💜" Oh I like this answer! Yes, people can become attractive to me over time and I notice little features that I might have otherwise not. And vice versa - someone I might have been attracted to, once I find out their too numerous to overlook negative traits? Their face is very unattractive and I blame cunt blindness. A face is but part of the attraction for me but it's a very important one. I can think someone is pretty, their face is nice but I don't see it as attractive unless the attraction is there. | |||
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"Tbh on fab if looking at one off fucks I am more interested in the body overall. In a club / sauna / party with low light / red lights / dark you are not really seeing faces clearly a lot of the time Actual socials / dating day time / normal stuff then a face helps somewhat but even then no amount of incredible face is going to help if I don’t find a body shape / size attractive anyway " I like the honesty. I've said (well typed) before there's no right or wrong way going about it. As long as you meet those you're compatible with? That's all that really matters. | |||
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"Morning Meli, Faces are important yes, but possibly not in a is it an attractive face or not. But they convey personality to me, they tell me so much more than the person's words do. I have actually been surprised by people's faces on here, generally how average some people look. And that's not a bad thing (average is good), some put so much effort to make their bodies look amazing. And then you see their faces and then it puts things into perspective. My own face, currently disliking a lot. But in general it suits me and it could look worse. " Morning Frida! 🥰 The majority of people do have an average face don't they? There's nothing wrong with that. And yes, I've been surprised as well. I don't know why that is, perhaps societal expectations? I hope your dislike for your visage fades soon x | |||
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"I need to find a face attractive, but that doesn't mean traditionally good looking. I like to be able to see someone's personality light up their face (if that makes sense). As for mine, I'm not about to win any beauty contests, and the signs of age are there, but I'm not scaring small children away so I'll take that. " Yep that makes perfect sense. Sometimes a face comes alive and it's beautiful to witness. Like when someone has twinkling eyes or their features soften. I'd go on but it's rather nauseating romantic gushing. | |||
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"You need the good face! I've gone from "ah he's ok" to" god dam" based on a face pic. Though I do need the body and personality to match. A bit of stubble, fuck me eyes...yes please. My face? Meh. Sometimes I think I look ok other times I just look old and haggard. Eye liner is my life saver. I thought you didn't wear make up? No, that aside... I get about the personality needing to match. It's all good having a nice face but if there's nothing of interest behind it? It's incredibly dull and not attractive.
I don't wear foundation, I probably should but I don't. Eye liner makes me look human.
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"When it comes to meeting someone on here... how important is their face? Do you prioritise a good body more than a face? Have you ever been disappointed/surprised when you've seen someone's face? And final question - do you think your face is attractive?" The eyes, the change in expressions, the smile. On bodies, every woman be known has been unique and y’know demanding this or that, sounds dumb to me I don’t think so in terms of disappointment As for mine, probably not, life experiences and hair put people off unfortunately | |||
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"It's all in the face for me, I can't kiss a face I don't want to look at, if I'm not attracted to the face th body won't make up for that, but if I am attracted to the face I generally will be attracted to their body too. Mrs " This | |||
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"When it comes to meeting someone on here... how important is their face? Do you prioritise a good body more than a face? Have you ever been disappointed/surprised when you've seen someone's face? And final question - do you think your face is attractive? The eyes, the change in expressions, the smile. On bodies, every woman be known has been unique and y’know demanding this or that, sounds dumb to me I don’t think so in terms of disappointment As for mine, probably not, life experiences and hair put people off unfortunately " What’s wrong with your hair? | |||
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"When it comes to meeting someone on here... how important is their face? Do you prioritise a good body more than a face? Have you ever been disappointed/surprised when you've seen someone's face? And final question - do you think your face is attractive? The eyes, the change in expressions, the smile. On bodies, every woman be known has been unique and y’know demanding this or that, sounds dumb to me I don’t think so in terms of disappointment As for mine, probably not, life experiences and hair put people off unfortunately What’s wrong with your hair?" Double dunt of grey and balding | |||
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"Not reading all the posts but face is most important to us - we value a pretty or handsome face above the body. that’s fair comment , but have you ever met any really overweight couples though because they had great personalities and pretty faces ?" A couple can be "really overweight" and people will still find them attractive. It's a really peculiar stance that someone who is overweight isn't attractive. Like I'm fat. I've never been short of attention in real life or on Fab, whether it's for dating, fucking or whatever else. Some might not find people who are overweight attractive and that's fine. It doesn't mean everyone has the same taste. | |||
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"Hi Meli Face is the most important bit for me. If I find the face attractive then I'm unlikely to find their body unattractive. A photo doesn't tell the whole story though, I've been surprised both ways. (Let me tell you about TITORGASM™, my Tried And Tested Organised Group Social Method). When I first met my partner I'd seen a face photo and thought he was nice looking but probably not for me. Then I met him in person and was like "Who is that?!" and had an instant crush. One of my first messages afterwards were that his photo didn't do him justice 🫣 I like my face, I think it's attractive. " Hey Julie! Please don't tell me about the method. I like you, not so keen on the method for various reasons.
