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By *iker Jack OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I have heard and seen the word community used in regard to swinging

What does this word actually mean or is it a dog ear dog world (no actual dogs being eaten) of trying to gain attention for the hope of sexual gratification

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By *urvyBunnyWoman
2 weeks ago

Suffolk

I see swinging as a community, I attended a lot of clubs previously and made some great lifelong friends. Yeah, we're all filthy fuckers most of the time, but we look out for eachother and the friends I've made are all special, we have a great connection and I would genuinely consider them to be close. Of course, there are people that don't want that, and thats okay! For me personally, I love connecting with people on a deeper level and the sex is just better

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By *asterfulsoulMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Most of the time when people refer to the "swinging community" they're either thinking of a specific community of swingers (e.g. the people who circle their local meetups, local events, local clubs, etc) or something more nebulous but still shared (identity, norms, common texts, etc).

I don't think swinging really has all that much of the latter, in the same way e.g. the BDSM community does; it's a lot more about the former imo.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

People like to use the term community when they really mean an activity they partake in or identify with. I see no evidence of community.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

^^ I agree I see no evidence if community. I see isolated incidents of behaviour that is also typical of good communities but in general the majority don't really care much about other people who swing.

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I see it as a loose community - people are bound by a shared interest.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"I see it as a loose community - people are bound by a shared interest."

That shared interest is subverted by self interest.

I’ve see this word bandied about in other areas ..and the reality is always the same. Community until the moment people aren’t getting their self interest served. Then it’s not community it’s people in the way.

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By *ony MannMan
2 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

I have friends who swing, I have people I fuck. I know some who play with others I know. That's about as far as the swinging community goes. I would like to see swingers marching on Parliament to support "free love", but I don't see that happening. Too many problems created coming out.

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"I see it as a loose community - people are bound by a shared interest.

That shared interest is subverted by self interest.

I’ve see this word bandied about in other areas ..and the reality is always the same. Community until the moment people aren’t getting their self interest served. Then it’s not community it’s people in the way.

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I think that depends on the individual. It does also define any group of people anywhere. If you are the type to “use” people then you will revert to that behaviour if you can - just because some people operate like that doesn’t mean that the rest of us can’t have a shared interest.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

A marvellous comedy show.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"I see it as a loose community - people are bound by a shared interest.

That shared interest is subverted by self interest.

I’ve see this word bandied about in other areas ..and the reality is always the same. Community until the moment people aren’t getting their self interest served. Then it’s not community it’s people in the way.

I think that depends on the individual. It does also define any group of people anywhere. If you are the type to “use” people then you will revert to that behaviour if you can - just because some people operate like that doesn’t mean that the rest of us can’t have a shared interest."

Shared interest absolutely. But that’s not a community. Like minded, empathetic to one another perhaps. But not a group of people who will close ranks and identify as a community.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Pretty sure Jeff and Troy would be up for it, definitely Pierce Hawthorne a d most definitely NOT Shirley.

I definitely wouldn't mind a threesome with Britta and Annie.

I think the whole thing would freak Abed out tho.

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By *ansoffateMan
2 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

There is no society, there are individuals and there are families.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading


"Pretty sure Jeff and Troy would be up for it, definitely Pierce Hawthorne a d most definitely NOT Shirley.

I definitely wouldn't mind a threesome with Britta and Annie.

I think the whole thing would freak Abed out tho."

So wrong. Shirley is a dirty bitch.

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

My only experience of swinging is through fab and like many people on here I don't class myself as a swinger so therefore I fall outside of whatever community exists.

Like most communities there are those who enjoy sitting at the top table but have no interest in any input from those not at their table.

There are those who complain about how the community is organised or in many cases disorganised but aren't willing to step up.

My personal experience is that it's difficult to have a community when for so many members it's all about self interest and fab as a whole is much more of a sharing community than a caring community.

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

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"Pretty sure Jeff and Troy would be up for it, definitely Pierce Hawthorne a d most definitely NOT Shirley.

I definitely wouldn't mind a threesome with Britta and Annie.

I think the whole thing would freak Abed out tho."

Nah. Abed would find it fascinating in a very detached, observing a different species kind of way.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"Pretty sure Jeff and Troy would be up for it, definitely Pierce Hawthorne a d most definitely NOT Shirley.

I definitely wouldn't mind a threesome with Britta and Annie.

I think the whole thing would freak Abed out tho.

So wrong. Shirley is a dirty bitch."

She certainly knew how to party

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"Pretty sure Jeff and Troy would be up for it, definitely Pierce Hawthorne a d most definitely NOT Shirley.

I definitely wouldn't mind a threesome with Britta and Annie.

I think the whole thing would freak Abed out tho.

Nah. Abed would find it fascinating in a very detached, observing a different species kind of way."

He'd just get into character and enjoy

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