FabSwingers.com forum: Maximum age 65?

By *eesside Anubis OP Man
2 weeks ago

North East

Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood.

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By *urvyBunnyWoman
2 weeks ago

Suffolk

Everyone has their preferences, I wouldn't take it personally

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I think it's just saying that they have a preference for people below that age.

It's not meant as a direct and personal insult 💜

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Central

People live and learn. Most people do know what they like and are looking for, though it may change, from time to time. Focus on those who want someone like you. The rest are irrelevant

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By *asterfulsoulMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Sorry you had to find out this way.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Everyone has their preferences, I wouldn't take it personally "

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It's pretty much this ^.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
2 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

each to their own

we don't take it personally if somebody sets their age limits to exclude us

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Preferences innit.

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By *ggdrasil66Man
2 weeks ago

Saltdean

"Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood. "

I often wondered about that. Maybe they all think they would cause us all to have heart attacks…

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By *onkeynutWoman
2 weeks ago

somewhere

Preferences.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood. "

Because at 56 the ball sack and labia of men and women respectively hit the deck.

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By *onkeynutWoman
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood.

Because at 56 the ball sack and labia of men and women respectively hit the deck. "

I knew it

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood.

Because at 56 the ball sack and labia of men and women respectively hit the deck.

I knew it "

You're a long way off. My labia are at my knees.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

They don't want to have sex with old people and I don't blame them. I didn't when I was younger. I think differently now but then I would.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
2 weeks ago

Willenhall

Did most people's maximum age range drop 10 years from when the OP wrote the thread title and the content of their post?

If so I'd better get a move on. If it drops another 10 years by the time I've finished writing this I'll have to start learning how to make doilies or something.

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By *antasdeerideMan
2 weeks ago

winfrith

"Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood. "
It is when you get to that end of the numbers spectrum very difficult for guys not so much women they seem to get sexier as they get older .Just keep plugging away old timer you'll get there in the end .

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By *haiababeWoman
2 weeks ago

North devon

Everyones different.

I persoanlly dont like the idea of being with someone whonis old enough to be my parent or im old enough omto be there's. So i set a10 up and 10 down rule. I use 10 cos some people are a little creative when putting there ages in.

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By *bonyGoddessNyxWoman
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood. "

Because that's their preference.

Maybe they are not attracted to older men in general?

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

I would disagree that most people have set their preferences at 55 because I've seen very few profiles like that.

In the 5+ years I've been using the forums there have been threads complaining about so many people having no interest in men over 45 and then how every second profile was discriminating against 50s and over.

I was 52 when I signed up here and never once had a conversation about my age and it has never stopped me meeting people.

Your age doesn't seem to have been a problem op with the 3 veries you have in just 8 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Stamina over heart attacks

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By *hismMan
2 weeks ago

Ballygonowhere

"Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood. "

It's a way of saying they are looking people younger than 55

They couldn't be clearer

What right have you to question what others are looking for!

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
2 weeks ago

manchester

We set our youngest age at 46 and our oldest age at 65. We prefer to meet in clubs where it’s based more on looks, Personality or often mood.

We are both 5’4” an find many will pass due to this ye once we are in a couples room many will want to play with us

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By *unthum62Man
2 weeks ago

Benidorm

Couples and womens profile usually set their prefences to narrow down the number of responses they receive to those they would possibly consider meeting. Their choices which we should all respect. I find it helps when browsing too. If you are outside of the age, gender or relationship preferences just scroll on by and find people who you match. There are plenty out there and it might be frustrating, especially as an older single male,to find so many who you do not match with but better to spend time and effort in the right places.

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve never concerned myself with the preferences of those who do not want to meet me.

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By *vaRose43Woman
2 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

There’s a very active and popular thread on the forums which is titled for those over 50, and it’s renewed every time it’s full.

Having a preference set isn’t an attack on anyone above that age it’s just a preference

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

^^ there's a thread kicking about somewhere requesting a chat room for the over 60s. I suggested that we agree a time and all meet in an empty chat room as an alternative. Guess what? Not one taker.

I think a lot of moaning about nobody being interested in older people goes on but many older people make no effort to attract that interest.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
2 weeks ago

cahoots

"We set our youngest age at 46 and our oldest age at 65. We prefer to meet in clubs where it’s based more on looks, Personality or often mood.

Exactly the same for us.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
2 weeks ago

Wherever

OP, you can’t force the attraction on someone. Focus on those who are actively looking for people your age, otherwise just leave them be.

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By *unthum62Man
2 weeks ago

Benidorm

"^^ there's a thread kicking about somewhere requesting a chat room for the over 60s. I suggested that we agree a time and all meet in an empty chat room as an alternative. Guess what? Not one taker.

I think a lot of moaning about nobody being interested in older people goes on but many older people make no effort to attract that interest. "

This.

