FabSwingers.com forum: How many are alone over Christmas

By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

This year will be my first to experience alone. Just wondering how many others are experiencing the same.

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By *yuovMan
2 weeks ago

sheffield

I will be home alone, as I'm new to uk

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By *lynJMan
2 weeks ago

Morden

I'll be alone on Christmas day. Think it's the third time in a row.

I quite enjoy it. Can do what I want, when I want, without fear of upsetting anyone. 😀

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By *avrick180Man
2 weeks ago

Pontypool

Il be alone again

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
2 weeks ago

furnace

Yep nothing unusual for me tho

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By *ear in the chairMan
2 weeks ago

yeah there

Always wanted to do a swinger friendly open house at Christmas so that anyone could pop in for dinner or nibbles (non sexy, just chatter with like minded people). Vetoed by the Mrs but who knows one day.

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

"Always wanted to do a swinger friendly open house at Christmas so that anyone could pop in for dinner or nibbles (non sexy, just chatter with like minded people). Vetoed by the Mrs but who knows one day."

Sounds a good idea in principle, hope it works out one day

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By *ongwithahoodMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin

Second one alone, learning to see the positives from it

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

"Second one alone, learning to see the positives from it

I have all the traditional foods and drinks etc, also the company of my cats, and they are at least loyal! Roll on some decent TV programmes to watch

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By *ack1971Man
2 weeks ago

Cork

I did it twice. 2008 and 2019. More people than you think do it, but generally we don't see it. Both times by choice and I fully appreciate those who have no choice.

In my younger days I had a fear of being alone and I made huge mistakes in relationship choices as a result.

I got to conquer that by facing my fears. I actually can't believe some of the toxic people I had relationships with.

Being alone gave me that space. I stayed at home, I didn't fill it with "time fillers" to pass the day, and I got to know myself more.

I like me, and whether I am alone or not doesnt matter anymore.

So to anyone out there who may be alone at this time of year, it's not what you think, it was liberating for me, but if you're not feeling it, reach out.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
2 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

More lonely than alone.

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By *ags73Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I have the dog and kids.

Adult company or chat of any kind does help tho

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By *axWayMan
2 weeks ago

Preston

"More lonely than alone."

Sending you love, I'm with you on this one and fully understand xxd

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I am and by emphatic choice.

I've had a few offers to spend it with people, most particularly my sister, where my mum and dad are going.

However, Christmas dinner at hers is billed for 13.00, but usually appears at 15.00 and I resent having to have my dinner before I leave the house just to tide me over until I actually get my dinner. Plus, my nephew is the apple of my sister's eye and she finds him fascinating and expects us all to do the same. In reality, he is very boring, so after 2 minutes I'm fed up with being told to look at what he's doing, or having to throw games so that he always wins.

I'd much rather stay at mine and have a super day

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By *hrek101Man
2 weeks ago

Herts

Can't remember when I wasn't alone at Xmas, don't even think about it anymore. It won't even register that its Xmas Day

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By *haveanicevoiceMan
2 weeks ago

Soggy Middle-Earth (Cumbria)

Spent last several Christmases with parents

Other family all live abroad have their own lives

Going out to pubs whatever is boring on your own and pricey these days

Enough time passes you can get used to anything

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By *idssissyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Last year was my first Christmas day alone

Will be the same this year apart from a few hours volunteering

I am not very Christmas and don't want to bring anyone else down

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By *ood time Chris BMan
2 weeks ago

TAUNTON AREA

"Second one alone, learning to see the positives from it

I have all the traditional foods and drinks etc, also the company of my cats, and they are at least loyal! Roll on some decent TV programmes to watch"

I agree home alone but got all the goodies in.Just me and my cat only friend I have

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By *edsVoyeurMan
2 weeks ago

Henlow

I'll be home alone again as usual, I prefer it this way. So I just don't have to pretend or be nice to people (or even relatives) I don't like or want to know. No I'm not Sad or Lonely, I get to see my friends & relatives I like at any time of the year. Friends & Relatives (that I like) Are For Life, Not Just For Christmas

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By *loomy GirlWoman
2 weeks ago

leicester

I’ll be working Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and Boxing Day but then going home to an empty house.

