FabSwingers.com forum: Is it me

By *iker Jack OP Man
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

Is it me, it most probably is, who has zero or very little libido.

Not sure if it’s because of the time of year, or just my general mood or whatever, but honestly I can’t be bothered to even want to do anything

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By *anonfire96Man
1 week ago

Mansfield

There could be many reasons for feeling this way. Maybe go and seek professional advice. You've already taken the first step by mentioning it on here. Good luck.

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By *ellhungvweMan
1 week ago

Cheltenham

Get down the gym, go for a walk or do anything to get the testosterone pumping again. The last few days have probably slowed everyone down a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I feel like this most of the time.

I think it's pretty normal to not want sex 24/7.

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By *inkyboots69TV/TS
1 week ago

Cambs.

"I feel like this most of the time.

I think it's pretty normal to not want sex 24/7. "

Ahh, that sounds like my ex wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

"I feel like this most of the time.

I think it's pretty normal to not want sex 24/7.

Ahh, that sounds like my ex wife."

There's many reasons I'm single! 🤣

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
1 week ago

Leeds

It's normal for libidos to go up and down, let's face it there's more to life than sex, it could just be the stress/tiredness over Christmas etc....

If it doesn't get better maybe see the GP.

Mrs

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By *riar BelisseWoman
1 week ago

Delightful Bliss

I had that earlier this year, libido and mood plummeted to the floor. Had GP blood tests and now I'm medicated for what I was lacking.

GP first and have some bloods checked OP. Good luck

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By *agondaMan
1 week ago

Witterings

"I feel like this most of the time.

I think it's pretty normal to not want sex 24/7.

Ahh, that sounds like my ex wife.

There's many reasons I'm single! 🤣"

And the advantages of being single can be mutually beneficial

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By *iker Jack OP Man
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

Thanks for the replies.

I don’t think it’s medical more a state of mind

For the couple of people who have messaged me giving me crap about it, I thank you for your time to be insulting, but won’t be responding personally

An irk of the site…if your profile is hidden people should not be able to message you without the requirement to change settings.

I wish you all a great day

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By *sWyldWoman
1 week ago

Edinburgh

Mine vanished back in March and it's not really returned. I don't really miss it.

I'm single so it's not having much of an impact on me.

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By *rHotNottsMan
1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Thanks for the replies.

I don’t think it’s medical more a state of mind

For the couple of people who have messaged me giving me crap about it, I thank you for your time to be insulting, but won’t be responding personally

An irk of the site…if your profile is hidden people should not be able to message you without the requirement to change settings.

I wish you all a great day "

Maybe just check how the rest of you is doing? I can go through phases why I’m not super horny, but I’m still very driven, get the gym, working on my goals etc. but if everything drops then go get your blood done.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
1 week ago

Southampton

"Is it me, it most probably is, who has zero or very little libido.

Not sure if it’s because of the time of year, or just my general mood or whatever, but honestly I can’t be bothered to even want to do anything "

No, not just you xx

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By *allnHandsome12Man
1 week ago

Teesside

"Thanks for the replies.

I don’t think it’s medical more a state of mind

For the couple of people who have messaged me giving me crap about it, I thank you for your time to be insulting, but won’t be responding personally

An irk of the site…if your profile is hidden people should not be able to message you without the requirement to change settings.

I wish you all a great day "

No idea why people would PM you and give you crap over this, says a lot about them really. Don’t let it put you off posting and asking for help or advice, these threads can be very supportive.

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