We are owed nothing on this or any other site.

I find the more I post on forums, add content and interact with appropriate profiles the more activity builds up. Effort and reward. Nothing in, nothing out.

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By *allipygousMan
2 weeks ago

Leicester

"^^ there's a thread kicking about somewhere requesting a chat room for the over 60s. I suggested that we agree a time and all meet in an empty chat room as an alternative. Guess what? Not one taker.

I think a lot of moaning about nobody being interested in older people goes on but many older people make no effort to attract that interest. "

I never noticed your suggestion but I feel the moaning about no one wanting to meet folk over a certain age comes from the men of a certain age as let's face it, a woman on this site is always going to have options no matter her age or what she looks like.

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By *hirleyMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

If I were 55 or more I wouldn't meet anyone much older than 50 say.

So I'd say it goes both ways

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By *hirleyMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"If I were 55 or more I wouldn't meet anyone much older than 50 say.

So I'd say it goes both ways"

Anyone much younger* sorry

I'm only usually attracted to people my age or older...

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By *hirleyMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

"There’s a very active and popular thread on the forums which is titled for those over 50, and it’s renewed every time it’s full.

Having a preference set isn’t an attack on anyone above that age it’s just a preference "

It's weird that people take preferences somehow as an attack on them

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By *oan of DArcCouple
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood. "

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The other issue is we subconsciously notice things that affect us negatively, as others have said there are loads of threads highlighting a perceived discrimination, 24 year olds complaining that everyone wants to meet 25+, white men complaining women only want black men, black men complaining women only want white ones etc etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

[Removed by poster at 27/12/24 10:32:26]

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By *allipygousMan
2 weeks ago

Leicester

"Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood.

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It's called confirmation bias. A lot of it goes on in here.

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By *ilyandronCouple
2 weeks ago

Bristol

It’s no prob but they really don’t know what they’re missing !

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By *ormsterMan
2 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

Get this am going to

Speed dating event Belfast

Thur 15 or 16 January

60 / 70 age group 2 pm

Got be bit fun 😁

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"^^ there's a thread kicking about somewhere requesting a chat room for the over 60s. I suggested that we agree a time and all meet in an empty chat room as an alternative. Guess what? Not one taker.

I think a lot of moaning about nobody being interested in older people goes on but many older people make no effort to attract that interest.

Edited due to daft typo

To an extent that's true but the 'options' aren't always quite what they used to be, lots of men make noise about liking older women when what they mean is they think we're going to be desperate and grateful and many of the older men don't want older women

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By *ndisMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood.

I often wondered about that. Maybe they all think they would cause us all to have heart attacks…"

Yours is set to 75! Do you not like anyone over 75? Pensioner @pensioner hater!

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By *oro75Man
2 weeks ago

middlesbrough

Most women over 55 have a fanny like a welly top

Or its a pork pie

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By *ormsterMan
2 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

The main problem it's

People thinking when you reach a certain age you R BORING in life ,sex feck moan about everything .

Just read my profile

Lot hot women on here over 50s

Happy New you dirty dirty Fabs

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By *adam PadamWoman
2 weeks ago

leeds

Saggy and baggy.

We all go south as we age.

I'm in a different bracket to when I started and I once met someone who said, he would stop swinging aged 50 as no one wants to fuck 50 year old men.

On the other hand, I've been friends with people in their 60s who have a different take on it and swing just fine.

Age, like the body, is subjective

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By *eordieJeansCouple
2 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Saggy balls init.

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By *allipygousMan
2 weeks ago

Leicester

"^^ there's a thread kicking about somewhere requesting a chat room for the over 60s. I suggested that we agree a time and all meet in an empty chat room as an alternative. Guess what? Not one taker.

I think a lot of moaning about nobody being interested in older people goes on but many older people make no effort to attract that interest.

Edited due to daft typo

But you still have the options, good or bad, unlike the vast majority of older men 🙂

And I'm one of the rare breed that genuinely prefers women my own age or older, as evidenced by my at least decade long lusting after you 😊

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By *uddle4uMan
2 weeks ago

Purbeck

Many a good tune can be played with a Good fiddle

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Personal preferences.

Nothing to to do with age or fitness, but more to do with how we would get along.

I put my top limit at 65 but would have to be an exceptional individual with amazing connection.

Realistically 50-55 is more like it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"^^ there's a thread kicking about somewhere requesting a chat room for the over 60s. I suggested that we agree a time and all meet in an empty chat room as an alternative. Guess what? Not one taker.

I think a lot of moaning about nobody being interested in older people goes on but many older people make no effort to attract that interest.

Edited due to daft typo

But you still have the options, good or bad, unlike the vast majority of older men 🙂

And I'm one of the rare breed that genuinely prefers women my own age or older, as evidenced by my at least decade long lusting after you 😊"

Again true we do have options.