Photos often don't do people justice. When someone is in front of you? You get a real feel for them, how animated they are, their facial expressions, the little things a photo rarely captures.
I think you're one of the few on the thread who likes their face.
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"Hi Meli Face is the most important bit for me. If I find the face attractive then I'm unlikely to find their body unattractive. A photo doesn't tell the whole story though, I've been surprised both ways. (Let me tell you about TITORGASM™, my Tried And Tested Organised Group Social Method). When I first met my partner I'd seen a face photo and thought he was nice looking but probably not for me. Then I met him in person and was like "Who is that?!" and had an instant crush. One of my first messages afterwards were that his photo didn't do him justice 🫣 I like my face, I think it's attractive. Hey Julie! Please don't tell me about the method. I like you, not so keen on the method for various reasons.
Photos often don't do people justice. When someone is in front of you? You get a real feel for them, how animated they are, their facial expressions, the little things a photo rarely captures.
I think you're one of the few on the thread who likes their face.
It's nice to read someone liking themselves. 😊"I won't tell you about it as it appears you are already aware. 🤣 It's not for everyone but it works well for me 😁 | |||
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"It's all in the face for me, I can't kiss a face I don't want to look at, if I'm not attracted to the face th body won't make up for that, but if I am attracted to the face I generally will be attracted to their body too. Mrs Have you found that if you're attracted to their face you will be to their body as well? Sometimes there's a bit of a gap. Gosh I'm being diplomatic. Tad cuntish." Not cuntish at all. I've definitely seen body shots and been interested, only to be completely disinterested upon seeing the face. I think if I think the face attractive, I might be less "phwoar-y" about the body but it still needs to be a whole package of person. Which includes the personality! | |||
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"The funny thing is when you think about it since most people tend to favour face. It's the one part that we can't really do all that much about. At least by basic terms. Body, we can change a fair bit one way or another. Toned, bulk, squishy, whatever. Personality well that can be changed if we want to. But face, for the most part we are stuck with it. A bit of make up, grow/shave facial hair, haircut, lose or gain a bit of weight but overall outside of surgery we are stuck with what we have and yet it's the thing that most people are drawn to the most." I know. It's a right bummer  | |||
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"It's very important. Deal breaker. Yes, I've been 'disappointed' - not that they didn't have nice faces, just faces I didn't fancy, which was the disappointing part. Sure I've disappointed lots of people once I've sent my face too! And finally, yes, I do quite like my face. Not always, and there are definitely things I would change, but overall I like it." Dealbreaker. Gosh Yolo, that's pretty strong. Is someone liking fondue a dealbreaker also? Asking for a friend. Perhaps disappointed is a tad mean but sometimes it's just a bit...  . You know what I mean?
