FabSwingers.com forum: Has swinging made you happier?

By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been some highs and some lows over my years .

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Been some highs and some lows over my years ."
But has it made you happier?

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

yes yes and yes

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By *adkatWoman
over a year ago

Alfreton

Its kept me busier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Minnie feel more confident in myself so yes I am happier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been some highs and some lows over my years .But has it made you happier?"

We are always happy it's just good to go out have a laugh a few drinks and meet new people , so yes it has made us happier, even now Paula is asking me are we having fun at the weekend lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Mmmmmm yes and not really. I was happy before I swung just sexually frustrated and inexperienced. I wouldn't say it's the swinging that's made me happier just the people I havemet oonline and in person. If it wasn't For Fab I wouldn't have met you mad lot and of course someone special

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Well, I can definitely say I am happier meeting off the web than in a relationship! Does that count?

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Well, I can definitely say I am happier meeting off the web than in a relationship! Does that count?"
Of course it counts, a lot of people I know are exactly the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ups and Downs over my 15 years in the scene.

At present I'm re-evaluating it all because its missing a level of intimacy that I need.

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Swinging isn't that important in my life.

As far as I'm concerned it is just a bit of fun, a little bit extra. Sounds a bit strange I admit, but it gets us out of the house, off our arses and meeting new people that we wouldn't have met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happier? Thats a good question as I would say no who deleting messages that really pay no relation to what I am looking for.

It has though provided me with a lot of no nonsense pleasure though.

Is happy and pleasure the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes because i wasnt getting hardly any sex before and i have done things i havnt done before, like lots of kissing.

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By *lubcouple2Couple
over a year ago

newport

for me personal it is a posative coz ive never had so much confidence in my self and my body and ive also found its brought me and the hubby closer 2getheter

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Well?

More content, and more relaxed. "

Same for me. Well summed-up.

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Happier? Thats a good question as I would say no who deleting messages that really pay no relation to what I am looking for.

It has though provided me with a lot of no nonsense pleasure though.

Is happy and pleasure the same thing? "
Pleasure usually leads to the latter....depends what your benchmark is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, when I started swinging I didn't really have a social life or friends. I had very little confidence and I couldn't understand why I had such fantasies and whether I was "weird".

Now I have friends, a partner (admittedly in the early stages), friends, a bit more confidence and I'm content in the knowledge that I am definitely weird but that its kind of accepted here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happier? Thats a good question as I would say no who deleting messages that really pay no relation to what I am looking for.

It has though provided me with a lot of no nonsense pleasure though.

Is happy and pleasure the same thing? "

Definitely not the same thing although you can be happy caused by a pleasurable encounter.

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Happier? Thats a good question as I would say no who deleting messages that really pay no relation to what I am looking for.

It has though provided me with a lot of no nonsense pleasure though.

Is happy and pleasure the same thing?

Definitely not the same thing although you can be happy caused by a pleasurable encounter.

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Benchmark....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happier? Thats a good question as I would say no who deleting messages that really pay no relation to what I am looking for.

It has though provided me with a lot of no nonsense pleasure though.

Is happy and pleasure the same thing?

Definitely not the same thing although you can be happy caused by a pleasurable encounter.

Ah you get some pleasurable encounters that make you frustrated for more though and not happy if you look at it that way.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Probably not, but it has provided me with an outlet for my sexual energy and that means I can focus on other things better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happier? Thats a good question as I would say no who deleting messages that really pay no relation to what I am looking for.

It has though provided me with a lot of no nonsense pleasure though.

Is happy and pleasure the same thing?

Definitely not the same thing although you can be happy caused by a pleasurable encounter.

Benchmark....

You will only mark it if you keep your heels on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so far, but I live in hope.

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Well?

No. I've seen too many crappy things.

I still prefer pulling birds vanilla-style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been some highs and some lows over my years .But has it made you happier?"
I am a happy person most the time ........ Has shagging other made me happy its been fun .. but I have fun with out it too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well?

No. I've seen too many crappy things.

I still prefer pulling birds vanilla-style."

An interesting thing to say on here whats the difference as you see it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I was not happier I would stop there would be no point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I was happy already....

Intend to be even happier now!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No wouldn't say it has made us any happier as it is only a very small part of our lives.

But it has made me more confident and we have got to meet people that we normally wouldn't have had the chance too.

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"No wouldn't say it has made us any happier as it is only a very small part of our lives.

But it has made me more confident and we have got to meet people that we normally wouldn't have had the chance too."
Seems swinging has boosted a lot of peoples confidence! That can only be a good thing, can't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was happy before but it has given me a lot more confidence outside of swinging,plus its nice walking around having a naughty little secret that no one knows about

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Deffo yes.

The bad meets you just have to put down to experience and have a good laugh at.

The good ones easily compensate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't say happier as we were happy before! It's let us experience things that we would probably not have been given the chance to had we stayed vanilla!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done one thing I wouldnt have ever done with OH. Am precariously on the fence to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel more confident in myself so yes I am happier "

Sammi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but indirectly. My involvement on the kink and swinging scenes has changed how I view myself and has made me more accepting of how and who I am. So yes it has made me happier but equally I recognise that those changes are as a result of a multitude of contributing factors and not just swinging/kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fab made me happy twice last week! nd once this.week so far

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"fab made me happy twice last week! nd once this.week so far

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Oh you only feel happy when getting ya end away? Tut

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Well?

Yes

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

"Well?

Yes"

I've been doing it for 22 years and could not imagine it not being part of my life to be honest .. my guy however has only been doing it for a lesser period of time

however .. could I give it up ?? not sure

it's part of me and my lifestyle I believe .. tricky question

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I'm mostly a happy person (though I've been on downers now and again over the years) - as I've tried relationships and cheated on the guys in every instance, I now accept that monogamy is not my thing, so life as a single swinger is just what the Doctor ordered and I can't see me giving it up until I no longer have any sexual urges so I would say it's helped to make me content with my life, therefore I'm a happy bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some very happy times!

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Had some very happy times!

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Good for you...by some threads on here it makes some downright miserable....

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Wouldn't say happier as we were happy before! It's let us experience things that we would probably not have been given the chance to had we stayed vanilla!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fab made me happy twice last week! nd once this.week so far

Oh you only feel happy when getting ya end away? Tut

???ooh your nawty mind

erm no i wasnt getting me end away?tut

me partner did though

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I am not sure I am swinging in the strict sense of the word, but I am far happier now that, on those rare occasions, I am able to engage in activities that are either off the menu at home, or were impressed upon me as wrong during my upbringing. Being able to be naked with a relative stranger, and engaging in lots of touching, kissing and more is extremely liberating. If only I could do it more, then I would be in seventh heaven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it has looking back.

I've always enjoyed the ease of no strings sex, except before swinging I used to be stigmatised for it!

However as mad as this sounds I think you have to control swinging, and not let it control you. Ie. Taking breaks from it, from time to time.

And keeping sane with lots of vanilla things too!!

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By *e nicerWoman
over a year ago

Costa del Medway

how can it make you happier. wierd.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i think so, it has brought me and Ted closer together, than we were before. We have made a lot of friends along the way as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had some very happy times!

Good for you...by some threads on here it makes some downright miserable....

Well to be honest, I've known some not so good times as a result of my experiences on here.

But.......the times before and since easily make up for those darker times!

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Had some very happy times!

Good for you...by some threads on here it makes some downright miserable....

Well to be honest, I've known some not so good times as a result of my experiences on here.

But.......the times before and since easily make up for those darker times!

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Thats good news!!xx

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