I’ll see my kids and grandkids at the weekend

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By *auntymanMan
2 weeks ago

Stourbridge

5th year in a row for me, first two were fairly poor, tried to do a full dinner, be Uber cheerful etc, ended in tears! Now more chill about it, will be having steak and chips with pigs in blankets as my festive treat, and try not to drink all day. Shout out to the other Xmas alonies xx

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By *idssissyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

"5th year in a row for me, first two were fairly poor, tried to do a full dinner, be Uber cheerful etc, ended in tears! Now more chill about it, will be having steak and chips with pigs in blankets as my festive treat, and try not to drink all day. Shout out to the other Xmasalonies xx"

Have a good one

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By *anonfire96Man
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

Yep for the last four years.

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By *929Man
2 weeks ago

bedlington

Not alone as I have live with my son but he’s 17 and only ever ventures down from the loft for food. might wander down to my mams for her sake more than mine as I’d rather not bother but feel obliged too. Will have belated Christmas Friday when I get my daughter

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
2 weeks ago

Wherever

I will be. Looking forward to it.

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Fife

Always alone no difference..my real friends and all my family are in the states. Not married no kids no dogs virtual coworkers.

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By *imbo365Man
2 weeks ago

Plymouth

This makes me quite sad to think of all of these people alone at Christmas I think I’d hate that. I’ve always been around friends and family.

Merry Christmas to you all and I hope you enjoy it wherever you are xx

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
2 weeks ago

In the clouds

Just me and my sons..as always

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By *appyToBeHere222Man
2 weeks ago

Asgard

Merry Christmas to those alone this Xmas.. whether it's by choice or for other reasons.. hope you all have a good day.

One person booze up party would be what I'd end up doing if I was on my todd

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By *cLovin2Man
2 weeks ago

Reading

It's terrible that so many people are alone when they don't want to be. (Those that want to be excluded.)

Maybe we should have a fab get together for them? Tho all the pubs are shut.

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

Merry Christmas to you all and hope you get to play today

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
2 weeks ago

newcastle

Must admit I would be hopeless alone at Xmas. Probably just cry lol. Good luck to all those that manage though xx. Have a good one!! Denise xxxxxx

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By *erbysGentMan
2 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I've forever been single over christmas but always drive to visit my dad in the morning then to my friends for the afternoon and evening. Would be nice to have a significant other this time next year

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By *TaR105Man
2 weeks ago

Birkenhead

Me, and have been for last 10 years, so why hope of anything different.

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By *ardyboi992Man
2 weeks ago

LUTON

It's not good to be alone aye

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

"It's not good to be alone aye "

At least I have control of the TV remote control lol.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
2 weeks ago

furnace

Yes home alone again

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By *antasdeerideMan
2 weeks ago

winfrith

You get used to I'm quite good on my own like somebody else said "you can do what you want when you want",have a great day whatever you do .

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By *antasdeerideMan
2 weeks ago

winfrith

"You get used to it I'm quite good on my own like somebody else said "you can do what you want when you want",have a great day whatever you do ."
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By *ensualtongue2023Man
2 weeks ago

furnace

"You get used to it I'm quite good on my own like somebody else said "you can do what you want when you want",have a great day whatever you do .it"

Your right there nothing unusual for me it’s routine now

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By *xbabyxxxWoman
2 weeks ago

Bradford

I'm spending all of xmas alone, no friends or family

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By *xbabyxxxWoman
2 weeks ago

Bradford

"I'm spending all of xmas alone, no friends or family "
getting used to being on my own it's the norm now

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By *dyladddMan
2 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

All by myself for the day, no friends or family close for me this year!

