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"What kind of dominating are you looking to do? What kind of experience do you have that you speak of? Do you have any references from current or former subs, or friends from events that could give a social reference?"  | |||
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"What kind of dominating are you looking to do? What kind of experience do you have that you speak of? Do you have any references from current or former subs, or friends from events that could give a social reference?" Ohh like a dom list. Top Dom (I feel the need, the need to punish..) Good Dom Mediocre Dom Bad Dom is top Dom is guess 🤷♂️ | |||
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"What kind of dominating are you looking to do? What kind of experience do you have that you speak of? Do you have any references from current or former subs, or friends from events that could give a social reference? Ohh like a dom list. Top Dom (I feel the need, the need to punish..) Good Dom Mediocre Dom Bad Dom is top Dom is guess 🤷♂️" A Dom that isn't really a Dom...Con-dom | |||
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"Very non Dom sounding but good luck with those that don't know any better." Problem is it's Doms like this who makes all of them look bad | |||
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"What kind of dominating are you looking to do? What kind of experience do you have that you speak of? Do you have any references from current or former subs, or friends from events that could give a social reference? Ohh like a dom list. Top Dom (I feel the need, the need to punish..) Good Dom Mediocre Dom Bad Dom is top Dom is guess 🤷♂️ A Dom that isn't really a Dom...Con-dom" One that’s bad with instructions Conundr-dom | |||
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"What kind of dominating are you looking to do? What kind of experience do you have that you speak of? Do you have any references from current or former subs, or friends from events that could give a social reference? Ohh like a dom list. Top Dom (I feel the need, the need to punish..) Good Dom Mediocre Dom Bad Dom is top Dom is guess 🤷♂️ A Dom that isn't really a Dom...Con-dom" Nooo..... A dim-Dom  | |||
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"A new dom born today parapadomdom rapadomdom rapadomdommmmmmmmmmmm ..... keeping the season alive. " Johnny Mathis. Dunno how strict he was? | |||
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"A new dom born today parapadomdom rapadomdom rapadomdommmmmmmmmmmm ..... keeping the season alive. Johnny Mathis. Dunno how strict he was?" I was thinking more Bowie n Bing..... the singer not the search engine | |||
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"I want a funny magnet" A magnet that tells jokes? I can stick to your fridge if you just want a magnet that looks funny? | |||
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"A new dom born today parapadomdom rapadomdom rapadomdommmmmmmmmmmm ..... keeping the season alive. Johnny Mathis. Dunno how strict he was?" He sang about when we come. So maybe into orgasm control? 🤔 | |||
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"Mention the D word on here you just get the BDSM police turn up & abuse you ^ all the experts above sheeping away , each new comment gives the next one a little bit more confidence to have a dig…. Just do your thing , you shouldn’t need to advertise, if you’re good you will be a natural funny magnet "Or maybe they're drawing attention to some huge red flags. Because someone inexperienced might read that and believe him. And not know the sort of discussions they should be having. | |||
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"Mention the D word on here you just get the BDSM police turn up & abuse you ^ all the experts above sheeping away , each new comment gives the next one a little bit more confidence to have a dig…. Just do your thing , you shouldn’t need to advertise, if you’re good you will be a natural funny magnet "Yes. Jokes about terminology and asking clarifying questions is abuse. Don't stand for it OP. Truly shocking behaviours from the forumites here 😉💜 | |||
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"Mention the D word on here you just get the BDSM police turn up & abuse you ^ all the experts above sheeping away , each new comment gives the next one a little bit more confidence to have a dig…. Just do your thing , you shouldn’t need to advertise, if you’re good you will be a natural funny magnet
Or maybe they're drawing attention to some huge red flags. Because someone inexperienced might read that and believe him. And not know the sort of discussions they should be having. "Oh like a public service ? I get it now, my mistake…. | |||
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"Mention the D word on here you just get the BDSM police turn up & abuse you ^ all the experts above sheeping away , each new comment gives the next one a little bit more confidence to have a dig…. Just do your thing , you shouldn’t need to advertise, if you’re good you will be a natural funny magnet
Or maybe they're drawing attention to some huge red flags. Because someone inexperienced might read that and believe him. And not know the sort of discussions they should be having.
