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"To be honest never really got into Christmas I tried to but as it got closer the reality of it being the exes turn to have our daughter for Christmas set in I told my mam when I seen her Boxing Day I wanted a decent stretch of time to myself as last year she came round uninvited every single day of the holidays and she lasted a day and had been the last two days ffs, I reminded her again today I want left alone but see how long it lasts, it’s shit like this just makes me wish I was back at work " Did you post about your mum turning up unannounced a while back? Some people just can't help themselves | |||
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"To be honest never really got into Christmas I tried to but as it got closer the reality of it being the exes turn to have our daughter for Christmas set in I told my mam when I seen her Boxing Day I wanted a decent stretch of time to myself as last year she came round uninvited every single day of the holidays and she lasted a day and had been the last two days ffs, I reminded her again today I want left alone but see how long it lasts, it’s shit like this just makes me wish I was back at work Did you post about your mum turning up unannounced a while back? Some people just can't help themselves" Yes that was me I’ve told her several times (once very bluntly) since then but it lasts a week or two at most before falling into same routine, I’ve pretty much accepted it’s never going to change now | |||
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"So how is everyone feeling now the festive season is pretty much over? I’ll be honest my mood has slumped, I had a bad year feeling low as it was but it seems to have dropped to a new low at the moment. What do people do to pick themselves up? I hope you get it sorted and feel better soon. I’ve actually been good and booked counselling for the beginnng of January as I need to sort myself out but what other things do people find help? " | |||
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"To be honest never really got into Christmas I tried to but as it got closer the reality of it being the exes turn to have our daughter for Christmas set in I told my mam when I seen her Boxing Day I wanted a decent stretch of time to myself as last year she came round uninvited every single day of the holidays and she lasted a day and had been the last two days ffs, I reminded her again today I want left alone but see how long it lasts, it’s shit like this just makes me wish I was back at work Did you post about your mum turning up unannounced a while back? Some people just can't help themselves Yes that was me I’ve told her several times (once very bluntly) since then but it lasts a week or two at most before falling into same routine, I’ve pretty much accepted it’s never going to change now " Just posable she is struggling and needs to get out, I know this dose not help you. I have lost both mum and dad so enjoy when you can. Good luck. | |||
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"I always feel a little low coming up to New year ,I find New year emotional " I’d love to try and help you lift your mood, smile together.. enjoy xx | |||
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"I always feel a little low coming up to New year ,I find New year emotional I’d love to try and help you lift your mood, smile together.. enjoy xx" What a lovely thing to say,thank you xx | |||
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"I always feel a little low coming up to New year ,I find New year emotional " Same I always hold back tears come midnight | |||
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"Good decision. I had some counseling this year. It made such a difference and helped me allow myself to feel better. I’m feeling the blues also but don’t feel as bad as I probably would have. tbh just want to get NY over and back to work. "I’m hoping counselling will help me feel better too. I just struggle with the whole opening up. | |||
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"Sending hugs to all that need. These days between Christmas and new year are always a challenge! I've struggled this year more than ever. I try to keep myself busy it's the time where you're sat around that you feel it the most. Is there anything around the house that needs doing? Could you start and finish a project before return to work? " I have loads to do around the house. It’s finding that motivation. When my mood drops like this I struggle doing anything. | |||
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"Sending hugs to all that need. These days between Christmas and new year are always a challenge! I've struggled this year more than ever. I try to keep myself busy it's the time where you're sat around that you feel it the most. Is there anything around the house that needs doing? Could you start and finish a project before return to work? I have loads to do around the house. It’s finding that motivation. When my mood drops like this I struggle doing anything. " I can relate to that. Maybe set yourself small achievable goals each day. Like going for a short walk or doing some simple exercises. | |||
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"As soon as boxing day as gone for me xmas is over, but xmas has got so commercial is been spoilt and what xmas spirit has long gone. " Christmas has been commercial for decades. I still love buying stuff for other people and spending time with my family. They're all so busy I barely see them. | |||
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"I hate it. I'm just recovering from a chest infection that had me barely out of bed since Boxing Day and it feels like my holiday has been wasted and that instead of enjoying my time off, I'm now worried about returning back to work next Monday 😞" Oh Joe, let me make you a nice cup of coffee with some freshly ground beans of course | |||
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"I hate it. I'm just recovering from a chest infection that had me barely out of bed since Boxing Day and it feels like my holiday has been wasted and that instead of enjoying my time off, I'm now worried about returning back to work next Monday 😞 Oh Joe, let me make you a nice cup of coffee with some freshly ground beans of course "I've actually not had one since Christmas Day! 😱 | |||
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"I hate it. I'm just recovering from a chest infection that had me barely out of bed since Boxing Day and it feels like my holiday has been wasted and that instead of enjoying my time off, I'm now worried about returning back to work next Monday 😞 Oh Joe, let me make you a nice cup of coffee with some freshly ground beans of course
I've actually not had one since Christmas Day! 😱"There you go then. And a couple of nice cantucci biscuits to dunk in for you and hopefully all better soon. And yes awful when your days off taken up not feeling well.  | |||
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"Sending hugs to all that need. These days between Christmas and new year are always a challenge! I've struggled this year more than ever. I try to keep myself busy it's the time where you're sat around that you feel it the most. Is there anything around the house that needs doing? Could you start and finish a project before return to work? I have loads to do around the house. It’s finding that motivation. When my mood drops like this I struggle doing anything. " Motivation is the biggest issue for me. But I should be focusing on all the positive things. No matter how small. It's not easy.  | |||
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"I hate it. I'm just recovering from a chest infection that had me barely out of bed since Boxing Day and it feels like my holiday has been wasted and that instead of enjoying my time off, I'm now worried about returning back to work next Monday 😞" Welcome back Joe. | |||
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