Has it been at least a decade!? 😱😊

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By *lowercandyWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancashire

"Why do most people put the maximum age 55, is that somehow a way of saying those of us over 55 are no longer anygood. "

That's your issue for taking it personally.

Your profile shows an age range of 18-99

One hopes you made a decision to leave it at that rather than couldn't be arsed to adjust it. But that is YOUR preference.

Just as other people have a preference for under 55

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By *allipygousMan
2 weeks ago

Leicester

"^^ there's a thread kicking about somewhere requesting a chat room for the over 60s. I suggested that we agree a time and all meet in an empty chat room as an alternative. Guess what? Not one taker.

I think a lot of moaning about nobody being interested in older people goes on but many older people make no effort to attract that interest.

Edited due to daft typo

But you still have the options, good or bad, unlike the vast majority of older men 🙂

And I'm one of the rare breed that genuinely prefers women my own age or older, as evidenced by my at least decade long lusting after you 😊

Again true we do have options.

Has it been at least a decade!? 😱😊"

Yes, under various guises 🙂

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By *erfHerder74Man
2 weeks ago

Inverclyde

A lot of men near me are over 50 and Won’t meet anyone over 40

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By *imon_hydeMan
2 weeks ago

Stockport

It's just a preference, we all have them x

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

it doesnt matter how well you dress or how well you look im 65 nearly you just have except it,,, if i was a 30year old man i wouldn t want to meet 65 year old woman no offence

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By *idnightMischiefMan
2 weeks ago

London

I'm 56 and I honestly couldn't give a shit what other people have as their preference - and I also understand why people have their preferences.

In my experience, people (especially men) start to look like garden gnomes as they get older - so it's no wonder people limit the age group they interact with.

For me, it's important to try to stay in reasonable shape - nobody is perfect, and we won't always maintain amazing physiques - but the amount of self-neglect with older people is insane!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

" if i was a 30year old man i wouldn t want to meet 65 year old woman no offence"

Exactly!

When I was 30 or even 40 I wouldn't have wanted to meet anyone over 60. I don't expect anyone much younger to want to meet me.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
2 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

"^^ there's a thread kicking about somewhere requesting a chat room for the over 60s. I suggested that we agree a time and all meet in an empty chat room as an alternative. Guess what? Not one taker.

I think a lot of moaning about nobody being interested in older people goes on but many older people make no effort to attract that interest. "

To be fair, at that age they probably all just forgot

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By *izandpaulCouple
2 weeks ago

merseyside

At parties, clubs and swingers holidays we tend to be attracted by people we find open, friendly, chatty, good nick for their age and sexy.

Seems like a tall order but in a real life environment it seems to just click.

Within reason, age is of little importance.

We've met mature people who are in fabulous condition both mentally and physically. Younger, who most certainly are not, in either way.

On line, it's difficult as most of us try to sell ourselves as best we can but at a party or club you can be yourself and you will either attract or not.

Our big turn off, is drama queens or bores. Then it "nice to meet you" and a quick move on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"^^ there's a thread kicking about somewhere requesting a chat room for the over 60s. I suggested that we agree a time and all meet in an empty chat room as an alternative. Guess what? Not one taker.

I think a lot of moaning about nobody being interested in older people goes on but many older people make no effort to attract that interest.

To be fair, at that age they probably all just forgot

. As someone clinging on to their 60s by the skin of their teeth (still all my own) I can say that probably most of them entered a chat room and forgot why they were there...

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By *.hrisMan
2 weeks ago

Bath

I'd happily meet with a 65 year old 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *ddie1966Man
2 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I suppose its because its easier to get an std testing certificate if you're under 55 than a medical certificate if you're over 55 to say your hearts good.

I've often thought that the only people interested in over 55's is pedigree chum...

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple
2 weeks ago

doncaster

We’ve been swinging two years and haven’t found one person over 55 who we have clicked with either on a personal level or an attraction level We leave it open on the off chance however we don’t hold out much hope

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By *arkus1812Man
2 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I do struggle to find partners on here, I have no doubt that my age plays a big part, I will be 85 in a few weeks.

In the world outside of Fab it is a different story where in the last year I have met with 3 different ladies all of whom are over 70 and am still in contact with all of them. Long may it continue.

I will not give up on Fab though as I still spot the odd woman whose profile say's they are looking for old men with some saying the older the better.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
2 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

"I do struggle to find partners on here, I have no doubt that my age plays a big part, I will be 85 in a few weeks.

In the world outside of Fab it is a different story where in the last year I have met with 3 different ladies all of whom are over 70 and am still in contact with all of them. Long may it continue.

I will not give up on Fab though as I still spot the odd woman whose profile say's they are looking for old men with some saying the older the better."

You watch that ticker of yours Tarkus, mind you hell of a way to go

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
2 weeks ago

Norwich

Clubs don't ask questions if you look good Lol

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