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By *reenonions OP   Man
over a year ago

Nr Exeter

Just noticing, some people seem to almost 'need' to be on here.

Others are just having a giggle and don't worry too much about it.

Where do you sit on this 'fence'?

I'm finding in hard to take much seriously any more - too many people with issues...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take it that seriously but its a smiler looking at bruised egos and limp attitudes. It makes me smile so I guess thats not bad.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Depends what people expect to get out of it. I dont expect (easier to state what I dont expect... to receive expert advice on medical, legal, IT or any other matters as for that I ask the experts in the real world.

I dont EXPECT deep and meaningful friendships but I have made some really good friends.

I dont expect the sitre or the lifestyle to make up for shortfalls in my life or to be an answer to a crisis.

I do expect some friendly banter, some serious and some semi serious conversations with decent respectful genuine people. Most of the time, I am not disappointed.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Just noticing, some people seem to almost 'need' to be on here.

Others are just having a giggle and don't worry too much about it.

Where do you sit on this 'fence'?

I'm finding in hard to take much seriously any more - too many people with issues... "
Giggle, whilst sitting on a pointy fence lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can I take anything serious with a name like mine

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"How can I take anything serious with a name like mine "
Fucking men called Ryan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect FUN. Too many looking for relationships? Maybe... Some guys who expect to get sex just for asking??

Yeah - expect a few tossers as everywhere in life. But also expect to see/meet some really nice people.

Don't take things too seriously and most importantly don't take YOURSELF too seriously - Then you can expect FUN!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. Far too many uptight people on here.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Expect FUN. Too many looking for relationships? Maybe... Some guys who expect to get sex just for asking??

Yeah - expect a few tossers as everywhere in life. But also expect to see/meet some really nice people.

Don't take things too seriously and most importantly don't take YOURSELF too seriously - Then you can expect FUN!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I take anything serious with a name like mine Fucking men called Ryan? "

Think she just hates names that start with R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I take anything serious with a name like mine Fucking men called Ryan? "

I only know one , 2 more days to go though

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"How can I take anything serious with a name like mine Fucking men called Ryan?

Think she just hates names that start with R "
If that was the case wouldn't her name be FUCKYOU R?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I take anything serious with a name like mine Fucking men called Ryan?

Think she just hates names that start with R "

just as well yours doesn't start with an R then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I take anything serious with a name like mine Fucking men called Ryan?

Think she just hates names that start with R If that was the case wouldn't her name be FUCKYOU R? "

Maybe she hates Ryan more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its pretty 50/50

the less its about fun the less I'm interested, and by fun I mean having fun, not JUST getting a fuck...so I'm rarely caught up in (insert dull to medium angry tone):-'woe this shite is pish..nobody meets'... mainly because I think I have a relaxed view.

but definitely not that relaxed to start messing people around..I just dont think its fair messing up other peoples plans...even if it is quite a superficial thing..I'd honor agreements and hope to have a good laugh...and..maybe....ma hole!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I take anything serious with a name like mine Fucking men called Ryan?

Think she just hates names that start with R

just as well yours doesn't start with an R then "

Lol that was funny you piss rat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I take anything serious with a name like mine Fucking men called Ryan?

Think she just hates names that start with R

just as well yours doesn't start with an R then

Lol that was funny you piss rat "

never been called a piss rat before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emm, is shagging a serious business? If it is then I take it serious, if it's not then I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I take anything serious with a name like mine Fucking men called Ryan?

Think she just hates names that start with R

just as well yours doesn't start with an R then

Lol that was funny you piss rat

never been called a piss rat before "

perhaps he meant U piss rats?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I think too many people on here are just using it as "social network"...

Some are far too serious its scary...

Noone "needs" to be here, but sadly some would be lost without their online "friends"....

However, most do use it as a means to meeting and always will...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can I take anything serious with a name like mine Fucking men called Ryan?

Think she just hates names that start with R

just as well yours doesn't start with an R then

Lol that was funny you piss rat

never been called a piss rat before

perhaps he meant U piss rats?"

Yeah true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know, it takes allsorts to make a world, and this place is a fantastic microcosm of whatever you want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just noticing, some people seem to almost 'need' to be on here.

Others are just having a giggle and don't worry too much about it.

Where do you sit on this 'fence'?

I'm finding in hard to take much seriously any more - too many people with issues... "

Just have fun !!!! See my last post in the lounge lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a life away from FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know, it takes allsorts to make a world, and this place is a fantastic microcosm of whatever you want to be.

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i think its escapism for most ,a life style for some and a nice treat for others.who cares where you fit in as long as you all having fun?been told it looks a life style for us .but really? We can't meet every night lol.we have jobs family and us .its a life style if we chose it to fit in with our lives and compliment it .not instead of it .thats just us and our take on it.poppyxxhope that doesn't offendxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take this place as seriously as I take meself...

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I think too many people on here are just using it as "social network"...

Some are far too serious its scary...

Noone "needs" to be here, but sadly some would be lost without their online "friends"....

However, most do use it as a means to meeting and always will..."

Isn't that what a forum is all about though?

All the people who are 'not meeting' I guess must also be classed as using it for something similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have posted serious stuff about the death of a loved one and other emotional issues. That should not be taken lightly whatever the nature of the site but otherwise the trolls will have their say.

I have to say, a condolence message with an erect cock pic attached is a little incongruous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giggler!

Especially having seen some pics and status updates today!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You know, it takes allsorts to make a world, and this place is a fantastic microcosm of whatever you want to be.

"

Exactly this. I can be serious on here, I can be lighthearted and it fits into the rest of my life quite neatly. As long as everyone enjoys the way they use the site and it serves the purpose they want it to it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do but am trying to improve

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