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
2 weeks ago

newcastle

I cried watching the snowman and snowdog yesterday just cause hubby was out. But tomorrow ill probably hate him lol !! Xx. Dee

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By *dyladddMan
2 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

"More lonely than alone."

Feel free to mail me if your still feeling lonely and fancy a chat i love a good chat about anything if I'm honest lol. That goes for anyone btw. I used to hate when I felt lonely x

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By *orphia2003Woman
2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I'm at work and then alone at hotel. Suits me fine.

Also around if anyone needs a chat.

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By *moothdickMan
2 weeks ago

stoke

Just looking by this thread, it seems more guys will be alone…

But we can all cope, it’s just another day really…

Could be better if we all met someone from here, who’s on the same wavelength….

Any way, I’m alone in the evening and quite looking forward to it, might even be on here trying to get a meet … or it’s just another happy lonely wank

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By *ellroseWoman
2 weeks ago

Brum

Got my son’s till tonight then I’m going over to a friends house for a few drinks

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By *exmanMan
2 weeks ago

Stainforth

Alone again, at Christmas, bored and horny

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I’m alone at Xmas and it’s a conscious choice.

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
2 weeks ago

St Leonards

I'm avoiding ⬆️⬆️ at Christmas and it's a conscious choice.

💜❤️💙💖💓

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By *vonne5exMan
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

"Alone again, at Christmas, bored and horny

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I've had some good times in Stainy over the years, I'm having Christmas dinner there later today

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By *uiet LightMan
2 weeks ago

Hove

I'm lucky to be with close family today, but I anticipate being alone on Christmas in the next few years for a variety of reasons. I've been thinking a lot about loneliness, how many people jam themselves into relationships of all kinds (romantic/familial/friendships) just to avoid feeling lonely.

Either way, alone or not at this time of year, I don't think it's easy for anyone, but I hope everyone finds some small measure of peace in their day. And remember the quote from Robin Williams about loneliness, it's something that has helped me understand a lot of what I'm feeling about life:

"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone.”

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By *cunnylassCouple
2 weeks ago

Exeter

I have spent Christmas alone in the past and I quite enjoyed it!

Mike

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By *entomillaMan
2 weeks ago

norwich

"I'm at work and then alone at hotel. Suits me fine.

Also around if anyone needs a chat."

Same here … work and hotel ….

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By *uckurcumMan
2 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Never bothered me,it's the ability to do what I want,when I want ...sounds selfish I know ...

As much as gatherings bring joy they also bring discord and arguements ...

After all, for all the hype these days ..it's just another day ...

It's lost its actual meaning and value..

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By *ussle SproutMan
2 weeks ago

the middle

Only today, I see my parents and brother tomorrow

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By *r CuddleMan
2 weeks ago

Oxford

I'm alone

It always seems more alone this time of year.

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By *jr9876Man
2 weeks ago

Ipswich

One my own here too. If it were drier I would definitely be out for a bike ride on the quiet roads. It's damp and dreary here but I still might get outside.

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By *2000ManMan
2 weeks ago

Worthing

Alone a few days. Not today or Boxing day though. Hosting 27th.

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By *uddenly See MoreMan
2 weeks ago

Thornaby

Yep, separated from my partner a month ago so having my first Xmas alone in a few years.

There's been sad bits (I couldn't watch any Xmas movies as they were all making me too emotional - even 'Gremlins' FFS) but, like others have said, there are positives too.

I keep telling myself that there are people in the world who are having it much worse, and that it's only 1 day. To anyone who's struggling today - you've got this! Xx

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By *eavilMan
2 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Just another day only with no public transport and even more rubbish on the telly!

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

Thanks for all your comments, it's like a one day only club isn't it? Perhaps some comments have encouraged us all. I have my cats for company which is great but it's nice to have some human contact.

Merry Christmas to you all.

Now let's get pissed and watch porn!!

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By *r CuddleMan
2 weeks ago

Oxford

I'm always alone and makes me so depressed.

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