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"It has to be both. Attractive face AND attractive body TO ME. Which can be completely different to what everyone else likes. Beards are popular now, I really don’t like them and I have tried. I really have. I’ve also seen men with very cute daces but not the body I am attracted to and it’s been disastrous and viceversa. I don’t think I have an attractive face. My features aren’t delicate at all but I have aged relatively well and I smile all the time- which I think helps a lot. So in my case I think it’s a case of the whole package that helps my case haha "Smiling makes such a difference. As does generally being comfortable with how you look. I'd say confidence but it's slightly different. The ease in which some people have with themselves is attractive. Ageing... some older people can look good (I won't type for their age because that's a BS compliment). Wrinkles, grey hair, all of that doesn't mean unattractive. | |||
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"I am a sucker for a handsome face. I like to really like a face. Bodies are not too much if a priority, I can be attracted to most body types. That being said, I do suppose I have a preference for tall guys. Any body shape as long as it’s on a tall frame "Hants! Yaaaaaay! Hants Hants Hants 🖤 You're tall for a woman aren't you Hants? Yeah, handsome is really good. That might be a subjective handsome that's subject to change/losing the rose tinted but I get what you mean by handsome. Don't you generally like a more... weathered face as well?  | |||
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"Not as easy a question as it first seems , it’s a swingers site so most are looking for the sex and fulfilling fantasies etc, not looking to fall in love or find ‘the one ‘ so maybe looks not all that important as a nice cock -tits-ass etc . Maybe I’m being a bit shallow but as an example a couple looking for a sexy guy receive a message from a vastly overweight male but he has a really pretty face ,they also receive a message off a well toned guy .great cock on him but his isn’t the best looking at all . We’re do we all think they are more likely take things further with and possibly play with ? Thoughts ?" No man's toned body is going to compensate if I don't find the face attractive. And no paper bags allowed! | |||
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"Not as easy a question as it first seems , it’s a swingers site so most are looking for the sex and fulfilling fantasies etc, not looking to fall in love or find ‘the one ‘ so maybe looks not all that important as a nice cock -tits-ass etc . Maybe I’m being a bit shallow but as an example a couple looking for a sexy guy receive a message from a vastly overweight male but he has a really pretty face ,they also receive a message off a well toned guy .great cock on him but his isn’t the best looking at all . We’re do we all think they are more likely take things further with and possibly play with ? Thoughts ?" Or! Now bear with me here because it's a pretty radical idea that may just break the foundations of society... They pick neither because preferences are not fully met. | |||
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"Not as easy a question as it first seems , it’s a swingers site so most are looking for the sex and fulfilling fantasies etc, not looking to fall in love or find ‘the one ‘ so maybe looks not all that important as a nice cock -tits-ass etc . Maybe I’m being a bit shallow but as an example a couple looking for a sexy guy receive a message from a vastly overweight male but he has a really pretty face ,they also receive a message off a well toned guy .great cock on him but his isn’t the best looking at all . We’re do we all think they are more likely take things further with and possibly play with ? Thoughts ? Or! Now bear with me here because it's a pretty radical idea that may just break the foundations of society... They pick neither because preferences are not fully met. " Nope! You've GOT to choose one. No fence sitting | |||
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"It's very important. Deal breaker. Yes, I've been 'disappointed' - not that they didn't have nice faces, just faces I didn't fancy, which was the disappointing part. Sure I've disappointed lots of people once I've sent my face too! And finally, yes, I do quite like my face. Not always, and there are definitely things I would change, but overall I like it. Dealbreaker. Gosh Yolo, that's pretty strong. Is someone liking fondue a dealbreaker also? Asking for a friend. Perhaps disappointed is a tad mean but sometimes it's just a bit... . You know what I mean?
Yay to the self like of face. I like your face more than I like your username."So they could have nice faces but.. oh my. | |||
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"Hi Meli Face is the most important bit for me. If I find the face attractive then I'm unlikely to find their body unattractive. A photo doesn't tell the whole story though, I've been surprised both ways. (Let me tell you about TITORGASM™, my Tried And Tested Organised Group Social Method). When I first met my partner I'd seen a face photo and thought he was nice looking but probably not for me. Then I met him in person and was like "Who is that?!" and had an instant crush. One of my first messages afterwards were that his photo didn't do him justice 🫣 I like my face, I think it's attractive. Hey Julie! Please don't tell me about the method. I like you, not so keen on the method for various reasons.