Oh like a public service ? I get it now, my mistake…."Yep. Good subs like to help out other subs. And a good Dom would have no objection to clarifying. | |||
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"Oh like a public service ? I get it now, my mistake…." More just caring about other humans. I know there's plenty of heads ups that I'd have appreciated when I first entered the scene rather than learning the hard way, and I'm grateful for the ones that did make it to me before I discovered issues for myself. Call it paying it forward. Generally I find the only people who take issue with such discussions within the community are those who lose out by people being made aware of those red flags 💜 | |||
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"Mention the D word on here you just get the BDSM police turn up & abuse you ^ all the experts above sheeping away , each new comment gives the next one a little bit more confidence to have a dig…. Just do your thing , you shouldn’t need to advertise, if you’re good you will be a natural funny magnet
Or maybe they're drawing attention to some huge red flags. Because someone inexperienced might read that and believe him. And not know the sort of discussions they should be having. "Agree/disagree with you (sorry not very festive of me). If a sub thought that the OP was suffice to plunge further with them, then they really do need to give their head a wobble and do their own research. My mini rant (not at you, just a general one). Just because I'm submissive does not mean I'm dumb and that I don't do my own research. That I don't question Dominants and that will follow their instructions without any thought. Funny how many Dom's don't like pro active subs, apparently doesn't make me a sub! I'm not going to allow any Dom, Dick or Harry do the things I like, without thinking about my own safety. There's a constant stream of posts about Dim Dom's, when I think there are just as many Silly Subs who are walking red flags too. | |||
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"Oh like a public service ? I get it now, my mistake…. More just caring about other humans. I know there's plenty of heads ups that I'd have appreciated when I first entered the scene rather than learning the hard way, and I'm grateful for the ones that did make it to me before I discovered issues for myself. Call it paying it forward. Generally I find the only people who take issue with such discussions within the community are those who lose out by people being made aware of those red flags 💜" well said. I was piss taking in my posts on the thead, but safety and seeing no one gets a rise taken out of them is really important | |||
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"Mention the D word on here you just get the BDSM police turn up & abuse you ^ all the experts above sheeping away , each new comment gives the next one a little bit more confidence to have a dig…. Just do your thing , you shouldn’t need to advertise, if you’re good you will be a natural funny magnet
Or maybe they're drawing attention to some huge red flags. Because someone inexperienced might read that and believe him. And not know the sort of discussions they should be having.
Agree/disagree with you (sorry not very festive of me). If a sub thought that the OP was suffice to plunge further with them, then they really do need to give their head a wobble and do their own research.
My mini rant (not at you, just a general one).
Just because I'm submissive does not mean I'm dumb and that I don't do my own research. That I don't question Dominants and that will follow their instructions without any thought. Funny how many Dom's don't like pro active subs, apparently doesn't make me a sub! I'm not going to allow any Dom, Dick or Harry do the things I like, without thinking about my own safety. There's a constant stream of posts about Dim Dom's, when I think there are just as many Silly Subs who are walking red flags too. "I know exactly what you mean. But I worry that enough people read 50 Shades and think that's how it's meant to be. It's absolutely on the sub to do their own research and ask their questions. But sometimes a little signposting from those who have walked the path doesn't go amiss. | |||
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"Mention the D word on here you just get the BDSM police turn up & abuse you ^ all the experts above sheeping away , each new comment gives the next one a little bit more confidence to have a dig…. Just do your thing , you shouldn’t need to advertise, if you’re good you will be a natural funny magnet
Or maybe they're drawing attention to some huge red flags. Because someone inexperienced might read that and believe him. And not know the sort of discussions they should be having.
Agree/disagree with you (sorry not very festive of me). If a sub thought that the OP was suffice to plunge further with them, then they really do need to give their head a wobble and do their own research.
My mini rant (not at you, just a general one).
Just because I'm submissive does not mean I'm dumb and that I don't do my own research. That I don't question Dominants and that will follow their instructions without any thought. Funny how many Dom's don't like pro active subs, apparently doesn't make me a sub! I'm not going to allow any Dom, Dick or Harry do the things I like, without thinking about my own safety. There's a constant stream of posts about Dim Dom's, when I think there are just as many Silly Subs who are walking red flags too.
I know exactly what you mean. But I worry that enough people read 50 Shades and think that's how it's meant to be. It's absolutely on the sub to do their own research and ask their questions. But sometimes a little signposting from those who have walked the path doesn't go amiss. "I agree with you in the main. I sometimes feel the message that subs need to be pro active is often lost. Not relevant to you, you know your onions. Submissive if you think it's something you want to try, do your own damn research. Would you let a bloke you found on the internet, do your hair and make up for an important event without doing your own research first? If the answer is no, then same applies in BDSM where instead of your hair and face looking a mess, you could end up with an injury. | |||
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"Of course he's a single man without any photos, so not particularly likely to have clunge racing to him anyway " Love the word clunge  | |||
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