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By *rishb26 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

kilkenny area

Just curious, what do people look for when adding friends on here? I have select few as friends on this, but would love to get some more to have more on my updates

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Are they hot?

Do I want to have sex with them?

Do they make me laugh?

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By *cottish guy 555Man
2 weeks ago

London

99% of them I've met.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

I don't look for anything, nor do I go speculatively scouring for new friends in order to bolster my status feeds.

In all the years I've been on here my 'friends list' rarely goes into double digits. I've never even sent a friend invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Are they hot?

Do I want to have sex with them?

Do they make me laugh?

"

Pretty much this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

2 weeks ago

East Sussex

We look for friends now that will keep in touch and exchange pleasantries occasionally.

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By *rishb26 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

kilkenny area

I’m usually in a more rural area, so I think friends from around me are rarer, I think having friends to chat to on occasion would be good. Do you all meet with people before being friends on here, or just after chatting for a while?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

If you just want additional updates then use the hot list.

I only add friends once I've met someone, or they're good friends of people I know.

Sure, it's nice to be able to see photos that the general population can't. But most people keep those for people they actually want to meet rather than anyone that just asks.

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By *rishb26 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

kilkenny area

I think I may have worded my original question wrong, I mean I’d leave to see updates for people I talk to, not just new photos/videos in general. Thanks everyone for the replies

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

Be my friend and not some random picture hunter.

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By *iker JackMan
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Actual friendship with someone I’ve met or have conversations with away from here

If we stop communicating then it’s a remove from me

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By *djt1Man
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I like to add hotties so I get to see the new pic updates through my feed.

I wish there was a follow rather than a friend request.

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By *erfHerder74Man
2 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I rarely add friends because I used to add thinking they would make an effort to talk then become regular fwb but hasn’t happened

Most add to see pvt pics

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By *issBellaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales


"Are they hot?

Do I want to have sex with them?

Do they make me laugh?

"

This

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By *tevieobMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin

The few I have, I’ve chatted with and had some good craic with, usually there’s something in their profile or pics that I like too

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

Our friends list is for the people who we have met in person.

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By *nomeforyourboneWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

We've banged and will bang again, that's all.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

Darwen


"We've banged and will bang again, that's all."

Is that what is meant by the Big Bang Theory? 🤔

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By *ornym66Man
2 weeks ago

Col /ips

I'm good a DIY if that helps

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By *midnight-Woman
2 weeks ago

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"Just curious, what do people look for when adding friends on here? I have select few as friends on this, but would love to get some more to have more on my updates "

Use the hot list function?

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By *rama FreeMan
2 weeks ago

The

Find their Bebo profile and see if we have anything in common.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

pink panther territory

I have a few select friends,a few I've know,and a couple that I've met

I'd rather just have a few friends who actually chat,then hordes that don't chat

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

My friends list has always been in single figures by choice.

I only accept requests from those I've been chatting to for a while and if we aren't compatible even as chat buddies I won't accept.

I chat to one of my fab friends every single day. I haven't chatted to any of the others in months and in some cases a couple of years so there will be a New year cull.

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By *elshboobs999Couple
2 weeks ago

Caerphilly & Llanelli


"Just curious, what do people look for when adding friends on here? I have select few as friends on this, but would love to get some more to have more on my updates "

Don't send a friend request without chatting first

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
2 weeks ago

Swansea

Our friends list is small, just a few people we have met socially and intend to play with, people we have met socially and get on really well with, people we have had fun with.

I usually do fab admin and remove people every now and again.

Mrs

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

Darwen

Well the friends on my fab are people I've met before, people I'm wanting to meet, people I get on with etc.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
2 weeks ago

Southampton

I find flirting in the forums helps

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By *itygamesMan
2 weeks ago

UK

Are thet really Friends just because theyve accepted a friends invite.

Not really

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

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Are they a friend? Could I see them being a friend? If not, I'll politely ignore the friend request/remove them.

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By *exySenseiCouple
2 weeks ago


"Just curious, what do people look for when adding friends on here? I have select few as friends on this, but would love to get some more to have more on my updates "

Single guys have a much harder time, because you know, economics. It's nothing personal son. Just there are more guys aka supply then there are couples and women aka demand. (Wait until I go into price elasticity tho. Then the fab fun really starts.)

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By *eesside AnubisMan
2 weeks ago

North East

I'd chat to you as your local but I cannot message you. We've never even spoken

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By *hapLeedsMan
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Would be nice to meet some real FWB…

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By *obilebottomMan
2 weeks ago

All over

Do they bake

Do they like cake

Do they get my humour

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