FabSwingers.com forum: Lonely in a Crowded Room

By *r_BigHead OP Man
2 weeks ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

I know what it can be like to feel lonely, even with people around you (especially at this time of year).

I'm here if anyone wants someone to chat with or just to listen to how their feeling.

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By *aron Von RingsplitterMan
2 weeks ago

Mottram St Andrew

Love this brother... Good on you for putting yourself out there for others.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
2 weeks ago

Essex

💛💛💛

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By *inxy777Woman
2 weeks ago

essex

If anyone needs a chat over Xmas, please drop

a message. X.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

It can be one of the loneliest feelings and sometimes why made the effort to go out or why you are the only one feeling alone in a crowd

Hugs to anyone who needs

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By *sWyldWoman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Christmas can be the hardest time, all the expectations and forced joy. The overwhelm, the pressure and sometimes the realisation that it's really just another day.

Hope everyone manages to have time that works for them.

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

it can be a terrible time for some people,, your thoughtful young man op

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By *oodmessMan
2 weeks ago

yumsville

Realise this is more of a chat thread but happened to watch an interesting youtube the other day, there's some good insights into understanding self, others, inner and outer projection, building friendships, what to avoid and build on - both from a body language perspective and a social one. Some bits are a little jargony but on the whole it's quite insightful. It's long, but doesn't feel so.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VHUrdELKjDw

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By *midnight-Woman
2 weeks ago

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♥️♥️♥️♥️ sending love to all who need it over the next few days xxx

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By *ike14162236Man
2 weeks ago

Cambridge

Completely agree with this!

Drop me a message if you want to chat at any point over the next two weeks or so. Doesn’t matter what you want to talk about, it’s just good to talk

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By *eaAndBiscuit1989Man
2 weeks ago

Burnley

Here here.

Been there in a situation at Christmas suffering with anxiety and depression.....not nice at all.

I mirror the comments above.....if anyone needs a chat, drop me a message, no judging.

A very thoughtful thread OP, well done

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By *ohnSwingsSurreyMan
2 weeks ago

Horley

You’re a good egg , OP

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Great thread op, thanks.

I never used to understand how you can could feel lonely in company, till I spent time with the wrong people,years ago.

Love to anyone who needs it at the moment

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By *ags73Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

It’s a tough time of year and the absolutely worst sorts of people do the forced jollyfication.

I’ve seen myself in past at Christmas parties asking someone sitting quietly if they’re okay and there’s always going in with everybody and the need to be happy around Christmas sort of makes it worse for them.

Tread lightly and be kind where you can x

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By *adagastMan
2 weeks ago

Rotherham

"I know what it can be like to feel lonely, even with people around you (especially at this time of year).

I'm here if anyone wants someone to chat with or just to listen to how their feeling."

I understand too, thank you for starting this thread and being there fir everyone.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
2 weeks ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

❤️

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By *r_BigHead OP Man
2 weeks ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

It's great to see this post getting a lot of love and others also offering to lend an ear

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By *ackformore100Man
2 weeks ago

Tin town

"I know what it can be like to feel lonely, even with people around you (especially at this time of year).

I'm here if anyone wants someone to chat with or just to listen to how their feeling."

Nice and important thought op.

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By *untimes10099Man
2 weeks ago

Chatham

Happy to chat to anyone local

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By *rthur30Man
2 weeks ago

Warrington

What a wonderful thread OP! Look at all the people who have responded! Kindness is the best virtue.

I also offer to listen and chat. I know what it is like to feel alone.

Best wishes to all.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
2 weeks ago

Next Door

Its really strange, I have been thinking this all day.

I have family visiting and more family arriving over the next 2 days.

It's so hard and exhausting.

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Nowhere

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By *ormsterMan
2 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

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By *ormsterMan
2 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

What a kind post

Hugs and kiss to all

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By *eorgesdad69Man
2 weeks ago

nottingham

I spent over 20 years in hotels on my own traveling for work, lonely as hell especially when internet dating wasn’t as it is now. Got a few meets at the latter end of my career 😫😫💋

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By *r_BigHead OP Man
2 weeks ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

Hope no-one needs it.

But here if you do

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

I think sometimes it can feel more lonely being with the wrong people than actually being alone....

Unless of course you're alone and there are people you want to be with but can't...

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By *ackformore100Man
2 weeks ago

Tin town

Bump

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
2 weeks ago

Londontown

Nice one OP, thank you

Also hear to listen if anyone needs a chat.

Xxx

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By *reggSausageMan
2 weeks ago

derby

I guess I’m not the only who thinks 2024 can do one, it’s been a tough year and doing it alone is in so many ways not how life is supposed to be done, yet here we all are clinging on at times, thanks for posting OP sending love to you all as god knows you all need it x

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By *akingtheplungeMan
2 weeks ago

kent

How kind are all you lovely people, hope you all stay safe, see you on the other side, love to all xx

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By *akingtheplungeMan
2 weeks ago

kent

"I think sometimes it can feel more lonely being with the wrong people than actually being alone....

Unless of course you're alone and there are people you want to be with but can't...

This is so true x

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By *ohnSwingsSurreyMan
2 weeks ago

Horley

I think the fact that we get so good at hiding our feelings doesn’t help us

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
2 weeks ago

furnace

Hate this time of year and also I don’t do crowds or busy places tbh

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
2 weeks ago

Southport

"I think the fact that we get so good at hiding our feelings doesn’t help us"

Letting them out and then having them used as a weapon against you doesn't help much either.

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By *aked_magicMan
2 weeks ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

I'm constantly/permanently surrounded by people in my professional life but still lonely as hell most of the time but I'm lucky that I have family to come back to at Christmas. I don't know how I would cope otherwise without them at this time of year so I know how lucky I am. I feel for anyone who isn't as fortunate as I am to at least have a Happy Place to go to on Christmas Day 🙏

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By *evotee101Woman
2 weeks ago

Houghton le Spring

Beautiful OP lovely post💋

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Nowhere

Take care all x

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