Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to The Lounge |
Jump to newest |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ll be honest here Brucey. The idea of *not* being able to come from a blow job alone seems bizarre/weird to me. Can’t get my head around it." Same here. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ll be honest here Brucey. The idea of *not* being able to come from a blow job alone seems bizarre/weird to me. Can’t get my head around it." I do sometimes worry despite my love of sex I am missing some nerve endings or something because it's wild to me people can come from them! And I've had a lot of blowjobs! 😂 | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"steady tongue movement over the frenulum. " This is what I find tips men over -oh and a flat tongue 'pulsing' against the outside shaft | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"steady tongue movement over the frenulum. This is what I find tips men over -oh and a flat tongue 'pulsing' against the outside shaft " This! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It takes a while but if I’m mega horny and she’s telling Me she’s thinking of Another guys! Then I will blow " love 28th August 2024 pic | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"steady tongue movement over the frenulum. This is what I find tips men over -oh and a flat tongue 'pulsing' against the outside shaft " Absolutely, that sounds fantastic and would be a lot of wet fun! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"steady tongue movement over the frenulum. This is what I find tips men over -oh and a flat tongue 'pulsing' against the outside shaft " Oh midnight, you hit the spot! It's the frenulum that does it for me. Though a pointy tongue on the spot is hard to beat. I have only once cum from a BJ, it took a while (like 20 mins or so), but the lady in question was patient and generous and I came in her mouth. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"….I can’t feel rushed or pressured to cum. I have cum in 10-15mins from a BJ, at other times I’ve paced myself out psychologically and taken 60-90 minutes to cum. The longer ones are usually when I am enjoying the comittment from my partner to keep going. " Bloody hell. She’s a keeper | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Just here in the hope I learn how to be better.... " Ms wyld, feel free to use me as your test dummy | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Interesting! A friend once told me she thought it was a circumcision thing. She thought that a man with a cut cock rarely cums while having a BJ" Heshell is cut and we would agree that it makes it a lot harder. Certainly not impossible though. If Sheshell tickles him right at the top, under the helmet, with her tongue then that can make him cum without any hand action. Obviously the use of anal stimulation can improve matters also. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ll be honest here Brucey. The idea of *not* being able to come from a blow job alone seems bizarre/weird to me. Can’t get my head around it." Agreed and I hate when a guy says he's never..it's a flex/lie type I try to avoid. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Interesting! A friend once told me she thought it was a circumcision thing. She thought that a man with a cut cock rarely cums while having a BJ" As an American who's vast population is mostly cut..I've heard the opposite..many won't even give the uncut. Turtle necks slinky dicks a chance so.. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Maybe put the camera down and try just enjoying it? 🤷🏻♀️" If I was holding a camera, frankly I'd have dropped the flipping thing sod the movie | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"For those who have never had it, my sympathies..." I politely reject your sympathies. Climaxing isn't necessarily a preordained outcome. I don't see it as a failing. I still enjoy it. I can't cum from it but there's always penetrative sex and other pleasurable methods that I do come from. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" That and the fact that I'm doing it for my own enjoyment first and foremost. " This here. I couldn’t get my head around someone doing it for me because they enjoyed doing it. I think when I’ve been with a partner long enough and it hasn’t happened, I think that they see it as a chore as they know their isn’t an end result and it just becomes a warm up to sex. Hearing you lot on fab talk about how much you love it and why helped me accept it more. But I think after so many tries and fails you start to feel pressured to cum which doesn’t help. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ll be honest here Brucey. The idea of *not* being able to come from a blow job alone seems bizarre/weird to me. Can’t get my head around it. Agreed and I hate when a guy says he's never..it's a flex/lie type I try to avoid." I mean it's a fact not a flex...I wish I could! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Maybe put the camera down and try just enjoying it? 🤷🏻♀️" Hey I don't do that everytime... | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ll be honest here Brucey. The idea of *not* being able to come from a blow job alone seems bizarre/weird to me. Can’t get my head around it. Same here. " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"….I can’t feel rushed or pressured to cum. I have cum in 10-15mins from a BJ, at other times I’ve paced myself out psychologically and taken 60-90 minutes to cum. The longer ones are usually when I am enjoying the comittment from my partner to keep going. Bloody hell. She’s a keeper " Oh no, it was a guy (I’m bi) who would suck for that long It was strenuous for him but we were is a d/s style dynamic and he loved putting in the effort. A sad day when he moved across the country and our meets came to an end. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"steady tongue movement over the frenulum. This is what I find tips men over -oh and a flat tongue 'pulsing' against the outside shaft " I can only imagine you would tip a lot of men over | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"steady tongue movement over the frenulum. This is what I find tips men over -oh and a flat tongue 'pulsing' against the outside shaft " Yesss tounges being pressed flatly against the penis. This is my issue with poor BJs, when people just use their lips to make an O shape. That hollow feeling really isn’t doing anything. It’s as if they don’t like the idea of their tounge touching dick, and tbh if someone does not enjoy giving a BJ that’s fine, I’d rather just not recieve it. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ll be honest here Brucey. The idea of *not* being able to come from a blow job alone seems bizarre/weird to me. Can’t get my head around it. Agreed and I hate when a guy says he's never..it's a flex/lie type I try to avoid." It really ain’t a lie or flex in all cases. for me it just feels like being consistently teased. And It can be shit for the women’s self esteem. It took me 40 years and it’s only happened to me twice. And what you’ve said is exactly why I try to avoid the conversation because being honest about it makes you look dishonest. As much as some find it weird for the guys that can’t, we find it weird for the ones that can/can so easily. Also, women will say that they never cum with a guy the first time they have sex and do 🤷🏼♂️ Some people lie about sexual stuff (mostly men) but it is 100% a thing. I’ve had someone literally go down on me for a couple of hours after the club and nothing. She kept asking me if there was a problem with her or how she was doing it. As much as I reassured her it wasn’t, told her it’s a problem I have (told her that before she started) she wouldn’t stop, I ended up having to stop her due to being sore and she felt like shit about it. Which tbh, could of added to some of the reason I struggle to. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It's the technique of a perfect balance between hands and mouth. Keeping it wet so they can't tell when you've switched. Focusing more on the head and less on the shaft but not forgetting the balls. Suck it like it's the last blowjob he will ever receive until his toes curl and legs tremble. " Dang I need to buy you dinner love | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Has any dick owner came solely from a blowjob? If so, how long did it take? What techniques did she use? What's the magic behind it?! Asking as someone that never has done it no matter if it's a slow deep suck OR a throat fuck!" Define what you mean by "dick owner"? And is that sole ownershio or can someone buy shares? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Has any dick owner came solely from a blowjob? If so, how long did it take? What techniques did she use? What's the magic behind it?! Asking as someone that never has done it no matter if it's a slow deep suck OR a throat fuck!" You don't give a great BJ with your mouth... you give it with your heart. There's nothing worse than an unenthusiastic effort. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |