FabSwingers.com forum: Outside of fab

By *iker Jack OP Man
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Jumping on another post what have your highlights outside of fab been for 2024

For me it’s realising the only person that has to like me is me

Realising working consistent 70 hours weeks only benefits the company (I am salaried)

Getting my blood pressure under control

Spending time doing what I like doing

What are yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Just surviving the year.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Getting married.

Mrs

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By *issBellaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

Learning how to feel better about the way I look. It helps that I seemed to have lost some weight somehow.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
2 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Highlights, mostly making changes to my job/living arrangements, planning all the things I need to do for me while I’m able

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By *rSircumsizedMan
2 weeks ago

Newport

Somehow getting a promotion in a job I hate.

Finally knocking it on the head with my ex-fuck buddy.

Learning how to feel good about myself and be more confident.

I've made new actual friends though various activities.

I had my first holiday abroad in over 12 years.

Looking forward to more changes in 2025.

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By *haiababeWoman
2 weeks ago

North devon

Realising that being single doenst mean your lonely. It means you have the freedom to do what you want with your free time not what someone else wants.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
2 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

Finally finishing building my time machine and getting it working... unfortunately I went back rather than forward in time and it unbuilt itself...🤪

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By *sWyldWoman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Traveling. I've been so incredibly lucky this year to do so much of it and I'm determined I'm not stopping.

Going on my first solo trip was big for me and I loved it. It was liberating and empowering.

My guest slot performing at the Edinburgh Fringe was also a highlight for me. I loved being back on stage.

I walked away fully from a situationship was freeing. It hurts, my heart is still broken but I realised my worth.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
2 weeks ago

West Bromwich

"Getting married.

Mrs "

Congratulations to you both

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

keep taking those holiday breaks and growing old gracefully

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
2 weeks ago

Hampshire

Becoming more confident in myself.

Going to gigs all over the country alone.

Passing my MA with distinction whilst running my own business and solo parenting.

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By *iandti2023Couple
2 weeks ago

Wokingham

Wow!! So impressive xxx

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By *ony MannMan
2 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

"Getting married.

Mrs "

Congratulations

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By *iandti2023Couple
2 weeks ago

Wokingham

Rekindled our estranged relationship with our parents.. long story over a few drinks and most importantly Tina left her corporate career which she hated and established a super successful small business from 0 to hundreds of clients…now only if we could have met more people on fabs

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By *rdere OpusCouple
2 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Aside from meeting S, it would be buying my house and getting back into my own space.

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By *evourm3Man
2 weeks ago

his Batcave

Achieved my goal of reading more books.

A better understanding that it's alright to be focused on achieving goals but we’re only here for one time so I made time to enjoy myself a bit more.

More quality time in my own company without others has been great.

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By *oe North 20Man
2 weeks ago

Gosforth

Doing the Great North Run. Not run since though 😆

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By *assConductorMan
2 weeks ago

the wild

Re-starting my fitness journey, and still enjoying it 6 months down the line.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
2 weeks ago

Durham

Achieving slightly more of a work/life balance and having more quality time together.

Our son getting married.

Ruby persevering with the job promotion she didn't want and taking on the extra responsibility.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
2 weeks ago

Swansea

Getting 2nd place in a 160 mile race.

Getting married.

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Finding peace with myself and being alone for the first time.

Getting healthy, physically, emotionally and mentally.

Going back to college and smashing it.

The year I found me again

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By *midnight-Woman
2 weeks ago

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Not resigning and starting a retirement plan

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Away for Christmas

"Just surviving the year.

Putting up with her!

Also

New job. Dealing with Christmas in new job and surviving it. Coming to terms with a few things involving other people, embracing a few others about myself.

And simply being my delightful hilarious wonderful self full time.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

Getting through a period walking with the black dog, and out the other side of it with positivity and a revived outlook. Oh, and finally popping my tattoo cherry!

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By *cnugatugMan
2 weeks ago

Chatham

Outside of fab

Realising working in the retail sector over the holiday period genuinely sucks people become absolute wankers towards shop workers

It's ok to not be ok

Kier starmer can't run a country unless it's into the ground

Slipknot put on an amazing live show

I genuinely hate Christmas

So a good year all round here's to 2025

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By *929Man
2 weeks ago

bedlington

Actually taking a week off (normally only have 2 weeks off at Christmas then not a full week off till the next Christmas) during summer and taking my kids to Cornwall then to Weymouth to see my sister, was magical and made me regret spending so much time working whike they were growing up

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By *ightsandstockingsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Runcorn

"Just surviving the year.