Photos often don't do people justice. When someone is in front of you? You get a real feel for them, how animated they are, their facial expressions, the little things a photo rarely captures.
I think you're one of the few on the thread who likes their face.
It's nice to read someone liking themselves. 😊
I won't tell you about it as it appears you are already aware. 🤣 It's not for everyone but it works well for me 😁"I'm in the group where you discussed it, dodohead. 😅 My approach generally isn't too far off from that but yeah... won't go in to it. It's twixtmas. There are profiteroles and cheesecake to eat. | |||
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"The funny thing is when you think about it since most people tend to favour face. It's the one part that we can't really do all that much about. At least by basic terms. Body, we can change a fair bit one way or another. Toned, bulk, squishy, whatever. Personality well that can be changed if we want to. But face, for the most part we are stuck with it. A bit of make up, grow/shave facial hair, haircut, lose or gain a bit of weight but overall outside of surgery we are stuck with what we have and yet it's the thing that most people are drawn to the most." I don't really see that as being a particularly odd or funny thing. It makes sense that a face, how someone looks in that way is important. We spend a lot of time looking at someone's face. A person's face changes as they age naturally, life changes it. You can change your face like you can change your body to some extent. Time. Money. Effort. Energy. We can't really do much about height and that seems to be quite a factor for a fair few on here. | |||
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"Butterface and prawns " I've never heard the prawn one before! I'm surprised no one's mentioned the Baywatch saying. | |||
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"Hi Meli Face is the most important bit for me. If I find the face attractive then I'm unlikely to find their body unattractive. A photo doesn't tell the whole story though, I've been surprised both ways. (Let me tell you about TITORGASM™, my Tried And Tested Organised Group Social Method). When I first met my partner I'd seen a face photo and thought he was nice looking but probably not for me. Then I met him in person and was like "Who is that?!" and had an instant crush. One of my first messages afterwards were that his photo didn't do him justice 🫣 I like my face, I think it's attractive. Hey Julie! Please don't tell me about the method. I like you, not so keen on the method for various reasons.
Photos often don't do people justice. When someone is in front of you? You get a real feel for them, how animated they are, their facial expressions, the little things a photo rarely captures.
I think you're one of the few on the thread who likes their face.
It's nice to read someone liking themselves. 😊
I won't tell you about it as it appears you are already aware. 🤣 It's not for everyone but it works well for me 😁
I'm in the group where you discussed it, dodohead. 😅
My approach generally isn't too far off from that but yeah... won't go in to it. It's twixtmas. There are profiteroles and cheesecake to eat. "What flavour of cheesecake? 😍 I wasn't ever really going to tell you as I know you're in the group. I was just enjoying being like one of those MLM huns 😂 | |||
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"Butterface and prawns I've never heard the prawn one before! I'm surprised no one's mentioned the Baywatch saying." Prawn, better without the head. | |||
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"It's very important. Deal breaker. Yes, I've been 'disappointed' - not that they didn't have nice faces, just faces I didn't fancy, which was the disappointing part. Sure I've disappointed lots of people once I've sent my face too! And finally, yes, I do quite like my face. Not always, and there are definitely things I would change, but overall I like it. Dealbreaker. Gosh Yolo, that's pretty strong. Is someone liking fondue a dealbreaker also? Asking for a friend. Perhaps disappointed is a tad mean but sometimes it's just a bit... . You know what I mean?
Yay to the self like of face. I like your face more than I like your username."You know I like a bit of hyperbole, Meli. In fact, there's nothing I like more in the world than hyperbole. I'd probably forgive a pretty face for any cheese-based misdemeanor...pretty privilege, innit. | |||
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"I’m attracted to different body types to different reasons, but for a face it is all in the eyes and smile. " This ...x | |||
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"Butterface and prawns I've never heard the prawn one before! I'm surprised no one's mentioned the Baywatch saying." BoBFoC ? I'm more BoCFoC 🤣🤣 | |||
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