I hear you... Definitely got the survival instinct kicking in!

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By *arkus1812Man
2 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Meeting people who are not put off by my age.

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Realisation.

Engaging in business with people, whom I have to rely upon you do their job, is no longer worth my time and energy. I am much happier working autonomously, without employees, employer or partners.

I love certain people, but people as a general concept pisses me right off.

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By *LiamMan
2 weeks ago

Midlands

Take a risk. If you dont you'll be stuck doing the same shit the rest of your life🙏

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By *hesblokeMan
2 weeks ago

Derbyshire village

Realising that I should stop torturing myself over which chapter to pick and just build an Ultramarines army.

Life's hard!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

Easy one. Retiring.

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Choosing to turn down lots of money and not work anymore, was quite liberating & travel - Uzbekistan was just amazing.

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
2 weeks ago

manchester

"Just surviving the year.

This is becoming the norm for us

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By *ailor75Man
2 weeks ago

Brigg, near scunthorpe

Another year of work and taxes ( self employed ) and may try to actually settle down !! Sex is great and I love the buzz of meeting new people , but also miss companion ship !!

Hard though as most dating apps are worse than here for people wanting hook ups hahaha

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By *idnightMischiefMan
2 weeks ago

London

At the end of last year an old friend died from a heart attack.

He had a few mobility issues, so during the pandemic I did my best to help him with a few bits and pieces. I also made sure I kept regular contact as he was otherwise completely isolated.

After the funeral, at the start of this year, his brother expressed his gratitude by giving me £5k towards a car.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
2 weeks ago

Swansea

Getting married

Mrs

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Getting married

Mrs"

Cute

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By *rrrMannnn122Man
2 weeks ago

Walsall

i had a wank im pretty proud of that

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By *aron Von RingsplitterMan
2 weeks ago

Mottram St Andrew

If it is to be it is up to me...

Life is too short to waste it on people that don't bring positivity to yours...

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Getting married. Crazy to think that someone who started off on my hotlist, is now my wife.

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By *elix SightedMan
2 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Finally giving up the assassin gig. The money is getting worse and it’s a lonely life. I’m now off the Christmas card lists of so many gangsters, despots and dictators but, on the plus side, when I travel I don’t have to hide sniper rifles up my bum.

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By *rrrMannnn122Man
2 weeks ago

Walsall

"Finally giving up the assassin gig. The money is getting worse and it’s a lonely life. I’m now off the Christmas card lists of so many gangsters, despots and dictators but, on the plus side, when I travel I don’t have to hide sniper rifles up my bum."

ahhhh I wondered why you've been in Syria recently

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By *kguy4444Man
2 weeks ago

Wales

"Jumping on another post what have your highlights outside of fab been for 2024

For me it’s realising the only person that has to like me is me

Realising working consistent 70 hours weeks only benefits the company (I am salaried)

Getting my blood pressure under control

Spending time doing what I like doing

What are yours?"

You are spot on on each of these. I would add to be more and fun. In general day to day.

A few close bereavements have left me in a daily struggle, so try and move forward.

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By *ony MannMan
1 week ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

Getting a new shirt and new look.

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By *midnight-Woman
1 week ago

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"At the end of last year an old friend died from a heart attack.

He had a few mobility issues, so during the pandemic I did my best to help him with a few bits and pieces. I also made sure I kept regular contact as he was otherwise completely isolated.

After the funeral, at the start of this year, his brother expressed his gratitude by giving me £5k towards a car.

That is lovely xx

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By *midnight-Woman
1 week ago

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"Getting married

Mrs"

Oh Mrs NBN? Congratulations and welcome back x

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By *enk15Man
1 week ago

Evesham

Booked the wedding.

Didn’t lose my job when I thought I would.

Improved body confidence.

Got my tattoo I’ve been planning for years.

Kept the kids alive for another year 💪

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
1 week ago

Swansea

"Getting married

Mrs

Oh Mrs NBN? Congratulations and welcome back x"

Hiya! Thank you sweetheart x

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By *is and hers 2024Couple
1 week ago

york

Mr:

Getting married (we met on this site!)

Getting the all clear from a cancer scare

Being able to spend more time with people I love.

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By *ildTimes.Man
1 week ago

Colchester/London

Pizza 🍕🍕 and whiskey bring me joy, when casual sex doesn't fill the void in my miserable life... Oh god I sound like the rest of you now!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
1 week ago

East Sussex

Weeelll. I haven't killed anyone in a fit of murderous rage...that's an achievement, right? 🤔

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